Children are not just the future of the church—they are a vital part of God’s kingdom today. When Jesus’ disciples tried to keep children away, thinking perhaps they were protecting His dignity or image, Jesus responded with indignation, insisting, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.” This reveals God’s heart: children are to be treasured, protected, included, instructed, and even learned from.
Treasure children not only for who they may become, but for who they are right now. Their value is not in their potential, but in their personhood. Jesus calls us to see children as He does—precious, worthy of honor, and deeply loved. Our treatment of children should reflect the value God places on them.
Protection is another key responsibility. Jesus’ warning is sobering: it would be better to be thrown into the sea with a millstone around your neck than to cause a child to stumble. This calls for honest self-examination—are there words, attitudes, or behaviors in our lives that could harm a child, even unintentionally? We are called to be vigilant, to be shields and defenders for the children God has placed in our lives.
Inclusion is essential. Our spiritual lives can become so private that children never witness our faith in action. Jesus invites us to bring children along in our walk with Him, making faith a visible, shared journey. This means involving them in prayer, scripture reading, and acts of service, and ensuring they are surrounded by a community of godly adults.
Instruction is a sacred trust. The world will not teach our children the ways of God; that responsibility rests with us. We are to impress God’s truth on their hearts, not just in formal settings, but in the everyday rhythms of life—at home, on the road, at bedtime, and in the morning.
Finally, we are to learn from children. Jesus says that unless we become like little children—humble, dependent, and trusting—we cannot enter the kingdom of God. Children remind us of the posture we must have before God: not one of leverage or entitlement, but of simple, dependent trust.
As we walk with Jesus, let us bring the kids—treasuring, protecting, including, instructing, and learning from them. In doing so, we reflect the very heart of God’s kingdom.
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Key Takeaways
- 1. Treasure Children for Who They Are Today Children are not merely valuable for their future potential, but for their present personhood. God treasures them as they are, and we are called to honor and value them in the same way, seeing their worth through His eyes rather than through the lens of what they might become. This challenges us to be present and attentive to the children in our lives, affirming their significance now. [05:26]
- 2. Guard Against Causing Harm, Even Unintentionally Jesus’ warning about causing a child to stumble is a call to deep self-examination. It is not enough to assume we are harmless; we must actively seek out blind spots in our words, attitudes, and behaviors that could negatively impact a child. This includes inviting trusted others to speak into our lives, ensuring that our influence is always life-giving and protective. [10:59]
- 3. Make Faith Visible and Shared, Not Just Private Our spiritual practices should not be hidden from the next generation. Children need to see faith lived out—prayer, scripture reading, and worship should be normalized and shared experiences. By involving children in these rhythms, we help them see that faith is not just a private matter, but a communal journey in which they fully belong. [18:04]
- 4. Take Personal Responsibility for Spiritual Formation The primary responsibility for a child’s spiritual growth rests with those closest to them, especially parents and caregivers. While the church and Christian community play vital roles, we must not abdicate our calling to impress God’s truth on the hearts of our children. This means being intentional, consistent, and proactive in teaching and modeling the ways of God. [26:38]
- 5. Embrace Childlike Humility and Trust in Our Own Walk with God Jesus teaches that greatness in God’s kingdom is found in becoming like a child—humble, dependent, and trusting. As adults, it is easy to lose this posture, relying on our own merits or status. We are called to return to a simple, childlike faith, recognizing our utter dependence on God and learning from the very ones we are called to lead. [31:03]
Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [01:04] - How Big Is Big Enough?
- [01:48] - Jesus’ Indignation and Invitation
- [03:02] - Setting Aside the Lord’s Prayer
- [03:57] - Why Did the Disciples Block the Children?
- [05:26] - Treasuring Children: Value and Personhood
- [09:13] - Protecting Children: Jesus’ Warning
- [12:50] - Angels, Children, and Heaven’s Courtroom
- [14:51] - Including Children in Our Walk with Jesus
- [18:04] - Six Ways to Spiritually Nurture Children
- [25:57] - The World’s Influence vs. God’s Instruction
- [27:34] - Whose Responsibility Is Spiritual Formation?
- [28:35] - Learning from Children: Humility and Trust
- [31:03] - Recovering Childlike Faith
- [33:06] - Are Children Big Enough in My Eyes?
- [34:00] - Prayer of Commitment
- [35:29] - Reflective Questions and Closing Song