Transforming Relationships Through God's Love

Summary

In our series "Friends, Family, and Foes," we explore the profound truth that every relationship is inherently spiritual. This applies to everyone, regardless of their faith or lack thereof. We often seek relationship advice from culture, social media, or even our own instincts, but the teachings of Jesus offer a transformative perspective. Every person is created in the image of God, loved by God, and invited into His purposes. This foundational understanding means that God takes our relationships seriously, even personally. Our connection with others is deeply intertwined with our relationship with God. We cannot compartmentalize these relationships, thinking that as long as we are good with God, our relationships with others don't matter.

Loving God means loving others, and when we love others, we are loving God. This is non-negotiable. Jesus' sacrifice on the cross made us right with God, but the real question is whether we will live out the reality of His love in our relationships with others. The Bible is filled with patterns and principles that emphasize the link between our relationships with people and our relationship with God. For instance, the prophet Micah highlights that acting justly and loving mercy are as important as walking humbly with God. Jesus also taught that resolving conflicts with others takes precedence over worship. The Apostle John bluntly states that claiming to love God while hating others makes us liars.

Our relationships with others, especially the difficult ones, are a reflection of our relationship with God. It's easy to love those who love us back, but Jesus calls us to love even our enemies. This is what sets us apart as children of God. We must continually seek ways to engage in relationships, even when they are challenging, and ask ourselves, "What does love require of me?" This is not about forcing reconciliation but being willing to participate in the process of healing and honoring others as God has honored us.

Key Takeaways:

- Every relationship is spiritual because every person is created in the image of God, loved by God, and invited into His purposes. This understanding should shape how we view and treat others, recognizing that God takes our relationships seriously and personally. [25:53]

- Loving God means loving others, and this is non-negotiable. Our relationship with God is deeply connected to how we treat others. Jesus' sacrifice made us right with God, but we must live out His love in our relationships. [29:21]

- The Bible emphasizes the link between our relationships with others and our relationship with God. Patterns and principles throughout Scripture show that how we treat others is a reflection of our love for God. [34:09]

- Loving others, especially those who are difficult to love, is what sets us apart as children of God. Jesus calls us to love our enemies and do good without expecting anything in return. This is the true test of our faith. [45:23]

- We must continually ask ourselves, "What does love require of me?" in our relationships. This involves being willing to engage in the process of healing and honoring others, even when it's challenging. Our relationship with God is reflected in how we treat others. [54:00]

Youtube Chapters:

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:30] - Introduction to Relationship Series
[02:00] - Every Relationship is Spiritual
[05:00] - Created in the Image of God
[10:00] - God's Love for Everyone
[15:00] - God's Investment in Our Relationships
[20:00] - The Link Between Relationships and God
[25:53] - Patterns and Principles in Scripture
[30:00] - Jesus' Teachings on Relationships
[35:00] - The Priority of Reconciliation
[40:00] - Apostle John's Mic Drop
[45:23] - Loving the Difficult People
[50:00] - Avoiding Extremes in Relationships
[54:00] - What Does Love Require?
[56:33] - Closing Prayer and Invitation

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Micah 6:8 - "He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."
2. Matthew 5:23-24 - "Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift."
3. 1 John 4:20-21 - "Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen."

#### Observation Questions
1. According to the sermon, what does it mean to say that every relationship is spiritual? [25:53]
2. How does the sermon describe the connection between loving God and loving others? [29:21]
3. What examples from the Bible were given to illustrate the importance of resolving conflicts with others before worshiping God? [36:03]
4. What does the Apostle John say about claiming to love God while hating others? [39:43]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does the understanding that every person is created in the image of God influence the way we should approach our relationships? [25:53]
2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that our relationship with others impacts our relationship with God? [29:21]
3. Why does Jesus prioritize reconciliation with others over worship, according to the sermon? [36:03]
4. How does the sermon challenge the idea of compartmentalizing our relationship with God from our relationships with others? [44:04]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a difficult relationship in your life. What does love require of you in that situation, and how can you begin to act on it this week? [54:00]
2. Think of a time when you prioritized your personal relationship with God over resolving a conflict with someone else. How might you approach that situation differently now? [36:03]
3. Identify a person in your life who is challenging to love. What practical steps can you take to show them love without expecting anything in return? [45:23]
4. How can you incorporate the principle of acting justly, loving mercy, and walking humbly with God into your daily interactions with others? [34:09]
5. Consider the relationships in your life that you have neglected. What is one action you can take this week to begin healing or strengthening those connections? [49:05]
6. How can you remind yourself regularly to ask, "What does love require of me?" in your interactions with others? [55:07]
7. Reflect on the sermon’s message about God taking our relationships personally. How does this perspective change the way you view your interactions with others? [44:04]

Devotional

Day 1: Every Relationship is a Divine Connection
Every relationship we have is inherently spiritual because every person is created in the image of God, loved by God, and invited into His purposes. This understanding should shape how we view and treat others, recognizing that God takes our relationships seriously and personally. When we see others through this lens, we begin to understand that our interactions are not just social or emotional but deeply spiritual. This perspective challenges us to treat every person with dignity and respect, knowing that they are valued by God. It also means that our relationships are not isolated from our spiritual life but are a reflection of it. [25:53]

"So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them." (Genesis 1:27, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a relationship in your life that you have taken for granted. How can you begin to see this person as created in the image of God and treat them accordingly today?

Day 2: Love for God is Inseparable from Love for Others
Loving God means loving others, and this is non-negotiable. Our relationship with God is deeply connected to how we treat others. Jesus' sacrifice made us right with God, but we must live out His love in our relationships. This means that our faith is not just a private matter but is expressed in how we interact with those around us. The love we receive from God should overflow into our relationships, transforming them and making them a testament to God's love. This is a call to action, to live out the reality of God's love in tangible ways. [29:21]

"Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us." (1 John 4:11-12, ESV)

Reflection: Identify one person you find difficult to love. What is one practical step you can take today to show them love as an expression of your love for God?

Day 3: Our Treatment of Others Reflects Our Love for God
The Bible emphasizes the link between our relationships with others and our relationship with God. Patterns and principles throughout Scripture show that how we treat others is a reflection of our love for God. This means that our spiritual maturity is not just measured by our personal devotion but also by our interactions with others. The way we handle conflicts, show mercy, and act justly are all indicators of our relationship with God. This understanding calls us to examine our hearts and actions, ensuring that they align with the love and justice of God. [34:09]

"He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?" (Micah 6:8, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on a recent conflict or disagreement. How did your response reflect your relationship with God, and what could you do differently next time?

Day 4: Loving the Unlovable is the Mark of God's Children
Loving others, especially those who are difficult to love, is what sets us apart as children of God. Jesus calls us to love our enemies and do good without expecting anything in return. This is the true test of our faith. It is easy to love those who love us back, but the challenge is to extend love to those who may not reciprocate. This kind of love is radical and counter-cultural, but it is what Jesus exemplified and calls us to. It requires us to rely on God's strength and grace, knowing that our love for others is a reflection of His love for us. [45:23]

"But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you." (Luke 6:27-28, ESV)

Reflection: Consider someone who has hurt or wronged you. How can you begin to pray for them and seek ways to show them love, even if it is difficult?

Day 5: Asking "What Does Love Require?" in Every Relationship
We must continually ask ourselves, "What does love require of me?" in our relationships. This involves being willing to engage in the process of healing and honoring others, even when it's challenging. Our relationship with God is reflected in how we treat others. This question challenges us to go beyond our comfort zones and to seek God's guidance in our interactions. It is not about forcing reconciliation but being open to the process of healing and restoration. By asking this question, we align our actions with God's love and purpose for our lives. [54:00]

"Let all that you do be done in love." (1 Corinthians 16:14, ESV)

Reflection: Think of a relationship that needs healing. What does love require of you in this situation, and how can you take a step towards honoring that person today?

Quotes

1. "Welcome, everybody, to Friends, Family, and Foes, a relationship series about every relationship you have in your life. Any relationship with anybody, every relationship, with everybody. Yeah, that's a pretty broad category. So if you are a human being and you have a relationship with any other human being, regardless of how you classify that relationship with that other human being, or even a complete stranger, this series is for you." ([00:23:50] (41 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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2. "Everybody is created in the image of God. Everybody, everybody, everybody, everybody, which leaves out nobody. Everybody's created in the image of God, which means we are all given God-like qualities. Now, not the same level, right? But here's what it means. It means that we all have things like God, like intellect at different levels. We all have emotion. God has emotion." ([00:25:53] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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3. "God is as fully invested into them as he is to you. This is so vitally important to understand foundationally that every relationship is spiritual in this way, and what this means is, is that as a result, God takes your relationships, with them, with each other, with everybody else. God takes your relationship with them very seriously, even personally." ([00:27:47] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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4. "And you and I cannot compartmentalize, and we cannot separate our relationships with each other from our relationship with God. And we try, and we unintentionally go with that. We say things like, well, at least me and God are good. Right? I mean, that's... That's the main thing, right? I mean, at least... As long as me and God are good, I mean, I can't stand her guts." ([00:28:50] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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5. "From a theological standpoint, when Jesus gave his life on the cross for the sins of the world, for my sins, your sins, and sins of the world, to connect us with a holy God. He took care of everything that needs to be done for you and I to be in a right relationship with God as far as you and God are concerned. As far as me and God. So in essence, because of Jesus and through Jesus, God can look at us and say, we're good. We're good." ([00:30:49] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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6. "And one of the undeniable, unavoidable things you will see as far as patterns and principles in the entire Bible is this. There is a link, an undeniable, unavoidable link between your relationship with other people and your relationship with God. You see it time and time and time again. And so when you look at the Bible, you see it time and time again." ([00:33:18] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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7. "If you enter your place of worship, like here, and you're about to make an offering, which we don't offer sacrifices anymore, aren't you glad? Like, ew, right? And you suddenly, you suddenly remember a grudge that a friend has against you. In other words, if you suddenly remember, oh yeah, there's that thing between, oh yeah, or you see someone, you're like, I'm so done with her, I'm so done with him." ([00:35:03] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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8. "If anyone boasts, I love God, and he goes right on hating his brother and sister, and some of you are going, well, I don't hate anybody. You don't get to define what hate is. This word here is the word that helps us. It helps us describe when we mistreat one another, when we disregard one another, when we, you know, I'm done with you, and I avoid you, when I am unkind and unloving to you." ([00:38:54] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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9. "In your relationships, it's never just about you and them. Never. It always has a bearing and effect on your relationship with God. And it's never just about you and God. You can never say, well, just between me and God. Just between me and God. No, no, no. It's going to show up. It'll show up every single time in how you treat one another. This is true for everyone. About everyone. In every situation." ([00:44:07] (29 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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10. "If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? The easy people, right? I mean, it's easy with the easy people. And if you're good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. Even people who don't claim to care about what God wants do that. Even people who don't claim, don't claim to love God and really give a rip about that. I mean, everybody gets that. That's a no-brainer." ([00:45:41] (22 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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Transcript

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