Prioritizing God: First Things for a Blessed Year

 

Summary

Summary:

As we embark on a new year, it's essential to prioritize our spiritual lives by making space for God. Throughout history, God has designated specific places to meet with His people, and today, our hearts are His temple. By setting our priorities straight, we can achieve spiritual, relational, and financial success. The concept of "first things first" is crucial, as it emphasizes the importance of placing God at the forefront of our lives. This involves dedicating the first day of the week to Him, engaging in fasting and prayer, and regularly participating in communion.

The analogy of the canister with rocks, pebbles, and sand illustrates how we should prioritize our lives. The big rocks—Jesus, His church, our marriage, family, and health—should come first. Medium-sized rocks like career and education follow, while the sand represents less important activities. By refusing to live "sand first," we can ensure that our lives are aligned with God's will.

The principle of giving God the first and the best is evident throughout Scripture. By dedicating the first day of the week to worship and setting aside the first portion of our income, we honor God and invite His blessings. Fasting and prayer are powerful tools that help us draw closer to God, displace spiritual darkness, and intercede for those who cannot pray for themselves. As we engage in these practices, we create space for the Holy Spirit to move in our lives.

Communion is a vital practice that allows us to reflect on Jesus' sacrifice, leading to repentance and reconnection with God. By regularly coming to the table of the Lord, we can experience His presence and receive the grace and mercy we need. As we commit to living close to God in 2025, we open ourselves to transformation and the fulfillment of His promises.

Key Takeaways:

1. Prioritizing God in Our Lives: The analogy of rocks, pebbles, and sand teaches us to prioritize Jesus, His church, our marriage, family, and health as the "big rocks" in our lives. By placing these first, we align our lives with God's will and invite His blessings. [43:13]

2. The Principle of First and Best: Scripture emphasizes the importance of giving God the first and the best, whether it's the first day of the week or the first portion of our income. This act of honoring God invites His blessings and sets the tone for the rest of our lives. [45:57]

3. The Power of Fasting and Prayer: Fasting and prayer are powerful tools that help us draw closer to God, displace spiritual darkness, and intercede for those who cannot pray for themselves. These practices create space for the Holy Spirit to move in our lives. [56:06]

4. Communion as a Means of Reconnection: Regularly participating in communion allows us to reflect on Jesus' sacrifice, leading to repentance and reconnection with God. This practice helps us experience His presence and receive the grace and mercy we need. [01:02:12]

5. Living Close to God in 2025: By committing to live close to God this year, we open ourselves to transformation and the fulfillment of His promises. This involves prioritizing His presence, engaging in spiritual disciplines, and making space for Him in our daily lives. [01:05:40]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [39:04] - Making a Place for God
- [43:13] - Prioritizing the Big Rocks
- [45:57] - The First and Best Principle
- [48:17] - The Importance of Sunday
- [54:34] - Health Benefits of Fasting
- [56:06] - Fasting and Spiritual Breakthrough
- [57:56] - Intercession and Breaking Bondage
- [01:00:01] - Praying for the Lost
- [01:02:12] - Communion and Reconnection
- [01:05:40] - Living Close to God
- [01:08:33] - The Table of the Lord
- [01:09:57] - The Portal of Communion
- [01:11:29] - Invitation to Intimacy
- [01:13:21] - Preparing for Communion

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

Bible Reading:
1. Exodus 13:2 - "Consecrate to me every firstborn male. The first offspring of every womb among the Israelites belongs to me, whether human or animal."
2. Acts 20:7 - "On the first day of the week we came together to break bread. Paul spoke to the people and, because he intended to leave the next day, kept on talking until midnight."
3. 1 Corinthians 16:2 - "On the first day of every week, each one of you should set aside a sum of money in keeping with your income, saving it up, so that when I come no collections will have to be made."

Observation Questions:
1. What are the "big rocks" that the pastor identifies as priorities in our lives? How do these relate to the analogy of rocks, pebbles, and sand? [43:13]
2. According to the sermon, what is the significance of giving God the first day of the week? How does this align with the New Testament practice? [45:57]
3. How does the pastor describe the role of fasting and prayer in displacing spiritual darkness and bringing breakthrough? [56:06]
4. What is the purpose of communion as described in the sermon, and how does it help us reconnect with God? [01:02:12]

Interpretation Questions:
1. How does the principle of "first things first" challenge the way we currently prioritize our time and resources? What changes might be necessary to align with this principle? [43:13]
2. In what ways does the act of setting aside the first portion of our income as a tithe reflect our trust in God? How might this practice impact our financial decisions? [45:57]
3. How can fasting and prayer serve as tools for intercession for those who cannot pray for themselves? What might be the spiritual implications of this practice? [57:56]
4. What does it mean to live close to God, and how can regular participation in communion facilitate this closeness? [01:05:40]

Application Questions:
1. Reflect on your current priorities. Are there any "big rocks" that you have been neglecting? How can you rearrange your schedule to ensure these are prioritized? [43:13]
2. Consider your Sunday routine. How can you make the first day of the week more holy and dedicated to God? What specific changes can you implement this week? [45:57]
3. Identify a specific area in your life where you feel spiritual darkness or bondage. How can you incorporate fasting and prayer to seek breakthrough in this area? [56:06]
4. Think of someone in your life who is far from God. How can you commit to interceding for them through fasting and prayer this month? [57:56]
5. How often do you participate in communion, and what steps can you take to make it a more meaningful practice in your spiritual life? [01:02:12]
6. What distractions or "sand" in your life are preventing you from living close to God? How can you minimize these distractions this week? [01:05:40]
7. Reflect on the pastor's invitation to live close to God in 2025. What specific spiritual disciplines can you commit to this year to deepen your relationship with God? [01:05:40]

Devotional

Day 1: Prioritizing the Foundation of Our Lives
In our fast-paced world, it's easy to fill our lives with activities and commitments that seem urgent but are not truly important. The analogy of rocks, pebbles, and sand serves as a powerful reminder to prioritize the foundational aspects of our lives: Jesus, His church, our marriage, family, and health. These are the "big rocks" that should be placed first in the canister of our lives. When we prioritize these, we align ourselves with God's will and invite His blessings. By refusing to live "sand first," we ensure that our lives are not only productive but also meaningful and spiritually fulfilling. [43:13]

"Thus says the Lord: 'Stand by the roads, and look, and ask for the ancient paths, where the good way is; and walk in it, and find rest for your souls.' But they said, 'We will not walk in it.'" (Jeremiah 6:16, ESV)

Reflection: What are the "big rocks" in your life that you need to prioritize today? How can you make space for them in your daily routine?


Day 2: Honoring God with Our First and Best
The principle of giving God the first and the best is a recurring theme in Scripture. By dedicating the first day of the week to worship and setting aside the first portion of our income, we honor God and invite His blessings into our lives. This act of prioritizing God sets the tone for the rest of our lives, aligning us with His purposes and opening the door to His provision. When we give God our first and best, we acknowledge His sovereignty and express our trust in His ability to meet our needs. [45:57]

"Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce; then your barns will be filled with plenty, and your vats will be bursting with wine." (Proverbs 3:9-10, ESV)

Reflection: In what ways can you give God the first and best of your time, talents, and resources this week? What changes might you need to make to prioritize Him in these areas?


Day 3: The Transformative Power of Fasting and Prayer
Fasting and prayer are powerful spiritual disciplines that draw us closer to God and displace spiritual darkness. These practices create space for the Holy Spirit to move in our lives, bringing about spiritual breakthroughs and interceding for those who cannot pray for themselves. By engaging in fasting and prayer, we align ourselves with God's heart and open ourselves to His transformative power. These disciplines are not just about abstaining from food or reciting words; they are about deepening our relationship with God and seeking His will above all else. [56:06]

"Is not this the fast that I choose: to loose the bonds of wickedness, to undo the straps of the yoke, to let the oppressed go free, and to break every yoke?" (Isaiah 58:6, ESV)

Reflection: How can you incorporate fasting and prayer into your spiritual routine this week? What specific areas of your life or the lives of others do you feel led to intercede for?


Day 4: Communion as a Pathway to Reconnection
Communion is a sacred practice that allows us to reflect on Jesus' sacrifice and reconnect with God. By regularly coming to the table of the Lord, we experience His presence and receive the grace and mercy we need. This practice leads to repentance and a renewed sense of intimacy with God, reminding us of the depth of His love and the power of His redemption. As we partake in communion, we are invited to examine our hearts, confess our sins, and embrace the transformative power of Christ's sacrifice. [01:02:12]

"And he took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to them, saying, 'This is my body, which is given for you. Do this in remembrance of me.'" (Luke 22:19, ESV)

Reflection: How can you prepare your heart for communion this week? What areas of your life need repentance and reconnection with God?


Day 5: Living Close to God in 2025
As we commit to living close to God in 2025, we open ourselves to transformation and the fulfillment of His promises. This involves prioritizing His presence, engaging in spiritual disciplines, and making space for Him in our daily lives. By intentionally seeking God and aligning our lives with His will, we position ourselves to experience His transformative power and the abundant life He promises. Living close to God is not just about religious activities; it's about cultivating a deep, personal relationship with Him that permeates every aspect of our lives. [01:05:40]

"Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded." (James 4:8, ESV)

Reflection: What steps can you take to live closer to God this year? How can you make space for His presence in your daily life and routines?

Quotes



So we're going to make a place. And throughout the history of God's people, he's always designated. Spaces and places where he would meet with them. And his promise out of Exodus is, I will meet with you and I will speak to you. Now, in the Old Testament, they were temples and tabernacles and tents and holy mountains. And God said, gather here and do it in a particular way that I will show you. And when you show up at a place that is prepared, then I will meet with you there. New Testament believers, we're still to gather together on the first day of the week. I'll be talking about that. We're not to forsake the assembling of our spirit. We're not to forsake the assembling of ourselves together. But now his temple is you, your heart. As Paul asked the question, don't you know, don't you know you are a temple of the Holy Spirit? So I want to talk to you about making spaces and places for God to move in your life and to really set yourself up for success in 2025. [00:39:53] (57 seconds)


first things first. Or you've told somebody or they've told you, hey man, get your priorities straight. And there's an illustration that you've all seen and maybe you've used this illustration and it's of the canister of the rocks. And there's the large rocks, the medium -sized rocks or pebbles and they're the sand. And they each represent priorities in our life. And the way this works out, if you've ever seen it, it's actually accurate little scientific experiment. If you put the big rocks in first, then the pebbles second, you can get all of it into the canister and shut the lid. But if you put the sand in first or the little rocks in first, when you finally get to the big rocks, there won't be enough room. And all these rocks, pebbles and sand represent the priorities of your life. Now, I would submit that the big rocks in all of our lives are these, Jesus, his church, your marriage, your family, your health. You got it? Jesus, his church, your marriage, your family. You got it? You got it? You got it? You got it? You got it? You got it? You got it? family and your health. Those are big rocks. And then we all have some medium -sized rocks that are important, and they need to fit in the canister, like your job or career, your education, your home, your insurance, retirement planning. All those are medium -sized rocks that you need to have in your priorities, for sure. But then we all got some sand in our life, don't we? A lot of sand. And your sand is different than mine, but we've all got some. Maybe your sand is social media scrolling or fantasy football or cleaning the garage, feeding the cat, whatever. We all got some sand. But someone, I just lost two cat people. They're like, medium rock for sure. Okay, I get it. [00:41:39] (95 seconds)


And I've made a decision in my life, and I want to emphasize it, that in 2025, I refuse to live sand first. Would you? Would you indulge me and say that line with me? In 2025, I refuse to live sand first. And if you do that, you'll see success in every area of your life. Now, there's a theme throughout Scripture. You're going to find this in the Old Testament, New Testament, wisdom letters, cover to cover, and here's what it is. The first is holy to the Lord. The first is holy to the Lord. And this starts with our relationship with God. In order for Jesus to be Lord in your life, He must be on the throne of your heart without rival. That means there's no other person, no priority, no value, no passion, no attraction that supersedes the place that Jesus has in your heart. That's why the first and greatest commandment is what? If you know the 10 commandments, number one is what? You shall have no other gods before me. That's the number one commandment. And what God is saying is, He's not hoping He makes the top five this year. And He's like, hey, maybe I get up to spot number three. And if He is not Lord of all upon the throne of our hearts, then He's not Lord at all. And if He is the biggest rock, well, maybe that's why His names are the cornerstone and the rock of our salvation. He is the biggest rock. And when He has the place in the throne of our heart, it will affect everything else. When He is first, it will affect our priorities, our giving, our relationships, our attitudes. It will, in fact, affect our behavior. Now, this language of God first is [00:43:21] (97 seconds)


Make a place for God by giving him the first day of your week. Now maybe you didn't know this, but the New Testament church moved the worship day for hundreds or 1500 years. The worship day was the Sabbath and the Sabbath was holy under the Lord. And there's a whole long list of rules about the Sabbath in Exodus and Leviticus. But when Jesus came out of the tomb on the first day of the week, remember it says that Mary and the other ladies went down to the tomb with spices and perfumes to anoint the body of their savior. And when they got there, the angel of the Lord said, he's not here. He is risen. So from that day forward, the New Testament church moved the worship day. began to meet on the first day of the week. It was holy unto the Lord. And the first day is in fact Sunday. [00:45:57] (44 seconds)


But there is a principle about making the first holy unto the Lord. And I would submit, something to you that maybe you haven't thought of. Your week doesn't start on Monday. Your week starts on Sunday. Sunday is the first day of the week. So make the first of your week holy to the Lord. And here's the principle. When you set aside the first and the best and honor him, he blesses the rest. When you set aside the first and the best of your income called the tithe, he actually blesses the rest, rebukes the devourer, opens the windows of heaven. This is the principle throughout the word. See, culture says, Sunday's my weekend, you know? And the attitude is like, Friday at five o 'clock, ding, ding, ding, bell rings, party time, right? It's five o 'clock somewhere, you know? And everybody parties hard. And then Sunday is kind of recovery. Watch some sports or football, eat a late breakfast, you know, mow the lawn. And then, Monday, I got to start my week again. [00:46:58] (58 seconds)


It's like modern day science and psychology and the rest of them always catch up with what God wrote in his word thousands of years ago. Have you seen that? So God actually mandated fast for his people throughout the year. And it is a way for optimum health. And a lot has been written about it. I recently finished a book on intermittent fasting, which is a big deal in the last three to five years in our culture. But let me read you one bit about the physical benefits of a fast. A great article. It says this. It is a grim reality that the toxins in our food and environment are causing inflammation and speeding up cellular degeneration at an alarming level. Meanwhile, cellular rejuvenation is being handicapped by overconsumption in our nation. However, fasting restores the balance, removes toxicity, giving your blood a break from digestion to redirect energy toward healing and rejuvenation. [00:54:34] (55 seconds)


Fasting is one of the most powerful ways to reset your body. Damaged tissues, toxins, tumors, abscesses, cysts, and fatty deposits are eliminated during the remarkable immune system deep clean that is activated by fasting. And we don't fast as a hunger strike or to get in better health. But if that's all you got out of it, it would be worth it. A three -day water fast, a five -day juice fast. [00:56:06] (25 seconds)


Fasting gets my flesh and personal ambition off the throne of my heart and makes room for the work of the Holy Spirit. Hey, if you want more of activity of the Holy Spirit and God moving in your life, if you want to hear from God this year, then set aside days to quiet all the noise. Here's a quote from the fasting guide. Most of the hindrances I face in accomplishing God's will for my life are self -imposed. [00:56:48] (27 seconds)


My soulish thoughts and unsanctified desires get so loud that I can't hear the voice of the Holy Spirit and I move through life failing to perceive what the Spirit is saying. But see, fasting begins to quiet those unwanted voices. I begin to hear the voice of the Lord. I become sensitive to the things of the Spirit as I deny my flesh. Now, flesh or carnality, both of those phrases are used in the New Testament writings of Paul. It just means the part of you that wants to control you. [00:57:56] (32 seconds)


And then fasting and prayer releases those that are in bondage. And I want to call you up and challenge you to make this personal because, get this, there are people in your life that either cannot or will not pray for themselves. Why is that? Because they're in so much spiritual bondage and spiritual blinders are over their eyes that when they think of God or think of church, they think of dead religion, legalism, something that a lie has captured their imagination. The Bible calls them strongholds. But when we fast and pray, something happens in the spirit. Those strongholds are brought down. And people that are in bondage, they go free. [01:00:01] (42 seconds)


Make a place for the presence of God by personally coming to the table of the Lord for communion. Now, in just a few minutes, I'm going to lead you into a time where we'll recognize again what Jesus did on the night that he was betrayed and he was beaten and he wore that crown of thorns and he took the strife. For our healing, our salvation, our peace of mind, and for eternity with him. And this is something you can do at a personal level. Now, I do this in my office. I do this with our small group leaders or our small group or wherever it might be. But a lot of times I'm just by myself having communion. And when I begin to recognize the broken body of Jesus and I take some time, shut the door, turn on some worship music, as I consider what Jesus did on that, special night, you know what it does? It brings me to a place of reflection, which leads to repentance, which leads to reconnection. If you really slow down and think about the cross and the fact that Jesus died on that cross for your eternity with him, that moment of reflection causes us to come into something that is very sweet and tender to the heart of the Lord, and that is the conviction of sin. See, a lot of people mistake conviction for condemnation because they get around church people and they, they just feel condemned, like you're not holy enough and you're not good enough and you messed up. And man, that list of sin is brutal. God's not like that. He reveals the condition of our heart not to condemn us, but to draw us close to himself that we might repent of our sins and receive forgiveness. And then we reconnect with him. You see, it's my sin that separates me from my savior. But as we break this bread and drink this cup, we're recognizing that there is a provision that I don't have to live at a distance. I don't have to live at a distance. If I could get you to make one commitment for 2025, I would urge you and beg you to make this commitment. I will not live at a distance from God this year. [01:02:12] (119 seconds)