Sermons on 1 Peter 4:12


The various sermons below converge on the understanding that 1 Peter 4:12 calls Christians to expect suffering and opposition as an integral, normative part of the faith journey rather than as an anomaly. They consistently portray trials as a refining process—whether through metaphors of fire, valleys, athletic tryouts, or sifting wheat—that test and strengthen genuine faith. A common thread is the emphasis on suffering as a means of deeper fellowship with Christ, not merely endurance but participation in His sufferings, which leads to spiritual growth and sanctification. Several sermons highlight the pastoral tone of the passage, noting the use of affectionate terms like “beloved” to cushion the hard exhortation, underscoring that suffering is both a divine discipline and an expression of God’s love. Nuances emerge in how suffering is framed: some sermons stress the psychological and emotional toll of ministry, using vivid personal anecdotes to illustrate the “fiery ordeal,” while others focus on the theological assurance that God is sovereign and intimately present in suffering, rejecting any notion of divine absence. The linguistic analysis of key Greek terms deepens the understanding of suffering’s intensity and purpose, and the analogy of suffering as a vocation or calling adds a unique dimension to the believer’s response.

In contrast, the sermons diverge in their emphasis on the nature and purpose of suffering. Some portray suffering primarily as a test that separates true believers from false ones, a form of divine judgment or sifting that reveals the authenticity of faith, while others emphasize suffering as a privileged means of intimacy with Christ, a fellowship that transforms believers into His likeness. The pastoral approach varies from focusing on the communal and emotional support needed to endure trials to a more individualistic call to personal responsibility and perseverance without “spiritual hitchhiking.” The metaphors used range from athletic tryouts and spiritual jujitsu to childbirth and refining gold, each highlighting different aspects of the Christian experience in suffering—whether it be preparation, endurance, purification, or transformation. Some sermons underscore the diagnostic nature of suffering, prompting self-examination about the cause and response to trials, while others caution against misattributing suffering to personal sin when it is for Christ’s sake. The presence of Christ in suffering is depicted either as a comforting companion in the furnace or as a covenant mark that signifies belonging, with varying degrees of focus on joy as both the outcome and the means of enduring trials. Finally, the scope of suffering’s application ranges from ministry hardships and emotional struggles to broader spiritual warfare and even physical illness, reflecting diverse pastoral concerns and theological emphases.


1 Peter 4:12 Interpretation:

Living Out Our Faith: A Call to Action (Westminster Calvary) interprets 1 Peter 4:12 as a direct and practical warning to Christians that opposition, suffering, and fiery trials are not only to be expected but are a normative part of the Christian journey. The sermon uses the analogy of spiritual opposition as a form of “sifting” (referencing Jesus’ words to Peter about Satan desiring to sift him like wheat), and frames suffering as a test of faith and commitment, not as an anomaly. The preacher uniquely emphasizes the psychological and emotional toll of ministry and Christian life, using personal anecdotes of loss, depression, and even suicide among pastors to illustrate the “fiery ordeal.” The analogy of “grapple chapel” and jujitsu is used to convey the idea that spiritual struggle is not just a metaphor but a real, ongoing battle that requires endurance and community support. The sermon also distinguishes between conviction (drawing closer to Christ through suffering) and condemnation (being pushed away from Christ), urging listeners to interpret their trials as opportunities for deeper faith rather than as signs of failure or abandonment.

Embracing Change: Finding Faith in Suffering (Crazy Love) offers a deeply personal and communal interpretation of 1 Peter 4:12, highlighting the element of surprise and disorientation that suffering brings, especially to leaders and those who feel called by God. The preacher draws a sharp contrast between superficial “suffering” (like a broken guitar string) and the profound, soul-wrenching pain of betrayal, loss, and ministry hardship. The sermon’s unique insight is the call to embrace suffering as a means of deep fellowship with Christ—using the vivid metaphor of being crucified alongside Jesus, looking him in the eyes, and sharing in his pain. This is not just about enduring suffering but about seeking the “fellowship of his sufferings” (Philippians 3:10), seeing suffering as a privileged place of intimacy with Christ. The preacher also challenges the congregation to see suffering as a test of authenticity—“some of us need to suffer just to know that we’re for real”—and as a means of being pruned and made more Christlike, especially in loving those who betray or abandon us.

Embracing Valleys: Growth Through Spiritual Trials (Colby Ball) interprets 1 Peter 4:12 as a foundational truth that valleys—periods of suffering, trial, and spiritual attack—are not only inevitable but necessary for spiritual development. The sermon uses the metaphor of the valley as a place of development, testing, and transformation, arguing that Christians should not be surprised by suffering but should see it as a season of preparation for the next “mountaintop.” The preacher uniquely frames the valley as a place where “victims live and die,” contrasting those who remain stuck in a victim mentality with those who, through faith and perseverance, move through the valley to victory. The analogy of “spiritual hitchhiking”—trying to ride on someone else’s repentance or consecration—is used to stress the personal responsibility each believer has in their own spiritual journey through suffering.

Finding Meaning and Purpose in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) interprets 1 Peter 4:12 as a theological anchor for understanding suffering as neither random nor meaningless, but as something that is under the sovereign control of God. The sermon’s unique insight is the insistence that suffering is not a “strange thing” for the Christian, but rather a vocation that God may call believers to, and that God is “the Lord of suffering” as much as He is the Lord of life and death. The preacher uses the analogy of childbirth—enduring pain for the sake of new life, or, in tragic cases, enduring pain even when the outcome is loss—to illustrate the human need for suffering to have purpose. The sermon also challenges the popular notion that God is absent from suffering, instead asserting that God is intimately involved and that no pain is ever without purpose.

Finding Joy and Hope in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) offers a unique interpretation by connecting the "fiery trial" in 1 Peter 4:12 to the imagery of Daniel 3, where Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are thrown into the fiery furnace in Babylon and a fourth figure, "like the Son of God," appears with them. The preacher argues that Peter, writing from "Babylon" (a metaphor for exile and hostility), intentionally evokes this Old Testament scene to show that Christ is present with believers in their suffering, just as God was present in the furnace. This analogy is used to stress that suffering is not just endured but is a place of fellowship with Christ, who has already gone before us into suffering. The sermon also highlights the Greek term for "fiery trial" (pyroseos), emphasizing the literal and intense nature of the ordeal, and how the ESV translation preserves this nuance.

Embracing Trials: The Christian Journey of Faith (New Union) uses the analogy of athletic tryouts, specifically soccer tryouts, to interpret 1 Peter 4:12. The preacher likens Christian suffering and persecution to the rigorous tests athletes undergo to prove their fitness and commitment. Just as tryouts separate the truly committed from the unprepared, so trials and persecution reveal the genuineness of a Christian's faith. This metaphor is used to explain that suffering is a proving ground, not an aberration, and that it is purposeful in identifying true believers.

Embracing Trials: Finding Joy in Persecution (Desiring God) provides a detailed linguistic and structural analysis of 1 Peter 4:12, breaking down the verse into its key phrases and examining the use of "beloved" as a term of endearment and pastoral care. The preacher notes that "beloved" is used only one other time in 1 Peter (2:11), both times cushioning a hard exhortation with affection. The sermon also draws attention to the Greek word for "fiery trial" (pyroseos), connecting it to 1 Peter 1:6-7, where trials are likened to the refining of gold by fire. The preacher further explores the repetition of the word "strange" (xenizesthe/xenou), noting that Christians are not to be surprised by suffering because, in a sense, they themselves have become "strange" to the world by their changed behavior (referencing 1 Peter 4:4). This linguistic play deepens the understanding of why suffering is not "strange" for believers.

Finding Hope and Joy in Suffering Together (Prestonwood Baptist Church) interprets 1 Peter 4:12 as a pastoral exhortation to expect suffering as a normative part of the Christian life, especially suffering for the sake of Christ. The sermon uniquely highlights the shift in Peter’s tone, noting the use of “beloved” as a term of endearment that signals a shepherd’s heart. The preacher draws a distinction between commendable suffering (for Christ) and consequential suffering (for personal sin), using the analogy of rare earth minerals refined by fire to illustrate how God uses “fiery trials” to purify believers. The sermon also emphasizes the importance of not being surprised by suffering, as surprise renders believers ill-equipped to learn from it, and instead encourages a response of joy rooted in the fellowship of suffering with Christ.

Faith Through Trials: Commitment and Christ's Example (SermonIndex.net) interprets 1 Peter 4:12 as a warning that the “fiery trial” is a form of divine judgment or sifting within the church, separating true believers from false ones. The preacher draws a strong connection between the “fiery trial” and the process of winnowing wheat from chaff, referencing John the Baptist’s imagery. The sermon also explores the idea that suffering is a test of where one’s confidence truly lies—whether in Christ or in worldly things—and that the only way to endure is to keep one’s eyes on Jesus and respond as He did, by committing oneself to God rather than retaliating. The analogy of committing a body to the earth at a funeral is used to illustrate the depth of surrender required in entrusting oneself to God during suffering.

Embracing Suffering: A Path to Glory (SermonIndex.net) offers a detailed, word-by-word commentary on 1 Peter 4:12, emphasizing that Peter is reminding believers not to be surprised by suffering because it is a refining trial meant to test the genuineness of faith. The sermon uniquely suggests that Peter may be referring to a specific, imminent trial for his audience, and that the “fiery trial” is not strange but expected for those whom God loves. The preacher uses the analogy of a teacher preparing students for a difficult test, warning them not to be surprised or depressed but to rejoice in sharing Christ’s sufferings. The sermon also explores the idea that suffering is a form of judgment that begins with the household of God, and that it is “with difficulty” that the righteous are saved, not because few are saved, but because the path is hard and refining.

1 Peter 4:12 Theological Themes:

Living Out Our Faith: A Call to Action (Westminster Calvary) introduces the theme that suffering and opposition are not only expected but are essential for keeping Christians personally connected to Christ and preventing ministry from becoming a mere routine or “drudgery.” The sermon adds the nuanced idea that suffering is a safeguard against spiritual detachment and a means by which God keeps His people dependent on Him, rather than on their own strength or programs. It also explores the distinction between conviction and condemnation in the midst of suffering, urging believers to interpret trials as divine invitations to deeper faith rather than as evidence of failure.

Embracing Change: Finding Faith in Suffering (Crazy Love) presents the theme that suffering is a privileged means of fellowship with Christ, not just a test or a punishment. The preacher develops the idea that the “fellowship of Christ’s sufferings” is a unique spiritual intimacy that cannot be experienced in comfort, and that suffering is a necessary crucible for authentic faith and Christlike love, especially toward those who betray or hurt us. The sermon also introduces the concept that suffering exposes the reality of our faith and our capacity to love as Christ loves, making it a tool for spiritual refinement.

Embracing Valleys: Growth Through Spiritual Trials (Colby Ball) brings forth the theme that valleys (trials) are places of spiritual development and transformation, not destinations. The sermon uniquely emphasizes that remaining in a victim mentality during suffering leads to spiritual stagnation, while embracing the valley as a place of growth leads to victory and breakthrough. The preacher also highlights the necessity of personal engagement—prayer, repentance, and perseverance—in moving through suffering, rejecting the idea that spiritual growth can be outsourced or passively received.

Finding Meaning and Purpose in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) introduces the theme that suffering is never meaningless for the Christian because God is sovereign over all pain and death. The sermon adds the distinct theological angle that suffering can be a vocation—a calling from God—and that the presence of suffering in the life of a believer is not a sign of divine absence but of divine purpose. The preacher also challenges the “prosperity gospel” notion that God is uninvolved in suffering, instead asserting that God’s sovereignty guarantees that all suffering has meaning, even if that meaning is hidden from us.

Finding Joy and Hope in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) introduces the theme that suffering for Christians is not merely endurance but participation in Christ's own journey from suffering to glory. The sermon uniquely frames suffering as a "covenant mark," a sign of belonging to Christ, and argues that suffering is the means by which God refines believers, burning away sin and making them more like Christ. The preacher also develops the idea that joy is not only the result of suffering but the means by which Christians endure suffering, drawing on the example of Christ who endured the cross "for the joy set before him" (Hebrews 12).

Embracing Trials: The Christian Journey of Faith (New Union) presents the distinct theological theme that persecution and suffering are the normative experience for genuine Christians, serving as God's judgment that begins with the household of God. The preacher emphasizes that suffering is the primary evidence of authentic faith, more so than doctrinal knowledge or church membership, and that the witness of non-Christians (who recognize believers by their willingness to suffer) is a crucial testimony to the reality of one's faith.

Embracing Trials: Finding Joy in Persecution (Desiring God) highlights the theme that suffering is a test of faith's genuineness, not an aberration. The preacher stresses that the normalcy of suffering is rooted in the believer's identification with Christ, who was also persecuted. The sermon also explores the pastoral dimension of addressing suffering, suggesting that affirming love ("beloved") is essential when delivering hard truths about trials.

Finding Hope and Joy in Suffering Together (Prestonwood Baptist Church) introduces the theme that suffering for Christ is not only expected but is the primary means by which believers are bound to Jesus, forming a “fellowship of suffering.” The sermon adds the nuanced idea that suffering is a diagnostic tool for spiritual growth, prompting believers to ask not “why me?” but “how am I responding?” and “what is the reason for my suffering?” It also distinguishes between suffering for Christ and suffering for personal folly, warning against misattributing the cause of one’s trials.

Faith Through Trials: Commitment and Christ's Example (SermonIndex.net) presents the theme that suffering and persecution serve as a divine sifting or judgment within the church, revealing the true state of each person’s faith. The preacher adds the facet that this sifting is ongoing in the present day, especially as Christians are polarized by political and spiritual issues, and that the only way to endure is to surrender all self-defense and retaliation, following Christ’s example of committing Himself to God.

Embracing Suffering: A Path to Glory (SermonIndex.net) develops the theme that suffering is both a test and a means of sanctification, with the “fiery trial” serving to prove and improve the faith of believers. The sermon adds the unique angle that the suffering of Christians in this life is minor compared to the eternal suffering of the lost, and that the presence of the Holy Spirit in trials is a special blessing that brings assurance and nearness to God. The preacher also explores the idea that even physical suffering (such as illness) may be a form of righteous suffering, as in the case of Job, broadening the application of the passage.

1 Peter 4:12 Historical and Contextual Insights:

Living Out Our Faith: A Call to Action (Westminster Calvary) provides historical context by referencing the early church’s experience of persecution, specifically mentioning James’ martyrdom and Peter’s imprisonment as examples of the “fiery ordeal” faced by first-century Christians. The sermon situates 1 Peter 4:12 within the broader narrative of the church’s expansion amid opposition, highlighting the cultural reality that suffering was a normative part of Christian identity and mission in the ancient world.

Finding Meaning and Purpose in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) offers historical and cultural context by discussing the biblical narrative of Israel’s suffering in Egypt and the formation of the Jewish nation through oppression and deliverance. The preacher also references the New Testament identification of Jesus as the “Man of Sorrows” and the “Suffering Servant,” situating 1 Peter 4:12 within the larger biblical tradition of redemptive suffering. The sermon further contextualizes suffering by critiquing modern theological trends that deny God’s involvement in pain and death, contrasting them with the historic Christian understanding of God’s sovereignty over all aspects of life.

Finding Joy and Hope in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) provides historical context by noting that Peter writes from "Babylon," a symbolic reference to the church's exile in a hostile world, paralleling the Jewish exile in Babylon. The preacher explains that this context would have immediately brought to mind the story of the fiery furnace in Daniel 3 for Peter's original audience, reinforcing the message that suffering is both expected and a place of divine presence.

Embracing Trials: The Christian Journey of Faith (New Union) offers contextual insight into the use of the term "Christian," noting that it appears only three times in the New Testament and was originally a term of scorn given by outsiders. The preacher also explains the cultural practice of persecution in the early church, referencing the underground church in Russia and the cost of public identification with Christ, to illustrate the real-life implications of Peter's exhortation.

Embracing Trials: Finding Joy in Persecution (Desiring God) discusses the cultural and linguistic context of the word "strange" (xenizesthe/xenou) in 1 Peter 4:12, connecting it to the earlier use in 1 Peter 4:4, where Christians are considered "strange" by the world due to their changed behavior. The preacher also references the universality of Christian suffering across the world and throughout history, citing 1 Peter 5:9 and 1 Thessalonians 3:3 to show that persecution is a common and expected experience for believers.

Finding Hope and Joy in Suffering Together (Prestonwood Baptist Church) provides historical context by referencing the persecution of Christians under Emperor Nero, specifically the practice of burning Christians alive as torches for refusing to renounce Christ. This vivid historical detail underscores the gravity of the “fiery trial” language and contrasts it with the relatively minor social ostracism faced by many modern believers.

Faith Through Trials: Commitment and Christ's Example (SermonIndex.net) offers contextual insight by connecting Peter’s reference to judgment beginning at the house of God with the ongoing sifting of the church in contemporary times, especially in America. The preacher also references the parable of the wheat and tares and the winnowing fan imagery from John the Baptist to illustrate the process of divine sorting within the church.

Embracing Suffering: A Path to Glory (SermonIndex.net) provides historical context by suggesting that Peter’s “fiery trial” may refer to the specific persecutions predicted by Jesus in Luke 21, including betrayal by family members and being brought before rulers. The sermon also references Ezekiel 9, where judgment begins at the sanctuary, to support the idea that suffering starts with God’s people.

1 Peter 4:12 Cross-References in the Bible:

Living Out Our Faith: A Call to Action (Westminster Calvary) references several passages to expand on 1 Peter 4:12: Luke 22:31-32 (Jesus warning Peter that Satan desires to sift him like wheat, but Jesus has prayed for him), Zechariah 4:6 (“Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit”), Psalm 147:10-11 (God delights in those who fear Him, not in human strength), and John 14:11 (Jesus urging belief based on His works). These passages are used to reinforce the idea that suffering and opposition are expected, that spiritual victory comes through dependence on God’s Spirit, and that the evidence of faith is seen in perseverance through trials.

Embracing Change: Finding Faith in Suffering (Crazy Love) offers an extensive array of cross-references: Matthew 10 (Jesus bringing a sword, not peace), Mark 8:34 (taking up one’s cross), Luke 6:22-26 (blessed are those who are hated for Christ’s sake), John 15 (the world’s hatred of Jesus and His followers), Acts 5 (apostles rejoicing in suffering), Romans 8 (suffering with Christ to be glorified with Him), 1 Corinthians 4 (enduring persecution), 2 Corinthians 1 (sharing in Christ’s sufferings), Galatians 6:12 (persecution for the cross), Ephesians 6:11-12 (spiritual warfare), Philippians 1:29 and 3:10 (suffering as a gift and fellowship with Christ), Colossians 1:24 (rejoicing in suffering), 1 Thessalonians 3:4 and 2 Thessalonians 1:5 (suffering affliction), 2 Timothy 2:3 and 3:12 (sharing in suffering), Hebrews 13:12-13 (going outside the camp to suffer with Christ), and James 5 (examples of suffering). Each reference is used to build a comprehensive biblical theology of suffering as an expected, even necessary, part of Christian discipleship and as a means of deepening fellowship with Christ.

Embracing Valleys: Growth Through Spiritual Trials (Colby Ball) references 1 Peter 4:12 directly to support the idea that suffering is not a surprise for believers. The sermon also draws on John 16:33 (“In this world you will have trouble, but take heart, I have overcome the world”), the story of Job, the story of Jonah, the Red Sea crossing, and the resurrection of Jesus to illustrate that suffering is a recurring biblical theme that always leads to God’s deliverance. Additional references include Numbers 13 (the spies in the Promised Land), Luke 10:19 (authority over the enemy), 1 Thessalonians 1:5 (the gospel coming in power), Zechariah 4:6 (not by might, but by God’s Spirit), John 15:2 (pruning for fruitfulness), and 1 Samuel 17 (David and Goliath in the valley of Elah). These passages are used to show that suffering is both a test and a means of spiritual growth, and that victory is assured for those who persevere.

Finding Meaning and Purpose in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) references 1 Peter 4:12 as the central text, emphasizing Peter’s exhortation not to be surprised by suffering. The sermon also alludes to the Exodus narrative (God hearing the cries of His people in Egypt), the prophetic identification of Jesus as the “Suffering Servant” (Isaiah), and the New Testament portrayal of Jesus as a “Man of Sorrows.” These references are used to situate Christian suffering within the broader biblical story of redemptive pain and divine purpose.

Finding Joy and Hope in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) references Daniel 3 (the fiery furnace), Genesis 3:15 (the promise of the bruised seed), Romans 16:20 (believers crushing Satan), Acts 5 (apostles rejoicing after flogging), 1 Peter 1:6-7 (trials refining faith), Hebrews 12 (discipline and joy in suffering), and Luke 6:26 (woe when all speak well of you). Each reference is used to reinforce the idea that suffering is both a test and a means of fellowship with Christ, and that it is integral to the Christian journey from suffering to glory.

Embracing Trials: The Christian Journey of Faith (New Union) draws on Romans 5 (suffering produces perseverance), 2 Thessalonians (persecution as evidence of worthiness), the parable of the sower (persecution revealing genuine faith), Acts (apostles rejoicing in suffering), Luke 6:26 (woe to those spoken well of), 1 Corinthians 5:13 (judging inside vs. outside the church), Galatians 6 (Paul's scars as proof of faith), and Proverbs 11:31 (the righteous repaid on earth). These references are used to support the argument that suffering is the norm for Christians and the primary evidence of authentic faith.

Embracing Trials: Finding Joy in Persecution (Desiring God) references 1 Peter 1:6-7 (trials as refining fire), 1 Peter 4:4 (Christians as "strange" to the world), 1 Peter 5:9 (suffering experienced by the global church), 1 Corinthians 10:13 (no temptation uncommon), 1 Thessalonians 3:3 (destined for affliction), and John 15:20 (servants not greater than their master). These passages are used to show that suffering is expected, universal, and a test of faith's genuineness.

Finding Hope and Joy in Suffering Together (Prestonwood Baptist Church) references James 1:2 (“count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds”) to support the call to rejoice in suffering. The sermon also cites Romans 8:28 (“God works all things together for good for those who love him”) to affirm God’s sovereignty in trials. Additionally, Daniel 3 is used as an extended illustration of God’s presence in the “fiery furnace” with Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, paralleling the “fiery trial” of 1 Peter 4:12 and emphasizing that God is with believers in their suffering.

Faith Through Trials: Commitment and Christ's Example (SermonIndex.net) cross-references the parable of the wheat and tares (Matthew 13), John the Baptist’s winnowing fan (Matthew 3:12), and the great white throne judgment (Revelation 20) to illustrate the sifting and final judgment themes. The sermon also references Jesus’ example before Pilate (John 18-19) and the command to repay evil with good (Romans 12:17-21) to support the call to non-retaliation and trust in God’s justice.

Embracing Suffering: A Path to Glory (SermonIndex.net) cross-references Luke 21 (Jesus’ prediction of persecution), Proverbs 11:31 (the righteous being repaid on earth), Acts 4:31 (apostles rejoicing after suffering), 2 Corinthians 4 (light momentary affliction), Hebrews 9:28 (eagerly awaiting Christ), Titus 2:13 (waiting for our blessed hope), Revelation 7 (God wiping away every tear), and Job 2 (Job’s suffering as a test of righteousness). These references are used to expand on the meaning of suffering, the expectation of trials, and the hope of future glory.

1 Peter 4:12 Christian References outside the Bible:

Finding Meaning and Purpose in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) explicitly references Martin Luther, quoting him as saying, “It is the duty of every Christian to be Christ to his neighbor.” The sermon explains that Luther did not mean this literally, but rather that Christians are called to represent Christ’s presence, comfort, and compassion to those who are suffering. This reference is used to underscore the importance of incarnational ministry—being a tangible expression of Christ’s love and comfort in the midst of pain. The preacher also critiques unnamed televangelists who claim that God has nothing to do with suffering or death, contrasting their views with the historic Christian understanding of God’s sovereignty.

Finding Joy and Hope in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) explicitly references several Christian authors and historical figures. The preacher quotes Charles Spurgeon, who said that uninterrupted success would be more than we could bear and that suffering is necessary for spiritual maturity. Richard Sibbes is cited for the idea that one must "feast with Christ" before being willing to suffer with him, emphasizing the role of joy in enduring trials. Martin Luther is quoted on how to respond to Satan's accusations, focusing on Christ's sufficiency. John Bradford, the English reformer, is mentioned for his meditations on death and his confidence in facing martyrdom, illustrating the hope and joy that can accompany suffering for Christ.

Finding Hope and Joy in Suffering Together (Prestonwood Baptist Church) explicitly references Wayne Grudem, quoting his commentary on 1 Peter: “Upon reflection, no better comfort in suffering can be found than this. It is God's good and perfect will. For therein lies the knowledge that there is a limit to the suffering, both in its intensity and in its duration, a limit set and maintained by the God who is our creator, our savior, our sustainer, our father. And therein also lies the knowledge that this suffering is only for our good. It is purifying us, drawing us closer to our Lord and making us more like him in our lives. In all of it, we are not alone, but we can depend on the care of a faithful creator.”

Embracing Suffering: A Path to Glory (SermonIndex.net) references John Brown, quoting: “It is not becoming that Christ should lead through rugged for anyways and we pass about to get away through flowery meadows. It is a sweet joyful thing to be a sharer with Christ in anything... Christ's afflictions are sweeter than their pleasures... Christ's reproaches are more glorious than the world's honors and his riches are better than the world's treasures.”

1 Peter 4:12 Illustrations from Secular Sources:

Finding Meaning and Purpose in Suffering (Ligonier Ministries) uses two detailed secular illustrations to illuminate 1 Peter 4:12. The first is a personal story about the preacher’s daughter losing her baby late in pregnancy and having to go through labor knowing the child was already dead. The preacher describes the emotional and existential agony of holding a lifeless child, and the need for suffering to have meaning—drawing a parallel to the Christian’s need for purpose in pain. The second illustration is the story of Judy Griese, the wife of football player Bob Griese, who battled cancer for ten years. The preacher recounts his visit to her, his sense of inadequacy, and the realization that simply being present and holding her hand was a profound ministry of comfort. These stories are used to demonstrate the human longing for suffering to have purpose and the importance of presence and compassion in the face of inexplicable pain. The preacher also references the public persona of sports figures and the shared suffering of the Griese and Bernasconi families, highlighting the universality of pain regardless of status or achievement.

Embracing Trials: The Christian Journey of Faith (New Union) uses the detailed analogy of high school soccer tryouts to illustrate the purpose of suffering in the Christian life. The preacher describes the physical and mental challenges of tryouts, the separation of the committed from the unprepared, and the resulting sense of accomplishment or failure. This analogy is used to help the congregation understand that trials and persecution serve as a proving ground for faith, much like athletic tryouts reveal true commitment and fitness. The preacher also recounts a story from the Soviet underground church, where soldiers test the authenticity of believers by threatening them, only to reveal themselves as Christians once the imposters have left. This story, while rooted in a historical context, is presented as a real-life illustration of the principle that only genuine believers are willing to suffer for their faith.

Finding Hope and Joy in Suffering Together (Prestonwood Baptist Church) uses the analogy of rare earth minerals being refined by fire to illustrate how God uses “fiery trials” to purify believers, burning away impurities so that what is valuable remains. The sermon also references a real-world example of a CFO who was fired for embezzlement but claimed religious discrimination, illustrating the difference between suffering for Christ and suffering for personal wrongdoing. Additionally, the preacher uses the analogy of being in a car accident and subsequently driving more carefully as an example of how God uses painful experiences redemptively to change our behavior.

Embracing Suffering: A Path to Glory (SermonIndex.net) uses the analogy of a teacher preparing students for a difficult test, warning them not to be surprised or depressed but to rejoice in the challenge. The preacher also references the surprise attack on Pearl Harbor as an example of how being unprepared for suffering can be disastrous, urging believers to expect trials rather than be caught off guard. The sermon further uses the example of meddling in online arguments (such as on Facebook) as a modern illustration of suffering for the wrong reasons, cautioning against being a “busybody” in other people’s affairs.