True repentance is not merely feeling regret or remorse over our actions or their consequences, but recognizing that our sin is ultimately against God Himself. This realization brings a "godly sorrow" that leads to genuine change, as seen in the story of the prodigal son who confessed, "Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you." When we understand that it is God's laws we have broken, His love we have refused, and His mercy we desperately need, repentance becomes a heartfelt turning toward God, not just an emotional response to our mistakes. [02:47]
Luke 15:17-21 (ESV)
"But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’ And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’"
Reflection: Is there an area of your life where you have only felt regret or remorse, but not truly recognized how it has grieved God? How might acknowledging this before God change your response today?
Repentance is not a vague or general feeling of guilt, but a deliberate act of naming specific sins and taking responsibility for them. Confession means owning up to particular choices and actions without making excuses or blaming others. This honest admission brings our sins into the light, allowing God’s forgiveness to reach us and restoring our dignity as responsible human beings. When we confess our sins one by one, we acknowledge our choices and open ourselves to true transformation. [12:39]
1 John 1:9 (ESV)
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Reflection: What is one specific sin or wrong choice you need to name before God today, taking full responsibility for it without excuse or blame?
Genuine repentance is demonstrated not just by words or feelings, but by concrete actions that put things right where possible. This may mean making restitution, renouncing sinful habits, or changing patterns of behavior. As John the Baptist and Paul both taught, true repentance produces visible fruit—actions that show a real turning away from sin and a commitment to live differently. Repentance is not complete until it is lived out in practical, sometimes difficult, steps of obedience. [17:43]
Acts 26:20 (ESV)
"But declared first to those in Damascus, then in Jerusalem and throughout all the region of Judea, and also to the Gentiles, that they should repent and turn to God, performing deeds in keeping with their repentance."
Reflection: Is there a practical step you need to take today to demonstrate your repentance—such as making restitution, seeking forgiveness, or changing a habit?
Repentance is a serious matter that cannot be taken lightly, and a healthy fear of the Lord helps us grasp its importance. Understanding the consequences of living apart from God—becoming "perished" and ultimately useless to Him—should sober us and move us to genuine repentance. Jesus Himself warned us to fear God, who alone has authority over our eternal destiny. This reverent fear is the beginning of wisdom and the foundation for true repentance. [26:13]
Matthew 10:28 (ESV)
"And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell."
Reflection: How does considering the eternal consequences of your choices affect your attitude toward repentance today? Is there an area where a holy fear of God needs to shape your response?
While repentance calls for specific confession and practical deeds, it also requires wisdom and common sense in both our emotions and actions. Not every wrong can be put right, and sometimes our feelings of guilt are out of proportion to the actual sin. We must distinguish between psychological guilt and true moral guilt, seeking to address what we are truly responsible for. Sensible repentance means doing what is possible to make amends, without being overwhelmed by what cannot be changed, and trusting God’s grace for the rest. [33:30]
Philippians 3:13-14 (ESV)
"Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus."
Reflection: Are you carrying guilt over something you cannot change or put right? What would it look like to take sensible, proportionate action today and then trust God with what is beyond your control?
Repentance is the essential first step in entering the kingdom of God, yet it is often misunderstood or neglected. Many confuse repentance with regret or remorse—feeling sorry for what we’ve done to ourselves or to others. True repentance, however, is a recognition of what we have done to God: breaking His laws, rejecting His love, provoking His anger, and needing His mercy. This “God dimension” transforms mere sorrow into the godly sorrow that leads to real change.
Repentance is not a vague, general feeling but a specific, threefold process involving thought, word, and deed. It begins with a change of mind—seeing ourselves and God as we truly are. When we think God’s way, we realize not only the depth of our sin but also that even our best deeds fall short of His holiness. Our righteousness, as Isaiah and Paul bluntly state, is as offensive to God as our sins. This humbling realization strips away all self-justification and brings us to the truth about ourselves.
The next step is confession—naming our sins specifically, not hiding behind generalities or excuses. Confession brings our darkness into the light, making us accountable and responsible for our choices. It is not enough to blame our upbringing or circumstances; we are shaped by how we respond to what happens to us. True confession acknowledges our responsibility and renounces the sins we name.
Finally, repentance must be demonstrated in deeds. John the Baptist and Paul both insisted that repentance be proven by actions—putting right what can be put right, making restitution, and breaking with the past. This practical outworking is often neglected, but it is essential. Repentance is not complete until it is lived out, sometimes requiring difficult decisions and costly obedience.
Helping others to repent means guiding them to be serious, specific, and sensible. We must help them grasp the seriousness of perishing apart from God, be specific about their sins, and be sensible about what can and cannot be put right. Repentance is not a quick or easy process, but it is the only path to forgiveness and new life.
The very first step of entering the kingdom has always been repent. The tragedy is so many people are becoming Christians today without repenting that God is having to tell Christians to repent in this country. He shouldn't need to be telling Christians to repent. The church should be telling the world to repent. Instead, if you're hearing from God you know that He's telling the church Christians in Britain to repent and catch up on what they should have done years ago. [00:00:26]
Repentance has this unique feature that repentance is what you feel you have done to God. Now that's quite different from regret and remorse. Suddenly you realize, it's God I have hurt most. Like the prodigal son realized it wasn't just his father he'd hurt, he said, Father I've sinned against you and against heaven. As soon as that heaven dimension comes in, and you realize it's God you hurt most, and you realize it's God's laws you broke, it's God's love you refused, it's God's anger you've provoked, it's God's judgment you deserve, it's God's mercy you need. As soon as this God dimension enters in, it becomes what Paul calls it, the godly sorrow that leads to repentance. [00:02:31]
Repentance is always repentance of particular sins. You can't repent of general sins. You can only repent of this and this and this. And that involves these three steps. It involves first of all changing your mind about particular things and thinking God's way about them. [00:05:39]
When you repent, your thoughts take a somersault. When you catch at limps of His holiness and His purity, you begin to realize how mucky you are, and you have a much lower view of yourself. In fact, the higher your view of God, the lower your view of yourself. [00:06:52]
It comes as a shock to many people when they realize in their mind that the best things they've ever done are not good enough for God, and that our righteousness has to be repented of as well as our sin, that our good deeds as well as our bad deeds need to be put away. Now what a revolution that is. [00:07:45]
To come to yourself means finally to strip away all the covering and get to the real truth of your condition. The interesting thing is, the closer you get to God, the worse you feel. The more you understand how good he is, the more you realize how bad you are. and realizing that, thinking that way, is the first major step. [00:10:11]
If you'd gone to John the Baptist and asked for baptism, he would have said, then before you go into the water, make a public confession of your sins. They insisted on that. You look up how many times in the New Testament it says, confess your sin to one another. [00:10:56]
It's so easy to blame someone else for my hang -ups, and to say, well it was my parents and what they did to me. It was what happened to me as a child. To say, I need healing. I don't need forgiveness, I need healing. But listen, we are not the result of what's been done to us. We are the result of what we've done about what's been done to us. [00:13:05]
If I'm bitter, it's because I've chosen to resent what was done to me, rather than forgive it. In fact, I really believe that more people are in need of repentance than inner healing, though there's still a place for that where the Holy Spirit can go back and sort out a problem from early years. But the basic need...of mankind is not for inner healing but for repentance that makes it possible for God to forgive. [00:13:34]
We are all the result of our choice and to treat someone as responsible for what they've done is to treat them with the dignity of a human being. They are not a Pavlovian dog. You're saying to someone, you are a human being. You have the will to choose. You have chosen. [00:14:14]
If we confess our sins, not our sin, if we confess our sins, which means name them one by one just as you do your blessings, then He is faithful and just to forgive each one our sins. And His blood goes on keeping us clean. Beautiful promise. [00:15:12]
Repentance begins with thought, it then comes out in words, but it must then come out in deeds. I give you two texts. John the Baptist, if somebody came and said, I want to be baptized, said this, produce fruit worthy of repentance, then I'll baptize you. [00:16:22]
Paul's ministry was a ministry of getting people to prove their repentance by their deeds. I believe we should stop baptizing people on profession of faith and baptize them on proof of repentance. Now just let that sink in. [00:18:15]
Repentance is putting the past right. You can't put all the past right. sins right, but there are some the Lord will show you that can be put right. [00:19:08]
That's repentance, deeds of repentance, doing something about it, putting the past right, bringing it to a proper conclusion, cutting the umbilical cord that ties you to Satan's kingdom, tying it off so that you're free of it. It may involve a negative thing like destroying something. [00:20:07]
So often, that's the problem. We've started at step number two. Jesus and John the Baptist and Peter on the day of Pentecost all started with the word, Repent. [00:23:19]
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. We need to help people into the right kind of fear to be serious. I think you can best do that by pointing out where their present way of life will lead them. [00:24:16]
A perished human being still looks like a human being, feels like a human being, but can't be used as a human being. What do you do with something that's perished? You throw it away or you burn it in the incinerator. Hell is God's incinerator for perished people. They don't cease to be people, they are just no more use to him. [00:25:43]
It's possible, for example, for men to feel more guilty about masturbation, which is not mentioned in the Bible, than murder. So we need to help them to be sensible in emotions and not let their feelings get things out of proportion. Psychological guilt is not moral guilt, and it's moral guilt that Jesus cures. Not what we feel guilty about, but what we are guilty of. [00:32:35]
We need to help people to be sensible about what can be put right and what can't. But in this way we have helped them to repent. [00:33:50]
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