Winning the Spiritual Battle: Mind, Sin, and Grace

 

Summary

### Summary

In today's gathering, we explored the profound spiritual battle that each of us faces daily. We began by reflecting on Michelangelo's painting, "The Torment of St. Anthony," which vividly depicts the relentless spiritual warfare that St. Anthony endured. This image serves as a powerful reminder that our struggle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of evil. St. Anthony's life, dedicated to prayer and fasting, illustrates that even in isolation, temptations persist, emphasizing the importance of being vigilant and aware of the spiritual battle.

We delved into the significance of the mind in this battle, as the mind is often the primary battleground where the enemy attacks. The evil one knows our weak spots and repeatedly targets them, filling our minds with lies and distractions. This is why mastering what matters involves winning the battle of the mind, filling it with what is good, true, and beautiful, as St. Paul advises in Colossians.

We also discussed the pervasive issue of desensitization to sin, particularly in the realm of sexual immorality. The enemy subtly sneaks in, desensitizing us to sin through various media, leading us to accept what is essentially soft porn as normal. This desensitization is a tactic to pull us away from our settled purpose of becoming holy and divinized.

The legend of St. George slaying the dragon served as a metaphor for our spiritual lives. Just as the villagers initially fed the dragon sheep, thinking it was a small price to pay, we often manage sin rather than slay it. This management of sin leads to greater destruction, symbolized by the dead princess. We are called to kill sin, not manage it, and this requires discipline, self-mastery, and grace.

Discipline and self-mastery are essential, as illustrated by the story of Tom Brady's success through discipline. However, discipline alone is not enough; we need grace and authentic love. St. Augustine's conversion story highlights the transformative power of grace. Despite knowing the good, Augustine struggled until a moment of grace pierced his heart, enabling him to make a decisive change.

Finally, we reflected on the story of "Beauty and the Beast," where authentic love transforms the beast back into a prince. This story symbolizes the transformative power of Christ's love, which can penetrate our weaknesses and bring about true change. We are called to surrender to this love, allowing it to slay the dragons in our lives and bring us into communion with God.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Battle of the Mind: The spiritual battle often begins in the mind, where the enemy targets our thoughts and fills them with lies and distractions. By focusing on what is good, true, and beautiful, we can fortify our minds against these attacks and align our thoughts with God's truth. [05:18]

2. Desensitization to Sin: Over time, we can become desensitized to sin, particularly in areas like sexual immorality. This desensitization is a tactic of the enemy to pull us away from our purpose of holiness. We must remain vigilant and sensitive to sin, recognizing it for what it is and striving to avoid it. [07:20]

3. Killing Sin, Not Managing It: Like the villagers who fed the dragon, we often manage sin rather than slay it. This management leads to greater destruction. We are called to kill sin by the Spirit, not just manage it. This requires a decisive and proactive approach to our spiritual lives. [16:47]

4. Discipline and Self-Mastery: Discipline and self-mastery are crucial in our spiritual journey. Just as athletes achieve success through discipline, we too must apply discipline in our spiritual lives. This discipline helps us to rid ourselves of sin and burdens that hinder our spiritual growth. [22:03]

5. The Power of Grace and Authentic Love: Discipline alone is not enough; we need grace and authentic love to truly transform our lives. St. Augustine's conversion story illustrates how a moment of grace can pierce our hearts and enable us to make decisive changes. Authentic love, as seen in "Beauty and the Beast," has the power to transform us from within. [24:42]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:06] - Introduction to Spiritual Battle
[02:18] - St. Anthony's Torment
[02:58] - The Settled Purpose
[04:01] - The Battle of the Mind
[05:18] - Mastering What Matters
[06:16] - Recognizing Weak Spots
[07:20] - Desensitization to Sin
[08:23] - The Gnarly Demon of Discouragement
[09:16] - Confidence in Communion with God
[11:24] - Living with the Victor
[12:27] - Encouragement to Kill Sin
[13:44] - The Legend of St. George
[16:47] - Managing vs. Killing Sin
[19:19] - Discipline and Self-Mastery
[22:03] - Throwing the Kitchen Sink at Sin
[24:00] - The Power of Grace
[25:43] - Embracing Weakness for Grace
[27:49] - Love that Heals
[28:25] - Beauty and the Beast: A Metaphor
[30:03] - Authentic Love Transforms
[32:03] - Combining Grace and Discipline
[32:48] - Closing Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
1. Ephesians 6:12 - "For we are not contending against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world rulers of this present darkness, against the spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places."
2. Colossians 3:2 - "Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things."
3. Romans 8:37 - "No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us."

### Observation Questions
1. What does Ephesians 6:12 tell us about the nature of our spiritual battle? How does this relate to the image of St. Anthony's torment? [02:18]
2. According to Colossians 3:2, what should we focus our minds on? How does this help in the battle of the mind? [05:18]
3. In Romans 8:37, Paul states that we are "more than conquerors." How does this perspective change the way we approach our spiritual struggles? [11:24]
4. What are some ways the sermon suggests we become desensitized to sin, particularly in the area of sexual immorality? [07:20]

### Interpretation Questions
1. How does understanding that our battle is against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12) change the way we approach our daily struggles and temptations? [02:18]
2. Why is it important to fill our minds with things that are good, true, and beautiful, as advised in Colossians 3:2? How does this practice help us in our spiritual journey? [05:18]
3. What does it mean to be "more than conquerors" in the context of Romans 8:37? How can this mindset empower us to face our spiritual battles? [11:24]
4. The sermon mentions the legend of St. George and the dragon. How does this story illustrate the difference between managing sin and killing it? [16:47]

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own life. Are there areas where you have been managing sin rather than killing it? What steps can you take to start slaying these "dragons"? [16:47]
2. The sermon emphasizes the importance of discipline and self-mastery. What specific disciplines can you incorporate into your daily routine to help you in your spiritual battle? [19:19]
3. How can you actively fill your mind with things that are good, true, and beautiful? Identify one practical way to start this week. [05:18]
4. Have you experienced desensitization to sin in your own life? What media or habits might you need to reconsider to remain vigilant against this desensitization? [07:20]
5. The story of St. Augustine's conversion highlights the power of grace. Can you recall a moment of grace in your own life that led to a significant change? How can you remain open to such moments? [24:42]
6. The sermon uses the metaphor of "Beauty and the Beast" to illustrate the transformative power of authentic love. How can you allow Christ's love to transform the "beastly" areas of your life? [30:03]
7. What are some practical ways you can combine grace and discipline in your spiritual journey? How can you ensure that you are not relying solely on your own efforts but also leaning into God's grace? [32:03]

Devotional

Day 1: The Battle of the Mind
Description: The spiritual battle often begins in the mind, where the enemy targets our thoughts and fills them with lies and distractions. The mind is a primary battleground, and the enemy knows our weak spots, repeatedly attacking them. By focusing on what is good, true, and beautiful, we can fortify our minds against these attacks and align our thoughts with God's truth. This is why mastering what matters involves winning the battle of the mind, as St. Paul advises in Colossians. [05:18]

Bible Passage: "Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God." (Colossians 3:2-3, ESV)

Reflection: What are some specific lies or distractions that the enemy uses to attack your mind? How can you replace these with thoughts that are good, true, and beautiful today?


Day 2: Desensitization to Sin
Description: Over time, we can become desensitized to sin, particularly in areas like sexual immorality. The enemy subtly sneaks in, desensitizing us to sin through various media, leading us to accept what is essentially soft porn as normal. This desensitization is a tactic to pull us away from our settled purpose of becoming holy and divinized. We must remain vigilant and sensitive to sin, recognizing it for what it is and striving to avoid it. [07:20]

Bible Passage: "But sexual immorality and all impurity or covetousness must not even be named among you, as is proper among saints." (Ephesians 5:3, ESV)

Reflection: In what ways have you noticed a desensitization to sin in your own life? What steps can you take to become more vigilant and sensitive to sin starting today?


Day 3: Killing Sin, Not Managing It
Description: Like the villagers who fed the dragon, we often manage sin rather than slay it. This management leads to greater destruction, symbolized by the dead princess in the legend of St. George. We are called to kill sin by the Spirit, not just manage it. This requires a decisive and proactive approach to our spiritual lives, involving discipline, self-mastery, and grace. [16:47]

Bible Passage: "If by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live." (Romans 8:13b, ESV)

Reflection: Are there any sins in your life that you have been managing rather than killing? What practical steps can you take to decisively put these sins to death by the Spirit?


Day 4: Discipline and Self-Mastery
Description: Discipline and self-mastery are crucial in our spiritual journey. Just as athletes achieve success through discipline, we too must apply discipline in our spiritual lives. This discipline helps us to rid ourselves of sin and burdens that hinder our spiritual growth. The story of Tom Brady's success through discipline serves as an illustration of how discipline can lead to great achievements. However, discipline alone is not enough; we need grace and authentic love to truly transform our lives. [22:03]

Bible Passage: "Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable." (1 Corinthians 9:25, ESV)

Reflection: What areas of your spiritual life require more discipline and self-mastery? How can you begin to implement these disciplines in your daily routine?


Day 5: The Power of Grace and Authentic Love
Description: Discipline alone is not enough; we need grace and authentic love to truly transform our lives. St. Augustine's conversion story illustrates how a moment of grace can pierce our hearts and enable us to make decisive changes. Authentic love, as seen in "Beauty and the Beast," has the power to transform us from within. This story symbolizes the transformative power of Christ's love, which can penetrate our weaknesses and bring about true change. We are called to surrender to this love, allowing it to slay the dragons in our lives and bring us into communion with God. [24:42]

Bible Passage: "But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved." (Ephesians 2:4-5, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on a moment in your life when you experienced God's grace in a transformative way. How can you surrender more fully to His love and grace today to allow for further transformation?

Quotes

1. "Brothers, if you're here and you're married, if you're here, you're single, you're here, you're a seminarian, like me, a priest, he wants to keep us from our settled purpose. What's our settled purpose? Second Peter makes it really clear. St. Peter says to be divinized, to become holy, to become a saint, to be the man that, that we know that God's called us to be, that deep inside that we know that we long to be, that we yearn to be. The evil one wants to keep us from our settled purpose, whatever state in life that we're in." [03:33] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "There are so many opportunities for the evil one today. To just fill our minds. To fill our minds with junk. He, I think for, for a good number of us, he has a field day. He's a field day with the mind. So I think like this conference is titled Mastering What Matters. As we talk about mastering what matters, I think a lot of it is about winning the battle of the mind because the mind, right? What's in the mind, what's in our thought is how we act, how we act continually and continuously. It forms our habits. Our habits form our character. Our character is all the way. Who we become, but it starts in the mind." [05:18] (47 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "I think with, with, with chastity over the last 50 years, I talked a lot to my people at my parish about being desensitized to sin and how. In a general way that's happened over the last 50 years of us becoming desensitized with sin, but maybe no, in no other spot, are we being, have we been desensitized to sin in the area of sexual immorality, like the things that are, that we continually see, whether it's through like even just TV, whether it's movies, whether it's social media, even like ads that one can see on, on CNN or Fox news, where it's like, I just become desensitized when reality, it's like. It's essentially, it's soft porn, but we just say, well, it's just the way it is. Now. It's just the way it is. That's a way that he just kind of sneaks in. He sneaks in at the cincture to pull it. That's a temptation it's going on." [07:20] (64 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "Some of us brothers were coming in here discouraged. And I know for my own life personally, as well as being a priest now for eight years, like it is not hard to slip in a spot of discouragement. Like discouragement can come quick and it can come heavy. And the next thing you know, it like, I'm just. Under this cloud of discouragement and evil wants to keep us there. It's like, someone's just up there, just beating us with a head, beating us with a hammer, just wailing and having a field day. I want you to, I want you to take a look now here before we move on from this image here. Look at his face, notice the light notice. Like it's the lightest spot of the image, but look at his face, like light coming from it." [09:16] (52 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "Look at his face. Look, he, he, he doesn't have a look. He doesn't have a smile, but he's. He's got this look. It's not a smile as if like this false thing. Hey, I'm a, I'm a Christian. Everything will be easy, but he's got this look of like, these guys can't touch me. They can claw, they can pull, they can beat with a bat, but they can't touch me. It's just this look of confidence. He's steady, he's anchored, he's at peace. Why? Because he's at, he's in communion with a person. He's in union. With a person. So he's just, he's just, he's just at peace. And notice, I got, I love the interpretation of this, that it's, you think that they're trying to pull him away. The demons are trying to pull him away, but I think it's actually, he's just floating and they're trying to pull him down because he's so in communion with the Lord that he's just floating. And so they're just pulling them down." [10:18] (63 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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6. "Brothers, we don't want to just manage sin. We don't want to just manage sin. We want to kill it. To put it to death, to slay the damn thing. Am I slaying the dragon or am I feeding it? Am I managing sin or am I killing it? Brothers, it's a lot easier to manage sin. It's a lot easier to manage sin. That's where it was just like, we just get used to it. I'm an angry person. I've been angry. My dad was angry. I can, I blow up and it's just who I am. It's what I, it's kind of just, it's just the way I am, or I struggle with lust and it is, I fall. It's just the way it is. It's who I am. And I just get used to it. And we enter in this time of managing sin and we manage repeated failures. We manage the patterns. We manage the tendencies. And what that is, is that I just end up just feeding the dragon sheep. Managing sin never works. Sheep ultimately, dead sheep ultimately leads to dead princesses." [17:46] (68 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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7. "Brothers, we can subdue sin and become its master because of, because of Christ and his victory and him living in us. We can subdue sin and be its master. We can grow in discipline and self mastery. Paul, one of my favorite verses or Paul in Hebrews chapter 12 says, After he just talks about, we're surrounded by a cloud of witnesses, he says, Rid yourself of every sin and burden that clings to you, that keeps you from running the race, that keeps you from being the man and that keeps me from being the man that God's called me to be, that I long to be, that the princesses in my life that are, that long for me to be. Rid yourself of every sin and burden that clings to you." [20:28] (43 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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8. "Poverty, our neediness, our weakness, right? Becomes the little cracks. They become the little cracks in which God's grace can flow and he can touch us and he can heal us. He is where he squeezes into our hearts. The weakness though, for us to be able to get in that spot of weakness and an impoverished spot. And again, in the book of Hebrews chapter four, the author says, we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses. But as Paul says elsewhere, he who knew no sin became sin so that we may be reconciled to God. He who knew no sin became sin, went to the weak spot so that us and our weakness, we can go there and we can meet Christ there and we can be transformed and we can be renewed. We've been given new life." [26:36] (53 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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9. "It's authentic love that changes him. That's what Christ offers brothers. That's what he offers every one of us. Surrender to him who went to the cross. Surrender to that authentic love. Let it penetrate those impoverished, weak areas. Brother, there's a lot of dragons out there needing to be slayed. A lot of princesses waiting just like that upper corner. There are a lot of princesses out there waiting. There are a lot of princesses out there waiting. There are a lot of princesses out there waiting. Longing, hoping that somebody would slay the dragon. Take this image home with you. Pray with it. Pray with the princess. Look at the, pray with the princess and ask, Lord, who are the princesses in my life? Pray with the dead bones on the ground. What are the dead bones that are packing up, piling up on the ground there? Pray with Saint George on the top of that horse, the sword going through the dragon. Brothers, combining the power of grace in the sacraments and in prayer and the mass, combine that with discipline and self-mastery. There are no limits. There are no limits. Sins that we once struggled with that were master over us, you start becoming a master over it. And then we'll begin with Christ mastering what matters." [32:03] (97 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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