Submission in marriage is often misunderstood as a sign of weakness or inferiority. However, Ephesians 5:22-24 presents it as an act of devotion to Christ. Wives are called to submit to their husbands not out of obligation or subservience, but as a reflection of their commitment to the Lord. This submission is a voluntary act of love and respect, mirroring the relationship between Christ and the Church. It is a part of their Christian discipleship, done for the Lord's sake, and is a reflection of their desire to please Him. By understanding submission in this light, it becomes a powerful expression of faith and worship. [07:35]
Ephesians 5:21-22 (ESV): "submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord."
Reflection: In what ways can you view submission in your relationships as an act of worship and devotion to Christ today?
Day 2: Embracing God’s Order in Creation
The biblical teaching on marriage is deeply rooted in the order of creation, where man was created first and given authority, with woman created as a helpmeet. This order is not about superiority or inferiority but about fulfilling God-given roles. The Apostle Paul emphasizes that the husband is the head of the wife, just as Christ is the head of the Church. This headship is about responsibility and leadership, ordained by God as part of the order of creation. Understanding and embracing this divine order allows couples to function in harmony, fulfilling their roles as intended by God. [12:48]
1 Corinthians 11:8-9 (ESV): "For man was not made from woman, but woman from man. Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man."
Reflection: How can you embrace and honor the roles God has designed for you within your relationships today?
Day 3: Restoration of Marital Roles through Christ
The fall of humanity introduced a distortion in marital roles, leading to conflict and misunderstanding. However, in Christ, there is a restoration of these roles to their intended purpose. The wife's submission is ultimately to the Lord, and through this, she finds joy and fulfillment. This restoration is a testament to the transformative power of the gospel, which seeks to heal and restore what was broken. By aligning with God's design, couples can experience a renewed sense of purpose and harmony in their marriage, reflecting the beauty of God's original plan. [21:48]
Colossians 3:18-19 (ESV): "Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them."
Reflection: In what ways can you seek Christ's restoration in your marriage or relationships today?
Day 4: A Countercultural Witness through Marriage
The biblical model of marriage offers a countercultural witness to the world, demonstrating the transformative power of the gospel. In a world where authority is often misunderstood, Christian marriages can showcase the beauty of God's design. By living out the principles of love, respect, and submission, couples can provide a powerful testimony of God's love and order. This countercultural approach challenges prevailing cultural norms and offers a glimpse of the kingdom of God at work in everyday life. [10:43]
1 Peter 3:1-2 (ESV): "Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct."
Reflection: How can your marriage or relationships serve as a countercultural witness to those around you today?
Day 5: Voluntary Submission as a Reflection of Christ and the Church
Submission in marriage is a voluntary act of love and respect, mirroring the relationship between Christ and the Church. It is not about being a slave but about willingly supporting and complementing one's husband. This mutual respect and love create a harmonious relationship that reflects the unity and love between Christ and His Church. By choosing to submit voluntarily, wives demonstrate a profound understanding of their role and purpose within the marriage, contributing to a loving and supportive partnership. [36:23]
Ephesians 5:25-27 (ESV): "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish."
Reflection: What does voluntary submission look like in your life, and how can it reflect the relationship between Christ and the Church today?
Sermon Summary
In today's exploration of Ephesians 5:22-24, we delve into the profound biblical teaching on marriage, focusing on the concept of submission within the marital relationship. This passage is often misunderstood, so it's crucial to approach it with a spirit of humility and a desire to understand God's design for marriage. The Apostle Paul instructs wives to submit to their husbands as part of their duty to the Lord, not as an act of subservience or inferiority, but as an expression of their devotion to Christ. This submission is not about being a slave to one's husband but is a voluntary act of love and respect, mirroring the relationship between Christ and the Church.
The teaching emphasizes that the husband is the head of the wife, just as Christ is the head of the Church. This headship is not about dominance but about responsibility and leadership, ordained by God as part of the order of creation. The Apostle Paul draws on the creation narrative to illustrate that man was created first and given authority, with woman created as a helpmeet, complementing and supporting him. This divine order is not a reflection of value or worth but of function and role within the marriage.
Furthermore, the fall of humanity introduced a distortion in these roles, leading to conflict and misunderstanding. However, in Christ, there is a restoration of these roles to their intended purpose. The wife's submission is ultimately to the Lord, and through this, she finds joy and fulfillment. This teaching challenges the prevailing cultural norms and offers a countercultural witness to the world, demonstrating the transformative power of the gospel in every aspect of life, including marriage.
Key Takeaways
1. Submission as Devotion to Christ: Wives are called to submit to their husbands not as an act of subservience but as an expression of their devotion to Christ. This submission is part of their Christian discipleship, done for the Lord's sake, and is a reflection of their desire to please Him. [07:35]
2. Order of Creation: The biblical teaching on marriage is rooted in the order of creation, where man was created first and given authority, with woman created as a helpmeet. This order is not about superiority or inferiority but about fulfilling God-given roles. [12:48]
3. Restoration through Christ: The fall introduced a distortion in marital roles, but in Christ, there is a restoration to their intended purpose. The wife's submission is ultimately to the Lord, and through this, she finds joy and fulfillment. [21:48]
4. Countercultural Witness: The biblical model of marriage offers a countercultural witness to the world, demonstrating the transformative power of the gospel. In a world where authority is often misunderstood, Christian marriages can showcase the beauty of God's design. [10:43]
5. Voluntary Submission: Submission in marriage is a voluntary act of love and respect, mirroring the relationship between Christ and the Church. It is not about being a slave but about willingly supporting and complementing one's husband. [36:23] ** [36:23]
[39:29] - The Importance of Biblical Teaching on Marriage
Sermon Clips
Wives submit yourselves and your own husband because it is a part of your duty to the Lord because it is an expression on via submission to the mark wives submit yourselves to your own husbands well I'll do it in this way do it as a path of your submission to the Lord. [00:06:46]
If every Christian wife today is concerned above everything else to please the Lord Jesus Christ she will find no difficulty in this paragraph indeed it will be a greatest delight to do what the Apostle tells us here I would go further never perhaps have we as Christian people had a greater opportunity of showing what Christianity really means. [00:08:56]
The first reason that the Apostle gives the wives for submitting themselves unto their own husbands is that this is a part of the order on creation it is a part if you like of God's ordinance of God's decree of God's will of what God has stated with regard to this relationship of men and women. [00:12:39]
The emphasis is put constantly upon the fact that man was created first not the woman you notice how the Apostles use that argument men was created first from which they deduce a priority from it they emphasize the fact also that woman was made out of the men taken out of the men and meant to be a help for men. [00:15:38]
The fall has made a difference indeed Genesis 3:16 does establish that let me read it to you again and to the woman he said now because of what you've done I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception from which one can that adduce the childbirth would probably have been painless where it not for sin and the fall. [00:21:12]
The wife is in this position to be subject to her husband does not mean that she is the slave of her husband it doesn't mean that she is inferior to her husband as such doesn't mean that for a moment we shall see this still more clearly when we come to consider what the Apostle says about the duty of the husband to the wife. [00:29:02]
The woman is different that she is the compliment of the men and that what he does prohibit is that a woman should seek to be manly although the woman should seek to behave as a man or that a woman should seek to usurp the place in the position of the power which have been given to men by God himself. [00:29:35]
The husband is the head he always had to stake the decision she'd supplied him with the reasons she'd shown him what the decision inevitably was but she was acting as a help meet for him she'd got these qualities that he lacked she was complementing she was supplementing she was really doing this very thing and the husband was the head. [00:38:50]
The failure to understand and to implement this very teaching that is causing most of the problems in the world today what is the basic problem in the world today it is the problem of authority the chaos in the world today is due to the fact that people in every relevant Department of life have lost all respect for authority. [00:39:36]
The appalling increase in divorce since the war is due to one thing only that men and women don't understand this scriptural teaching about marriage and about husbands and wives it is also the explanation of the breakdown in family and in home life which is again so obvious at the present time the family is ceasing to be the center that it was. [00:41:00]
The husband is deliberately the cating the position in which God has put him it's happening amongst Christian people but it's happening still more amongst the non-christian the husband is evacuating his own position leaving it in his laziness to the wife this is happening in many directions of course so many Christian people today won't touch politics. [00:43:20]
A matriarchal society with the women as the head and center of the home is a denial of the biblical teaching and is indeed a repetition of the original sin of Eve the problem is of course increasingly being recognized that is why you've got to have marriage guidance counselors and so on that LS how do they approach them they approach them in terms of psychology. [00:45:05]