Transforming Desires: Finding True Happiness in Christ
Summary
In today's message, I shared a personal story from my youth about a friend who questioned the restrictions of a Christian life. He believed that following Christ meant missing out on fun and excitement. However, I explained that Jesus transformed my desires, making me realize that the so-called thrills of the world are fleeting and ultimately worthless. This transformation is a reminder that as Christians, we must constantly guard against the world's attempts to convince us that trivial matters are of utmost importance. The culture around us bombards us with messages that equate our worth with material possessions and immediate gratification. Yet, true fulfillment comes from living with an eternal perspective, focusing on what truly matters in the light of eternity.
I emphasized the importance of remembering what matters most, as Paul did in Philippians 3:8, where he considered everything else worthless compared to knowing Christ. This leads to the second habit for happiness: getting to know Jesus better. Our relationship with God should be our top priority, and it requires intentional effort and time. Just as any meaningful relationship grows through investment, so does our relationship with Christ. We must set aside time daily to connect with Him, even if it's just a few focused minutes.
Furthermore, I encouraged everyone to conduct a daily spiritual checkup, asking God to reveal areas where growth is needed. This practice requires humility but is essential for spiritual maturity. Following Jesus is a lifelong process, not just a one-time decision. Many of us may have started our journey with Christ but have not progressed beyond the initial steps. It's crucial to evaluate where we need to grow and take action to move forward.
Finally, I shared a testimony from a young listener in Greece who found hope and renewed faith through our broadcasts. Her story illustrates the power of sharing our faith and the impact it can have on others. True happiness is found not in worldly pursuits but in following God's commands and living a life centered on His eternal truths.
Key Takeaways:
1. Transformation of Desires: When we accept Christ, our desires change. The things that once seemed thrilling and important become insignificant. This transformation is a testament to the power of Christ in our lives, shifting our focus from temporary pleasures to eternal values. [12:55]
2. Living with an Eternal Perspective: The world constantly tries to convince us that the immediate and trivial are important. However, true happiness comes from focusing on what matters in eternity. We must ask ourselves how much our current worries will matter in the long run. [14:33]
3. Knowing Christ Intimately: Our primary purpose is to know God better. This requires intentional effort and time, just like any meaningful relationship. We must prioritize our relationship with Christ, investing time to grow closer to Him each day. [17:00]
4. Daily Spiritual Checkup: Conducting a daily review of our spiritual life helps us identify areas for growth. This practice requires humility and a willingness to change, but it is essential for spiritual maturity and happiness. [20:43]
5. Sharing Faith and Finding True Happiness: True happiness is not found in worldly pursuits but in following God's commands. Sharing our faith can have a profound impact on others, leading them to discover the joy and fulfillment found in Christ. [25:44]
Youtube Chapters:
[00:00] - Welcome
[12:14] - Transformation of Desires
[13:25] - The Trap of Pop Culture
[14:33] - Living with an Eternal Perspective
[15:42] - Remembering What Matters Most
[16:47] - Getting to Know Jesus Better
[18:21] - Intentional Relationship with Christ
[20:27] - Reviewing Personal Growth
[22:05] - The Process of Following Jesus
[23:21] - Testimony of Transformation
[25:44] - Finding True Happiness
[26:16] - Habits of Happiness Bible Study
Study Guide
### Bible Study Discussion Guide
#### Bible Reading
1. Philippians 3:8-10
2. Psalm 139:23-24
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#### Observation Questions
1. In Philippians 3:8, Paul considers everything else worthless compared to knowing Christ. What does this suggest about his priorities and values?
2. The sermon mentions a personal story about a friend who questioned the restrictions of a Christian life. How did the pastor respond to his friend's perspective? [12:25]
3. According to the sermon, what is the "trap" that pop culture sets for Christians, and how does it affect their focus? [13:39]
4. What daily practice does the pastor suggest for conducting a spiritual checkup, and why is it important? [20:43]
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#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does Paul's statement in Philippians 3:8-10 about knowing Christ challenge the common cultural values of materialism and immediate gratification?
2. The pastor shared a testimony from a young listener in Greece. How does her story illustrate the impact of sharing faith and finding true happiness in Christ? [23:21]
3. In what ways does the sermon suggest that living with an eternal perspective can lead to true happiness, and how does this contrast with worldly pursuits? [14:33]
4. The sermon emphasizes the importance of intentional effort in knowing Christ. How does this relate to the concept of a "determined purpose" mentioned in the sermon? [18:08]
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#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your current desires and priorities. Are there any that you feel need transformation in light of your faith? How can you begin to shift your focus from temporary pleasures to eternal values? [12:55]
2. Consider the cultural messages you encounter daily. How can you guard against the influence of pop culture that equates worth with material possessions? What practical steps can you take to live with an eternal perspective? [13:39]
3. How can you prioritize your relationship with Christ in your daily routine? Identify a specific time each day to connect with Him, even if it's just a few focused minutes. [19:36]
4. Conduct a personal spiritual checkup this week. What areas of your life do you feel need growth? How can you invite God to reveal these areas to you and guide you in your spiritual maturity? [20:43]
5. Think of someone in your life who might benefit from hearing about your faith journey. How can you share your story with them in a way that is authentic and impactful? [25:26]
6. Reflect on the testimony shared in the sermon. How can you use your own experiences to encourage others who may be struggling with their faith or feeling lost? [23:21]
7. What is one specific way you can live out the habit of remembering what matters most in your daily life? How can this habit influence your decisions and interactions with others? [15:42]
Devotional
Day 1: Transformation of Desires
When we accept Christ, our desires undergo a profound transformation. The things that once seemed thrilling and important become insignificant in the light of eternity. This change is a testament to the power of Christ in our lives, shifting our focus from temporary pleasures to eternal values. As Christians, we are called to guard against the world's attempts to convince us that trivial matters are of utmost importance. The culture around us bombards us with messages that equate our worth with material possessions and immediate gratification. Yet, true fulfillment comes from living with an eternal perspective, focusing on what truly matters in the light of eternity. [12:55]
Ephesians 4:22-24 (ESV): "To put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness."
Reflection: What is one desire or habit in your life that you feel God is calling you to transform? How can you begin to seek His help in this transformation today?
Day 2: Living with an Eternal Perspective
The world constantly tries to convince us that the immediate and trivial are important. However, true happiness comes from focusing on what matters in eternity. We must ask ourselves how much our current worries will matter in the long run. By living with an eternal perspective, we can prioritize our lives according to what truly matters, rather than being swayed by the fleeting concerns of the world. This perspective helps us to find peace and fulfillment in the midst of life's challenges, knowing that our ultimate hope is in Christ. [14:33]
2 Corinthians 4:17-18 (ESV): "For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal."
Reflection: Consider a current worry or stressor in your life. How might viewing it from an eternal perspective change your approach or attitude towards it?
Day 3: Knowing Christ Intimately
Our primary purpose is to know God better, and this requires intentional effort and time, just like any meaningful relationship. We must prioritize our relationship with Christ, investing time to grow closer to Him each day. This involves setting aside time daily to connect with Him, even if it's just a few focused minutes. As we deepen our relationship with Christ, we find that our lives are enriched with His peace, wisdom, and guidance. This intimacy with God is the foundation of a fulfilling and purposeful life. [17:00]
Jeremiah 9:23-24 (ESV): "Thus says the Lord: 'Let not the wise man boast in his wisdom, let not the mighty man boast in his might, let not the rich man boast in his riches, but let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows me, that I am the Lord who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the Lord.'"
Reflection: What specific steps can you take this week to deepen your relationship with Christ? How can you make time for Him in your daily routine?
Day 4: Daily Spiritual Checkup
Conducting a daily review of our spiritual life helps us identify areas for growth. This practice requires humility and a willingness to change, but it is essential for spiritual maturity and happiness. Following Jesus is a lifelong process, not just a one-time decision. Many of us may have started our journey with Christ but have not progressed beyond the initial steps. It's crucial to evaluate where we need to grow and take action to move forward. [20:43]
Psalm 139:23-24 (ESV): "Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!"
Reflection: Take a moment to ask God to reveal an area in your spiritual life that needs growth. What is one practical step you can take today to address this area?
Day 5: Sharing Faith and Finding True Happiness
True happiness is not found in worldly pursuits but in following God's commands. Sharing our faith can have a profound impact on others, leading them to discover the joy and fulfillment found in Christ. As we share our faith, we not only help others but also strengthen our own relationship with God. This act of sharing is a powerful reminder of the hope and transformation that Christ brings into our lives. [25:44]
1 Peter 3:15 (ESV): "But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect."
Reflection: Think of someone in your life who might benefit from hearing about your faith journey. How can you share your story with them in a way that is genuine and respectful?
Quotes
I take all the drugs I want to take I get drunk all I want to get drunk I party wild as much as I want to party wild and I sleep with as many women as I want to sleep with here's the difference Jesus Christ changed my want to I don't want to do those things. [00:12:43]
The world around you tries to brainwash you back into thinking that stuff that's not important is important like having the newest pair of shoes and having the newest clothes and things like that and because here's the Trap you might write this down the Trap that's going to keep you from this this habit is pop culture. [00:13:25]
Every day there are thousands of advertising messages that says you aren't worth anything until you've got our product and this should matter to to you and even television news makes every item sound like it's the most important thing of the day it's not nothing is as worthless as yesterday's newspaper. [00:13:49]
You need to live in light of Eternity everybody and everything around you is constantly telling you that the petty and the the trivial is important and America and around the world we're on Trivial Pursuit you know we're we're living for things that aren't going to matter. [00:14:52]
Yes everything else is worthless when compared to the Priceless gain of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord he says that's the most important thing Tom's going to talk about that in a minute he says I have discarded everything else counting it all as garbage so that I may have Christ and become one with him. [00:15:49]
You should start every morning when you wake up saying Lord if I don't get anything else today anything else done I want to get to know you a little bit better I want to love you a little bit more listen you were made I was made to live in relationship with God. [00:16:47]
You don't get to know Christ by accident you don't just wake up one morning and just sort of accidentally fall into knowing Jesus Christ better it's a determined purpose it's something you have to do something about you have to invest your time in it your money is not going to grow just sitting there. [00:18:17]
Your relationship with God's not going to grow unless you like any other relationship invest time in that relationship if you meet someone who has a strong relationship with God strong relationship with Jesus I will guarantee you they have spent a lot of time investing in talking to him and letting him talk to them. [00:18:34]
Every day do a little personal review of Your Life take a couple minutes out of every day during your quiet time with God and you do a spiritual daily checkup you take your spiritual pulse you can do it during your quiet time you say Lord where do I need to grow what do I I need to work on. [00:20:41]
Following Jesus is a decision followed by a process the rest of your life you can't follow without walking you got to have movement so following Jesus is a decision followed by a process a lot of you have made the decision but you haven't continued in the process. [00:22:05]
I started listening to it once or twice a week just to make my mom happy but one day when I was in a real mess I bumped into a message of yours called the courage to keep going on I was like whoa whoa how did he know that this broadcast was the beginning of my adventure with you. [00:23:58]
Most people look for happiness in all the wrong places you won't find it through money fame or power you'll only find real lasting Happiness by following God's commands that's why Pastor Rick created the habits of Happiness Bible study you'll discover how happiness runs deeper than any circumstance feeling or relationship. [00:25:44]