Walking in Destiny: Overcoming Pride Through Identity in Christ
Summary
In our journey with Christ, we are called to live lives that are not just joy-filled but also adventure-filled, guided by the Holy Spirit. The Spirit searches our hearts, revealing areas of pride, insecurity, and inferiority, exposing the lies of the enemy so that we can walk in God's truth. This enables us to stop merely dreaming and start walking in the destiny God has for us.
The enemy, Satan, is strategic in his attacks. He waits until we are tired, hungry, weak, and vulnerable. He did the same with Jesus, tempting Him when He was most susceptible. The enemy's primary weapon is doubt and confusion, aiming to steal our identity. When we forget who we are, we open the door to pride, insecurity, and insufficiency, allowing the enemy to wreak havoc in our lives.
The cure for pride is an identity built on truth. Like the wise builder in Scripture, we must build our lives on the solid rock of God's truth. Storms will come, but a life founded on the Rock will stand firm. Our identity is not given by the world, and thus, it cannot be taken by the world. We are blood-bought children of Jesus Christ, and this identity is not based on our actions but on what He has done for us. The gospel is a story of Jesus' love for us, leaving no room for pride.
We must recognize that we are recipients of God's love, regardless of what others say about us. We are loved, chosen, forgiven, redeemed, and we are the righteousness of God because of Jesus' sacrifice. This truth empowers us to live humbly and gratefully, worshiping God for His love and grace.
As we embark on a series studying the life of Joseph, we understand that to move from dreaming to walking in our destiny, we must pass certain tests, the first being the Pride test. Pride is deceptive and destructive, setting us in opposition to God. We must identify pride in our lives by listening to ourselves and examining whether we are the center of our dreams and plans. Joseph's story teaches us that the purpose of our lives is not to be exalted but to serve God's greater plan.
Key Takeaways:
- The enemy preys on our vulnerabilities, but our defense lies in knowing the truth of God's Word and our identity in Christ. When we are rooted in truth, we can withstand the enemy's attacks. [49:33]
- Pride is a symptom of lost identity. Behind a prideful exterior often lies a person struggling with feelings of inadequacy. By finding our security in Christ, we eliminate the need for external validation and the foothold pride has in our lives.
- Our identity must be anchored in the unchanging truth of who we are in Jesus. This identity is not based on our achievements or the opinions of others but on the eternal love and redemption found in Christ.
- The story of Joseph reminds us that our dreams and aspirations should align with God's purpose for our lives, not our own glorification. We must be willing to serve His plan, even when it means setting aside our pride.
- Living a life free from pride involves a heart of thankfulness and worship. Recognizing the magnitude of God's grace towards us leaves no room for self-exaltation but leads to a life of humble service and praise.
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Genesis 37:3-11
2. James 4:6
3. Matthew 4:1-11
#### Observation Questions
1. In Genesis 37:3-4, why did Joseph's brothers hate him? How did their feelings towards him change after he shared his dreams? [12:38]
2. According to James 4:6, what is God's stance towards the proud and the humble? [16:15]
3. In Matthew 4:1-11, how did Satan attempt to tempt Jesus, and what was his primary tactic? [27:44]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does Joseph's reaction to his dreams and his brothers' hatred illustrate the concept of pride? [12:38]
2. What does James 4:6 imply about the consequences of pride in our relationship with God? [16:15]
3. How does Jesus' response to Satan's temptations in Matthew 4:1-11 demonstrate the importance of knowing and standing on God's truth? [29:07]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt prideful. How did it affect your relationships and your walk with God? [16:15]
2. How can you identify areas of pride in your life? What steps can you take to address them? [17:31]
3. In what ways can you build your identity on the truth of who you are in Christ rather than on external validation? [29:47]
4. How can you ensure that your dreams and aspirations align with God's purpose for your life, rather than your own glorification? [25:08]
5. Think of a specific situation where you felt insecure or inadequate. How can you remind yourself of your identity in Christ in such moments? [26:22]
6. How can you cultivate a heart of thankfulness and worship in your daily life, recognizing God's grace and love towards you? [36:14]
7. Identify one area in your life where you feel vulnerable to the enemy's attacks. How can you use God's truth to defend yourself in that area? [27:44]
Devotional
Day 1: Truth Overcomes Vulnerability
In the spiritual battle, one's vulnerabilities can become the very chinks in the armor through which the enemy strikes. It is in these moments of weakness—when one is tired, hungry, or feeling alone—that doubts and confusion can cloud the mind. However, the truth of God's Word serves as the ultimate defense. By immersing oneself in Scripture and embracing the identity as a child of God, one can stand firm against the enemy's tactics. This identity in Christ is not a fleeting title; it is a core truth that provides strength and stability, regardless of the circumstances. It is essential to remember that this identity is not earned but is a gift, bestowed through the grace and love of Jesus Christ. [49:33]
Ephesians 6:13-14 (ESV)
"Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness,"
Reflection: What specific vulnerability is the enemy using to attack you, and how can you apply the truth of God's Word to stand firm against it?
Day 2: The Antidote to Pride
Pride often masks a deep-seated sense of inadequacy. It is a deceptive force that can lead one to seek validation from the wrong sources. Yet, when one finds security in Christ, the need for external approval dissipates. This security is rooted in the understanding that one's worth comes from being a beloved child of God, redeemed and chosen. It is not contingent on achievements or the fluctuating opinions of others. By recognizing this, pride loses its grip, and a life of humility and gratitude can flourish. This shift in perspective allows for a life that celebrates God's grace rather than one's own accomplishments. [07:40]
1 Peter 5:5-6 (ESV)
"Likewise, you who are younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.' Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you,"
Reflection: In what ways have you sought validation from others, and how can you start finding your worth in your identity in Christ instead?
Day 3: Anchored in Eternal Identity
The world offers many identities, each as unstable as the next, but the identity found in Jesus is unchanging and eternal. It is not based on personal achievements or the ever-changing opinions of society. Instead, it is anchored in the love and redemption that Jesus provides. This identity is a firm foundation, a solid rock upon which one can build a life that withstands the storms of life. When one truly grasps this concept, life takes on new meaning, and actions are driven by the desire to honor God rather than to seek personal glory. [07:40]
Colossians 3:3 (ESV)
"For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God."
Reflection: How does understanding your identity in Christ change the way you view your life's purpose and direction?
Day 4: Dreams Aligned with Divine Purpose
The story of Joseph is a powerful reminder that personal dreams and aspirations should be in harmony with God's greater plan. It is not about seeking self-exaltation but about serving a purpose that transcends individual glory. This requires setting aside pride and embracing a role in the grand narrative that God is writing. It is a call to humility, to recognize that one's true calling may not always align with personal ambitions but will always contribute to the unfolding of God's kingdom on earth. [07:40]
Proverbs 19:21 (ESV)
"Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand."
Reflection: What personal ambition do you need to surrender to better serve God's plan for your life?
Day 5: A Heart of Worship and Thankfulness
Living free from pride is not merely about avoiding arrogance; it is about cultivating a heart of worship and thankfulness. Recognizing the magnitude of God's grace and love naturally leads to a life of humble service and praise. It is about acknowledging that everything one has is a gift from God and that the appropriate response is gratitude, not self-congratulation. This perspective fosters a spirit of worship that permeates every aspect of life, turning every action into an offering to God. [07:40]
James 4:6-7 (ESV)
"But he gives more grace. Therefore it says, 'God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.' Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."
Reflection: How can you cultivate a daily practice of thankfulness and worship as a response to God's grace in your life?
Quotes
1) "The truth has already told me that I'm loved, that I'm called, that I'm chosen, no matter what I feel like. He's already told me that I am forgiven, that I'm redeemed, that I have been bought with the blood of Jesus Christ." [32:28] (Download)
2) "The world didn't give me my identity and if the world didn't give it to me, the world can't take it away from me. I'm a blood-bought child of Jesus Christ." [34:40] (Download)
3) "The gospel isn't a story about how good you are, it's a story about how good He is. The gospel isn't a story about how much you love Jesus, it's a story about how much Jesus loves you." [35:22] (Download)
4) "You are a blood-bought loved child of the most high God. That's who you are, friends. And when you accept that truth, it doesn't leave a lot of place for pride." [36:14] (Download)
5) "The enemy knows the Bible better than some of us know the Bible. His goal is to steal your identity because then he can make you forget who you are." [29:07] (Download)
6) "The cure for pride in your life is you have to have an identity built on truth. You got to be like the wise builder that built his house on the rock." [29:47] (Download)
7) "The massive problem with that mindset is that your story only has room for one hero, and it's not supposed to be you. The hero of your story is supposed to be Him." [24:27] (Download)
8) "Behind a prideful exterior often lies a person struggling with feelings of inadequacy. By finding our security in Christ, we eliminate the need for external validation." [26:22] (Download)
9) "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble. Pride sets us in opposition to God and what He's trying to accomplish." [16:51] (Download)
10) "Joseph's story teaches us that the purpose of our lives is not to be exalted but to serve God's greater plan." [25:08] (Download)