Why Would You Choose Me?

Devotional

Day 1: Crippled Feet at the King’s Table

A broken man eats like royalty. Mephibosheth, dropped as a child and left lame, expected death when summoned by King David. Instead, he received land, honor, and a permanent seat at the king’s table. God’s kindness defies human logic, elevating the unworthy to sonship. Your spiritual limp—shame, family baggage, or past failures—doesn’t disqualify you from divine favor. Heaven’s table is set for those who see themselves as “dead dogs” yet dare to accept the invitation. [01:12:56]

“So Mephibosheth ate at David’s table like one of the king’s sons…though he was lame in both feet.”
(2 Samuel 9:11,13 ESV)

Reflection: What “lameness” do you try to hide from God, fearing it makes you unworthy? How might accepting His invitation to sit at His table change how you see yourself?

Day 2: Rahab’s Redemption in the Bloodline

A prostitute becomes a prophet’s ancestor. Rahab, labeled by her past, chose faith over fear by sheltering Israel’s spies. Her courage rewrote her story, landing her in Jesus’ lineage. God’s grace doesn’t sanitize history—He highlights broken people to prove redemption runs deeper than sin. Your family’s worst chapters can become testimonies when surrendered to the Author of grace. [01:04:34]

“Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab, Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth, Obed the father of Jesse, and Jesse the father of King David.”
(Matthew 1:5-6 ESV)

Reflection: Which generational pattern in your family line feels too broken for God to use? How might He be calling you to break that cycle through faith?

Day 3: From Slave Mentality to “Abba!”

Chains crack when “Father” leaves your lips. Before Christ, we cowered like slaves fearing punishment. Adoption changes our posture: we run to God as children, not prisoners. The Spirit’s whisper—“Abba”—overrides old fears of rejection. You’re not tolerated; you’re wanted. Every anxious “What if I mess up?” dissolves in the safety of a Father who chose you, defects and all. [01:22:08]

“For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, ‘Abba! Father!’”
(Romans 8:15 ESV)

Reflection: When do you still relate to God like a nervous servant instead of a confident child? What would it look like today to call Him “Abba” in your darkest moment?

Day 4: Unreturnable Heirs

Adoption papers can’t be shredded. Earthly families disown; heaven doubles down. Once God claims you as His, no failure revokes your sonship. You’re not a trial purchase—He knew your flaws when He signed your adoption in Jesus’ blood. The inheritance isn’t earned; it’s assured. Walk like someone who can’t be “sent back,” secure in a love that outlasts every relapse and regret. [01:31:47]

“He predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace…”
(Ephesians 1:5-6 ESV)

Reflection: What mistake makes you wonder if God wants to “return” you? How does the permanence of His adoption challenge that fear?

Day 5: Chosen Before Your First Breath

Your name was etched in heaven’s ledger before creation. Election isn’t about earning—it’s about being known. God saw every addiction, affair, and angry word you’d commit…and still said “Mine.” His choice defies human merit, making your salvation a monument to grace, not grit. Live awestruck that the Perfect Father picked you, not in spite of your mess, but as its solution. [01:39:16]

“Even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him.”
(Ephesians 1:4 ESV)

Reflection: Where do you still try to “qualify” for God’s love? How might resting in His pre-creation choice of you free you from performance today?

Sermon Summary

Jesus’ bloodline tells the truth right up front: Christ did not step into a clean, polished, perfect family tree. Jesus came through liars, adulterers, murderers, and folks with real issues. Rahab, a woman everybody would have whispered about, still got brought into the line that led to Boaz, Jesse, David, and finally Christ. Jesus was not ashamed to be connected to broken people, and that shows the heart of God toward people with messed up stories.

Second Samuel 9 brings that same heart into view through David and Mephibosheth. David had made covenant with Jonathan, and after Saul’s house had fallen, David asked whether anyone was left so he could show the kindness of God. Mephibosheth came in crippled, afraid, and carrying the weight of his family’s shame. Mephibosheth saw himself as “a dead dog,” but David saw covenant, kindness, and a place at the king’s table.

The table changed everything. Mephibosheth did not get treated like a threat, even though Saul’s blood was in him. Mephibosheth ate “like one of the king’s sons,” though he was still lame in both feet. His feet did not get fixed before he was seated. The king’s kindness covered what everybody else could see.

Romans 8 takes that picture and opens it wide. Paul says God’s children did not receive the spirit of slavery again to fall back into fear, but the spirit of adoption. Slavery means something else owns the heart, calls the name, and gets an answer. Sin, substances, relationships, thoughts, habits, and old ways can act like masters. But the Spirit brings a different cry: Abba, Father.

Adoption means God chose broken children on purpose. God looked at the sickness, the special needs, the history, the abandoned places, the addictions, the lies, the shame, and still wanted that one. Adoption removes old debts, gives a new name, places the child under a new Father, brings the child into a new home, and gives the same rights as a natural-born heir. The Holy Spirit stands as witness that the child belongs to God.

Ephesians says God chose His children before the foundation of the world and predestined them for adoption through Jesus Christ. The Father’s love is not distant or cold. Abba is close enough to call in the dark, close enough to sit with the hurting, close enough to bring light into the room. God’s adoption agency is still open, and He will not turn away the one who comes.

Key Takeaways

1. God chooses jacked up bloodlines Jesus did not come through a cleaned-up family tree full of safe, respectable people. His bloodline carried shame, scandal, and pain, and still became the road God used to bring salvation into the world. A family history full of brokenness does not disqualify a life from holy purpose, because grace is not embarrassed by the places where people whisper. [63:46]
2. Lame feet still sit at tables Mephibosheth came before David crippled, afraid, and expecting judgment because of Saul’s house. David answered with covenant kindness, restored inheritance, and a permanent seat at the table. The king’s grace did not wait for Mephibosheth to walk right before treating him like a son. [72:56]
3. Adoption kills the slave mentality Paul’s word about adoption stands against the old life of fear, bondage, and being owned by sin. Slavery trains a person to answer every call from the old master, but sonship teaches the heart to hear a Father instead. Freedom in Christ is not just leaving chains behind, but learning how to live like the house, the name, and the inheritance really belong to the child. [76:58]
4. Abba Father invites honest need Abba is not a distant title for a cold God somewhere far away. Abba speaks of closeness, intimacy, and a Father who can be called when everything is dark, broken, or confusing. Earthly fathers may fail, wound, or disappear, but the Father revealed through Jesus welcomes the hurting child near enough to speak plainly. [86:13]
5. Chosen children become unreturnable heirs Adoption brings a new name, new authority, new home, and full rights of inheritance. The adopted child is not a trial run, not a rental, and not someone who can be sent back when trouble comes. God’s saving love gives a place that rests on His choice, His witness, and His covenant, not on the child’s ability to prove worth. [91:47]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[61:38] - Why Would God Choose Me?
[62:37] - Jesus Came Through Broken Family
[64:34] - Rahab And The Bloodline Of Grace
[67:32] - David Remembers Jonathan’s Covenant
[70:08] - Mephibosheth Is Found In Lodebar
[72:36] - A Seat At The King’s Table
[75:38] - Romans 8 And The Spirit Of Adoption
[77:18] - Slavery To Sin And The Flesh
[82:08] - Adoption Means Somebody Chose You
[85:24] - Crying Abba Father
[89:37] - Old Debts And New Names
[98:49] - Chosen Before The Foundation
[102:12] - The Father’s Love For The Wounded

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

Romans 8:15-17
“For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, ‘Abba! Father!’ The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.” [01:15:38]

2 Samuel 9:1-13
“And David said, ‘Is there still anyone left of the house of Saul, that I may show him kindness for Jonathan's sake?’ Now there was a servant of the house of Saul whose name was Ziba. And they called him to David. And the king said to him, ‘Are you Ziba?’ And he said, ‘I am your servant.’ And the king said, ‘Is there not still someone of the house of Saul, that I may show the kindness of God to him?’ Ziba said to the king, ‘There is still a son of Jonathan; he is crippled in his feet.’ The king said to him, ‘Where is he?’ And Ziba said to the king, ‘He is in the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, at Lo-debar.’ Then King David sent and brought him from the house of Machir the son of Ammiel, at Lo-debar. And Mephibosheth the son of Jonathan, son of Saul, came to David and fell on his face and paid homage. And David said, ‘Mephibosheth!’ And he answered, ‘Behold, I am your servant.’ And David said to him, ‘Do not fear, for I will show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan, and I will restore to you all the land of Saul your father, and you shall eat at my table always.’ And he paid homage and said, ‘What is your servant, that you should show regard for a dead dog such as I?’ Then the king called Ziba, Saul's servant, and said to him, ‘All that belonged to Saul and to all his house I have given to your master's grandson. And you and your sons and your servants shall till the land for him and shall bring in the produce, that your master's grandson may have bread to eat. But Mephibosheth your master's grandson shall always eat at my table.’ Now Ziba had fifteen sons and twenty servants. Then Ziba said to the king, ‘According to all that my lord the king commands his servant, so will your servant do.’ So Mephibosheth ate at David's table, like one of the king's sons. And Mephibosheth had a young son whose name was Mica. And all who lived in Ziba's house became Mephibosheth's servants. So Mephibosheth lived in Jerusalem, for he ate always at the king's table. Now he was lame in both his feet.” [01:07:32]

Ephesians 1:4-5
“even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will,” [01:38:59]

Observation questions

In 2 Samuel 9, what reasons does David give for showing kindness to Mephibosheth, and what specific things does he give him?
What words does Mephibosheth use to describe himself, and what words does the passage use to describe how David treated him? [01:12:56]
In Romans 8:15-17, what are the contrasts Paul makes between slavery and adoption?
According to Ephesians 1:4-5, when did God choose His people, and what were they chosen for? [01:41:44]

Interpretation questions

Mephibosheth came expecting fear and shame, but received covenant kindness instead. What does that reveal about how grace works toward people who feel disqualified by family history, failure, or weakness? [01:12:15]
Mephibosheth was still lame in both feet, yet he ate at the king’s table like one of the king’s sons. What does that suggest about the order of grace and change in the life of a believer? [01:15:16]
Paul says believers have not received a spirit of slavery again to fear, but the Spirit of adoption. What kinds of “masters” tend to call people back into fear, and how does sonship answer that? [01:17:18]
If adoption means being chosen, given a new name, and made an heir, how should that shape the way a Christian thinks about worth, belonging, and security before God? [01:31:12]

Application questions

Jesus was not ashamed to be connected to a broken bloodline. What part of personal history or family story still brings shame, and what would it look like to believe that grace is not embarrassed by it? [01:03:46]
Mephibosheth saw himself as “a dead dog,” even while the king was calling him to the table. Where does that kind of low view of self still show up in daily life—in prayer, relationships, church life, or private thoughts? [01:13:06]
Some people still live like slaves even after being brought into the Father’s house. What old voice, old habit, old relationship, or old fear has been calling for an answer lately? What would it look like this week not to answer that voice? [01:18:30]
Adoption means somebody looked at the whole story and still said, “I want that one.” What makes that hard to receive personally, and what helps the heart actually believe it? [01:24:23]
“Abba, Father” is a close cry, not a cold religious title. When life gets dark or heavy, is the first instinct to hide, fix everything alone, or call on the Father? What might need to change in prayer life so that cry becomes more natural? [01:26:13]
Adoption brings a new name, a new home, and old debts being removed. Which old label still sticks too tightly—failure, addict, abandoned, unwanted, angry, dirty, not enough? What truth from these passages needs to replace that label? [01:30:56]
The adopted child is not on trial and cannot be sent back. How would daily life look different if it were really believed that the Father is not looking for a reason to return His children? [01:31:47]

Sermon Clips

29s

“``That's what adoption does. It takes whatever you are, whoever you are, and says, still want you in spite of. Oh god. Thank you for choosing me. Thank you for choosing me in spite of my mess, in spite of all of the bloodline, in spite of all of the mistakes I've made, all of the places I've gone, all the people I hurt, Jesus says, still want that one.”

64s

“Do I really wanna go through someone being sick or I have to carry them on my back or I have to do this for them or they can't see or they can't hear? They got something and yet there's a problem with them and you still wanna adopt them? But see, Jesus looked at all of us. The spirit of adoption, the father looked at all of us and said, I still want them. I still want you. Amen. Look at your life and the things that you've done and yet Jesus says, I still want you. The father says to you, I still wanna adopt you and all your issues and when you were addicted to porn or when you were out there in the streets and you were in the club and you were lying and you were cheating or you were having multiple relationships or you were sneaking behind the back of your family or you climbed out that window or yet you went out on the street. You did all of these things. You in school lying. You in school selling drugs. You did all of these things, whatever it was. He said, but I still chose you.”

50s

“That's the spirit of adoption that Paul is writing to the Roman church that I chose you. I didn't have to choose you but something something about you is different. Now, here's something that they don't talk about with adoption because everybody wants little babies. Everybody I mean, I think that's wonderful, but the the the adoption process is different because when you read it, they tell you certain things about being adopted. They be like, if the child is sick, do you still want them? If the child has a life threatening disease, cancerous soul, would you still adopt him? If the child's in a wheelchair, would you still adopt him? If the child has certain special needs, would you adopt him? Would you still take them? And so you start thinking to yourself, is that what I bargained for? Is that what I want?”

42s

“Meaning that every time you have an adoption, you have to have witness. So the parents or somebody can't come back and say, no. No. No. No. You gotta have somebody that stood there to watch the procedure happen, whether it's a lawyer, whether you have the judges, whether you have your family, whether have a friend there, you gotta have a witness, and the holy spirit right now is the witness to our hearts saying that we are children of god. He's saying that if you are the one who Christ died for and you gave your life to Christ, the bible says that we were not born of the flesh. John one twelve, it tells us that we're not born of the flesh. We're not born of the will of man, but we were born of the will of God.”

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