We were once completely separated from God, living without hope and excluded from His promises. This condition of spiritual alienation was our reality before Christ intervened. It is crucial to remember this state of being far off, as it grounds our understanding of grace. Our new identity is not built on our own efforts but is entirely a gift from Him. This remembrance should shape how we view ourselves and others. [10:35]
“Don’t forget that you Gentiles used to be outsiders. You were called “uncircumcised heathens” by the Jews, who were proud of their circumcision, even though it affected only their bodies and not their hearts. In those days, you were living apart from Christ. You were excluded from citizenship among the people of Israel, and you did not know the covenant promises God had made to them. You lived in this world without God and without hope.” (Ephesians 2:11-12 NLT)
Reflection: In what specific area of your life do you most need to remember the grace that brought you from being an outsider to being included in God's family? How might remembering this change your perspective today?
Jesus did not merely open a door for us; He violently tore down the wall of hostility that separated us from God and from each other. His death on the cross was the ultimate act of reconciliation, destroying the system that kept us apart. This divine action was initiated by God out of His great love, not because of anything we had done. We are brought near solely through the blood of Christ, which provides peace and unity. [13:41]
“But now you have been united with Christ Jesus. Once you were far away from God, but now you have been brought near to him through the blood of Christ. For Christ himself has brought peace to us. He united Jews and Gentiles into one people when, in his own body on the cross, he broke down the wall of hostility that separated us.” (Ephesians 2:13-14 NLT)
Reflection: Where do you see walls of hostility or separation in your community? How can you, empowered by Christ's finished work, participate in breaking down one of those walls this week?
Through faith in Christ, our status is completely transformed. We are no longer strangers or foreigners but full citizens with all of God’s holy people. This is not a second-class membership but a full adoption into the family of God. We are carefully joined together with other believers, becoming a dwelling place for God’s Spirit. This new identity is permanent and secure, founded on the work of Jesus. [20:45]
“So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God’s holy people. You are members of God’s family. Together, we are his house, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus himself.” (Ephesians 2:19-20 NLT)
Reflection: What does being a "citizen" and "family member" rather than a "stranger" mean for your daily sense of belonging and security? How can you extend that same sense of belonging to someone who might feel like an outsider?
The church is not a building but a living community, built together by God. Each person is a vital part of this construction, joined together with Christ as the cornerstone. This means every believer has a place and a purpose within the body. We are being built together into a holy temple where the Lord lives by His Spirit. Our unity and growth are entirely dependent on Him. [23:38]
“We are carefully joined together in him, becoming a holy temple for the Lord. Through him you Gentiles are also being made part of this dwelling where God lives by his Spirit.” (Ephesians 2:21-22 NLT)
Reflection: How are you actively contributing to being "carefully joined together" with other believers in your church? Is there a step you can take to strengthen your connection to the spiritual house God is building?
Our motivation to welcome others does not come from sheer willpower but from remembering how Christ welcomed us. He moved toward us in our sin and separation, making the ultimate sacrifice to bring us near. Our hospitality is a grateful response to His grace, not an obligation we must fulfill on our own. As we abide in His love, we are empowered to extend that same radical welcome to those around us. [08:29]
“We love each other because he loved us first.” (1 John 4:19 NLT)
Reflection: Who is one person in your life—a neighbor, coworker, or family member—that God might be inviting you to welcome in a fresh way? What is one practical, loving action you can take to reflect Christ's welcome to them?
A four-week series titled Uncomfortable calls the church to rethink how it welcomes people. The church should keep teaching Scripture accurately and lead worship that points to Jesus, but it must also consider the tangible experience newcomers receive on Sunday mornings. Practical hospitality matters: small details — clear signage, visible trash cans, friendly routing — shape whether people feel seen and safe. Culture forms when church members step out of inside groups and make room for strangers, remembering that Jesus already tore down the dividing wall between people.
Ephesians 2 provides the theological foundation: Gentiles once stood as outsiders, excluded from covenant promises and hope, but Christ’s death brought unity and nearness to God. The cross did not simply open a door; it demolished the barrier and created one new people from two groups. That unity redefines identity: believers now stand as citizens and members of God’s family, joined on the cornerstone of Christ and built on the apostles’ and prophets’ teaching. Belonging depends on Christ’s work, not on tenure, status, or committee service.
The church holds a twofold task. First, guard the essentials: Scripture, true worship, and authentic faith formation must remain primary. Second, adopt an intentional hospitality ethic that mirrors Christ’s action—willing to be uncomfortable for the sake of reconciliation. Concrete stories — helping stranded drivers, thinking through guest flow like a theme park, and the image of naturalization into citizenship — illustrate how small actions communicate belonging. The Spirit dwells among the gathered; the community must act like a house where God lives, dismantling old boundaries and extending citizenship to all who come by faith. The closing call invites prayer and renewed resolve to point others to Christ through both truth and welcome.
What we're gonna be talking about over the next four weeks is how we as a church can be more welcoming. How can we as a church be something that that people desire to be a part of and that we're a good front door? I listen to a podcast on my way home from the Unstuck Church which I listen to them all often. And the Unstuck Church truly is is I think I've talked about them many times before, but the Unstuck Church is a group that that goes into churches and they sometimes are a
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#WelcomingChurchSeries
Just a couple weeks ago, we had so much snow and rain or snow rather. My road was covered and on the way home from something. It was late in the evening. We came home and there was a car off the road and it was weird because that previous Sunday I just mentioned in my sermon that there was a different car off the road. That happens a lot in Hamlin, they don't really plow the roads very well. That I I just drove past because I ran out of time. And this time I had some time so I actually stopped. I took my own advice for my sermon and I stopped and
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#DoWhatYouPreach
So I listened to this podcast and one of the things they talk about is the experience of Sunday morning, which is an important thing. Now, the experience of Sunday morning does not top the list of important things for our church to focus on. The tops of the list are that we teach from the bible. We teach the word of God true and as accurate as I can. That's the top of the list. If we're not doing that right, it doesn't matter what our experience looks like.
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#ScriptureFirst
When we play softball, we play against other churches. God doesn't have a hand in I don't think he does any of that anyways, but we are one of many churches. In the the community of Hilton, the churches work so incredibly well together. Our youth group HYM is a perfect example of how the churches don't do things the way the business model suggests, but yet we're looking to glorify God and beat his kingdom here on earth.
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#KingdomOverCompetition
The churches work well together but as long as we're teaching scripture and we're singing worship to him, what are the things that sets Parma Christian different from the other churches? Some of it is what version of the bible we read or or some of the small nuances of of faith that that shift and change over time. Some of it is how welcoming of a community are we? I've seen a a handful of people, you know, we're we're we are absolutely a smaller church, no doubt.
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#SmallChurchBigHeart
What experience do you get when you come into a church building? I know a lot of times, I'll say out front, this is a bad analogy, but I'll use it anyways. Think about when you go to Disney. If you've never been to Disney, sorry, it is a lot of fun. But if you've been to Disney before, think about how Disney World treats their guests. There is a reason why people say Disney World is magical.
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#ChurchGuestExperience
I think all the kids are in the back. It's not because there's real magic. It is because they have a lot of people working in front and behind the scenes to make that place clean and welcoming and exciting, and they put a lot of time, effort, and for Disney, a lot of money into making an experience that you will never ever forget. How does that correlate to church? I love my brother, always says, he takes up the Disney model for garbage cans.
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#MagicIsInTheDetails
Something as simple and stupid as garbage cans. Disney's model for garbage cans is put them literally everywhere, so that when you have something to throw away, you have a place to put it. It's something simple and as simple as that, but it makes a difference. To start this idea off, the the uncomfortable getting out of our comfort zone of of our own inside groups. Before we talk about how we do that, let's take a step back.
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#PracticalWelcome
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