Understanding and Battling Shame Through Faith

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Day 1: Distinguishing Between Justified and Misplaced Shame

Shame is a complex emotion that can either be justified or misplaced. Misplaced shame occurs when individuals feel embarrassed about actions that honor God, such as sharing the gospel or associating with those who suffer for Christ. On the other hand, well-placed shame is appropriate when one's actions dishonor God. Understanding this distinction is crucial for living a God-centered life. By recognizing the difference, believers can align their emotions with God's perspective, ensuring that their feelings of shame are rooted in truth and not in societal pressures or misconceptions. [05:19]

"For the Lord will not forsake his people; he will not abandon his heritage; for justice will return to the righteous, and all the upright in heart will follow it." (Psalm 94:14-15, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a recent situation where you felt ashamed. Was it because of something that honored or dishonored God? How can you align your feelings with God's perspective today?

Day 2: A God-Centered Criterion for Shame

The biblical criterion for shame is radically God-centered. Believers should not feel shame for actions that exalt Christ, even if they appear weak or foolish in the world's eyes. Conversely, shame is appropriate when actions detract from God's glory, regardless of how they are perceived by others. This God-centered approach helps believers navigate the complexities of shame, ensuring that their emotions are aligned with divine truth rather than societal norms. By focusing on God's perspective, believers can live boldly for Christ, unencumbered by misplaced shame. [13:26]

"For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ." (Galatians 1:10, ESV)

Reflection: Consider an area in your life where you seek approval from others. How can you shift your focus to seeking God's approval instead?

Day 3: Battling Shame Through Faith

The battle against shame, whether misplaced or well-placed, is fundamentally a battle against unbelief. Trusting in God's promises and His power to vindicate us is essential for overcoming the crippling effects of shame. This trust enables believers to live boldly for Christ, confident in the knowledge that God will ultimately vindicate them. By focusing on God's promises, believers can combat the unbelief that fuels shame, allowing them to live in freedom and truth. [14:51]

"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10, ESV)

Reflection: Identify a promise of God that you struggle to believe. How can you remind yourself of this promise throughout your day?

Day 4: Practical Examples of Battling Shame

The story of the woman who anointed Jesus' feet illustrates how to battle well-placed shame by believing in Jesus' forgiveness over the condemning voices around us. Similarly, Paul's confidence in God's power to guard what has been entrusted to him shows how to fight misplaced shame. These examples provide practical insights into overcoming shame by focusing on God's truth and forgiveness. By emulating these examples, believers can find strength and courage to face shame with faith and confidence. [19:56]

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come." (2 Corinthians 5:17, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt condemned by others. How can you embrace God's forgiveness and truth in that situation today?

Day 5: The Promise of Ultimate Vindication

Believers can take comfort in the promise that all efforts to shame God's people will ultimately fail. Scriptures assure us that those who trust in the Lord will never be put to shame, providing a powerful weapon against the forces that seek to shame us. This promise of ultimate vindication empowers believers to live boldly for Christ, knowing that their faithfulness will be rewarded. By holding onto this promise, believers can face shame with confidence, assured of God's ultimate victory. [21:47]

"Behold, I am laying in Zion a stone, a cornerstone chosen and precious, and whoever believes in him will not be put to shame." (1 Peter 2:6, ESV)

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you feel vulnerable to shame? How can you hold onto God's promise of vindication in that area today?

Sermon Summary

In today's reflection, we explored the profound and often misunderstood emotion of shame, drawing insights from 2 Timothy 1:6-12. Shame, as we discussed, is a painful emotion that can arise from guilt, shortcomings, or impropriety. However, not all shame is justified. We examined the concept of misplaced shame, which occurs when we feel ashamed of things that honor God, such as testifying about Jesus or associating with those who suffer for the gospel. Conversely, well-placed shame is appropriate when our actions dishonor God, such as when we engage in sin or false teaching.

The biblical criterion for distinguishing between misplaced and well-placed shame is radically God-centered. Misplaced shame arises when we feel embarrassed about things that exalt Christ, while well-placed shame is felt when our actions detract from God's glory. The key to battling shame, whether misplaced or well-placed, lies in combating the unbelief that fuels it. We must trust in God's promises and His power to vindicate us, even when the world seeks to shame us.

We also delved into practical ways to battle shame. For well-placed shame, like the woman who anointed Jesus' feet, the battle is about believing in Jesus' forgiveness over the condemning voices around us. For misplaced shame, such as feeling embarrassed about sharing the gospel, the fight involves trusting in God's ultimate vindication and the assurance that those who believe in Him will never be put to shame.

Key Takeaways

1. Understanding Shame: Shame can be justified or misplaced. Misplaced shame occurs when we feel embarrassed about things that honor God, such as sharing the gospel or associating with those who suffer for Christ. Well-placed shame is appropriate when our actions dishonor God. The distinction is crucial for living a God-centered life. [05:19]
2. God-Centered Criterion: The biblical criterion for shame is God-centered. We should not feel shame for actions that exalt Christ, even if they make us appear weak or foolish in the world's eyes. Conversely, we should feel shame when our actions dishonor God, regardless of how they are perceived by others. [13:26]
3. Battling Shame: The battle against shame, whether misplaced or well-placed, is a battle against unbelief. We must trust in God's promises and His power to vindicate us. This trust enables us to overcome the crippling effects of shame and live boldly for Christ. [14:51]
4. Practical Examples: The story of the woman who anointed Jesus' feet illustrates how to battle well-placed shame by believing in Jesus' forgiveness over the condemning voices around us. Similarly, Paul's confidence in God's power to guard what has been entrusted to him shows how to fight misplaced shame. [19:56]
5. Ultimate Vindication: Believers can take comfort in the promise that all efforts to shame God's people will ultimately fail. Scriptures assure us that those who trust in the Lord will never be put to shame, providing a powerful weapon against the forces that seek to shame us. [21:47]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:20] - Introduction to Shame
[00:57] - Causes of Shame
[01:35] - Example of Guilt-Induced Shame
[02:11] - Example of Shortcoming-Induced Shame
[03:06] - Example of Impropriety-Induced Shame
[03:50] - Misplaced vs. Well-Placed Shame
[05:19] - Misplaced Shame in Scripture
[07:10] - Exalting in Weakness
[09:50] - Well-Placed Shame in Scripture
[13:12] - God-Centered Criterion for Shame
[14:24] - Battling Shame
[15:34] - Example of Well-Placed Shame
[19:03] - Battling Misplaced Shame
[21:47] - Ultimate Vindication for Believers

Bible Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide: Understanding and Battling Shame

Bible Reading:
- 2 Timothy 1:6-12
- 2 Corinthians 12:9-10
- 1 Corinthians 15:34

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Observation Questions:

According to 2 Timothy 1:8, what are the two things Paul advises Timothy not to be ashamed of, and why might these be considered misplaced shame? [05:19]
In 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, how does Paul describe his response to weaknesses and insults, and what does this reveal about his understanding of shame? [08:24]
What does 1 Corinthians 15:34 suggest about the relationship between ignorance of God and well-placed shame? [10:37]
How does the story of the woman who anointed Jesus' feet illustrate the concept of well-placed shame and forgiveness? [15:34]

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Interpretation Questions:

How does the concept of misplaced shame challenge common societal views on what should be considered shameful? Consider how this might affect a believer's actions and testimony. [06:50]
What does Paul's willingness to exalt in his weaknesses in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 suggest about the role of God's power in overcoming shame? How might this perspective change a believer's approach to personal weaknesses? [08:42]
In what ways does the biblical criterion for shame, as described in the sermon, differ from worldly standards? How might this affect a believer's sense of identity and purpose? [13:26]
How does the assurance of ultimate vindication for believers, as mentioned in the sermon, provide a foundation for battling both misplaced and well-placed shame? [21:47]

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Application Questions:

Reflect on a time when you felt ashamed of sharing your faith. How can the assurance of God's ultimate vindication help you overcome this misplaced shame in future situations? [19:56]
Consider an area in your life where you might be experiencing well-placed shame due to actions that dishonor God. What steps can you take to seek forgiveness and realign your actions with God's will? [10:55]
How can you cultivate a mindset that exalts in weaknesses, as Paul did, to allow God's power to be made perfect in your life? Identify a specific weakness you can surrender to God this week. [08:42]
Think about a person or situation that has caused you to feel misplaced shame. How can you shift your perspective to see this as an opportunity to honor God rather than succumb to societal pressures? [06:50]
The sermon emphasizes battling shame by combating unbelief. What specific promises of God can you hold onto to strengthen your faith and resist the crippling effects of shame? [14:51]
How can the story of the woman who anointed Jesus' feet inspire you to seek forgiveness and embrace the peace that comes from believing in Jesus' promises? [15:34]
Identify a practical way you can support a fellow believer who might be struggling with shame, whether misplaced or well-placed, and encourage them in their faith journey. [21:27]

Sermon Clips

shame is a painful emotion that comes from a consciousness of guilt, shortcoming, or impropriety. let me illustrate those three possible causes of this painful emotion take guilt for example suppose you against your conscience withhold information on your income tax form and send it off and uh forget about it and for two years nothing happens and you feel nothing and then suddenly notification arise arrives that you're being investigated and it comes out that you have lied and you have stolen and it is public and you feel now shame for the guilt that is yours [00:41:52]

now one of the things that emerges from this little analysis of a dictionary definition of Shame is that there is some shame that is Justified and some shame that's not justified I think all of us would agree that if if I lie on my income tax and withheld information about honorariums because I don't think Uncle Sam can find out about honorariums and then I was uncovered and it became public most of us would agree I ought to feel shame that's right to feel it [00:21:53]

do not be ashamed then of testifying to our Lord nor of me his prisoner but take your share of suffering for the gospel in the power of God now two things are spoken of as uh shame that ought not to be in this text number one we ought not to feel shame about testifying to Jesus Christ that would be misplaced shame if shame starts to rise in your heart when you have an occasion to Bear witness to Jesus is bad it ought not to be there that's misplaced shame we must battle it [00:05:28]

the hidden Criterion of what constitutes misplaced shame is whatever exalts Jesus ought not to bring shame upon his people no matter what the world thinks of us now let's look at another text to illustrate this second Corinthians 12 verses 9 to 10. in this text you remember Paul is struggling with the thorn of the flesh The Thorn In the Flesh and uh he asked God Christ to take it away and and Jesus responds to him in verse 9 of second Corinthians 12. my grace is sufficient for you [00:06:55]

weaknesses and insults are usually in ordinary Human Experience Grounds For Shame if you try something and you look like a weakling it is shame if you try something and all you get is insults from people you feel shame ordinarily an ordinary human criteria now Paul says just the opposite he says weaknesses and insults cause me to now exalt which is the opposite of Shame exalting why how can this be notice the Criterion that he's using this is the mark of a Christian [00:08:01]

the biblical Criterion for misplaced shame and well-placed shame is radically God centered the biblical Criterion for misplaced shame says don't feel shame at something that honors God even if you look weak and foolish and wrong in the world's eyes and well-placed shame the Criterion there is do feel shame when you've had a hand in dishonoring God no matter how strong or wise or right you look in the world Orient what you feel shame about on God not on man [00:13:21]

the answer to the question how you battle shame whether misplaced or well placed is the same in principle namely you battle it by battling the unbelief that feeds its life now let me illustrate with three closing instances of Shame I'm going to take well-placed shame and show how to battle that and why to battle it I'm going to take an instance of misplaced shame like shame in the gospel and I'm going to take an instance of misplaced shame where others are keeping shame upon you that you ought not to have [00:14:19]

how do you battle well-placed shame for example Luke 7 says there was a woman who came to Jesus he was in the house of a Pharisee named Simon eating she was a sinner probably a euphemism for a prostitute she comes in and her face is streaming with tears of penitence evidently had heard Jesus or known Jesus in some context and had been broken this is an occasion for well-placed change he is a sinner she ought to be ashamed of what she's done so she comes with tears of Shame and tears of uh penitence on her face [00:15:28]

now what is at stake at this moment belief in the promises of Jesus if she believes the Pharisees she will pull her veil down over her face and Scurry out and be done for her as a woman if she believes Jesus she will stand and back away with his promise filling her and walk out into a new life and Hope the issue for how to battle on an inappropriately extended and crippling well-placed shame is the Battle of unbelief will she believe Jesus or the forces around her that are shaming her [00:18:14]

Paul talks about his own battle with feeling shame for something that ought not to cause shame because it is God honoring and God glorifying let's read verse 12 to see how he fought this battle he said in verse 12 therefore I suffer as I do that is I take insults I take the imprisonment of others then he says but I am not ashamed for I know whom I have believed there it is I am sure that he who is able I am sure that he is able to guard unto that day what has been entrusted to me [00:19:31]

you fight it by believing the promise that in the end all the efforts of people to shame the people of God will fail and there are dozens and dozens of texts that say that for example Isaiah 45 17 you shall not be put to shame or confounded to all eternity says the Lord Romans 10 11 no one who believes in the Lord will be put to shame for all the evil for all the deceit for all the Judgment for all the criticism That Others May Heap Upon Us in order to increase our shame [00:21:37]

the promise stands sure they will not succeed for the people of God the people of God will be Vindicated the truth will be made known those who trust him will be glorified all who believe in the Lord will never be put to shame we fight with those kinds of truths against misplaced shame it's a battle of unbelief this is light and Truth god-centered preaching to help you see Christ clearly and treasure him truly [00:22:27]

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Understanding and Battling Shame Through Faith

Devotional

Day 1: Distinguishing Between Justified and Misplaced Shame

Day 2: A God-Centered Criterion for Shame

Day 3: Battling Shame Through Faith

Day 4: Practical Examples of Battling Shame

Day 5: The Promise of Ultimate Vindication

Sermon Summary

Key Takeaways

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Bible Study Guide

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Understanding and Battling Shame Through Faith

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