Understanding God's Support in Our Struggles

Summary

### Summary

Today, we gathered to celebrate and bless Shel Lewis-Akasiaka as she transitions from her role on our staff. We thanked her for her dedicated service and prayed for her future endeavors. Our focus then shifted to the gospel reading, which ties into our new series on "Things Jesus Never Said." We examined the often-quoted phrase, "God doesn't give you more than you can handle," and explored its implications and origins.

Reflecting on personal experiences, particularly the challenging year of 2020, we discussed how this phrase can be harmful despite good intentions. We delved into 1 Corinthians 10:13, often cited as the source of this saying, and clarified its true context. Paul speaks about resisting sin and temptation, not enduring life's hardships alone. We also looked at Paul's own life, where he openly shared his struggles and reliance on God and the community for support.

Jesus' promise to be with us always, even to the end of the age, was highlighted as a cornerstone of our faith. Unlike the misleading phrase, Jesus offers rest and companionship in our burdens. We are called to bear one another's burdens, fulfilling the law of Christ through empathy and presence, rather than offering quick fixes or shallow platitudes.

In closing, we prayed for guidance to be present and compassionate to those suffering around us, embodying Christ's love and faithfulness. We were reminded that our role is to be the hands and feet of Jesus, offering genuine support and care to those in need.

### Key Takeaways

1. The Harm of Misquoted Scripture: The phrase "God doesn't give you more than you can handle" is often misused and can be harmful. It shifts the focus from God's support to individual strength, which can be isolating and discouraging during times of deep struggle. Instead, we should emphasize God's presence and the community's role in supporting one another. [50:55]

2. Context Matters: 1 Corinthians 10:13 is frequently cited to support the idea that we can handle all life's challenges alone. However, this verse actually speaks about resisting sin and temptation, not enduring life's hardships without support. Understanding the full context of Scripture is crucial to avoid misinterpretation and harm. [59:35]

3. Paul's Example of Vulnerability: The Apostle Paul openly shared his struggles and reliance on God and the community. In 2 Corinthians, he describes feeling unbearably crushed and relying on God and the prayers of the community for rescue. This teaches us the importance of vulnerability and communal support in our faith journey. [01:03:46]

4. Jesus' Promise of Presence: Jesus promises to be with us always, offering rest and companionship in our burdens. This stands in stark contrast to the idea that we must handle everything on our own. Jesus' words remind us that we are never alone, and His presence is a source of comfort and strength. [01:06:05]

5. Bearing One Another's Burdens: We are called to bear one another's burdens, fulfilling the law of Christ through empathy and presence. This means being there for others in their suffering, offering genuine support rather than quick fixes or shallow platitudes. Our role is to embody Christ's love and faithfulness in tangible ways. [01:07:33]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[22:27] - Blessing for Shel Lewis-Akasiaka
[23:53] - Opening Prayer
[48:49] - Introduction to New Series
[49:54] - Bumper Sticker Theology
[50:55] - Harmful Phrases
[51:52] - Personal Story: 2020 Challenges
[59:35] - Misinterpreted Scripture
[01:00:18] - Context of 1 Corinthians 10:13
[01:03:46] - Paul's Vulnerability
[01:06:05] - Jesus' Promise of Presence
[01:07:33] - Bearing One Another's Burdens
[01:12:12] - Closing Prayer
[01:13:18] - Final Blessing and Sending

Study Guide

### Bible Reading

1. 1 Corinthians 10:13 - "No testing has overtaken you that is not common to everyone. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your strength, but with the testing he will also provide the way out so that you may be able to endure it."
2. 2 Corinthians 1:8-10 - "We do not want you to be unaware, brothers and sisters, of the affliction we experienced in Asia; for we were so utterly, unbearably crushed that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of death so that we would rely not on ourselves but on God who raises the dead. He who rescued us from so deadly a peril will continue to rescue us; on him we have set our hope that he will rescue us again."
3. Galatians 6:2 - "Bear one another's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ."

### Observation Questions

1. What does 1 Corinthians 10:13 actually say about the nature of testing and God's faithfulness? How does this differ from the common misinterpretation? [59:35]
2. In 2 Corinthians 1:8-10, how does Paul describe his experience of suffering and his reliance on God and the community? [01:03:46]
3. According to Galatians 6:2, what are we called to do for one another, and how does this fulfill the law of Christ? [01:07:33]
4. What personal experiences did the pastor share to illustrate the harm of the phrase "God doesn't give you more than you can handle"? [51:52]

### Interpretation Questions

1. How does understanding the context of 1 Corinthians 10:13 change the way we interpret the phrase "God doesn't give you more than you can handle"? [01:00:18]
2. Why is Paul's example of vulnerability in 2 Corinthians 1:8-10 important for our understanding of Christian community and support? [01:03:46]
3. How does Jesus' promise to be with us always (Matthew 28:20) provide comfort and contrast to the idea that we must handle everything on our own? [01:06:05]
4. What does it mean to "bear one another's burdens" in practical terms, and how can this be more helpful than offering quick fixes or platitudes? [01:07:33]

### Application Questions

1. Reflect on a time when you felt overwhelmed by life's challenges. How did the support of others or your faith in God help you through that period? [51:52]
2. Have you ever used or heard the phrase "God doesn't give you more than you can handle"? How did it affect you or the person you said it to? How can you respond differently in the future? [50:55]
3. In what ways can you be more present and supportive to someone in your life who is currently struggling? What specific actions can you take to embody Christ's love and faithfulness? [01:12:12]
4. How can you cultivate a deeper understanding of Scripture to avoid misinterpretations that might harm others? What steps can you take to study the Bible more contextually? [01:00:18]
5. Think of a person in your community who is bearing a heavy burden. How can you practically help them this week, fulfilling the law of Christ as mentioned in Galatians 6:2? [01:07:33]
6. How can you create a supportive environment in your small group or church community where people feel safe to share their struggles and receive genuine support? [01:04:37]
7. Reflect on Jesus' promise to be with us always. How can this assurance change the way you approach your own burdens and the burdens of others? [01:06:05]

Devotional

Day 1: The Harm of Misquoted Scripture
Misquoting Scripture can lead to harmful misunderstandings and misplaced burdens. The phrase "God doesn't give you more than you can handle" is often used with good intentions but can be isolating and discouraging. It shifts the focus from God's support to individual strength, implying that one must endure hardships alone. This misinterpretation can make people feel inadequate or abandoned when they struggle to cope with life's challenges. Instead, the emphasis should be on God's presence and the community's role in providing support and encouragement. [50:55]

1 Corinthians 10:13 is frequently cited to support this idea, but it actually speaks about resisting sin and temptation, not enduring life's hardships without support. Understanding the full context of Scripture is crucial to avoid misinterpretation and harm. By focusing on God's promise to be with us and the importance of communal support, we can offer genuine help and comfort to those in need.

1 Corinthians 10:13 (ESV): "No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."

Reflection: Think of a time when you felt overwhelmed by life's challenges. How did the support of others and your faith in God help you through that period? How can you offer similar support to someone else today?

Day 2: Context Matters
Understanding the context of Scripture is essential to avoid misinterpretation and potential harm. 1 Corinthians 10:13 is often misquoted to suggest that individuals can handle all of life's challenges alone. However, this verse actually addresses resisting sin and temptation, not enduring life's hardships without support. By examining the full context of this passage, we can see that Paul is emphasizing God's faithfulness in providing a way out of temptation, not suggesting that we must bear all burdens on our own. [59:35]

Misinterpreting Scripture can lead to unrealistic expectations and feelings of inadequacy when people struggle to cope with difficult situations. It is important to approach Scripture with a desire to understand its true meaning and context, rather than relying on popular but inaccurate interpretations. By doing so, we can offer more accurate and compassionate support to those in need, reminding them of God's presence and the importance of community.

2 Corinthians 1:8-9 (ESV): "For we do not want you to be unaware, brothers, of the affliction we experienced in Asia. For we were so utterly burdened beyond our strength that we despaired of life itself. Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of death. But that was to make us rely not on ourselves but on God who raises the dead."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you misunderstood a Bible passage. How did gaining a better understanding of its context change your perspective? How can you ensure that you approach Scripture with a desire to understand its true meaning?

Day 3: Paul's Example of Vulnerability
The Apostle Paul openly shared his struggles and reliance on God and the community. In 2 Corinthians, he describes feeling unbearably crushed and relying on God and the prayers of the community for rescue. This teaches us the importance of vulnerability and communal support in our faith journey. Paul's example shows that it is okay to admit our weaknesses and seek help from others, rather than trying to handle everything on our own. [01:03:46]

By being vulnerable and honest about our struggles, we create opportunities for deeper connections and support within our community. This openness allows others to see that they are not alone in their difficulties and encourages them to seek help and rely on God's strength. Embracing vulnerability can lead to a more authentic and supportive faith community, where individuals feel valued and understood.

2 Corinthians 12:9-10 (ESV): "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong."

Reflection: Think about a time when you felt vulnerable and needed support. How did sharing your struggles with others impact your experience? How can you create a safe space for others to be vulnerable and seek support within your community?

Day 4: Jesus' Promise of Presence
Jesus promises to be with us always, offering rest and companionship in our burdens. This stands in stark contrast to the idea that we must handle everything on our own. Jesus' words remind us that we are never alone, and His presence is a source of comfort and strength. By focusing on Jesus' promise, we can find peace and reassurance in the midst of our struggles, knowing that He is always with us. [01:06:05]

This promise of presence is a cornerstone of our faith, providing a foundation of hope and security. When we face difficult times, we can lean on Jesus' promise and trust that He will provide the strength and support we need. Additionally, we are called to embody this promise by being present for others, offering genuine support and care in their times of need.

Matthew 28:20 (ESV): "Teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age."

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt Jesus' presence in your life. How did this experience impact your faith and sense of security? How can you remind yourself of Jesus' promise of presence during difficult times?

Day 5: Bearing One Another's Burdens
We are called to bear one another's burdens, fulfilling the law of Christ through empathy and presence. This means being there for others in their suffering, offering genuine support rather than quick fixes or shallow platitudes. Our role is to embody Christ's love and faithfulness in tangible ways, providing comfort and encouragement to those in need. [01:07:33]

By bearing one another's burdens, we create a supportive and compassionate community where individuals feel valued and understood. This requires active listening, empathy, and a willingness to share in the struggles of others. When we fulfill this calling, we reflect Christ's love and create an environment where people can find healing and hope.

Galatians 6:2 (ESV): "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."

Reflection: Think of someone in your life who is currently struggling. How can you offer genuine support and empathy to them today? What specific actions can you take to help bear their burdens and reflect Christ's love?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "We have times and moments in the life of our church together where we celebrate and we bless one another. Today is one of those days. I want to invite Shel Lewis-Akasiaka forward on our staff. I'm looking for Shel, and I'm missing her in the room. Is she out? One moment. She's coming running. Shel, you may know her as she comes forward. Come on up, Shel. Yeah, come on up." [22:27] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Our gospel reading this morning, in many ways, it picks up to where we left off last week. If you were with us, we talked about why we do mission. Why do we do mission work? Why do we go abroad and do mission? And we hear in the gospel as Jesus is getting ready to ascend into heaven, he says to disciples, go, go, go. Go, basically, to the ends of the earth and make disciples of all nations. He says this, and then he offers a promise at the end that he will be with us." [48:49] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "We have a Savior who says, come to me, right? If you're weary and you're heavy laden, I will give you what? Rest. You know this. These are the words of Christ. Not buck up on your own and you can handle it because God has been piling the stuff on you. This is why we don't say these things. This is why we're careful about what we know about Scripture, what Christ really said, and what those that are in the midst of it know." [01:06:47] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "Bear one another's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Could you read this with me? Bear one another's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. This is the way of Christ, is that we don't try to put a quick fix on someone's trauma or on their deep difficulty. But we walk with them through that burden." [01:07:33] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "I invite you now to stand either in body or in spirit as we sing together. And they will. They will church. They'll know. As you go from this place remember that. Remember that you have God's love inside you. And the world needs that in incredible ways. They need to be reminded that God is faithful. They need to be remindful that Christ does not abandon. They need to be reminded that they're good compassionate people in this world and that's you." [01:13:18] (60 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "When we say this, God will not give you more than you can handle. The focus is not on God. It's on your handling it. And that's what I want to point to this morning. If this is something you said or it's been said to you, it's wrong. Because we say, when we say that it's like you must have enough strength. You have to buck up. Because God's not going to give you more than you can handle. No. Paul just reverses that and said, God is our rescuer." [01:05:18] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Paul does not speak. When we say this, God will not give you more than you can handle. The focus is not on God. It's on your handling it. And that's what I want to point to this morning. If this is something you said or it's been said to you, it's wrong. Because we say, when we say that it's like you must have enough strength. You have to buck up. Because God's not going to give you more than you can handle. No. Paul just reverses that and said, God is our rescuer." [01:05:18] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Paul writes this also. He writes, as he's talking about the work of Holy Spirit over in Galatians, he writes this, and it's beautiful. Let's take a look at that text. Bear one another's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. Could you read this with me? Bear one another's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. This is the way of Christ, is that we don't try to put a quick fix on someone's trauma or on their deep difficulty. But we walk with them through that burden." [01:07:33] (39 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "God calls us to be faithful as Christ is faithful and sometimes in that business of where Christ says I will be with you to the end of the age. It is you and it's me that's being called to be presence within a situation. The presence of Christ is so important. You might not have the words to know what to say to that friend or family member that has that deep deep pain. But to be. To be present with them to love them to not walk away when a lot of people will walk away." [01:11:11] (36 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "People don't understand the long haul of things sometimes but we as people of Christ were called to that. So this morning as we as we put those words behind us as we pick up this word of Christ who is with us. I want you to think before we close out about who God might be calling you to be present with. Who's suffering. Who's got that condition that just keeps eating at them and they're on your heart and you want to do something. I want you to pray with me this morning that God will show you a way to be present to reveal the face of Christ in your presence and your love and your affirmations of God's faithfulness to them." [01:11:11] (50 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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