Sermons on Matthew 19:4-6


The various sermons below interpret Matthew 19:4-6 by emphasizing the divine nature of marriage, rooting it in the creation narrative from Genesis. They collectively highlight marriage as a covenantal relationship designed by God, reflecting His creation order and purposes. Many sermons underscore the permanence and exclusivity of marriage, using analogies like mathematical equations or the bride and groom to illustrate the unity and sacredness of the marital bond. The sermons also emphasize the continuity of God's purposes from creation through redemption, portraying marriage as a reflection of God's covenantal love and His relationship with His people. Additionally, the authority of Scripture is a recurring theme, with several sermons affirming the binary nature of gender as male and female, as established in Genesis, and challenging cultural narratives that deviate from this biblical understanding.

While there are common themes, the sermons also present contrasting approaches. Some focus on the theme of grace and forgiveness, particularly in the context of divorce and remarriage, suggesting that God's grace allows for reconciliation and new beginnings. Others emphasize the transformative power of Scripture in shaping identity, challenging cultural norms around gender and marriage. A few sermons highlight the value of singleness, presenting it as a state of freedom and devotion to God, countering the idolization of marriage. The purpose of marriage is also viewed differently; some see it as a means to further God's kingdom, while others focus on its role in reflecting God's glory and love to the world.


Matthew 19:4-6 Interpretation:

God's Redemption: Marriage, Singleness, and Ethical Living (Fresh Streams) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by emphasizing the connection between Jesus' teaching on marriage and the creation narrative in Genesis. The sermon highlights that Jesus roots his teaching in the creation of humans as male and female, suggesting that marriage is not merely a social construct but a divine institution reflecting God's creation order. The sermon uses a five-act biblical drama model to frame the understanding of marriage, emphasizing the continuity of God's purposes from creation through redemption.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting Christ's Love (Corinth Baptist Church) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by focusing on the permanence and exclusivity of marriage as intended by God. The sermon uses a mathematical analogy to illustrate the concept of two becoming one flesh, emphasizing that God's design for marriage is for it to be a permanent union that should not be divided.

Understanding Divorce and Remarriage Through God's Grace (Lexington Park Baptist Church) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by discussing the concept of the hardness of hearts as the reason for divorce. The sermon suggests that Jesus' teaching is not an all-inclusive rule but rather addresses the specific context of his audience, emphasizing the importance of understanding the original intent of marriage as a covenant between one man and one woman.

Grace, Identity, and the Transformative Power of Scripture (Menlo Church) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by emphasizing the authority of Scripture in understanding gender and marriage. The sermon highlights Jesus' use of Genesis 2 to affirm the binary nature of gender as male and female, reflecting God's design. The speaker references N.T. Wright's interpretation of the creation story as a series of binaries culminating in the male-female relationship, which reflects God's image. The sermon also discusses Preston Sprinkle's view that gender is not separate from biological sex, emphasizing the interrelation of the two.

Embracing Singleness and Marriage: A Divine Perspective (Impact Church FXBG) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by focusing on Jesus' high view of marriage. The sermon highlights that Jesus refers back to Genesis to affirm the original design of marriage as a union between male and female, emphasizing its permanence and divine origin. The speaker also discusses the context of Jesus' response to the Pharisees, noting that while Moses allowed divorce due to hardened hearts, it was not God's original intent.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant for Kingdom Building (Carl Van Vliet) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by emphasizing marriage as a divine institution established by God for kingdom purposes. The sermon highlights the creation of marriage in Genesis as a means of grace to further God's kingdom on earth. The speaker discusses the permanence of marriage, citing Jesus' words in Matthew 19 about what God has joined together, and emphasizes the covenantal nature of marriage as a reflection of God's relationship with His people.

God's Design for Marriage and Family: A Sacred Covenant (WM Ministries: Building a Foundation of Truth) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by emphasizing the divine institution of marriage as a covenant between a man and a woman. The sermon highlights that God created marriage to reflect the deepest form of intimacy and relationship, using the analogy of the bride and groom to represent the relationship between Christ and the Church. The sermon also stresses that marriage is not merely a social construct but a divine ordinance, and it should be understood as a union that produces a family, both physically and spiritually.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting God's Glory (Limitless Life T.V.) interprets Matthew 19:4-6 by focusing on marriage as a covenant relationship designed by God to reflect His glory and advance His kingdom. The sermon underscores that marriage is not just a contractual agreement but a sacred union that exemplifies unity and God's love. It challenges cultural norms by asserting that marriage is counter-cultural and must be rooted in the Word of God to succeed.

Matthew 19:4-6 Theological Themes:

God's Redemption: Marriage, Singleness, and Ethical Living (Fresh Streams) presents the theme of marriage as a reflection of God's covenantal love and union with His people. The sermon emphasizes that marriage is a symbol of the relationship between God and His people, highlighting the theological significance of marriage beyond its social and ethical dimensions.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting Christ's Love (Corinth Baptist Church) introduces the theme of marriage as a divine covenant that reflects Christ's love for the church. The sermon emphasizes the importance of understanding marriage as a sacred and exclusive union, intended to mirror the relationship between Christ and His followers.

Understanding Divorce and Remarriage Through God's Grace (Lexington Park Baptist Church) explores the theme of grace and forgiveness in the context of divorce and remarriage. The sermon emphasizes that while divorce may occur due to the hardness of hearts, God's grace allows for forgiveness and the possibility of remarriage for those who have repented and sought reconciliation.

Grace, Identity, and the Transformative Power of Scripture (Menlo Church) presents a theme of the Bible as the ultimate authority on issues of gender and marriage, challenging cultural narratives and emphasizing the transformative power of Scripture in shaping identity.

Embracing Singleness and Marriage: A Divine Perspective (Impact Church FXBG) introduces the theme of singleness as a state of freedom and undivided devotion to God, challenging the idolization of marriage and affirming the value of singleness in the Christian life.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant for Kingdom Building (Carl Van Vliet) presents the theme of marriage as a covenantal relationship designed by God to reflect His image and further His kingdom, emphasizing the permanence and exclusivity of marriage as foundational to its purpose.

God's Design for Marriage and Family: A Sacred Covenant (WM Ministries: Building a Foundation of Truth) presents the theme that marriage is a divine institution created by God to fulfill His purpose on earth. It emphasizes that the desire for intimacy and marriage is God-given and should be understood as a spiritual longing for unity with God and others.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting God's Glory (Limitless Life T.V.) introduces the theme that marriage is a divine assignment that requires God and His Word to remain at the center. It highlights that marriage is not about personal happiness but about reflecting God's love and unity to the world, serving as a testimony of God's grace and glory.

Matthew 19:4-6 Historical and Contextual Insights:

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting Christ's Love (Corinth Baptist Church) provides historical context by discussing the rabbinic schools of Shammai and Hillel, which had differing interpretations of Deuteronomy 24:1 regarding grounds for divorce. The sermon explains how these interpretations influenced the cultural norms of Jesus' time, highlighting the contrast between the more conservative view of Shammai and the more liberal view of Hillel.

Understanding Divorce and Remarriage Through God's Grace (Lexington Park Baptist Church) discusses the cultural context of Deuteronomy 24:1-4 as the backdrop for Jesus' teaching on divorce. The sermon explains that the Mosaic law allowed for divorce due to the hardness of hearts, emphasizing the need to understand the historical context of Jesus' audience and the rabbinic debates of the time.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant for Kingdom Building (Carl Van Vliet) provides historical context by discussing the cultural norms of polygamy and polyamory in biblical times, contrasting them with the biblical model of monogamous marriage. The sermon highlights the significance of marriage as a means of grace and a reflection of God's covenant with His people, drawing on historical examples from Scripture to illustrate the intended purpose of marriage.

God's Design for Marriage and Family: A Sacred Covenant (WM Ministries: Building a Foundation of Truth) provides historical context by explaining that marriage was instituted by God at the beginning of creation, as described in Genesis. The sermon notes that the cultural understanding of marriage has shifted, but the biblical foundation remains unchanged.

Matthew 19:4-6 Cross-References in the Bible:

God's Redemption: Marriage, Singleness, and Ethical Living (Fresh Streams) references Genesis 1 and 2 to support the interpretation of Matthew 19:4-6. The sermon explains that Jesus quotes Genesis 1:27 and Genesis 2:24 to root his teaching on marriage in the creation narrative, emphasizing the divine intention for marriage as a union between male and female.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting Christ's Love (Corinth Baptist Church) references Genesis 2:24 to emphasize the permanence and exclusivity of marriage. The sermon highlights that the biblical foundation for marriage is the union of one man and one woman, as intended by God from the beginning.

Understanding Divorce and Remarriage Through God's Grace (Lexington Park Baptist Church) references Deuteronomy 24:1-4 as the backdrop for Jesus' teaching on divorce. The sermon explains that the Mosaic law allowed for divorce due to the hardness of hearts, and Jesus' teaching in Matthew 19:4-6 reaffirms the original intent of marriage as a covenant between one man and one woman.

Grace, Identity, and the Transformative Power of Scripture (Menlo Church) references Genesis 2 to support the interpretation of Matthew 19:4-6, emphasizing the creation of male and female as a binary reality. The sermon also references Revelation 21 and 22 to highlight the eschatological significance of the male-female relationship as a reflection of Christ's relationship with the church.

Embracing Singleness and Marriage: A Divine Perspective (Impact Church FXBG) references Ephesians 5:21-33 to expand on the theme of marriage as a picture of the Gospel, highlighting the covenantal nature of marriage as a reflection of Christ's love for the church.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant for Kingdom Building (Carl Van Vliet) references Genesis 2, Matthew 19, Mark 10, and Malachi 2 to support the interpretation of marriage as a divine institution with a covenantal purpose. The sermon also references Ecclesiastes 4 to illustrate the triune nature of marriage and its role in reflecting God's image.

God's Design for Marriage and Family: A Sacred Covenant (WM Ministries: Building a Foundation of Truth) references Genesis 2 to support the idea that marriage is a divine institution created by God. It uses the creation narrative to emphasize that God made them male and female and intended for them to be united as one flesh.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting God's Glory (Limitless Life T.V.) references Genesis 2:23-24 to reinforce the concept of marriage as a union where two become one flesh. It also cites Ephesians 5:21-33 to illustrate the roles and responsibilities within a marriage, emphasizing mutual submission and love as Christ loved the Church.

Matthew 19:4-6 Christian References outside the Bible:

God's Redemption: Marriage, Singleness, and Ethical Living (Fresh Streams) references several Christian scholars and theologians, including Tom Wright, Sam Wells, and Kevin Vanhoozer, to support the interpretation of marriage as part of the biblical drama. The sermon also cites New Testament scholar Richard Burridge and gay Christian scholar Wesley Hill to emphasize the importance of understanding marriage within the broader narrative of God's redemptive work.

Grace, Identity, and the Transformative Power of Scripture (Menlo Church) references N.T. Wright's interpretation of the creation story as a binary narrative culminating in the male-female relationship, and Preston Sprinkle's view on the interrelation of gender and biological sex. The sermon also mentions St. Augustine's view of the Bible as the face of God for believers.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant for Kingdom Building (Carl Van Vliet) references N.T. Wright's concept of Imago Dei as an angled mirror reflecting God's image through marriage. The sermon also quotes Jack Hayford on the significance of marriage as a covenantal bond that holds God's work on earth together.

God's Design for Marriage and Family: A Sacred Covenant (WM Ministries: Building a Foundation of Truth) references the concept of the bride of Christ to illustrate the spiritual significance of marriage. It draws on theological ideas about the Church's relationship with Christ to explain the covenantal nature of marriage.

Matthew 19:4-6 Illustrations from Secular Sources:

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting Christ's Love (Corinth Baptist Church) uses the example of Ronald Reagan signing the first no-fault divorce law in California to illustrate the cultural shift in attitudes toward marriage and divorce. The sermon explains how this legal change contributed to the normalization of divorce in American society, highlighting the contrast between cultural norms and biblical teachings on marriage.

Grace, Identity, and the Transformative Power of Scripture (Menlo Church) uses the analogy of a country club to illustrate the concept of grace, contrasting the exclusivity of a country club with the inclusivity of God's grace. The sermon also references scientific perspectives on gender, citing neuroscientific and biological insights to support the biblical view of gender as binary.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant for Kingdom Building (Carl Van Vliet) uses the analogy of a Big Mac to illustrate the concept of a "special sauce" in marriage, emphasizing the unique elements that contribute to a successful marriage. The sermon also references John Gottman's research on marriage stability and divorce predictors to highlight the importance of biblical principles in building strong marriages.

Marriage: A Divine Covenant Reflecting God's Glory (Limitless Life T.V.) uses the example of reality TV shows that trivialize marriage to illustrate how the world views marriage as unimportant and disposable. The sermon contrasts this with the biblical view of marriage as a sacred covenant, highlighting the cultural disconnect between secular portrayals of marriage and its divine purpose.