Understanding Sin and God's Definition of Friendship

 

Summary

In my sermon, I discussed the concepts of sin, transgression, and iniquity, and how they relate to our relationship with God. I emphasized that any time we fall short of God's will or standard, it is considered a sin. I also highlighted the importance of understanding that breaking any of the laws of the Old Testament is a sin, and that there are no distinctions between ceremonial laws and others. I stressed that no one can be justified by keeping the law alone, and that we are all equal in our sinfulness. I then moved on to discuss the concept of friendship as defined by God, which involves laying down one's life for one's friends. I explained that this level of love and sacrifice is not natural to humans, but was demonstrated by Jesus when he died for us while we were still sinners.

Key Takeaways:
- Sin is any time we fall short of God's will or standard. [ 19:15]
- Breaking any of the laws of the Old Testament is a sin, and there are no distinctions between ceremonial laws and others. [ 19:59]
- No one can be justified by keeping the law alone. [ 20:35]
- God's standard of friendship involves laying down one's life for one's friends. [ 13:31]
- Jesus demonstrated this level of love and sacrifice when he died for us while we were still sinners. [ 17:45]

Study Guide

Small group discussion guide for "The Power of Unfailing Love"

Bible Passages:
1) John 15:12-14
2) Isaiah 53:5

Directions:
Begin by reading John 15:12-14 and Isaiah 53:5. Reflect on the messages in these passages and how they relate to the concept of God's unfailing love.

Discussion Questions:

Observation Questions:
1) What does John 15:12-14 tell us about the nature of God's love?
2) In Isaiah 53:5, what does it mean when it says Jesus was "pierced for our transgressions" and "crushed for our iniquities"?

Interpretation Questions:
1) How does Jesus' command to "love each other as I have loved you" in John 15:12-14 challenge our understanding of love?
2) How does Isaiah 53:5 illustrate the depth of Jesus' sacrifice for us?

Application Questions:
1) How can we apply the command in John 15:12-14 to love each other as Jesus loved us in our daily lives?
2) Considering Isaiah 53:5, how should the knowledge of Jesus' sacrifice impact our actions and attitudes towards others?

Devotional

Day 1: The Law and Grace

The law, with its 600+ commandments, is impossible to keep perfectly. If we break one, we break all. This is why no one can be justified by obedience to the law. We all fall short, whether we tithe regularly or eat forbidden foods. But thanks to Jesus, we are saved by grace, not by our works. [21:51]

Galatians 3:10-11 - "For all who rely on the works of the law are under a curse, as it is written: 'Cursed is everyone who does not continue to do everything written in the Book of the Law.' Clearly no one who relies on the law is justified before God, because 'the righteous will live by faith.'"

Reflection: How does understanding the impossibility of perfectly keeping the law change your perspective on grace?

Day 2: The Power of Friendship

God's standard of friendship is high. It involves willingly laying down one's life for a friend, not because they would do the same for you, but because of love. This is the kind of love Jesus demonstrated for us on the cross. [17:02]

John 15:13 - "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends."

Reflection: How can you demonstrate this kind of sacrificial love in your relationships?

Day 3: The Love of God

The love of God is demonstrated in the cross of Calvary. It is unfailing and everlasting. This love is not just about Jesus' death, but also about His love for us being the driver of His death. [17:45]

Romans 5:8 - "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us."

Reflection: How does understanding the depth of God's love for you impact your relationship with Him?

Day 4: The Power of Reprogramming

In the military, basic training reprograms individuals to be willing to lay down their lives for their comrades. This is not a natural inclination, but a result of intentional conditioning. Similarly, God's love reprograms us to lay down our lives for others. [15:00]

Romans 12:2 - "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will."

Reflection: How has God's love reprogrammed your attitudes and actions towards others?

Day 5: The Work of the Cross

On the cross, Jesus was pierced for our transgressions and crushed for our iniquities. He took the punishment that brought us peace, and by His wounds, we are healed. This is the detailed work of the cross. [19:15]

Isaiah 53:5 - "But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed."

Reflection: How does understanding the detailed work of the cross deepen your appreciation for Jesus' sacrifice?

Quotes

1. "There is a friend that sticks closer than a brother...God's standard of friendship is to lay down one's life for one's friends." [12:52]

2. "Greater love has no one than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends. You are my friends if you do what I command." [13:31]

3. "God's standard of friendship is much higher than that is to lay down one's life willingly without pressure because you love your friend, not because your friend would lay down his life for you." [15:41]

4. "Jesus Christ says greater love has no man than this that he lays down his life for his friends then he goes on to tell them that they were his friends. Jesus was saying to them I love you I love you and because I love you I will lay down my life for you." [17:02]

5. "There Is No Greater Love than that which was demonstrated to us on the cross of calvary and the power of that love is Everlasting the power of that love is unfailing it never ends." [17:45]

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