Transforming the Heart: True Discipleship and Inner Change

 

Summary

### Summary

In today's sermon, we delved into the third part of our series "Squeezed Out," focusing on the contents of our hearts and how they manifest in our lives. We began with some light-hearted marital advice, emphasizing the importance of creative solutions to everyday problems, such as bathroom schedules and toilet paper dispensers. However, the core of our discussion centered on the teachings of Jesus about the heart's condition, as illustrated in Mark 7:14-23. Jesus teaches that it is not what enters a person that defiles them, but what comes out from their heart. This includes evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance, and folly.

We explored how life’s pressures reveal the true contents of our hearts, much like squeezing a tube of toothpaste. Jesus consistently addressed heart issues, urging us to look beyond external appearances and focus on internal transformation. We often compare ourselves to others to minimize our own faults, but Jesus is interested in our hearts, not our lists of sins. We discussed the importance of daily discipleship and the need to die to ourselves continually, not just once. This involves confessing our sins and renewing our minds to align with Christ's teachings.

We also examined specific heart issues like evil thoughts, lewdness, and slander. Evil thoughts are depraved and wicked reasonings that we must continually surrender to Christ. Lewdness involves outrageous conduct that shocks public decency, often driven by spiritual wickedness. Slander, or reproachful speech, undermines our authority as believers to speak life and order into chaos. We are called to bring heaven to earth, but this requires a heart transformation that only Jesus can accomplish.

### Key Takeaways

1. Heart Matters More Than Appearances: Jesus emphasized that what defiles us comes from within, not from external sources. Our hearts harbor evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, and other sins. True transformation begins with addressing these internal issues rather than focusing on outward appearances. [06:25]

2. Daily Discipleship and Self-Denial: Following Christ is not a one-time event but a daily commitment to deny ourselves and allow the old self to die. This involves a continuous process of renewing our minds and surrendering every part of our lives to Jesus. [11:31]

3. Confession and Healing: Many of us struggle with recurring sins because we haven't confessed them to others. James 5:16 teaches that confessing our sins to one another brings healing. Keeping our struggles hidden only perpetuates the cycle of sin. [13:01]

4. Spiritual Discernment Against Lewdness: Lewdness, or outrageous conduct, is often driven by spiritual wickedness. We need the gift of discernment to recognize and combat these spiritual forces. Understanding that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual wickedness helps us address the root causes of such behaviors. [19:21]

5. Power of Words and Authority: Slander undermines our authority as believers. We are called to speak life and order into chaos, just as God did in creation. Recognizing the power of our words and using them to align with God's will can bring about significant change in our lives and the lives of others. [27:45]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:22] - Creative Marital Solutions
[02:46] - Scheduling Bathroom Time
[03:31] - Toilet Paper Dispenser Solution
[04:05] - Dual Toilets Idea
[05:18] - Jesus on Heart Issues
[06:25] - Mark 7:14-23 Explanation
[07:21] - Internal vs. External Purity
[08:13] - Minimizing Our Sins
[09:05] - James 2:10 and the Whole Law
[09:58] - Addressing Evil Thoughts
[10:39] - Discipleship and Self-Denial
[13:01] - Confession and Healing
[14:35] - Renewing the Mind
[16:07] - Fixating on the Past
[17:39] - Battling Temptations
[19:21] - Understanding Lewdness
[21:07] - Example of Lewdness
[22:43] - Without Jesus, We Stay Captive
[24:10] - The Reality of Our Wickedness
[24:42] - Slander and Authority
[25:32] - Speaking Life into Chaos
[27:45] - Power of Words and Authority
[29:57] - Speaking to the Mountain
[31:11] - God's Goodness Leads to Repentance
[32:13] - Heart Transformation Over Life Renovation

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
- Mark 7:14-23: "Again Jesus called the crowd to him and said, 'Listen to me, everyone, and understand this. Nothing outside a person can defile them by going into them. Rather, it is what comes out of a person that defiles them.' If anyone has ears to hear, let them hear. After he had left the crowd and entered the house, his disciples asked him about this parable. 'Are you so dull?' he asked. 'Don’t you see that nothing that enters a person from the outside can defile them? For it doesn’t go into their heart but into their stomach, and then out of the body.' (In saying this, Jesus declared all foods clean.) He went on: 'What comes out of a person is what defiles them. For it is from within, out of a person’s heart, that evil thoughts come—sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and defile a person.'"

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Jesus say about what defiles a person in Mark 7:14-23?
2. According to the sermon, what are some of the specific heart issues that Jesus addresses? [06:25]
3. How does the sermon illustrate the concept of life’s pressures revealing the true contents of our hearts? [05:18]
4. What are some creative solutions mentioned in the sermon for everyday marital problems? [01:22]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does Jesus emphasize that what comes out of a person defiles them rather than what goes in? How does this shift the focus from external actions to internal conditions? [06:25]
2. How does the concept of daily discipleship and self-denial relate to the process of heart transformation discussed in the sermon? [11:31]
3. What role does confession play in healing according to James 5:16, as mentioned in the sermon? [13:01]
4. How does the sermon explain the need for spiritual discernment in recognizing and combating lewdness? [19:21]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your own heart. Are there any internal issues like evil thoughts, greed, or slander that you need to address? How can you begin to work on these areas this week? [06:25]
2. Daily discipleship involves self-denial and renewing your mind. What specific steps can you take each day to deny yourself and align your thoughts with Christ’s teachings? [11:31]
3. Have you ever struggled with recurring sins because you kept them hidden? How can you find a trusted person to confess to and seek healing? [13:01]
4. Think about a time when you encountered lewdness or outrageous conduct. How did you respond, and how might you use spiritual discernment to address such situations in the future? [19:21]
5. Words have power. Reflect on a recent conversation where you might have used slander or negative speech. How can you change your words to speak life and order into situations? [27:45]
6. Jesus calls us to bring heaven to earth. What is one practical way you can embody this calling in your daily life, especially in challenging situations? [24:42]
7. Identify a specific "mountain" in your life that you need to speak to with authority. What words of faith and power can you use to address this challenge? [27:45]

Devotional

Day 1: The Heart Matters More Than Appearances
Jesus emphasized that what defiles us comes from within, not from external sources. Our hearts harbor evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, and other sins. True transformation begins with addressing these internal issues rather than focusing on outward appearances. Jesus' teachings in Mark 7:14-23 highlight the importance of internal purity over external rituals. He calls us to examine our hearts and recognize the sinful thoughts and desires that reside within us. This introspection is crucial for genuine spiritual growth and transformation.

In our daily lives, we often focus on maintaining a good outward appearance, whether it's through our actions, words, or how we present ourselves to others. However, Jesus teaches that true purity and righteousness come from within. It's not enough to look good on the outside; we must also cultivate a pure heart. This requires us to confront and address the sinful thoughts and desires that we may try to hide from others. By doing so, we can experience true transformation and become more like Christ. [06:25]

Mark 7:20-23 (ESV): "And he said, 'What comes out of a person is what defiles him. For from within, out of the heart of man, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, coveting, wickedness, deceit, sensuality, envy, slander, pride, foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and they defile a person.'"

Reflection: What sinful thoughts or desires are you harboring in your heart? How can you begin to address these internal issues and seek true transformation in Christ?


Day 2: Daily Discipleship and Self-Denial
Following Christ is not a one-time event but a daily commitment to deny ourselves and allow the old self to die. This involves a continuous process of renewing our minds and surrendering every part of our lives to Jesus. Daily discipleship means consistently choosing to follow Jesus, even when it's difficult or inconvenient. It requires us to prioritize our relationship with Him above all else and to continually seek His guidance and direction in our lives.

Self-denial is a crucial aspect of discipleship. It means putting aside our own desires, ambitions, and plans in favor of God's will. This can be challenging, as it often involves making sacrifices and letting go of things that we hold dear. However, by denying ourselves and taking up our cross daily, we can experience the fullness of life that Jesus promises. This daily commitment to discipleship and self-denial is essential for spiritual growth and maturity. [11:31]

Luke 9:23-24 (ESV): "And he said to all, 'If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.'"

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find yourself holding back from surrendering to Jesus? What would surrendering this area to Him actually look like in terms of daily habits?


Day 3: Confession and Healing
Many of us struggle with recurring sins because we haven't confessed them to others. James 5:16 teaches that confessing our sins to one another brings healing. Keeping our struggles hidden only perpetuates the cycle of sin. Confession is a powerful tool for breaking the chains of sin and experiencing true freedom in Christ. It allows us to bring our struggles into the light and receive support and accountability from fellow believers.

Healing comes when we are honest about our sins and seek forgiveness and restoration. By confessing our sins to others, we can experience the healing and transformation that God desires for us. This process requires humility and vulnerability, but it is essential for overcoming sin and growing in our relationship with Christ. [13:01]

James 5:16 (ESV): "Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working."

Reflection: Is there a sin or struggle that you have been keeping hidden? Who can you trust to confess this to and seek support and accountability from?


Day 4: Spiritual Discernment Against Lewdness
Lewdness, or outrageous conduct, is often driven by spiritual wickedness. We need the gift of discernment to recognize and combat these spiritual forces. Understanding that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual wickedness helps us address the root causes of such behaviors. Spiritual discernment allows us to see beyond the surface and recognize the spiritual influences at work in our lives and the world around us.

By cultivating discernment, we can better understand the spiritual battles we face and take appropriate action to combat them. This involves prayer, seeking God's guidance, and relying on the Holy Spirit to reveal the truth. With discernment, we can identify and resist the spiritual forces that seek to lead us astray and instead walk in the light of God's truth. [19:21]

Ephesians 6:12 (ESV): "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places."

Reflection: How can you cultivate spiritual discernment in your daily life? What steps can you take to recognize and combat the spiritual forces that seek to lead you astray?


Day 5: Power of Words and Authority
Slander undermines our authority as believers. We are called to speak life and order into chaos, just as God did in creation. Recognizing the power of our words and using them to align with God's will can bring about significant change in our lives and the lives of others. Our words have the power to build up or tear down, to bring life or death. As believers, we are called to use our words to speak truth, encouragement, and life into the world around us.

By aligning our words with God's will, we can bring about positive change and transformation. This requires us to be mindful of what we say and to use our words intentionally. When we speak life and order into chaos, we reflect God's character and bring His kingdom to earth. This is a powerful way to exercise our authority as believers and make a difference in the world. [27:45]

Proverbs 18:21 (ESV): "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits."

Reflection: How can you use your words to speak life and order into the chaos around you? What specific steps can you take to align your speech with God's will and bring about positive change?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "Understanding that life is absolutely going to squeeze you, even if it's with an office max, Office Supply Depot, uh, whatever that thing is on the tube. Life is going to squeeze you, and whatever's inside you is inevitably what is going to come out." [05:18] (19 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Jesus is not interested in our list. He is interested in our hearts. He's not interested in how good of a person you think you are and how small your list is. Hear me. Verse 21 out of the passion translation. Evil originates from inside a person." [09:05] (23 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "Without Jesus seeing me with my lewdness, seeing me with my envy, seeing me with my malice, seeing me with my deceit, seeing with me with my sexual immorality. Seeing me and coming and finding me where I am not to cast blame on me, not to point out my failures because he loves me enough to pull me out of my depravity, to pull me out of my wicked without Jesus doing that. I stay captive." [22:43] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "It's the goodness of God that leads us to repentance. It's God's kindness that he comes down. It starts to poke at the areas that you've puffed up. It's God's goodness and his kindness that causes him to come down and start pushing on the walls of self-righteousness, of pride, ego and religion that we've erected." [31:11] (20 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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### Quotes for Members

1. "We are, we are so unaware that it's the dis that's discipleship with Jesus, not attendance of a church that is the determining factor in the life of a surrendered follower of Christ. You're not a follower of Christ because you attend a church. You're not a follower of Christ because you're a member. You're not a follower of Christ because you serve at a church. You're not a follower of Christ because you work at a church. You're not a follower of Christ because you serve at a church. You're a follower of Christ because you're a follower of Christ when you are exemplifying a disciplined life." [11:31] (32 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "We think that we just punched a ticket when we said yes to Jesus is like okay great I'm ready for heaven but we realize it's no we're supposed to bring heaven on earth now in this moment but because watch because I don't see and I don't allow others to see the evil thoughts on the inside of my heart and mind, they never get addressed." [13:01] (25 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "We think salvation is about going to heaven. Salvation was to get you and I in a posture that we call heaven into earth. That's what salvation is about. It's not about just showing up and I'm like, alright, I'm doing this. I'll just go to church. This is where I sit in the same seat every year. I sit in the same seat every Sunday. No. It's about you being light in the darkness. And not just to be light, but to speak light into their darkness." [27:01] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "We don't realize the power that we have in the words that we speak. We think salvation is about going to heaven. Salvation was to get you and I in a posture that we call heaven into earth. That's what salvation is about. It's not about just showing up and I'm like, alright, I'm doing this. I'll just go to church. This is where I sit in the same seat every year. I sit in the same seat every Sunday. No. It's about you being light in the darkness." [27:01] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "It's always been Jesus. It will always be Jesus. He picked me up out of the miry clay. He set my feet on a firm foundation. It's Jesus. It's always been Jesus. Watch that he comes in and says it's not about life renovation. It's about heart transformation." [32:13] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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