The world often speaks of love as a fleeting feeling or a sentimental post. Yet, the love described in scripture is something far more substantial and active. It is a love that chooses patience and kindness, that refuses to keep a record of wrongs. This love is not merely an internal state but is always made visible through tangible behavior. It is the clearest indicator of a life transformed by Christ. [54:30]
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)
Reflection: Consider your most important relationship. What is one practical, loving action you could take this week that embodies the patience or kindness described in 1 Corinthians 13?
How we interact with people is not separate from our spiritual life; it is central to it. A right relationship with God should naturally lead to right relationships with others. This horizontal connection with people is a vertical reflection of the love we have received from Christ. It is the defining mark of a true disciple, showing the world to whom we belong. [56:00]
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
1 John 4:7-8 (NIV)
Reflection: Where is there a disconnect between your love for God and your love for a difficult person in your life? How might embracing God's love for you empower you to love them more authentically?
Love and truth are not opposing forces but two essential sides of the same coin. Truth without love can feel harsh and brutal, while love without truth becomes hollow and deceptive. God’s character perfectly balances both, and as we grow in spiritual maturity, we learn to hold them together in a gracious, relational way. [01:02:58]
Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.
Ephesians 4:15 (NIV)
Reflection: In your conversations, do you naturally lean more toward expressing truth or expressing love? What is one step you can take to better integrate the one you tend to neglect?
It can feel uncomfortable to speak a difficult truth to someone we care about, whether a friend, a spouse, or a child. Yet, affirming a lie or remaining silent to avoid conflict is not truly loving. Faithful, truthful words, even when they sting, are like a medicine that brings healing and restoration, guiding others toward life. [01:10:55]
Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.
Proverbs 27:6 (NIV)
Reflection: Is there a situation in your life where you have chosen comfort over courage by withholding a difficult truth? What would it look like to prayerfully and lovingly engage in that conversation this week?
We can only understand true love by looking at Jesus. He is not merely a messenger of love; He is the very personification of it. His sacrifice on the cross is the ultimate demonstration of a love that is patient, kind, and keeps no record of our wrongs. This perfect love is offered to you personally and can fill every void. [01:14:39]
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
John 3:16 (NIV)
Reflection: Do you truly believe, in the deepest part of your heart, that God loves you personally and unconditionally? What would change in your day-to-day life if you lived with the certainty of that love?
A local church opened with community updates and celebration, highlighting a Tim Tebow Foundation Night to Shine event, musical worship, and Valentine's weekend stories that pointed to a deeper question: what does love truly mean? Scripture anchors the answer. 1 Corinthians 13 provides a behavioral portrait—patient, kind, not proud, not keeping score—aimed not at romance but at a fractured church that needed corrective action. Love appears as deliberate behavior: visible, patient, protective, trusting, hopeful, and persevering. Those qualities must shape relationships inside families, congregations, and public life.
Cultural use of the word love now often strips it of moral weight, turning it into preference or sentiment. That drift pairs with a broader erosion of absolute truth; many people, including self-identified Christians, resist objective moral standards. Truth and love therefore require integration. Truth without love becomes brutal; love without truth becomes empty. Healthy spiritual maturity learns to speak truth in a tone and timing that aim for restoration rather than shaming.
Practical counsel accompanies the theology. Confrontation should aim at healing and follow careful steps: personal self-examination, motive-checking, situational awareness, and anchoring correction in Scripture rather than personal opinion. Parents receive concrete examples of balancing discipline and affection—speaking truths that protect children’s souls while holding them in grace. Admonishment functions like medicine; it may sting but seeks to restart a life.
The anchor of all definitions remains Christ. Jesus personifies love by giving himself for sinners, reconciling creation to God. Biblical love flows from a God who loved individuals long before creation and who will not be separated from them. The gospel reframes identity: worth comes from being chosen by God, not from performance or romantic filling of an inner void. Final assurances point to Romans 8: nothing in all creation can separate believers from Christ’s love. The call closes on practical obedience: receive the love that alone fills the void, and let that love propel truthful, restorative action toward others.
If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge. Stop right there. Read that again. Prophecy, mysteries, knowledge. I have faith that can move mountains. But I have not love. I am what? Nothing. Good theology with good theology with bad love is not good theology at all.
[00:57:50]
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#LoveOverDoctrine
Now, for some of you, for God so loved the world is easy. Like, you can get your head around that. Of course, he's a loving God. He made us. He he died for the world. But you struggle with the concept that he died for you. He died for you. Put your name in there.
[01:16:26]
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#JesusDiedForYou
Speaking truth is one of the most loving things you can give your children because if you don't speak truth to your kids, someone else will. But I want them to feel good. Love speaks truth. Biblical love never asks truth to step aside so a lie can feel good. No. We speak the truth in love.
[01:08:11]
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#TruthIsLove
See, biblical truth should be wrapped in love and biblical love must be anchored in truth. Why? Truth without love is brutality, but love without truth is hypocrisy. Truth without love is harsh, but love without truth is hollow. It's empty. It's saccharine. Inauthentic. Love without truth deceives, but truth without love destroys.
[01:02:51]
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#TruthAndLoveTogether
I'll say it this way. Our horizontal connection is a vertical reflection. We will not get Christianity right if we're getting love wrong. It is the defining feature of a Christ follower. There was a Christian author named Brendan Mannon, and he coined this phrase that the single greatest cause of atheism in the world was Christians.
[00:56:43]
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#LoveReflectsFaith
God is patient. The personification of love. God is kind. He does not envy. He doesn't boast. He's not proud. He doesn't dishonor others. He fits perfectly. He keeps no record of wrongs. God does not delight in evil but rejoices with What is it? And if you're struggling with how could a holy, beautiful, all powerful God love me, I will tell you there is nothing that could ever separate you from his love. He came to this earth to show his love for you and for me.
[01:20:35]
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#NothingCanSeparateUsFromLove
We are called to speak the truth in love. If someone's sharing that, ask yourself, do I want them to tell me what's killing me or just pretend everything's fine? The truth may sting, but lies will kill you slowly. True love is having the courage to confront. Admonishment is God's antibiotic.
[01:10:32]
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#AdmonishInLove
The problem is scripture doesn't say to affirm ourself. Scripture says to deny yourself, to take up your cross and to follow him. It's not some Play Doh God that we shape into whatever we want, make truth to be what we want it to be. We push back against the creator. And pushing back against, pushing back against God in defense of my truth is like yelling at a compass when it doesn't point in the direction I want it to. It may feel liberating, but if you're lost or when you find yourself in a storm, it will not lead you home. That compass is not just useless, It's incredibly dangerous.
[01:01:39]
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#GodsCompassNotCulture
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