Remember the Wells You Didn't Dig

The claim of being self made collapses as soon as ordinary life gets named honestly. A person may joke about raising himself, educating himself, making his own car, paving his own roads, building his own stores, and producing his own groceries, but that story is ridiculous. Houses, roads, water systems, language, food, teachers, doctors, books, and even Ben and Jerry’s all expose the truth. Every life is surrounded by gifts that life did not create.

Moses had already warned Israel about that danger. Deuteronomy pictures cities Israel did not build, houses Israel did not fill, wells Israel did not dig, vineyards Israel did not plant. Moses warns that a gift possessed long enough can start to feel like an achievement. The wells a person did not dig become a way of remembering the Lord, because forgetfulness turns grace into ownership.

Jesus asks the question that matters most near Caesarea Philippi, a place marked by Caesar, Philip, shrines, temples, and rival claims of authority. Peter answers, “You are the Christ, the son of the living God.” That answer is not a theology exam answer. Peter is naming the one around whom his life will be built, while standing in a world full of other voices demanding loyalty.

Jesus then names Peter as rock, but Peter is not polished granite. Peter is courageous and impulsive, faithful and fearful, perceptive and confused. The rock looks more like an irregular beach stone in a cairn, the kind that does not balance easily and can make the whole stack collapse. Yet Christ says, “I can build with this.” The miracle of the church is not that Christ finds perfect stones. Christ builds with rough edged people.

Paul shows what Christ is building. Many parts form one body, and the parts do not all have the same function. Some parts teach, serve, encourage, lead, give, or show mercy. Yet Paul’s sharper word is that each belongs to the others. “I don’t need you” makes no sense in the body of Christ, even though self sufficiency is a story the world admires.

Christian faith is personal, because no one else can answer Jesus’ question for another person. Christian faith is not private property, because Peter’s confession immediately leads to Christ building a church, and Paul’s individual gifts immediately belong inside a body. The church is not merely people worshiping in the same room. When one part grieves or struggles, that is not an interruption to the work of the church. That is the work.

Belonging is not a reward for being useful. A healthy body gives and receives. Christ does not ask first how useful a person is. Christ says, “you belong.” The wells dug by parents, teachers, friends, saints, and people who stayed become gifts to remember, and by grace, the church becomes that kind of gift for someone else.

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Key Takeaways

• 1. Remember the wells not dug [39:39] Moses names the danger of living so long with a gift that it begins to feel earned. The wells Israel did not dig become a spiritual memory aid against pride. Gratitude is not polite sentiment here, but a way of telling the truth about dependence before God. [39:39]
• 2. Christ builds with rough stones [42:36] Peter is not presented as polished, balanced, or easy to build on. His courage and confusion both belong to the story of how Christ builds the church. The comfort is not that Christ waits for flawless material, but that Christ knows how to fit irregular lives into his own work. [42:36]
• 3. Belonging is not usefulness [46:53] Paul’s body image refuses to measure people by output. A part of the body may need care, may need to receive, or may no longer do what it once did, and still belongs. Christ’s body is healthy only when giving and receiving both have dignity. [46:53]
• 4. Faith is personal, not private [44:53] Peter must answer Jesus’ question himself, but his answer immediately opens into the building of a church. Personal confession does not create private property. Christ receives individual gifts and places them inside a body where each life is given to the others.
  
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Youtube Chapters

• [00:00] - Welcome
• [34:51] - Many Parts, One Body
• [36:47] - The Myth of Self Made Life
• [38:21] - The Myth of Self Made Faith
• [39:22] - Wells Israel Did Not Dig
• [40:04] - Jesus Asks the Central Question
• [40:23] - Peter Confesses Among Rival Powers
• [41:17] - Christ Builds on Rough Stones
• [42:50] - Paul’s One Body Image
• [43:30] - Belonging to One Another
• [44:08] - The False Story of Independence
• [45:26] - The Church as Shared Life
• [46:36] - Mutual Giving and Receiving
• [47:19] - Belonging Beyond Usefulness
• [48:33] - One Body in Christ

Bible Reading

Romans 12:4-5
“Just as our bodies have many parts and each part has a special function, so it is with Christ’s body. We are many parts of one body, and we all belong to each other.” [34:51]

Matthew 16:13-18
“When Jesus came to the region of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, ‘Who do people say that the Son of Man is?’ ‘Well,’ they replied, ‘some say John the Baptist, some say Elijah, and others say Jeremiah or one of the other prophets.’ Then he asked them, ‘But who do you say I am?’ Simon Peter answered, ‘You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.’ Jesus replied, ‘You are blessed, Simon son of John, because my Father in heaven has revealed this to you. You did not learn this from any human being. Now I say to you that you are Peter (which means “rock”), and upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it.’” [40:23]

Deuteronomy 6:10-12
“The Lord your God will soon bring you into the land he swore to give you when he made a vow to your ancestors Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. It is a land with large, prosperous cities that you did not build. The houses will be richly stocked with goods you did not produce. You will draw water from cisterns you did not dig, and you will eat from vineyards and olive trees you did not plant. When you have eaten your fill, be sure to praise the Lord your God for the good land he has given you. But that is the time to be careful! Beware that in your plenty you do not forget the Lord your God and disobey his commands, regulations, and decrees that I am giving you today.” [39:22]

Observation questions

1. In Deuteronomy 6, what are the specific gifts Israel is told they will receive without making for themselves? [39:25]
2. In Matthew 16, what different answers do people give about who Jesus is, and what answer does Peter give? [40:15]
3. In Romans 12, what two things does Paul say about the church as one body: what is true about the parts, and what is true about their relationship to one another? [43:30]
4. What are some ordinary examples that show how dependent people really are on others, even when they like to think of themselves as independent? [37:27]

Interpretation questions

1. Deuteronomy warns that a gift possessed long enough can start to feel earned. Why does plenty so easily lead to forgetfulness, and what does that reveal about the human heart? [39:44]
2. Peter’s confession happens in a place full of rival claims of power and loyalty. How does that setting deepen the meaning of his words, “You are the Christ, the Son of the living God”? [40:42]
3. Jesus calls Peter “rock” even though Peter is uneven, impulsive, and inconsistent. What does that suggest about the kind of people Christ uses to build his church? [42:21]
4. Paul does not only say that Christians work alongside one another; he says they belong to one another. How is belonging to one another stronger than simply cooperating or being useful? [43:44]

Application questions

1. Where is the temptation toward a “self-made” story strongest right now—in work, family, spiritual life, or something else? What gifts, people, or “wells not dug” need to be named honestly there? [49:21]
2. Jesus’ question is personal: “Who do you say I am?” How would each person answer that today, and what in daily life shows where loyalty is actually being placed? [48:29]
3. Christ builds with rough stones, not perfect ones. What parts of a person’s life feel too irregular, weak, or unfinished to be useful to God, and how might Christ already be building with those very places? [42:36]
4. Faith is personal, but not private property. What are some ways a person can treat faith as something individual and sealed off from the body, and what would it look like to live more openly as one who belongs to others? [44:53]
5. “I don’t need you” does not make sense in the body of Christ. Is it harder right now to give help or to receive help? What makes receiving from others so difficult? [44:01]
6. Belonging is not a reward for being useful. How does a person usually measure worth—productivity, energy, competence, availability—and how does the gospel challenge that measure? [46:53]
7. Many people drank deeply from wells dug by parents, teachers, friends, and saints who made room for their faith. Who helped make room for faith, healing, or belonging, and how might that same kind of room now be made for someone else? [48:12]