Understanding Headship and Modesty in Cultural Context

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1) "It is common for women throughout this ancient world to cover their heads. It is seen as a sign of modesty, all right? And modesty is great. Modesty is awesome. Modesty is also a moving target. It is. It's culturally driven in so many ways. It is a moving target. As we look through history, that is the case. But also, even if we look at, took a snapshot of our world today, there are certain places, in our world, where modesty is one thing, and certain places where it is another, right?" [26:39] (34 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2) "Headship does not mean superiority. Does not mean more important. Does not mean more valuable. Does not mean a more significant part of the team even. It does not mean superiority. In this very passage, we read that the head of Christ is God. That is, the head of the Son is the Father. The head of Jesus is God the Father." [31:39] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3) "It is a relationship dynamic at play. Where one piece of the relationship, one party in the relationship chooses. Not to not have an opinion. This isn't that there will be no opinion. Right? But chooses to lovingly trust the other person. To choose humility in that. way, to lovingly trust them. And that's a hard dynamic for us." [35:02] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4) "For husbands, this means, love your wives just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her. We have to look at both pieces of this relational dynamic. Because men, we are given a bold responsibility here, a big one, a heavy responsibility for us, not just to love, but to love as Christ loved the church." [36:11] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5) "And through that, this teamwork, this mutualization, this mutual desire to love each other well and this way, to love each other in a way that lines up with how God created us, how he uniquely wired us up as men and women. We are invited into this beautiful relationship that helps us. Not only is it beneficial because we get relationship that we were designed for, but we get relationship that helps us move closer to this image of our heavenly father, to living out his character here on earth." [39:01] (40 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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6) "I love my wife, but the truth is for me to love her as Christ loved the church, it can't just be about her. It has to be about me obeying my Father, and I'm obeying Him in this. I'm honoring Him in this, and as I honor Him, I'm loving her. And that is the relationship dynamic that we are invited into here, where our obedience here is not dependent on the other person." [42:22] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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7) "We believe that the Bible does not conflict with itself, doesn't contradict itself. We believe that the Bible is all true. We certainly believe that Paul would not, in one letter, contradict himself, right? That in one place, he wouldn't say something, and then like a couple paragraphs later, just say something different. And so we are left as followers of Jesus to do our best to understand the context of what's happening here and apply what we read to the church today and to live in obedience to God's word, whether it fits our culture or not." [45:41] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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8) "And so here at Crosspoint, we honor that. Because we're going to obey what Scripture says. We're going to be obedient to Scripture above culture, above what's comfortable, above what we understand. We're going to obey Scripture. And so at Crosspoint, the lead pastor and our shepherds, which is just what we call elders, those are male roles. Not because we think men are better. Not because we think men are more important." [49:38] (28 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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9) "I don't obey the Bible just because it makes sense. I don't obey the Bible just because I agree with it. I obey the Bible because it's the word of God. And because as I do, I grow closer to him. I grow in my understanding of who he is." [51:52] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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10) "The first one is that Jesus didn't command us to do things that he himself was unwilling to do. We're not commanded to do things by Jesus that he himself was unwilling to do. He lives out these teachings. And we're called not just to go do things. these commandments, but to follow him. to follow how he lived his life. And the second thing is this, the commands of Jesus are good for us and for others. In fact, they're what's best for us and for others." [52:38] (37 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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