Understanding Prayer: Trusting God in Silence
Summary
### Summary
In our ongoing series, "Ever Wonder Why?", we delve into the challenging questions that often make us question God's character and nature. Today, we explored the perplexing nature of prayer, likening it to the unpredictable experience of waiting in a Chick-fil-A drive-thru. Sometimes, our prayers are answered swiftly, while other times, we find ourselves waiting indefinitely, questioning if God even hears us. This can lead to feelings of frustration and doubt, making us wonder if we did something wrong or if our faith is lacking.
However, the Bible reassures us that God's silence does not equate to His absence. God is always present, even when He seems silent. Prayer is not merely a helpline for our needs but a means to deepen our relationship with God, aligning our will with His. Jesus, in the Sermon on the Mount, encourages us to ask, seek, and knock, promising that God will respond. Yet, like a loving parent who sometimes says no for the child's good, God may not always answer our prayers in the way we desire.
We examined two key passages: Matthew 7:7-11 and 1 John 5:14-15. In Matthew, Jesus invites us to make our requests known to God, assuring us that God, as a loving Father, will give us good gifts. However, what we perceive as good may not align with God's perfect will. In 1 John, we are reminded that if we ask according to God's will, He hears us and will respond. This underscores the importance of aligning our prayers with God's will, trusting that His plans are for our ultimate good.
We also reflected on the story of a man with a terminal illness who, despite unanswered prayers for healing, continues to testify to God's goodness. This mirrors Jesus' experience in the Garden of Gethsemane, where He submitted to God's will despite His suffering. Through these examples, we learn that God's plans, though sometimes different from our desires, are ultimately for our good and His glory.
In seasons of silence, we are encouraged to keep praying, shift our focus to align with God's will, lean into our community, engage with Scripture, and practice patience and trust. These practices help us navigate the waiting periods, reminding us that God is always working for our good, even when we can't see it.
### Key Takeaways
1. God's Silence is Not Absence: Even when God seems silent, He is always present and working in our lives. His silence does not mean He is not listening or that He doesn't care. Trusting in His character and promises helps us find peace in these moments. [04:24]
2. Prayer is About Relationship, Not Just Requests: Prayer is not merely a helpline for our needs but a means to deepen our relationship with God. As we spend more time in prayer, we align our will with His, understanding that His plans are for our ultimate good. [05:59]
3. God Gives Good Gifts According to His Will: Like a loving parent, God sometimes says no to our requests because He knows what is best for us. Our understanding of good may differ from His, but we can trust that His gifts are always for our benefit. [09:01]
4. Aligning Our Prayers with God's Will: When we pray according to God's will, we can be confident that He hears us and will respond. This requires us to trust in His greater plan, even when it differs from our desires. [12:16]
5. Finding Peace in God's Plan: In seasons of waiting and unanswered prayers, we are encouraged to keep praying, lean into our community, engage with Scripture, and practice patience and trust. These practices help us navigate the waiting periods, reminding us that God is always working for our good. [20:09]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:19] - Chick-fil-A Drive-Thru Analogy
[02:51] - The Confusing Nature of Prayer
[04:24] - God's Silence and Presence
[05:59] - Prayer as Relationship
[07:30] - Jesus' Teaching on Prayer
[09:01] - God's Good Gifts
[10:38] - Seasons of Waiting
[12:16] - Aligning with God's Will
[13:55] - Story of Unanswered Prayer
[15:28] - Jesus in Gethsemane
[17:11] - Responding to Silence
[18:37] - Shifting Focus in Prayer
[20:09] - Engaging with Scripture
[21:38] - Practicing Patience and Trust
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Matthew 7:7-11: "Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!"
2. 1 John 5:14-15: "And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him."
#### Observation Questions
1. What analogy did the pastor use to describe the unpredictable nature of prayer? ([01:19])
2. According to Matthew 7:7-11, what does Jesus promise to those who ask, seek, and knock?
3. How does 1 John 5:14-15 describe the condition under which God hears our prayers?
4. What example did the pastor give of someone who continues to testify to God's goodness despite unanswered prayers? ([13:55])
#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the analogy of the Chick-fil-A drive-thru help us understand the nature of prayer and waiting on God? ([01:19])
2. In what ways does the story of the man with a terminal illness reflect the idea of aligning our prayers with God's will? ([13:55])
3. How does Jesus' experience in the Garden of Gethsemane illustrate the concept of submitting to God's will even in difficult circumstances? ([15:28])
4. What does it mean to trust that God's gifts are always for our benefit, even when they differ from our desires? ([09:01])
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt like God was silent. How did you respond, and what did you learn from that experience? ([04:24])
2. How can you shift your focus in prayer from asking for specific outcomes to seeking a deeper relationship with God? ([05:59])
3. Think of a recent prayer request that was not answered in the way you hoped. How can you trust that God's response is for your ultimate good? ([09:01])
4. How can you practice aligning your prayers with God's will in your daily life? What steps can you take to better understand His will? ([12:16])
5. In what ways can you lean into your community and engage with Scripture during seasons of waiting and unanswered prayers? ([20:09])
6. Identify a specific area in your life where you need to practice patience and trust in God's plan. How can you actively work on this in the coming week? ([21:38])
7. How can you support someone in your community who is struggling with unanswered prayers or feeling God's silence? What practical steps can you take to encourage them? ([18:37])
Devotional
Day 1: Trusting God's Presence in Silence
Even when God seems silent, He is always present and working in our lives. His silence does not mean He is not listening or that He doesn't care. Trusting in His character and promises helps us find peace in these moments. [04:24]
In our spiritual journey, there are times when it feels like God is silent. These moments can be incredibly challenging, leading us to question whether God is listening or if He even cares about our struggles. However, the Bible reassures us that God's silence does not equate to His absence. He is always present, even when He seems silent. This understanding helps us to trust in His character and His promises, finding peace in the knowledge that He is always working for our good, even when we can't see it.
During these seasons of silence, it is crucial to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts are higher than our thoughts. Just as a loving parent sometimes withholds certain things for the child's ultimate good, God may be working in ways that we do not understand. Trusting in His presence and His plan allows us to navigate these periods with faith and patience, knowing that He is always with us, even in the silence.
Isaiah 55:8-9 (ESV): "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts."
Reflection: Think of a time when you felt God was silent. How can you remind yourself of His presence and trust in His plan during these moments?
Day 2: Deepening Relationship Through Prayer
Prayer is not merely a helpline for our needs but a means to deepen our relationship with God. As we spend more time in prayer, we align our will with His, understanding that His plans are for our ultimate good. [05:59]
Prayer is often misunderstood as simply a way to ask God for what we need or want. However, it is much more than that. Prayer is a vital means of deepening our relationship with God. It is through prayer that we communicate with Him, share our hearts, and listen to His guidance. As we spend more time in prayer, we begin to align our will with His, understanding that His plans are for our ultimate good.
Jesus, in the Sermon on the Mount, encourages us to ask, seek, and knock, promising that God will respond. This invitation is not just about making requests but about seeking a deeper connection with our Heavenly Father. As we grow in our prayer life, we learn to trust in His wisdom and timing, knowing that He is always working for our good, even when His answers differ from our desires.
Jeremiah 29:12-13 (ESV): "Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart."
Reflection: How can you shift your focus in prayer from just making requests to seeking a deeper relationship with God? What steps can you take today to spend more intentional time in prayer?
Day 3: Trusting in God's Good Gifts
Like a loving parent, God sometimes says no to our requests because He knows what is best for us. Our understanding of good may differ from His, but we can trust that His gifts are always for our benefit. [09:01]
It can be difficult to understand why God sometimes says no to our prayers. We may feel frustrated or disappointed, wondering why our requests are not granted. However, just as a loving parent sometimes says no for the child's good, God knows what is best for us. Our understanding of what is good may differ from His, but we can trust that His gifts are always for our benefit.
In Matthew 7:7-11, Jesus assures us that God, as a loving Father, will give us good gifts. This promise is not about getting everything we want but about trusting that God knows what is best for us. His perspective is far greater than ours, and His plans are for our ultimate good. By trusting in His wisdom and love, we can find peace and contentment, even when His answers differ from our desires.
James 1:17 (ESV): "Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change."
Reflection: Think of a recent prayer request that was not answered in the way you hoped. How can you trust that God's response was for your ultimate good? What does it look like to trust in His good gifts today?
Day 4: Aligning Our Prayers with God's Will
When we pray according to God's will, we can be confident that He hears us and will respond. This requires us to trust in His greater plan, even when it differs from our desires. [12:16]
One of the most profound aspects of prayer is aligning our will with God's will. When we pray according to His will, we can be confident that He hears us and will respond. This alignment requires us to trust in His greater plan, even when it differs from our desires. It is an act of surrender, acknowledging that His ways are higher than our ways and that His plans are for our ultimate good.
In 1 John 5:14-15, we are reminded that if we ask according to God's will, He hears us and will respond. This assurance encourages us to seek His will in our prayers, trusting that His plans are perfect. By aligning our prayers with His will, we grow in our faith and trust, knowing that He is always working for our good and His glory.
Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you struggle to align your will with God's will? How can you surrender this area to Him in prayer today, trusting in His greater plan?
Day 5: Finding Peace in God's Plan
In seasons of waiting and unanswered prayers, we are encouraged to keep praying, lean into our community, engage with Scripture, and practice patience and trust. These practices help us navigate the waiting periods, reminding us that God is always working for our good. [20:09]
Seasons of waiting and unanswered prayers can be incredibly challenging. During these times, it is essential to keep praying, lean into our community, engage with Scripture, and practice patience and trust. These practices help us navigate the waiting periods, reminding us that God is always working for our good, even when we can't see it.
By continuing to pray, we maintain our connection with God, seeking His guidance and comfort. Leaning into our community provides support and encouragement, reminding us that we are not alone in our struggles. Engaging with Scripture helps us to stay grounded in God's promises, finding strength and hope in His Word. Practicing patience and trust allows us to rest in His timing, knowing that He is always working for our good and His glory.
Romans 12:12 (ESV): "Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer."
Reflection: How can you incorporate these practices into your daily life during a season of waiting? What specific steps can you take today to find peace in God's plan, even when it is not yet clear?
Quotes
1. "And it's my hope that through the course of this series that we would see that that faith actually helps us. It helps us navigate these questions knowing that ultimately we get to look to God's character, His goodness, His faithfulness, and His love. And it helps us at least find some sense of peace in the middle of these questions that are, quite frankly, above our pay grade." [00:10] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
2. "And sometimes God responds that, yes, this is how I'm going to do it. And it happens quick. You're in and out of the drive-thru line at Chick-fil-A quickly. And that's amazing, and we love that. And we know that prayer is important, that prayer is powerful. And yet, prayer can also be confusing. Because sometimes God answers prayers quickly, and sometimes He doesn't." [02:51] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
3. "And it's in the silence that we can believe that he doesn't care, and yet the reality is that just because God is silent, or seems to be silent, it doesn't mean that he's not present. The Bible talks about who God is, and that he's a God who keeps his word and his promises. So even though he may feel silent, even though he may feel far away, he is right there in the middle, caring for you, being present, and working in your life, even if you're not seeing it in the moment." [04:24] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
4. "When in reality, prayer is not about us getting God to do our will, but instead it's about getting to know God deeper, more deeply, so that we can ultimately do his will. See, God is not a person who can do his will. He can do his will. He can do his will. It's not a help line, a button to be pushed when we need help, but rather a relationship to pursue." [05:59] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
5. "And it's as we spend more time in conversation, in prayer, that we become more aligned with what God's will is, and what he is up to in our lives, and what he's trying to do in us and through us, that we have this assurance that God is present, that God is right there with us, in the middle of whatever it is that we're going through." [05:59] (22 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
6. "And his picture of good is different than our picture of good sometimes, and that's where the tension lies. And yet, it's God who ultimately has made himself available to us, our Heavenly Father, who said, as my children, come to me, ask me, pray to me, make your requests known to me, throw your cares and anxieties to me, because I hear you, and ultimately, I'm going to answer you. It just may not be in the way that you always want." [09:01] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
7. "See, God wants to give us what we would ask for if we knew what to ask for, according to his will. And sometimes our wills are aligned, and sometimes they're not. And it's in those moments that we, we again, trust that, as Romans chapter 12 says, that God's will is good, it's pleasing, and it's perfect. And as much as you want what you want, and as right as you think it is, that maybe God has something different in mind, something different in mind for you, and for those around you." [12:16] (41 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
8. "And it's knowing who God is, it can help build our trust and faith that, ultimately, he's giving us what's truly good for us. Which leads us to the other takeaway about prayer, is that sometimes, God has something different in mind. We pray for what we think is good and right, and it very well just might be. But, at the same time, as it was read just a moment ago in 1 John, it says, if we ask anything, according to his will, he hears us." [12:16] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
9. "And it's in this place of desperation that Jesus goes, and he pleads with his Father. God, if there is any other way, Father, if there is any other way, let's make it happen. I know that that I've come for this purpose. I've come for this mission. And yet, God, if there is any other way, please, let's do it now. And yet, while God doesn't give him a different path, we see this peace that fills Jesus that ultimately says, God, not my will, but your will." [15:28] (60 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
10. "Because God gives good things to his children, and, and sometimes, and we have to reconcile this with him, and with others, that sometimes he has something different in mind. And so, even though God doesn't answer our prayers, even though sometimes the answer is something different, we find peace knowing that, that we are able to approach him with confidence, to know that he hears us, and that ultimately he is working in our lives." [21:38] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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