Unpacking Worry: Trusting God Over Control
Summary
As we continue reflecting on the “summer baggage” we carry, it’s clear that our lives are often weighed down not just by physical possessions, but by the emotional and spiritual burdens we pack along the way. The story of my cramped honeymoon road trip in a convertible, and the eventual relief of switching to a minivan, is a lighthearted reminder of how we try to fit everything—our plans, our worries, our “what ifs”—into the limited space of our lives. We love our stuff, and we love our plans, but beneath it all, there’s often a current of worry: the fear that we won’t have what we need, that we won’t be enough, or that we’re not in control.
Jesus’ words in Matthew 6 challenge us to examine the weight of our worry. He invites us to look at the birds and the lilies—not because they are passive, but because they live within the design of their Creator, trusting in provision rather than obsessing over control. This isn’t a call to irresponsibility or passivity, but an invitation to trade the illusion of control for a deeper trust in God’s care. Worry, after all, doesn’t make us more prepared; it just makes us tired and distracts us from the present moment and the opportunities God places before us.
It’s tempting to think that if we just worry enough, plan enough, or control enough, we can secure the outcomes we desire. But Jesus reminds us that worry cannot add a single hour to our lives. Instead, we are called to take the “next faithful step”—to do what we can today, and trust God with the rest. Faith is not a surrender of effort, but a surrender of control. We are not asked to “let go and do nothing,” but to let go of self-reliance and invite God into every part of our journey.
As summer winds down, it’s a good time to ask: What fears are weighing us down? What plans are we clinging to out of anxiety rather than trust? Jesus offers us something better than control—he offers us peace, presence, and the assurance that God sees, knows, and provides for us. Our task is to unpack the burdens that don’t belong to us, and to trust God more deeply with each step we take.
Key Takeaways
- Worry is the Heaviest Baggage
Worry often masquerades as preparation or responsibility, but in reality, it is the heaviest burden we carry. It drains our energy, clouds our perspective, and keeps us focused on worst-case scenarios rather than the present moment. Jesus’ invitation is not to shame us for worrying, but to free us from the illusion that worry equals control. [18:01]
- The Illusion of Control vs. Trusting God
We often act as if we are in charge of holding the universe together, believing that if we just plan or worry enough, we can secure the outcomes we want. Yet, true faith is not about giving up effort, but about surrendering the need to control every detail. God calls us to live in partnership, not passivity, trusting that God is already at work ahead of us. [32:18]
- Faith is a Surrender of Control, Not Effort
The phrase “let go and let God” can be misleading if it encourages passivity or avoidance. Biblical faith is about inviting God into our decisions, actions, and struggles, not about doing nothing. We are called to take the next faithful step, to act with wisdom and courage, and to trust God with the outcomes we cannot control. [40:36]
- Naming and Releasing Our “What Ifs”
Our emotional baggage is often filled with “what ifs”—fears about the future, our adequacy, and the well-being of those we love. Rather than running from these worries or letting them paralyze us, we are invited to name them honestly before God, grieve what needs grieving, and then move forward with hope, taking the next faithful step. [29:30]
- God’s Presence and Provision Are Constant
Even when we don’t know the details of tomorrow, we know the One who holds tomorrow. God sees us, knows us, and provides for us—not always in the ways we expect, but always with love and faithfulness. Our peace comes not from having all the answers, but from trusting that God is with us in every season and every step. [26:31]
Youtube Chapters
[00:00] - Welcome
[01:10] - Summer Baggage: Packing Stories
[05:45] - The Honeymoon Convertible Adventure
[12:30] - The Minivan Revelation
[15:05] - Our Love of “Stuff” and What We Carry
[16:49] - The Weight of Worry
[18:01] - Worry as the Heaviest Baggage
[18:45] - Jesus’ Words on Worry (Matthew 6)
[20:25] - Wrestling with Jesus’ Challenge
[25:03] - The Human Condition: “What If I’m Not Enough?”
[26:31] - God’s Presence and Provision
[29:30] - The Next Faithful Step
[32:18] - The Illusion of Control
[35:56] - Living Within God’s Design
[40:36] - Faith: Surrender of Control, Not Effort
[43:41] - Packing Light: Trusting More
[45:59] - Communion and Prayer
[57:05] - Blessing and Sending Forth
Study Guide
Small Group Bible Study Guide: “Summer Baggage: The Weight of Worry”
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### Bible Reading
Matthew 6:25–34 (ESV)
25 “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?
26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?
27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?
28 And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin,
29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these.
30 But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith?
31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’
32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.
33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
34 “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.”
Proverbs 3:5–6 (ESV)
5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.
6 In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.
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### Observation Questions
1. According to Jesus in Matthew 6, what are some of the specific things people tend to worry about? ([18:45])
2. What examples from nature does Jesus use to illustrate his point about worry and trust? ([18:45])
3. In the sermon, what was the significance of the story about the cramped convertible and the minivan? ([12:30])
4. What does Proverbs 3:5–6 say about the way we should approach our plans and understanding?
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### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus tells his followers not to worry about basic needs like food and clothing? What is he trying to teach about God’s character? ([19:21])
2. The sermon suggests that worry is “the heaviest baggage” we carry. In what ways can worry disguise itself as responsibility or preparation? ([18:01])
3. The phrase “let go and let God” is discussed in the sermon. Why might this phrase be unhelpful or even misleading if misunderstood? ([40:36])
4. The pastor talks about “the next faithful step.” What does it mean to take the next faithful step instead of trying to control every outcome? ([29:30])
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### Application Questions
1. The sermon asks, “What fears are weighing you down?” Take a moment to name one or two specific worries or “what ifs” that you’ve been carrying lately. How do these affect your daily life or relationships? ([45:29])
2. When you find yourself planning or preparing, how can you tell the difference between healthy responsibility and anxious control? Can you think of a recent example where you crossed that line? ([16:49])
3. Jesus invites us to “seek first the kingdom of God.” What might it look like for you to put God’s kingdom and righteousness first in a situation you’re currently facing? ([19:21])
4. The sermon says, “Faith is not a surrender of effort, it’s a surrender of control.” Is there an area of your life where you need to stop trying to control the outcome and instead invite God in? What would it look like to do that this week? ([40:36])
5. The pastor shared that sometimes the next faithful step is as simple as taking a nap, calling a friend, or taking a break. What is one small, faithful step you could take this week to move forward in trust rather than worry? ([31:16])
6. Have you ever tried to “let go and let God” by doing nothing, only to find that it didn’t help? How might you practice partnership with God instead of passivity? ([39:12])
7. The sermon ends with the idea that Jesus offers us something better than control—peace and presence. What is one practical way you can remind yourself of God’s presence and provision when you start to feel anxious? ([45:29])
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Closing Prayer Suggestion:
Invite group members to pray, naming their worries before God and asking for the courage to take the next faithful step, trusting in God’s presence and provision.
Devotional
Day 1: Trade Worry for Trust
Worry is the heaviest baggage we carry, often weighing us down with endless “what ifs” and robbing us of the present moment. Jesus invites us to trade this burden for trust, reminding us that our heavenly Father knows our needs and cares for us deeply. Instead of letting worry consume us, we are called to trust that God sees, knows, and provides for us, even when the future feels uncertain. This trust doesn’t mean ignoring our concerns, but rather releasing the illusion that worry gives us control and choosing to rest in God’s faithful care. [19:52]
Matthew 6:25-34 (Common English Bible)
“Therefore, I say to you, don’t worry about your life, what you’ll eat or what you’ll drink, or about your body, what you’ll wear. Isn’t life more than food and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds in the sky. They don’t sow seed or harvest grain or gather crops into barns, yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you worth much more than they are? Who among you by worrying can add a single moment to your life? And why do you worry about clothes? Notice how the lilies in the field grow. They don’t wear themselves out with work, and they don’t spin cloth. But I say to you that even Solomon in all his splendor wasn’t dressed like one of these. If God dresses grass in the field so beautifully, even though it’s alive today and tomorrow it’s thrown into the furnace, won’t God do much more for you, you people of weak faith? Therefore, don’t worry and say, ‘What are we going to eat?’ or ‘What are we going to drink?’ or ‘What are we going to wear?’ Gentiles long for all these things. Your heavenly Father knows that you need them. Instead, desire first and foremost God’s kingdom and God’s righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore, stop worrying about tomorrow, because tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.”
Reflection: What is one specific worry you are carrying today that you can name before God and intentionally choose to trust Him with, even if just for this moment?
Day 2: The Next Faithful Step
When we are overwhelmed by uncertainty or fear, God doesn’t expect us to have the whole journey mapped out. Instead, we are invited to take the next faithful step—whatever that looks like in our current reality. This might mean making a small decision, reaching out for help, or simply resting when needed. Faith is not about having all the answers, but about moving forward with God, one step at a time, trusting that He is with us and will guide us through each moment. [31:16]
Psalm 119:105 (ESV)
“Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
Reflection: What is one “next faithful step” you sense God inviting you to take today, no matter how small or ordinary it may seem?
Day 3: We Worry Because We Think We’re in Charge
Many of us live as if everything depends on us, carrying the weight of the world and believing that if we just work harder or worry more, we can control the outcome. Yet, this mindset only leads to exhaustion and anxiety. God gently reminds us that we are not meant to hold everything together; instead, we are called to trust in His wisdom and lean not on our own understanding. True peace comes when we surrender our need for control and invite God into every part of our lives. [38:31]
Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
Reflection: Where in your life are you holding on to control? What would it look like to invite God into that area and trust Him with the outcome?
Day 4: Faith Is Partnership, Not Passivity
Faith is not about giving up or doing nothing; it’s about partnering with God in every circumstance. The Bible shows us that God’s people are called to act, to make wise choices, and to keep moving forward, even when the path is unclear. Letting go is not a surrender of effort, but a surrender of control—choosing to trust God enough to keep taking steps, even when we don’t have all the answers. God desires to walk with us, strengthening and guiding us as we participate in His work. [40:36]
Philippians 2:12-13 (ESV)
“Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.”
Reflection: In what area of your life do you need to move from passivity to partnership with God, taking action while trusting Him with the results?
Day 5: Packing Light Means Trusting More
To “pack light” for the journey of life means letting go of the burdens of fear, self-reliance, and the illusion of control, and instead choosing to trust God more deeply. Jesus offers us something better than control—He offers us peace, hope, and the assurance that we are not alone. As we enter new seasons, we are invited to unpack what weighs us down and make space for God’s presence, trusting that He will provide what we need for today and walk with us into tomorrow. [45:29]
Isaiah 26:3-4 (ESV)
“You keep him in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on you, because he trusts in you. Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an everlasting rock.”
Reflection: What is one fear, plan, or burden you can “unpack” today, making room for God’s peace and hope to fill you as you trust Him for the journey ahead?
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