Turning Back: The Power of Repentance
Summary
### Summary
Today, we explored the profound and often challenging concept of repentance, focusing on what it means to turn towards God after we've turned away. We began with a personal story from my childhood, illustrating the guilt and fear that come with wrongdoing and the relief that comes with confession and making amends. This set the stage for our deeper dive into the biblical narrative of King David, particularly his grievous sins involving Bathsheba and Uriah, and his subsequent repentance as recorded in 2 Samuel 12 and Psalm 51.
We contrasted David's response to his sin with that of King Saul, emphasizing that while Saul became defensive, delusional, and ultimately destructive, David chose to face his sin head-on. This act of turning towards God, despite the shame and guilt, is crucial for experiencing the fullness of joy that God promises. We discussed how sin often leads us to hide and isolate ourselves, but God desires us to turn back to Him, offering grace and mercy.
We also highlighted the importance of having people in our lives who can call us out when we stray, much like Nathan did for David. This accountability is vital for genuine repentance and spiritual growth. Furthermore, we acknowledged that only God can truly put away our sins, making a way for us to return to Him through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ.
Finally, we addressed the extensive and expensive consequences of turning away from God, noting that while bad things can happen due to our sins or simply because we live in a broken world, our response should always be to turn towards God. We concluded with a time of prayer and reflection, using Psalm 51 as a guide to seek God's mercy, cleansing, and restoration of joy.
### Key Takeaways
1. The Necessity of Repentance: Turning towards God after sinning is essential for experiencing the fullness of joy that He promises. Sin leads us to hide and isolate ourselves, but God desires us to return to Him, offering grace and mercy. This act of repentance restores our relationship with God and brings us back into His presence, where there is fullness of joy. [28:30]
2. The Role of Accountability: Having people in our lives who can call us out when we stray is crucial for genuine repentance and spiritual growth. Just as Nathan confronted David, we need friends who are willing to speak truth into our lives, helping us recognize and turn away from our sins. This accountability fosters a deeper, more honest relationship with God and others. [39:10]
3. God's Desire for Our Return: God wants us to turn towards Him, not away. He is not a king who looks at our debt and says, "Get out of my kingdom." Instead, He wants to settle accounts and restore us. This is evident in how He sent Nathan to David, showing that even in our worst moments, God is actively seeking our return to Him. [36:04]
4. The Power of Confession: Confessing our sins and acknowledging our wrongdoings is a powerful step towards repentance. David's simple yet profound confession, "I have sinned against the Lord," exemplifies the humility and honesty required to turn back to God. This act of confession opens the door for God's forgiveness and restoration. [45:48]
5. The Consequences of Sin: Turning away from God has expansive and expensive consequences. While bad things can happen due to our sins or because we live in a broken world, our response should always be to turn towards God. This consistent turning towards Him, regardless of the circumstances, is key to maintaining a healthy, joyful relationship with God. [51:23]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[22:33] - Childhood Mischief and Guilt
[23:35] - The Mulch Incident
[24:52] - The Consequences of Wrongdoing
[26:42] - Turning Away from God: Saul's Example
[27:49] - The Challenge of Turning Towards God
[28:30] - The Joy of Repentance
[29:42] - The Importance of Relationships
[31:03] - David's Story: 2 Samuel 12
[32:32] - David and Bathsheba: The Turning Point
[34:03] - God's Desire for Our Return
[36:04] - The Grace of God
[39:10] - The Role of Accountability
[45:48] - The Power of Confession
[51:23] - The Consequences of Sin
[53:40] - Practicing Repentance
[56:31] - Psalm 51: A Prayer of Repentance
[01:03:57] - The Joy of Salvation
[01:07:50] - Restored Worship
[01:12:40] - Response and Communion
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. 2 Samuel 12:1-14
2. Psalm 51:1-12
#### Observation Questions
1. What was David's initial reaction to Nathan's parable about the rich man and the poor man? ([38:30])
2. How did David respond when Nathan confronted him about his sin? ([45:48])
3. According to Psalm 51, what does David ask God to do for him after acknowledging his sin? (Psalm 51:1-2)
4. What role did Nathan play in David's repentance process? ([34:03])
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why is it significant that God sent Nathan to confront David about his sin? ([36:04])
2. How does David's response to his sin differ from King Saul's response to his own sins? ([26:42])
3. What does Psalm 51 reveal about David's understanding of God's character and forgiveness? (Psalm 51:1-2)
4. How does the concept of accountability, as seen in Nathan's confrontation with David, apply to our spiritual growth today? ([39:10])
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt guilty about something you did wrong. How did you handle it, and what can you learn from David's example of repentance? ([24:52])
2. Do you have people in your life who can hold you accountable and call you out when you stray? If not, how can you cultivate such relationships? ([39:50])
3. How can you practice regular repentance in your daily life to experience the fullness of joy that God promises? ([28:30])
4. When was the last time you confessed your sins to God and sought His forgiveness? How did it impact your relationship with Him? ([45:48])
5. What are some practical steps you can take to turn towards God when you feel ashamed or guilty about your actions? ([36:04])
6. How can you support others in their journey of repentance and spiritual growth, much like Nathan supported David? ([39:10])
7. Consider the consequences of sin mentioned in the sermon. How can you remind yourself of these consequences to avoid turning away from God in the future? ([51:23])
Devotional
Day 1: The Joy of Repentance
Repentance is not just about feeling sorry for our sins; it is about turning towards God and experiencing the fullness of joy that He promises. Sin often leads us to hide and isolate ourselves, creating a barrier between us and God. However, God desires us to return to Him, offering grace and mercy. When we genuinely repent, we restore our relationship with God and are brought back into His presence, where there is fullness of joy. This act of repentance is essential for experiencing the true joy that God has in store for us. [28:30]
Psalm 32:5 (ESV): "I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, 'I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,' and you forgave the iniquity of my sin."
Reflection: Think of a specific sin or wrongdoing that you have been hiding or avoiding. How can you take a step towards confessing it to God today and experiencing His joy and forgiveness?
Day 2: The Importance of Accountability
Having people in our lives who can call us out when we stray is crucial for genuine repentance and spiritual growth. Just as Nathan confronted David, we need friends who are willing to speak truth into our lives, helping us recognize and turn away from our sins. This accountability fosters a deeper, more honest relationship with God and others. It is through these relationships that we can grow spiritually and stay on the right path. [39:10]
Proverbs 27:6 (ESV): "Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy."
Reflection: Identify someone in your life who can hold you accountable in your spiritual journey. How can you invite them to speak truth into your life and help you stay on the right path?
Day 3: God's Desire for Our Return
God wants us to turn towards Him, not away. He is not a king who looks at our debt and says, "Get out of my kingdom." Instead, He wants to settle accounts and restore us. This is evident in how He sent Nathan to David, showing that even in our worst moments, God is actively seeking our return to Him. God’s grace and mercy are always available, and He desires to bring us back into a loving relationship with Him. [36:04]
Isaiah 1:18 (ESV): "Come now, let us reason together, says the Lord: though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they shall become like wool."
Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt distant from God. How can you take a step today to turn back towards Him and experience His grace and mercy?
Day 4: The Power of Confession
Confessing our sins and acknowledging our wrongdoings is a powerful step towards repentance. David's simple yet profound confession, "I have sinned against the Lord," exemplifies the humility and honesty required to turn back to God. This act of confession opens the door for God's forgiveness and restoration. When we confess our sins, we allow God to cleanse us and restore our relationship with Him. [45:48]
1 John 1:9 (ESV): "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Reflection: Take a moment to confess a specific sin to God today. How does acknowledging your wrongdoing and seeking His forgiveness change your perspective and relationship with Him?
Day 5: The Consequences of Sin
Turning away from God has expansive and expensive consequences. While bad things can happen due to our sins or because we live in a broken world, our response should always be to turn towards God. This consistent turning towards Him, regardless of the circumstances, is key to maintaining a healthy, joyful relationship with God. By continually seeking God, we can navigate the challenges of life with His guidance and support. [51:23]
Galatians 6:7-8 (ESV): "Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life."
Reflection: Consider a recent challenge or consequence you have faced. How can you turn towards God in this situation and seek His guidance and support?
Quotes
### Quotes for Outreach
1. "I am convinced that a lot of us are operating at a joy level in our faith that is far lower than God wants us to live. And so we're operating, let's just call it a scale of one to 10. We're operating with like a two to three level joy when God said, hey, I've promised you life and life abundantly." [28:30] (24 seconds)
2. "The word is not vague. It says in his presence is fullness of joy. But how many of us are gripped by depression or anxiety or just sullenness? I'm not saying depression, anxiety is always the result of sin, but there's certainly strands of it inside of it. In his presence is fullness of joy." [29:09] (20 seconds)
3. "God wants you and I to turn towards him. Jesus tells a story of a king who wanted to settle accounts. It's a popular parable that Jesus tells of someone who owed this person a somewhat smaller amount of money. And he goes, hey, but there's this other guy who owes lots and lots and lots and lots of money to the king. And the story begins with, and the king wanted to settle accounts." [35:16] (31 seconds)
4. "If you and I are gonna be people who turn towards, we will cling to the old rugged cross and exchange it someday for a crown. Only God can do that. Only God can take our sin and put it away. Only God can do that." [49:55] (18 seconds)
5. "There is no sin that can take you out from being used by God. And perhaps at some point in your life you bought a lie you thought that one night stand, that that hookup, that that time that you were an addict, that the brokenness in your family, that God views you as damaged goods. Have mercy on me, O God, according to your steadfast love." [01:08:57] (42 seconds)
### Quotes for Members
1. "We care a lot about relationships in this church. Like a lot, a lot, a lot. We work really hard to cultivate honest and life-giving relationships in this church. And we will kill that if we don't learn how to repent with one another. We will kill the life-giving gift of Christian friendship and brotherhood and sisterhood if we do not learn how to turn towards God." [30:21] (27 seconds)
2. "If you and I are gonna be people who turn towards God, one of the first things we need to know is that God wants us to turn towards him. God wants us to turn towards him. He doesn't want us to stay in a place of shame and guilt. It's not God's good design. He wants us to turn towards." [37:17] (18 seconds)
3. "If you and I are gonna be people who turn towards the Lord, we need to know that God wants us to turn towards. We need to have people in our life who are willing to call us out when we're turning away. And then we need to be people who just plainly acknowledge that we have turned away." [46:32] (19 seconds)
4. "Turning away has expansive and expensive consequences, meaning they are incredibly costly and they only get bigger. How many movies have you seen where a small little lie begins and then all of a sudden they're having to reshape their whole life and tell more lies and more lies and more lies to cover up this one small wrong and now the fallout from their decision, this massive, what do we see? The turning away has expansive and expensive consequences." [52:13] (39 seconds)
5. "Don't let sin and shame rob you from the good works that God created you to walk in from before time began. Don't let sin and shame rob you of the good works that God created for you to walk in from before time began. Perhaps you've been passive in serving the Lord because of sin and shame. And would you just confess that to him now?" [01:09:58] (29 seconds)