Transforming Hardship: Embracing God in Our Struggles

Devotional

Day 1: Admit You Don’t Know the Way—Depend on God’s Guidance

It is hard to admit when we are lost or don’t know what to do, especially in the midst of hardship. Yet, the first step to a godly response is to humbly acknowledge that our own wisdom and strength are not enough. When we reach the end of our rope, that is where God’s help begins. Instead of barreling ahead in our own understanding, we are called to confess our need and trust God to direct our steps. This honest admission opens the door for God to lead us out of confusion and into His purpose, even when we cannot see the way forward. [23:00]

Jeremiah 10:23 (NKJV)
“O Lord, I know the way of man is not in himself; It is not in man who walks to direct his own steps.”

Reflection: What is one area of your life where you have been trying to “fix it” on your own? Can you pause today, admit your need for God’s direction, and ask Him to show you the next step?

Day 2: Ask God for Mercy and the Right Way to Go

When we realize our way has led us astray, the next step is to come before God with humility, asking not only for correction but for mercy. God’s justice means He has every right to judge us for our sins, but His heart is to show mercy to those who seek Him. We are invited to pray honestly, “Lord, correct me, but not in Your anger—show me grace.” Through Christ, God has already provided the mercy and grace we need, forgiving our sins and giving us His Spirit to guide us. Repentance is not just feeling sorry, but turning from our way to God’s way, trusting in His mercy to restore us. [29:09]

Jeremiah 10:24 (NKJV)
“O Lord, correct me, but with justice; Not in Your anger, lest You bring me to nothing.”

Reflection: Is there a specific sin or area of stubbornness you need to bring to God today? Will you ask Him for both correction and mercy, trusting that He will not turn you away?

Day 3: Recognize God’s Righteous Right to Judge

God alone is worthy of worship, and He alone has the right to judge all who reject Him. It can be tempting to think of God’s judgment as harsh, but it is actually a reflection of His holiness and justice. Jeremiah’s prayer acknowledges that God will judge not only His own people but also the nations who do not know Him. This truth reminds us that there is only one way to God—through Jesus Christ. We are called to worship Him alone, giving Him His proper due, and to recognize that rejecting Him leads to judgment, but trusting Him leads to life. [34:40]

Jeremiah 10:25 (NKJV)
“Pour out Your fury on the Gentiles, who do not know You, And on the families who do not call on Your name; For they have eaten up Jacob, Devoured him and consumed him, And made his dwelling place desolate.”

Reflection: Are there any “other gods” or competing loyalties in your life? What would it look like to give God His rightful place as the only one you worship and trust?

Day 4: Let Your Hurt Drive You to God, Not Away

It is okay to admit when you are hurting. Pretending everything is fine only leads to isolation and bitterness, but acknowledging your pain can become the very thing that drives you to the Lord. God invites you to bring your brokenness, disappointment, and even your questions to Him. When you turn to God in your pain, rather than running from Him or numbing yourself with distractions, you open yourself to His comfort, healing, and strength. He does not promise to remove every hardship, but He promises to walk with you through it, transforming your heart along the way. [11:18]

Psalm 34:18 (NKJV)
“The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.”

Reflection: What pain or disappointment have you been trying to hide or handle alone? Will you take a few minutes today to honestly pour out your heart to God and let Him meet you there?

Day 5: Respond to Hardship with Humility and Perseverance

Hardship does not have to destroy you; it can be the very thing God uses to shape you into who He wants you to be. The difference is not in what happens to you, but in how you respond. When you choose humility, admit your need, seek God’s help, and persevere in faith, God can use even the most difficult trials to grow your character, deepen your relationships, and draw you closer to Him. Like Sarah in the story, you may not get the outcome you once dreamed of, but you will find new strength, compassion, and hope on the other side. [45:21]

Romans 5:3-5 (NKJV)
“And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”

Reflection: Think of a current or past hardship—how might God be using it to shape your character or draw you closer to Him? What is one step you can take today to respond with humility and perseverance?

Sermon Summary

Life is full of hardships—some we bring on ourselves, some are caused by others, and some simply come from living in a broken world. The way we respond to these hardships shapes not only our future, but also our relationship with God. When we face pain, disappointment, or loss, it’s tempting to retreat into isolation, bitterness, or self-pity, as illustrated by Marcus’s story. But God’s desire is not for us to be driven away from Him by our struggles; rather, He stands ready to embrace us, to help us, and to use even our darkest moments for our good and His glory.

Looking at Jeremiah 10, we see Jerusalem under siege, facing the consequences of generations of idolatry and rebellion. The people are told to gather their belongings and prepare for exile—a devastating, seemingly incurable wound. Yet, in the midst of this catastrophe, Jeremiah models a response that is honest, humble, and God-centered. He doesn’t pretend the pain isn’t real; he laments, admits the depth of the hurt, and acknowledges the nation’s guilt. This honesty is not weakness—it’s the first step toward healing, because it drives us to the Lord rather than away from Him.

Jeremiah’s prayer in the closing verses of the chapter gives us a pattern for responding to hardship. First, admit that we don’t know the way out on our own. Our wisdom and strength are not enough; we need God to direct our steps. Second, ask God for mercy and correction. Instead of demanding answers or justifying ourselves, we humbly seek His guidance and grace, recognizing that we deserve judgment but pleading for His compassion. Third, recognize God’s righteous right to judge—not just others, but ourselves as well. God alone is worthy of worship, and to turn from Him is to invite ruin. Yet, in Christ, God has provided mercy, grace, and the indwelling of His Spirit to guide us through every trial.

Hardship, then, becomes an opportunity—not to be destroyed, but to be transformed. Like Sarah, who faced the collapse of her business, when we respond with humility, honesty, and faith, God can use even our greatest losses to shape us into people of deeper trust, compassion, and resilience. The promise is not that all pain will be removed, but that God will walk with us, carry us, and ultimately lead us home.

Key Takeaways

1. Honest Lament Leads to Healing Admitting our pain and brokenness is not a sign of weakness, but the beginning of true healing. When we refuse to acknowledge our hurt, we risk isolating ourselves and missing the comfort God offers. Honest lament drives us to seek God’s presence, where we find the strength to endure and the hope to move forward. [11:18]
2. Our Wisdom Is Not Enough—We Need God’s Direction It is humbling to confess that we don’t know the way out of our difficulties. Yet, this admission is essential, because our own understanding often leads us astray. When we reach the end of our rope, we discover that God’s wisdom and guidance are what truly sustain and direct us through life’s hardest moments. [23:00]
3. Mercy Is Found in Humble Repentance God’s justice is real, and our sin deserves judgment. But when we come to Him with a humble heart, asking for correction and mercy, He responds with grace. The cross of Christ is the ultimate demonstration of God’s willingness to forgive and restore those who turn to Him in repentance. [30:02]
4. God Alone Is Worthy of Worship and Obedience It is not enough to treat God as one option among many; He alone is the one true God, deserving of our exclusive worship and trust. To compromise or turn to other sources of hope is to invite ruin, but to give God His rightful place is to align ourselves with His purposes and protection. [39:46]
5. Hardship Can Transform Rather Than Destroy When we respond to suffering with humility, faith, and openness to God’s work, hardship becomes a tool for transformation. God may not remove every difficulty, but He promises to walk with us, to shape our character, and to use our trials to draw us closer to Himself and to others. [45:21]

Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[01:10] - Introduction: Responding to Hardship
[03:05] - Marcus’s Story: Escaping vs. Engaging Pain
[07:34] - God’s Patience and Coming Judgment
[10:03] - Lamenting Loss: Admitting Our Hurt
[12:10] - Jerusalem Personified: Broken Homes and Families
[15:12] - Forgiveness and Healing in Families
[16:34] - The Failure of Leadership
[18:30] - The Devastation of Exile
[20:50] - The Secret to Recovery: We Need the Lord
[22:00] - Three Steps to a Godly Response
[23:00] - Step 1: Admit You Don’t Know the Way
[26:04] - The Danger of Self-Reliance and Compromise
[29:09] - Step 2: Ask for Mercy and Correction
[33:10] - Step 3: Recognize God’s Right to Judge
[39:46] - The Exclusivity of God and True Worship
[41:59] - Turning to God in Hardship
[45:21] - Transformation Through Trials
[46:42] - Invitation to Trust God in Hardship

Bible Study Guide

Bible Reading

Jeremiah 10:17-25 (NKJV) — 17 Gather up your wares from the land, O inhabitant of the fortress!
18 For thus says the Lord: “Behold, I will throw out at this time the inhabitants of the land, And will distress them, That they may find it so.”
19 Woe is me for my hurt! My wound is severe. But I say, “Truly this is an infirmity, And I must bear it.”
20 My tent is plundered, And all my cords are broken; My children have gone from me, And they are no more. There is no one to pitch my tent anymore, Or set up my curtains.
21 For the shepherds have become dull-hearted, And have not sought the Lord; Therefore they shall not prosper, And all their flocks shall be scattered.
22 Behold, the noise of the report has come, And a great commotion out of the north country, To make the cities of Judah desolate, a den of jackals.
23 O Lord, I know the way of man is not in himself; It is not in man who walks to direct his own steps.
24 O Lord, correct me, but with justice; Not in Your anger, lest You bring me to nothing.
25 Pour out Your fury on the Gentiles, who do not know You, And on the families who do not call on Your name; For they have eaten up Jacob, Devoured him and consumed him, And made his dwelling place desolate.

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NKJV) — 5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
6 In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths.

Observation Questions

In Jeremiah 10:19-20, how does Jeremiah describe the pain and loss that Jerusalem is experiencing? What images does he use?
According to verse 21, what does Jeremiah say about the leaders (“shepherds”) of the people, and what was the result of their actions?
In Jeremiah’s prayer (verses 23-25), what three main things does he ask or acknowledge before God?
In Proverbs 3:5-6, what are we told to do instead of relying on our own understanding?

Interpretation Questions

Why do you think Jeremiah chooses to be so honest about the pain and brokenness of the people, instead of pretending everything is fine? What does this teach us about how God wants us to approach Him? [11:18]
What does it mean to admit that “the way of man is not in himself” (Jeremiah 10:23)? How does this challenge our natural tendency to try to fix things ourselves? [23:00]
Why is it important to ask God for correction and mercy, rather than just asking Him to remove our problems? What does this reveal about our hearts and our relationship with God? [29:09]
Jeremiah recognizes God’s right to judge not only other nations but also his own people. How does this shape the way we view God’s authority and our own need for repentance? [39:46]

Application Questions

When you face hardship, do you tend to hide your pain, isolate yourself, or try to “numb” it like Marcus did? What are some specific ways you’ve responded to disappointment or loss in the past? [03:05]
Is there a current struggle or wound in your life that you have not honestly brought before God? What would it look like for you to lament honestly, as Jeremiah did, and invite God into that pain? [11:18]
Are there areas where you have been relying on your own wisdom or strength to get through a difficult season? What would it look like for you to admit, “I don’t know the way,” and ask God to direct your steps? [23:00]
Have you ever experienced God’s correction in your life? How did you respond? Is there something now that you sense God wants to correct in you, and are you willing to ask for His mercy and guidance? [29:09]
Are there “idols” or other sources of hope you tend to turn to instead of God when life gets hard (e.g., work, entertainment, relationships, substances)? What would it look like to give God your exclusive trust and worship in this season? [39:46]
Think about a time when hardship actually led to growth, deeper faith, or greater compassion in your life. What did God teach you through that experience? How can you encourage someone else who is going through a hard time right now? [45:21]
The sermon mentioned that God may not remove every difficulty, but He promises to walk with us through it. How can you remind yourself of God’s presence and promises when you feel overwhelmed? Are there practical steps you can take this week to lean into God and your church family for support? [46:42]

Sermon Clips

``How in the world do you come back from that? Here's the secret. You don't on your own. They couldn't on their own. Friends, that's what's so hard about our response to hardship. We cannot come back as we need to from hardship on our own. Friends, we need the Lord. Amen? No matter what has happened, no matter how hard it is, whether it's personal or family or health or job-related or like Judah, some national tragedy or difficulty, or even if it's something else, friends, the only way we can come back from it is with the Lord's help. It is by responding humbly and in a godly manner, turning to him. [00:20:21] (58 seconds) #WeNeedGodsHelp

The first component, I believe to a godly response to hardship is this. Friends, it is simply to admit that you don't know the way. This is the hardest thing for us as Christians, as human beings to do. It is hard for us to admit, I don't know my way out of this, right? We get overwhelmed. We get mad. We get frustrated. We say, I got to do it. Just start by saying, I'm at my wits end. I don't know how to get out of this. And sometimes friends, it takes something very drastic to bring us to that point. Amen. Some of you thinking, I've been there, pastor. Good. We all need to be there at some point where we've reached the end of our rope. Because the end of our rope is the beginning of God's. Amen. [00:22:11] (59 seconds) #AdmitYouDontKnow

The only hope you and I have is to stand before God and say, God, please be merciful upon me, a sinner. That's the only hope we have. If you plan on standing before God one day and saying, God, what? I've done my best. But God, I made some mistakes, God, but I tried to make up for them. God, I've done so much good in this world. God, you and I are sinners. Doesn't mean we can't do some good things. But friends, we've fallen short of the glory of God. And that shortness that we all have because we're sinners, friends, earns us the wages of sin is death. Eternal sin. separation from God. And so the only way we avoid that is through the mercy of God, appealing to the mercy of God. [00:29:54] (63 seconds) #MercyIsOurOnlyHope

God not only gives us mercy, friends, but God gives us grace. Amen? And whereas mercy is not getting what we do deserve, grace is getting what we don't deserve. We get heaven. None of us deserve that. We become co-heirs with Christ. None of us deserve that. Friends, we get the Holy Spirit right now to live inside of us, to lead us and guide us and direct us. Friends, when we trust Jesus as Lord and Savior, he gives us his spirit to lead us and guide us and direct us and show us the right way to go. Amen? We don't deserve that. [00:32:00] (37 seconds) #GraceBeyondDeserving

When we come to our senses and realize that my way is faulty, our way is a dead-end road, and we turn from that, and we appeal to his mercy and his grace, friends, and we... Here's what that is. That's repentance. Repentance. That's what repentance means. It means to realize that my way is a dead way, and I need to turn and rely on God's mercy and his grace. That's repentance. Okay? When we do that, when we... Turn from our sin and we turn to him, friends. The wonderful grace part of it is he willingly gives us his spirit. Yes, he saves us. Jesus' body, his blood covers our sin, atones for our sin. But he doesn't just save us from our sin. He gives us his spirit to lead us and guide us and show us the right way to go and how to put him first in everything we do. That's glorious. Amen? Amen. [00:32:38] (66 seconds) #RepentanceIsTurning

So how do we respond in a godly way? We need to admit that I don't know my way is the wrong way. I don't know the right way to go. We need to appeal, ask for God's mercy, and ask him to show us the right way to go. And the Bible says if we do, he will. [00:33:44] (16 seconds) #GodLeadsWithSpirit

The point is whether you're a Jew or a Gentile, that's the standard. And friends, that's at the center of what we must understand and believe as Christians. Because if we're not worshiping Yahweh, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit revealed himself to us. One God, three persons sent his son Jesus to die on the cross. Okay. If we're not worshiping him and him alone as the one true God, if we think that he's just one choice of many and I believe many Christians today, I'm going to put that in quotation. Many Christians today think like that. For me, I grew up as a, in a Christian home. And so I choose Jesus. I choose Christianity, but there are a lot of other ways and paths to get to God. Oh no, they're not. Jesus, Jesus himself, his words are exclusive friends. God's words all throughout the scripture are exclusive. There is only one way. And it is through God's one and only son, Jesus, who died on the cross to pay the penalty for our sins. [00:38:49] (75 seconds) #GodJudgesRighteously

Because she responded in a godly way, humbly, turning to the Lord, the hardship she went through had not destroyed her, but instead it helped transform her into who God wanted her to be. Friends, the same thing can be true for you. No matter what you're going through, no matter how difficult it is, give it to the Lord, turn it over to him. [00:45:02] (27 seconds)

It doesn't mean, okay, because here's one of the misunderstandings, it doesn't mean that God's going to immediately wipe out all the difficulties. In fact, it may become more difficult at times. But friends, our eternity is on the line, amen? When you trust in Christ, number one, he saves us from our sin. And that means that our name is written in heaven. And so what that means is that we can look past the hardships of this world to a place where God has prepared for us a wonderful eternity. Is he going to help us here in this world? Yeah, absolutely. Especially as we put the principles that he's given us in his word together in our lives, amen? He's not going to make it perfect, but here's the deal. He's going to walk through us with us. He's going to carry us through it, friends. And we're going to have a church family to walk through with us as well and be there with us. And it doesn't remove life's hardships, but it allows us to walk through it with somebody to guide us each and every step of the way. Do you have that? Have you put your faith and trust in him? Have you turned to him in hardship instead of away from him? [00:45:30] (79 seconds)

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