Paul charges the Colossians to keep going by continuing to follow Jesus, not by drifting with distractions or letting hurt and hype set the pace, but by receiving Jesus as Lord. The word is kurios, dominion and authority, not just friend or fire insurance. The cross and the throne picture makes it plain. Jesus died on the cross for salvation, but he now sits on the throne and must not be dethroned so a self can climb in his seat. A throne oriented life stays self centered. A cross oriented life gets self submitted.
Philippians 2 shows the pattern. Christ left the throne, took the form of a servant, died on the cross, and was rethroned with the name above every name. He has earned that seat by deity and duty. So a disciple cannot follow him from the control chair. Luke 9:23 sets the order. Deny self, take up your cross daily, then follow. There is no following without a cross. The cross is not jewelry. It is a death sentence to ego so Jesus can be the center. If he is not the center, life goes off course like a cruise ship drifting a few degrees for a week and ending up on the wrong continent.
This call touches real decisions. A throne life asks only what the package pays. A cross life asks what this move does to the soul, to integrity, to marriage, to calling. Continuous intentional surrender becomes a rhythm. Traffic fingers, household tensions, online smoke all push a heart back to the cross again and again. Discipleship costs full price. There is no discount version. Baptism vows say it straight. Will a life deny self, love God with all the heart, and follow even when it hurts.
Galatians 2:20 reframes posture. A cross life lives where he died. Some are sitting where they should be bowing. Jesus shows how to carry it. His words were few under provocation. He would not clap back or be baited, because people can talk but they cannot stop what God has ordained. He forgave and prayed for his abusers. He lifted a fellow sufferer, secured care for his mother, and poured his anguish out to God rather than to the crowd. He stayed tethered to Scripture, even thirsting to fulfill it. He finished. Then he put his spirit back in the Father’s hands. The question now lands close. Who is in the seat. Both cannot be on the throne.
Key Takeaways
- 1. Jesus must be Lord, not accessory Jesus saves, but he also rules. Kurios means his say outranks every competing voice, including personal preferences, pain points, and plans. When Jesus is treated like décor on a wall of equal loves, the whole compass is off. Let him be the center, not an add-on. [13:46]
- 2. No following Jesus without a cross Discipleship starts with dethroning self, then taking up a cross daily before any talk of following. The cross is death to ego and the old agenda so that Christ’s agenda can actually lead. Without that daily dying, religion becomes a costume change and not a change of owner. [11:14]
- 3. Cross life reshapes everyday decisions The throne asks, how much does it pay. The cross asks, what does this do to integrity, calling, marriage, and the soul. Wisdom learns to count hidden costs and kingdom outcomes, not just visible perks. That is how a life stops drifting and starts obeying. [15:23]
- 4. Surrender is continuous and intentional One prayer of surrender is not enough for a life full of triggers. The heart keeps wandering back to the seat of control and must be led back to the cross throughout the day. Quick returns to Jesus in the small moments train the soul to be ready for the heavy ones. [16:18]
- 5. Finish, then trust the Father Jesus endured abandonment and still finished what the Father gave him to do. He chose to hand his spirit back to the One who felt silent and far. Faith matures when it obeys through disappointment and resurfaces with Father on its lips again. [30:41]
Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [00:36] - Keep going in Christ
- [02:19] - Demas and drifting hearts
- [04:02] - Church hurt and misplaced eyes
- [04:41] - Kurios means Jesus is Lord
- [05:29] - Cross and throne picture
- [08:41] - From throne to cross to throne
- [10:44] - Deny self, take up cross daily
- [14:46] - Off course when Jesus is not center
- [16:18] - Continuous intentional surrender
- [19:55] - No discount discipleship
- [20:47] - Live where he died
- [21:16] - How Jesus carried the cross
- [28:19] - Word and worship in the pain
- [30:15] - Keep going to finish
- [32:10] - Choose throne or cross