In our journey of spiritual growth, we often focus on the concept of character, which is central to our lives and our faith. Character is not just about the observable traits or behaviors we exhibit; it is about the unseen qualities that define who we truly are. As Dallas Willard often emphasized, the main thing God gets out of our lives is the person we become, and this is what we carry into eternity. Our character is the essence of our being, and it is shaped by the choices we make, especially under pressure.
Reflecting on the teachings of Anthony Bloom, we are reminded that what truly matters is not whether we are alive or dead, but what we live for and what we are prepared to die for. This perspective challenges us to become students of character, constantly evaluating how our responses to life's situations reveal our true selves and how we can use these experiences to develop our character.
Robert McKee's distinction between characterization and character further illuminates this idea. Characterization involves the observable qualities of a person, while true character is revealed through the choices made under pressure. The story of the Good Samaritan exemplifies this, as it shows how true character is often hidden beneath the surface and is revealed in moments of crisis.
The journey of character formation is an inside-out process, distinct from mere behavioral modification. True change occurs within us, often in times of pain or pressure. It is important to be students of character, not only in ourselves but also in others. By recognizing and calling out character in others, we cultivate a longing within ourselves to be more like Jesus.
Ultimately, character is about seeking first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness. It is about allowing the reality of the Kingdom to come to life within us, transforming us from the inside out. This transformation is not a one-time event but a continuous journey of growth and development.
Key Takeaways
- 1. Out Process:** True change happens within us, often during times of pain or pressure. This transformation is distinct from mere behavioral modification and requires a deep, internal shift. [25:32]
4. The Role of Community in Character Development: Being part of a community allows us to receive feedback and encouragement, helping us recognize and celebrate changes in our character that we might not see ourselves.
5. Recognizing and Admiring Character in Others: By observing and acknowledging character in others, we cultivate a desire within ourselves to grow and develop in similar ways, moving us closer to the likeness of Christ.
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Youtube Chapters
- [00:00] - Welcome
- [17:01] - Introduction to the Series
- [18:20] - The Essence of Character
- [19:10] - What Truly Matters
- [20:31] - Becoming a Student of Character
- [21:13] - Character vs. Characterization
- [22:10] - Choices Under Pressure
- [23:18] - The Good Samaritan Example
- [24:35] - God Looks at the Heart
- [25:19] - Inside-Out Transformation
- [26:39] - Lessons from Everyday Life
- [29:48] - Observing Character in Others
- [31:14] - The Desire for Genuine Character
- [32:37] - Authenticity vs. Hypocrisy
- [34:24] - Measuring Change in Character