The Trinity stands as holy mystery, three persons yet one God, and the usual analogies fall flat or drift toward error. The problem sits in trying to explain what finally must be lived. Trinity can be experienced like a marriage that is defined from the inside by love. Augustine gives the key in a sentence that lands like an anchor: you see the Trinity if you see love. So the way in is not by diagrams but by living into love, into the deep fellowship that is God.
Love, then, is not a soft word. In Christ’s kingdom, love sits at the center of a reconstituted universe, the foundation of the virtues in Saint Paul’s list. That priority was not obvious or sentimental in the ancient world. It was revolutionary. Rome prized courage, justice, self-control, and wisdom, but the God of Israel’s self-giving love startled the Gentiles, and in Jesus that love widened to embrace all nations. Caesar’s empire marched with force; Jesus’ apostles came armed only with love. Only faith working through love counts with the Creator.
The Christian ethic of love is not good vibes. Love is a virtue, a task, a Spirit-powered reforming of humanity. Augustine names virtue as rightly ordered love, and James K. A. Smith reminds the church that humans are primarily lovers, not just thinkers or doers. Desire drives life, so desire needs ordering toward God and neighbor, toward the kingdom’s peace.
That Trinitarian way of life shows up in a person who actually lives it. Stephen Fields loves fiercely. Family, parish, worship, reggae, catechesis, discipleship, community building, encouragement, imagination, joy, and yes, sharp dressing, all gathered into one offered life. His love pulled people together into belonging and praise, lifted up Black Anglicans, birthed yearly Black History worship, and even turned cricket into fellowship. Such work flows from the Great Commission and baptismal vows, where the risen Lord sends disciples to make disciples by word and example.
Genesis roots this in creation. God makes humankind in the divine image and says it is not good to be alone. Trinity is communion, and the image-bearers are made for relationship. The divine communion becomes the model for human community, a way of being together marked by dignity, mutuality, and joy across difference, where equal persons work and play in unity. The strongest witness to Christ is a life lived with the love and grace of God in real communion. Imperfect disciples still draw others to joy because God does not need perfect people to do good. God is relational love; when public, economic, social, or private life drifts from that pattern, communities suffer. Openness, truth, mutual concern, and self-giving are the conditions where the kingdom grows.
Key Takeaways
- 1. Trinity is seen where love lives [38:16] Love discloses God as communion more surely than any clever analogy. Entering love is not a technique but a surrender to be formed by God’s life. Where self-giving love is present, the pattern of Father, Son, and Spirit becomes visible. The mystery is not solved, it is shared. [38:16]
- 2. Christian love unmasks rival kingdoms [41:05] Caesar’s order leans on force; Jesus’ reign advances through cruciform love. The apostles carried no weapons but learned to suffer and bless, and that power turned the world. When love leads, the church’s authority looks like service, and its growth looks like welcome. [41:05]
- 3. Virtue orders desire toward communion [42:14] Rightly ordered love gathers scattered affections and sets them toward God and neighbor. Because humans love before they think, formation must train appetite as much as intellect. Practices that school desire are not optional; they are how holiness becomes habit. [42:14]
- 4. Belonging images God across differences [51:23] Trinity honors equal persons without collapse or rivalry, so the church must too. Real unity does not erase particularity; it reconciles it. When communities protect dignity across gender, race, and story, they tell the truth about the God whose life they share. [51:23]
- 5. Imperfect witness still draws others [52:31] The first disciples were faithful and flawed, yet their love spoke louder than their gaps. God’s mission does not wait for polish, only for availability. A communal life marked by grace becomes an invitation stronger than argument. [52:31]
Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [32:47] - In the name of the Trinity
- [35:15] - Why Trinity resists explanation
- [37:30] - Marriage and living into mystery
- [38:16] - Augustine You see love
- [39:04] - Love as the foundation of virtue
- [41:05] - Apostles armed only with love
- [41:41] - Love as virtue not vibes
- [42:14] - Rightly ordered love, humans as lovers
- [43:00] - Stephen as a lover of the church
- [46:25] - Raising Black Anglicans and belonging
- [48:37] - Go therefore, the shared commission
- [49:31] - Genesis and created for community
- [51:23] - Equal persons in peaceful unity
- [55:27] - Prayer to the Triune God