Understanding that God is light and cannot tolerate sin is crucial for our fellowship with Him. Walking in the light means being sensitive to sin and repenting quickly, ensuring our relationship with God remains unbroken. When we walk in darkness, even in minor ways, it disrupts our fellowship with Him. However, if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we experience true fellowship and the cleansing power of Jesus' blood. This requires a constant awareness of our actions and thoughts, aligning them with God's holiness. [01:06]
1 John 1:7 (ESV): "But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus his Son cleanses us from all sin."
Reflection: Is there a specific area in your life where you are walking in darkness? How can you bring this into the light today through confession and repentance?
Day 2: Holiness Intertwined with Love
True holiness is inseparable from love. As we increase in love for one another, our hearts are established in holiness, preparing us for the coming of the Lord. Holiness without love is incomplete. The essence of God's light is love, and true holiness is not just about moral purity but is deeply intertwined with love. As 1 Thessalonians 3:12-13 teaches, our hearts are established in holiness as we increase and abound in love for one another. [06:17]
1 Thessalonians 3:12-13 (ESV): "And may the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all, as we do for you, so that he may establish your hearts blameless in holiness before our God and Father, at the coming of our Lord Jesus with all his saints."
Reflection: How can you intentionally increase your love for someone in your life today, thereby growing in holiness?
Day 3: Outloving Others as Our Goal
Our goal should be to outlove others, not outlive them. Jesus' life exemplifies this, as He loved deeply and sacrificially. We are called to love more than those around us, reflecting Christ's love. Jesus, who lived only 33 years, is our example. He outloved everyone, and our aim should be to love more than those around us. This love is not just a feeling but a commitment to lay down our lives for others, just as Jesus laid down His life for us. [09:18]
John 15:13 (ESV): "Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends."
Reflection: Who in your life can you show sacrificial love to today, and what specific action can you take to demonstrate this love?
Day 4: The New Commandment of Love
Jesus commands us to love one another as He loved us, which involves self-sacrifice and dying to our own desires. This love is the true mark of discipleship and is demonstrated through actions, not just words. It is not about giving gifts or saying kind words but about being willing to die to our own desires and needs for the sake of others. This kind of love is the hallmark of true discipleship. [14:50]
1 John 3:18 (ESV): "Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth."
Reflection: What is one desire or need you can set aside today to serve someone else, following Jesus' example of love?
Day 5: Relying on God's Work in Us
Our ability to love and do God's will is a result of His work in us. We must humbly acknowledge that even our desire to follow Him is a gift from God, and rely on His strength to live out His commands. Philippians 2:13 reminds us that it is God who works in us to will and to act according to His good purpose. As we rely on His strength, He will enable us to love as He loves and to live lives that are blameless and holy. [29:00]
Philippians 2:13 (ESV): "For it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure."
Reflection: In what area of your life do you need to rely more on God's strength rather than your own? How can you begin to do that today?
Sermon Summary
In 1 John 1:5, we are reminded that "God is light, and in Him, there is no darkness at all." This profound truth is foundational for our fellowship with God and with one another. To truly walk in fellowship with God, we must understand that He cannot tolerate even the smallest sin. Walking in darkness, even in minor ways, disrupts our fellowship with Him. However, if we walk in the light, as He is in the light, we experience true fellowship and the cleansing power of Jesus' blood.
The essence of God's light is love. True holiness is not just about moral purity but is deeply intertwined with love. As 1 Thessalonians 3:12-13 teaches, our hearts are established in holiness as we increase and abound in love for one another. Holiness and love are not separate; they are two sides of the same coin. To be holy is to love deeply and sacrificially, as Jesus did.
Our goal should not be to outlive others but to outlove them. Jesus, who lived only 33 years, is our example. He outloved everyone, and our aim should be to love more than those around us. This love is not just a feeling but a commitment to lay down our lives for others, just as Jesus laid down His life for us. It involves dying to ourselves and putting others first, especially within our families and church communities.
In John 13:34, Jesus gives us a new commandment: to love one another as He has loved us. This love is demonstrated through sacrifice and self-denial. It is not about giving gifts or saying kind words but about being willing to die to our own desires and needs for the sake of others. This kind of love is the hallmark of true discipleship.
Finally, we must recognize that our ability to love and do God's will is not of our own making. Philippians 2:13 reminds us that it is God who works in us to will and to act according to His good purpose. We must humbly acknowledge that even our desire to do God's will is a gift from Him. As we rely on His strength, He will enable us to love as He loves and to live lives that are blameless and holy.
Key Takeaways
1. God's Light and Our Fellowship: Understanding that God is light and cannot tolerate sin is crucial for our fellowship with Him. Walking in the light means being sensitive to sin and repenting quickly, ensuring our relationship with God remains unbroken. [01:06]
2. Holiness and Love: True holiness is inseparable from love. As we increase in love for one another, our hearts are established in holiness, preparing us for the coming of the Lord. Holiness without love is incomplete. [06:17]
3. Outloving, Not Outliving: Our goal should be to outlove others, not outlive them. Jesus' life exemplifies this, as He loved deeply and sacrificially. We are called to love more than those around us, reflecting Christ's love. [09:18]
4. The New Commandment of Love: Jesus commands us to love one another as He loved us, which involves self-sacrifice and dying to our own desires. This love is the true mark of discipleship and is demonstrated through actions, not just words. [14:50]
5. God's Work in Us: Our ability to love and do God's will is a result of His work in us. We must humbly acknowledge that even our desire to follow Him is a gift from God, and rely on His strength to live out His commands. [29:00] ** [29:00]
According to 1 John 1:5, what is the nature of God, and how does this affect our fellowship with Him? [01:06]
In 1 Thessalonians 3:12-13, what is the relationship between love and holiness? How does increasing in love prepare us for the coming of the Lord? [06:17]
What new commandment does Jesus give in John 13:34, and how is it different from the Old Testament commandment to love your neighbor as yourself? [14:50]
How does the sermon describe the way Jesus demonstrated His love for us, and what does this imply about how we should love others? [15:06]
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Interpretation Questions:
What does it mean to "walk in the light" as described in 1 John 1:7, and how does this relate to our sensitivity to sin? [03:28]
How does the concept of "outloving" others, as mentioned in the sermon, challenge the typical goals we set for ourselves in life? [09:18]
In what ways does the sermon suggest that our ability to love and do God's will is dependent on God's work within us, as seen in Philippians 2:13? [29:00]
How does the sermon explain the connection between love and discipline, and why is this important for understanding true love in a Christian context? [19:21]
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Application Questions:
Reflect on a time when you ignored a small sin in your life. How did it affect your relationship with God, and what steps can you take to be more sensitive to sin in the future? [02:07]
Consider the relationships in your life where love is lacking. What practical steps can you take to increase and abound in love for those individuals, as encouraged in 1 Thessalonians 3:12? [06:33]
Jesus calls us to love one another as He loved us, which involves self-sacrifice. Identify one area in your life where you can practice this sacrificial love this week. [15:06]
The sermon emphasizes the importance of "outloving" others rather than "outliving" them. How can you shift your focus from personal achievements to loving others more deeply? [09:18]
Think about a recent situation where you felt offended by someone. How can you apply the principle of dying to yourself in that relationship to demonstrate Christ-like love? [17:28]
The sermon mentions that God's love includes discipline. How can you embrace correction and discipline in your life as a sign of God's love and a path to growth? [19:21]
Reflect on the idea that even our desire to do God's will is a gift from Him. How can this understanding change the way you approach your spiritual growth and reliance on God? [29:00]
Sermon Clips
First of all, he says that the reason we are proclaiming this to you in verse 3 is that you might have fellowship with the Father and with us, you know, fellowship with God and fellowship with one another in the church. That is the purpose of all Christian teaching: fellowship with the Father and fellowship with one another. [00:00:34]
If you say you have fellowship with him and walk in darkness, that means there are... What is the meaning of walking in darkness? It's not that they are murdering people or committing adultery every day. It just means some small little thing in your life, which you know is sin, you ignore it. You ignore it by saying, "Oh, that's not serious." [00:01:55]
May the Lord, verse 12, cause you to increase and abound in love for one another and for all people, just as we do for you. Then he'll be able to establish your heart without blame in holiness. We think of holiness and love as two different things, but this verse teaches us if you don't love, you're not holy. [00:05:49]
Our goal as Christians must not be to outlive others but to outlove them. That means not that we live longer than them, but we love more than they do. Whatever the level of love people around us have, our love is more. That is outloving people. [00:09:18]
A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another as I have loved you, that you love one another. By this, all men will know you're my disciples if you have love for one another, not because you meet in a church, not because you carry a Bible, not because you hang a cross around your neck. [00:12:04]
Jesus' love for us was not shown in giving us a lot of earthly gifts or... We love people by visiting them and praying for them. That's not how Jesus showed his love for us. He showed his love for us by the most costly way possible. He died in order to save us. [00:16:06]
In your love for others, you must be willing to die to yourself, and I want to say to you that's a very high standard. Your love for others in your family must be one where you don't think of yourself and your needs first. You die to yourself and love your wife. [00:16:35]
Those whom the Lord loves, he rebukes and not only rebukes but disciplines. I have experienced discipline from the Lord, and I ask the Lord. I have never questioned discipline because I know that's a mark of his love. My younger days probably I didn't understand it, but I know it clearly. [00:21:41]
May the Lord cause you to increase in love for one another and for all people. That means begin with one another, then go to the outer circle of others as well. Increase and abound in love, and the part I wanted to show you is that first part: may the Lord cause you. [00:26:30]
God is at work inside you. Whenever you read in the New Testament that God is at work inside you, it's the work of the Holy Spirit. Outside, God the Father works all things for our good. That's his work. Inside us, the Holy Spirit works to do what? First of all, to choose God's will and second, to do God's will. [00:28:51]
Do you humbly acknowledge that it is not you but God who put that desire in you? You've got to be very arrogant and proud to think that you desire to do God's will. Absolute nonsense. Why is it people in your family don't have a passion to do God's will like you have? [00:29:56]
May the Lord cause you to abound in love. Trust the Lord to do it. The Lord who gave you that desire, if you're humble enough to acknowledge that even the desire came from God, then God will give you grace to actually do it. Lord, I've come to do your will. [00:34:04]