Why Do We Gather

Devotional

Day 1: The Danger of Gathering for Selfish Gain

When we come together as believers, our purpose must be centered on Christ and others, not on what we can personally receive. The early church in Corinth had lost this focus, turning their gatherings into opportunities for division and self-indulgence. This self-centered approach to community stands in direct opposition to the selfless love demonstrated by Jesus. Our gatherings should reflect His character, not our own desires. Examining our motives for coming together is a crucial step in faithful worship. [06:08]

Now in giving this instruction I do not praise you, because you come together not for the better but for the worse. For, in the first place, when you come together as a church, I hear that divisions exist among you; and in part I believe it. (1 Corinthians 11:17-18 NASB)

Reflection: As you consider your own reasons for gathering with other believers, what is one way you might be approaching church with a consumer mentality—seeking to get something for yourself rather than to give and serve?

Day 2: Remembering the Foundation of Christ’s Sacrifice

The Lord's Supper calls us to remember the profound, selfless act of Jesus on the night He was betrayed. He willingly offered His body and blood to establish a new covenant, a gift of grace that is both past and future. This remembrance is not a mere ritual but a proclamation of the gospel itself. It reorients our hearts away from ourselves and toward the incredible love of our Savior. This act of remembrance is the true center of our communal life. [19:28]

In the same way He also took the cup after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in My blood; do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of Me.” For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until He comes. (1 Corinthians 11:25-26 NASB)

Reflection: How does intentionally remembering Christ's sacrifice on the cross reshape your perspective from a focus on your own needs to a focus on His grace and the needs of others?

Day 3: The Call to Self-Examination Before Partaking

Approaching the table of the Lord requires a humble and honest assessment of our own hearts. The warning is not about being a worthy person, for none are, but about partaking in a worthy manner—with reverence and right relationship. This includes judging our attitudes toward our brothers and sisters in Christ. A failure to do so not only dishonors the sacrifice of Jesus but invites God’s loving discipline. This examination is a gift to protect us and the unity of the body. [27:10]

Therefore whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner, shall be guilty of the body and the blood of the Lord. But a man must examine himself, and in so doing he is to eat of the bread and drink of the cup. (1 Corinthians 11:27-28 NASB)

Reflection: As you examine your heart, is there a relationship with another believer—perhaps a hurt, a frustration, or a judgmental attitude—that you need to address before you can rightly partake in communion?

Day 4: The Communal Nature of God’s Grace

The grace we have received in Christ is deeply personal, but it is never private. It inherently connects us to every other person who has been saved by that same grace, making us one body. When we gather, we are called to reflect this unity, prioritizing the needs and dignity of others above our own preferences. The Corinthians’ sin was disregarding this reality, creating divisions based on social status. Our gatherings should visibly demonstrate that we are all equal at the foot of the cross. [22:57]

So then, my brethren, when you come together to eat, wait for one another. (1 Corinthians 11:33 NASB)

Reflection: In what practical way can you "wait for" or prioritize someone else in your church family this week, especially someone who might be different from you or easily overlooked?

Day 5: Gathering to Be Equipped for Mission

The church is not a destination but a gathering of those who have been called out. We assemble to be encouraged by God’s work in one another and to receive His word. This equips us for our primary purpose: to go out and obey, taking the message of the gospel into the world. Our time together is meant to energize us for a life of devotion that is visible to others. The evidence of Christ in us is a life poured out in love and service, just as His was for us. [40:12]

What evidence do others see in your life that Jesus lives in you? [40:30]

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses both in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and even to the remotest part of the earth. (Acts 1:8 NASB)

Reflection: When someone observes your life from a distance, what specific evidence would they point to that demonstrates your devotion to Jesus goes beyond a private devotional time?

Sermon Summary

The Lord's Supper functions as a communal proclamation that unites believers around Christ’s past, present, and future work. Scripture exposes how gatherings that should celebrate shared salvation instead revealed divisions, favoritism, and self-interest among those who ate and drank. The early church’s love feast broke down when wealthier members consumed the meal while poorer brothers and sisters arrived later and received leftovers or nothing. Such behavior turned worship into selfish indulgence, undermined the unity the supper symbolizes, and provoked stern correction.

Paul’s account of the night Jesus was betrayed anchors the supper in sacrificial love: bread as body, cup as blood, given in thanksgiving and commanded “in remembrance.” That remembrance carries multiple dimensions — it recalls atoning grace already accomplished, anticipates Christ’s return, applies personally to each repentant heart, and binds the community together to live out the gospel. Participation therefore demands moral seriousness: eating and drinking “in an unworthy manner” means approaching the table while nursing hatred, division, or selfishness toward other members. Such conduct contradicts the gospel that the supper proclaims.

Self-examination functions as necessary preparation. Believers must judge their attitudes toward fellow members and live in ways that reflect mutual care and sacrifice. The passage warns that unrepentant hardness can bring divine discipline intended to restore rather than to reject; God corrects his children to prevent final condemnation and to turn hardened hearts back toward holiness. The assembly should practice patient care: wait for one another, serve the weaker, and demonstrate that God truly works among them.

Gathering therefore exists for more than personal feeding or preference. Church assembly calls people out of their homes to receive the gospel, witness God’s work in one another, and obey by loving sacrificially. When gatherings mirror Christ’s humility and communal grace, the Lord’s Supper fulfills its purpose: a visible, costly, and hopeful proclamation of a crucified and risen Lord until he comes again.

Key Takeaways

1. Church gathering declares communal grace The Lord’s Supper embodies grace that is personal, past, and future while also insisting on communal belonging. Participation proclaims that salvation unites diverse people into one body, demanding behaviors that reflect that unity rather than emphasize individual preference. Remembering Christ should produce shared devotion and mutual care among believers. [22:08]
2. Consumerism corrupts worship and unity Treating church as a place to get personal needs met turns worship into commerce and breeds factions. When people seek advantage, gatherings fracture along lines of class, style, or preference, and the table becomes a stage for selfishness rather than a seal of reconciliation. Conversion to communal thinking requires refusing the consumer posture. [11:17]
3. Examine hearts before participating Approaching the table without confronting grudges or division mocks the gospel the supper proclaims. Self-examination calls believers to judge their attitudes, repent, and restore relationships so the meal truly signifies unity in Christ. Serious introspection honors what the bread and cup represent. [25:00]
4. Discipline intends restoration, not rejection Divine discipline addresses stubborn sin among believers to recover them, not to cast them out. God’s corrective actions aim to prevent final condemnation and to bring wayward members back into faithful community. Recognizing discipline as loving correction reframes suffering as pastoral rescue. [30:36]

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[00:00] - Welcome
[00:47] - Purpose: Why Study the Lord's Supper
[02:10] - Reading: 1 Corinthians 11:17–34
[08:46] - Problem: Divisions in the Gathering
[11:17] - Historical Practice: Love Feasts and Wealth
[18:15] - The Last Supper: Bread and Cup Explained
[25:00] - Warning: Unworthy Participation
[30:36] - Discipline: God’s Corrective Love
[32:58] - Practical Call: Wait For One Another
[41:59] - Prayer and Invitation

Bible Study Guide

Bible reading: 1 Corinthians 11:17-34 (NASB)

Observation questions

According to verses 20-22, what specific behaviors were the Corinthians displaying when they came together that caused Paul to say he could not praise them?
What two elements did Jesus use to institute the Lord's Supper, and what did He command us to do with them? (vv. 23-25)
What are the potential consequences mentioned for someone who partakes of the bread and cup in an "unworthy manner"? (vv. 27-30)
What is the final, practical instruction Paul gives in verse 33 regarding how believers should conduct themselves when they gather?

Interpretation questions

Why does Paul connect how we treat "the body" (other believers) with properly discerning "the body" (of Christ) during communion? (v. 29)
The passage suggests that divine discipline, including weakness, sickness, and even death, can be a loving act from God meant to restore rather than condemn His children (v. 32). How does this perspective on discipline differ from how the world often views hardship?
The sermon described the Lord's Supper as a proclamation of "communal grace" that is "past, future, and personal." [22:08] What do each of these aspects of grace mean, and how do they work together?
How does treating church like a place "for what we can get" [16:53] fundamentally contradict the gospel that the Lord's Supper proclaims?

Application questions

The passage calls for self-examination before partaking in communion. What would it looklike this week to specifically "judge your attitudes toward fellow members" [25:00] and seek reconciliation where needed?
In what practical ways can we "wait for one another" [32:58] in our church gatherings, ensuring that no one feels overlooked, marginalized, or like a second-class member of the body?
What is one tangible evidence from this past week that Jesus is at work in your life, changing you to be more selfless and others-focused? [39:00]
If the Christian life is meant to be lived for "others who aren't even here yet," [36:31] how does—or should—that truth impact your daily priorities and interactions?
Reflect on a recent frustration you experienced at church. Was that frustration rooted in a "consumer" mindset of what you were not getting, or was it rooted in a desire for the body to be healthy and unified? [34:19]
How can you move from simply having a daily "devotion time" to living a life "devoted" to Christ and His mission this week? [41:36]

Sermon Clips

You see, we don't come to church for what we can get. We get to come to church because we already got. I'm gonna start preaching here in a minute. It's that it's the Lord's Supper that reminds us of God's grace. His past grace in sending Jesus, there's no question about that. And even for Wesley who just today showed publicly his decision to follow Jesus, although his grace was experienced recently in the past, that is still in the past. And something to look back on and to celebrate. But it's not just a past grace, it's a future grace. Because not only did Jesus die and raise again and ascend to be with the father, but he's coming back again. It's a past grace. It's a future grace. It's a personal grace. You know, god doesn't have any grandchildren. [00:21:00] (75 seconds) #RememberGodsGrace

Therefore, whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the lord in an unworthy manner. I want to stop there really quickly. Notice he didn't say an unworthy person. You see that? He didn't say that because how many of us are worthy of Jesus dying for us? No. No. So he doesn't say that. He's saying in an unworthy manner. In other words, someone who won't consider what Jesus has done for them but wants to live selfishly trying to get everything they can for themselves without seeing how that's affecting others or their relationship with god, that is an unworthy manner. How can you proclaim the perfect life, death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ in the lord's supper? While in your heart hating somebody that you're taking it with. That's pretty tough, ain't it? [00:24:50] (67 seconds) #HonorTheTable

When we gather, it's to show that god is working us, causing us to love god by loving others. Two weeks ago, we talked about that, didn't we? Two weeks ago, we talked about that. Look at verses thirty three and thirty four. Then, I'll just have a few questions and we'll be done. Why are you laughing? So so then my brethren, when you come together to eat, wait for one another. If anyone is hungry, let him eat at home so he'll not come together for judgement. The remaining matters all arrange when it come. Here's what he says. When you come together, show that god's in work in you by the way that you put up with, tolerate, love, serve, and lift up one another. It's a little hard to explain to somebody that you're sharing the gospel with that God is love if I just punch somebody in the face. Just saying. God's at work in us. When we wait for others, we're Christ like for he waited for us. [00:32:30] (78 seconds) #WaitForOneAnother

Is there anything inside or anyone outside of you that needs attention? If we're to be here for one another to be one, is there a sin in your life that needs to be dealt with so that you can be one? Do you maybe maybe you're here and maybe the reason you're here is because you got upset with the last place you were. Can I tell you a little secret? Lean in real close. We don't want everyone to hear this. You're never gonna be happy here until you make peace there. I'm just saying. Is there anyone here? I look at Joe sits here, and I'm so mad at him because he didn't wear his black t shirt with the green stuff on today, and I don't know how to act. I keep looking over here and I can't find Joe. Is there anyone that you need to get right with? [00:36:47] (70 seconds) #MakePeaceFirst

But there but those who had means who could control their own schedule would show up early and they would they would be the ones most likely providing the food or part of the food because they were the ones providing the home in which the group met. And so here's what happened. When all their rich buddies showed up all early, they would all start to chow down. Well, then, when the people that couldn't control their schedule because they work for a living or were actually slaves and they would come to worship, there wouldn't be any place left in the triclinium so they would have to sit out on the patio. And they would get the leftovers. And sometimes there weren't any leftover. And so they would come together expecting to have what they called a love feast because they actually included a meal with their lord's supper. [00:11:24] (45 seconds) #EveryoneAtTheTable

Can I tell you something? I I know I keep telling you all of you my all my secrets. Now I don't have any secrets. But do you know that the Christian life was never meant just to make you feel better about yourself? It was never meant to just give you warm fuzzy thoughts towards God. That that's not the purpose of the Christian life. The purpose of the Christian life is so that one one lost person hears the gospel from a Christian and gives their life to Jesus, and then they become part of passing the baton. And there ought to be changes in our lives that others can identify, that they can say, you know what? I'm pretty sure I know them, and that's not them. Something else is going on here. How do you show your devotion to Jesus? Maybe you maybe it's through your daily devotion time. But if all we ever have is a devotion time and we don't have a life devoted to him, maybe some things need to change. Because ultimately, when you get down to it, how has he shown his devotion to you? [00:40:30] (86 seconds) #FaithThatActs

Now, we we focused on the wealthy people in this passage because they're the ones that were kind of setting themselves aside but don't you imagine there was probably some people there that got tired of having to sit in the patio? And get nothing? So, there could have been animosity there and we see that because they're dividing into factions and Paul is saying, that is not how we do this. Therefore, whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the lord in an unworthy manner shall be guilty of the body and blood of the lord. In other words, when you come together, when you come to church and you're coming to church and you hate somebody that's sitting on the same row as you or maybe on the other side because that's where the weird people sit. If weird people sit, weird people sit, weird people sit. What are you there for? [00:25:57] (51 seconds) #BringUnityNotHate

Right? We want to have a a deep deep discussions in Sunday school for one group and then, I mean, another group, they're not, you know, they don't have all that knowledge. So, they're going to get together and just do their stuff and let's not mix together. I mean, it wouldn't it be terrible if somebody who'd been walking with Jesus longer helped somebody who hadn't been walking with Jesus very long to know how to walk Jesus better? That was terrible. I need to go back and say that again. Or maybe for us, it might be, you know, there are some people like to dress up for church. Some people are just glad to get here. Can I tell you this? I don't care what you wear. I just hope you come and leave different. Not different clothes. Thought I needed to straighten that out a little bit. [00:12:52] (54 seconds) #ComeAsYouAreLeaveChanged

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Why Do We Gather

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Day 1: The Danger of Gathering for Selfish Gain

Day 2: Remembering the Foundation of Christ’s Sacrifice

Day 3: The Call to Self-Examination Before Partaking

Day 4: The Communal Nature of God’s Grace

Day 5: Gathering to Be Equipped for Mission

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