Understanding God: Our Ultimate Father and His Love

 

Summary

### Summary

In today's message, we explored the profound nature of God as our Father, a concept that Jesus emphasized repeatedly. Despite the numerous names and titles for God in the Bible, Jesus chose to call Him "Father," highlighting the intimate and relational aspect of God's character. This is particularly significant in a world where many have experienced broken or absent fatherhood. We delved into the statistics and personal stories that illustrate the devastating effects of fatherlessness, emphasizing the need to view our Heavenly Father through the lens of Scripture rather than our earthly experiences.

We discussed how God is not merely like a father but is the ultimate standard of fatherhood. This understanding should reshape our perception of God, especially for those who have had negative experiences with their earthly fathers. We examined the parable of the prodigal son to illustrate God's unconditional love and readiness to forgive and restore us, no matter how far we have strayed.

Furthermore, we explored three key aspects of what it means to call God our Father. First, it reveals His heart, showing that He is tender, compassionate, and deeply involved in our lives. Second, it creates a reverence for His role in our story, reminding us of the immense sacrifice He made to adopt us into His family through Jesus Christ. Finally, it assures us of His daily involvement in our lives, providing care, correction, and companionship.

### Key Takeaways

1. God as the Ultimate Father: God is not just like a father; He is the standard of what a father should be. This understanding helps us see Him as tender, compassionate, and deeply involved in our lives, unlike any earthly father who may have failed us. [12:48]

2. Unconditional Love and Forgiveness: The parable of the prodigal son vividly illustrates God's unconditional love and readiness to forgive. No matter how far we have strayed, God waits for us with open arms, eager to restore and redeem us. [19:09]

3. Adoption into God's Family: Through Jesus Christ, we are fully adopted into God's family. This adoption is not just a legal formality but a profound relational reality that changes our identity and gives us a sense of belonging and purpose. [21:58]

4. God's Daily Involvement: As our Father, God is involved in every aspect of our lives. He provides for our needs, corrects us when we go astray, and offers His constant companionship, ensuring that we are never alone. [28:19]

5. The Call to Come Home: No matter how broken or far from God we feel, He invites us to come home with all our baggage. His grace and mercy are sufficient to cleanse and restore us, making us whole again. [35:22]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[05:56] - The Many Names of God
[06:55] - Jesus' Preferred Name for God
[07:50] - The Fatherless Generation
[08:50] - The Impact of Absent Fathers
[09:30] - A Personal Story of Fatherhood
[11:16] - Setting the Right Tone
[12:16] - Viewing God Through the Bible
[12:48] - God as the Standard of Fatherhood
[13:24] - The Everlasting Father
[13:56] - What Calling God 'Father' Reveals
[15:00] - Misconceptions About God
[15:35] - God as a Tender and Compassionate Father
[16:38] - The Parable of the Prodigal Son
[19:09] - God's Unconditional Love
[21:18] - Reverence for God's Role
[21:58] - Adoption into God's Family
[23:52] - The Cost of Adoption
[25:24] - The Goodness of God
[27:06] - Expecting God's Involvement
[28:19] - God's Care for Us
[30:03] - The Importance of Correction
[32:39] - The Role of a Good Father
[33:21] - God's Companionship
[34:45] - The Call to Come Home
[35:22] - Embracing God's Grace

Study Guide

### Bible Reading

1. Matthew 6:9 - "This, then, is how you should pray: 'Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.'"
2. Psalm 103:13-14 - "As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust."
3. Luke 15:20 - "So he got up and went to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him."

### Observation Questions

1. According to Matthew 6:9, how does Jesus instruct us to address God in prayer?
2. In Psalm 103:13-14, what characteristics of God are highlighted in relation to His children?
3. Describe the father's reaction in Luke 15:20 when he sees his son returning home. What does this reveal about God's nature? [19:09]
4. What are some of the names and titles for God mentioned in the sermon, and why did Jesus prefer to call Him "Father"? [05:56]

### Interpretation Questions

1. How does viewing God as the ultimate standard of fatherhood, rather than comparing Him to our earthly fathers, change our perception of Him? [12:48]
2. What does the parable of the prodigal son teach us about God's unconditional love and readiness to forgive? How does this contrast with the Pharisees' view of God? [19:09]
3. How does understanding our adoption into God's family through Jesus Christ impact our sense of identity and belonging? [21:58]
4. In what ways does God's daily involvement in our lives, as described in the sermon, provide comfort and assurance? [28:19]

### Application Questions

1. Reflect on your own experiences with your earthly father. How have these experiences shaped your view of God? How can you begin to see God through the lens of Scripture instead? [12:16]
2. The sermon emphasized God's unconditional love and forgiveness. Is there an area in your life where you feel distant from God? How can you take steps to "come home" to Him this week? [35:22]
3. Considering the concept of adoption into God's family, how does this truth affect your daily life and interactions with others? How can you live out this new identity more fully? [21:58]
4. God's involvement in our lives includes care, correction, and companionship. Which of these aspects do you find most challenging to accept, and why? How can you grow in trust in this area? [28:19]
5. The sermon mentioned the importance of not holding our spiritual Father in contempt due to our earthly father's failures. How can you actively work on separating these two images in your mind? [12:16]
6. How can you demonstrate God's fatherly love to others in your community, especially those who may have experienced broken or absent fatherhood? [07:50]
7. Reflect on a time when you felt God's correction in your life. How did it shape your relationship with Him? How can you remain open to His guidance and discipline in the future? [30:03]

Devotional

Day 1: God as the Ultimate Father
God is not just like a father; He is the standard of what a father should be. This understanding helps us see Him as tender, compassionate, and deeply involved in our lives, unlike any earthly father who may have failed us. When we call God our Father, we are acknowledging His perfect nature and His deep, personal involvement in our lives. This is especially comforting for those who have experienced broken or absent fatherhood. God’s fatherhood is not marred by human flaws; it is the epitome of love, care, and guidance.

In a world where many have experienced the pain of fatherlessness, understanding God as the ultimate Father can bring healing and hope. He is not distant or indifferent but is intimately involved in every aspect of our lives. He provides for our needs, guides us with wisdom, and loves us unconditionally. This perspective can transform our relationship with God, helping us to trust Him more deeply and rely on His perfect fatherly care. [12:48]

Isaiah 64:8 (ESV): "But now, O Lord, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand."

Reflection: How does viewing God as the ultimate Father change your perception of Him, especially in areas where you may have experienced disappointment or hurt from earthly father figures?


Day 2: Unconditional Love and Forgiveness
The parable of the prodigal son vividly illustrates God's unconditional love and readiness to forgive. No matter how far we have strayed, God waits for us with open arms, eager to restore and redeem us. This story is a powerful reminder that God's love is not based on our performance or worthiness but on His unchanging nature. He is always ready to welcome us back, no matter how far we have wandered.

This understanding of God's love can bring immense comfort and hope. It assures us that we are never too far gone for God's grace. His love is a constant, unwavering force that seeks to bring us back into a right relationship with Him. Reflecting on this truth can help us to let go of guilt and shame, knowing that God’s forgiveness is always available to us. [19:09]

Micah 7:18-19 (ESV): "Who is a God like you, pardoning iniquity and passing over transgression for the remnant of his inheritance? He does not retain his anger forever, because he delights in steadfast love. He will again have compassion on us; he will tread our iniquities underfoot. You will cast all our sins into the depths of the sea."

Reflection: Is there an area of your life where you feel distant from God? How can you take a step towards accepting His unconditional love and forgiveness today?


Day 3: Adoption into God's Family
Through Jesus Christ, we are fully adopted into God's family. This adoption is not just a legal formality but a profound relational reality that changes our identity and gives us a sense of belonging and purpose. Being adopted by God means that we are His children, with all the rights and privileges that come with being part of His family. This truth can transform how we see ourselves and our place in the world.

Adoption into God's family means that we are no longer defined by our past or our failures. We have a new identity in Christ, one that is rooted in His love and grace. This new identity gives us a sense of belonging and purpose, knowing that we are loved and valued by our Heavenly Father. Reflecting on this truth can help us to live with confidence and joy, knowing that we are part of God's eternal family. [21:58]

Ephesians 1:5-6 (ESV): "He predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved."

Reflection: How does knowing that you are adopted into God's family change the way you view yourself and your purpose in life?


Day 4: God's Daily Involvement
As our Father, God is involved in every aspect of our lives. He provides for our needs, corrects us when we go astray, and offers His constant companionship, ensuring that we are never alone. This daily involvement is a testament to His love and care for us. God is not distant or detached; He is actively engaged in our lives, guiding us, providing for us, and walking with us through every situation.

Understanding God's daily involvement can bring great comfort and assurance. It means that we are never alone, no matter what we face. God is always with us, providing for our needs and guiding us with His wisdom. This truth can help us to trust Him more deeply and rely on His constant presence in our lives. [28:19]

Psalm 121:3-4 (ESV): "He will not let your foot be moved; he who keeps you will not slumber. Behold, he who keeps Israel will neither slumber nor sleep."

Reflection: In what ways can you become more aware of God's daily involvement in your life? How can this awareness change the way you approach your daily activities and challenges?


Day 5: The Call to Come Home
No matter how broken or far from God we feel, He invites us to come home with all our baggage. His grace and mercy are sufficient to cleanse and restore us, making us whole again. This invitation is a powerful reminder of God's love and grace. He does not reject us because of our failures or shortcomings; instead, He calls us to come to Him, just as we are, and experience His healing and restoration.

This call to come home is an invitation to experience God's grace and mercy in a profound way. It is a reminder that we are never too far gone for God's love. No matter what we have done or how far we have strayed, God is always ready to welcome us back and make us whole again. Reflecting on this truth can help us to let go of our burdens and come to God with open hearts, ready to receive His grace and mercy. [35:22]

Isaiah 55:7 (ESV): "Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts; let him return to the Lord, that he may have compassion on him, and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon."

Reflection: What burdens or baggage are you carrying that you need to bring to God? How can you respond to His call to come home and experience His grace and mercy today?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "In scripture, it's not opinion, it's the absolute truth. Our job as followers of Jesus is to say what Jesus said. We have been given access to the mind, the heart, and the will of our Heavenly Father. This is the will of God to forgive somebody, yes or no? Some of us need some soul restoration." (17 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Please don't hold your spiritual father in contempt just because your earthly father may have gotten it wrong. In spite of what your individual experience may be with your earthly father, I am suggesting that we not view our spiritual father through the lenses of our earthly fathers, but that we would allow our image of God as spiritual father to be seen correctly through the lenses of the Bible." (29 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "One of the greatest anchors of our souls in this life is the reality that we have a spiritual father that genuinely, truly loves us, cares for us, and affirms us. One of the prophets in the Old Testament, Isaiah, referred to him as the everlasting father. In other words, he is our forever father. And we sing a song here sometimes that says, his love never fails, his love never gives up, his love never runs out on me. And it's absolutely true. Your earthly father may have let you down in some way, but your heavenly father never, ever, ever will." (34 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "When we say Father, it reveals his nature. When we say Father, it creates a reverence for his role in our lives. But third and finally, when we say Father, it reminds us that we can expect his involvement in our lives every day. Now I want you to hear this, because don't forget this, God is not like an earthly father. God is the standard of what a father should be." (-842 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "If you're here today and you know in your heart you are far from your father. God sent me here today and I think the Holy Spirit to just look at you and say, don't fight anymore. Welcome home, come home. Bring all of your baggage, bring all of your sin, bring all of your hurts, bring all of those things that sometimes the enemy will tell you disqualify." (21 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "I know that the world we live in now, unfortunately, the word Father elicits a diversity of images, emotions, and memories. For some of you here, you are like me. And in the minority, you had an amazing day. You had an amazing father, a man in your life that encouraged you, a man in your life that loved you, a man in your life that was there for you at all times and taught you about Jesus and about love and about life. But I also know, unfortunately, that most people, that is not the case statistically." (28 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "When we truly begin to understand what God has done for us, when you really understand what I just said to you, what I just read to you, that we were lost without God, we were lost without a family and that God went after us and sent his only begotten son to die on the cross so that we might be reunited and restored to his family, if you really get that and Jesus isn't just a Sunday morning thing or God, your relationship with God isn't just this casual, cavalier, Sunday thing that we do for an hour on Sunday. When you understand where you were, where you should be and where you are now because of that adoption, you can't just stand there during worship and act like nothing." (37 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "When God corrects us, we aren't to reject it, Hebrews said, or take it lightly. We must interpret it correctly. He is training us and helping us and teaching us a blessed and more beneficial way. And then third and finally, when it comes to God, we can expect his companionship as father. Hebrews 13, five and six. For God has said, I'll never leave you. I'll never abandon you. So we can now say with confidence, the Lord is my helper. I will have no fear." (31 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "When I was 21, the depth of my gratitude was rooted in God's direction for my life, that he was gonna direct my life, that he was gonna give me purpose, that he was gonna lead me, that he was gonna guide me. That's what I loved about God more than anything. Now that I've walked with the Lord for 30 years at 51, I thank God now more for his correction. I thank God for his direction than I do his direction. Because now I've lived with myself long enough to know myself, and I scare myself. And you should scare yourself too." (29 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "When you know that someone wanted you so bad, they were willing to move heaven and earth to bring you home. When you know that, it changes things. When you understand, see, the Bible doesn't say, the Bible says it is the goodness of God that leads to repentance. It's not the fear of God's wrath that leads to repentance, not, not. It's not in its purest essence. It's not, oh man, if I sin, God's gonna, God's gonna send me to hell. That's not it. It's not eternal fire insurance, not real salvation. It's the goodness of God." (27 seconds)(Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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