Transformed by Mercy: Living Out Genuine Love

 

Summary

Today, I explored the profound depths of Romans 12, focusing on the transformation that should occur in our lives due to God's mercy. The sermon began with an introduction to the complexities of Romans chapters 1 through 11, which set the theological groundwork for the practical applications in chapter 12. I emphasized that from chapter 12 onwards, the Apostle Paul shifts focus from theological discourse to practical Christian living, highlighting the need for personal transformation in the lives of believers.

The central theme of the sermon was the transformative power of God's mercy. I stressed that understanding and living in view of God's mercy is crucial for adhering to the commands in Romans 12:9-21. These commands are not just rules but are imperatives for living under God's grace, which we discussed through various real-life examples, including the humorous yet poignant analogy of how we behave after receiving a speeding ticket compared to how we should live continually transformed by God's mercy.

I delved into the specifics of Romans 12:9-21, breaking down the passage into two sections: verses 9-13, which discuss sincere love among believers, and verses 14-21, which extend this love even to our enemies. The call to sincere love without hypocrisy was highlighted as foundational, where love must be genuine, abhorring what is evil and clinging to what is good. This sincere love acts as the bedrock for other behaviors such as honoring one another, sharing with those in need, and practicing hospitality—which I clarified is not merely about social gatherings but about being a healing presence in others' lives.

Throughout the sermon, I used personal anecdotes and congregational interactions to illustrate points, such as the story of introducing my granddaughter and the playful banter about being a new grandfather, which served as a light-hearted segue into the serious topics discussed.

The sermon concluded with a powerful call to practice the principles discussed, not as a means to earn God's favor but as a response to the favor and mercy we have already received. This call to action was aimed at encouraging each congregant to reflect on how they can embody these virtues in their daily lives, thereby transforming not only themselves but also their communities.

### Key Takeaways

1. Understanding God's Mercy: The foundation of Christian behavior is the mercy of God, which involves showing compassion and forgiveness instead of punishment. This understanding should radically change how we live, making us more forgiving and less judgmental towards others. When we truly grasp the depth of God's mercy towards us, it should transform our interactions and relationships. [46:46]

2. Sincere Love: Genuine love is essential in the Christian life. It is not enough to say we love each other; our actions must demonstrate this love. This means removing all forms of hypocrisy and embracing actions that reflect true biblical love, which often requires personal sacrifice and ongoing effort in our relationships. [50:28]

3. Hating What is Evil: In a culture that often encourages tolerance and acceptance of all behaviors, it is counter-cultural to hate evil. However, hating what is evil is necessary to truly love what is good. This doesn't mean hating people but hating actions and systems that are contrary to God's ways. This discernment is crucial for living a life that pleases God. [54:42]

4. Practicing Hospitality as Healing: Hospitality in the biblical sense involves much more than social pleasantries; it is about being a healing and transformative presence in the lives of others. This means actively seeking to be a source of comfort and support, which is a direct reflection of how Jesus has healed us spiritually. [01:19:12]

5. Devotion to Community: Being devoted to one another in love is not merely a suggestion but a command that requires commitment and loyalty. This devotion is tested in times of disagreement or discomfort within the community. Staying committed to each other, especially within the church, reflects our commitment to Christ's teachings and His example of unconditional love. [59:33]

### Chapters

0:00 - Welcome
36:01 - Introduction and Personal Reflections
38:48 - Transition to Teaching
40:33 - Overview of Romans 1-11
42:44 - Transition to Romans 12
45:09 - The Importance of God's Mercy
47:28 - Practical Implications of Living Under God's Mercy
49:54 - Detailed Analysis of Romans 12:9-21
01:04:30 - Encouragement to Persevere in Goodness
01:13:25 - Call to Community and Sharing
01:18:07 - Conclusion and Prayer

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
- Romans 12:1-21
- Romans 5:3-5
- Galatians 6:9

#### Observation Questions
1. What does Paul mean by "in view of God's mercy" in Romans 12:1, and why is it foundational for the commands that follow? [45:43]
2. How does Paul describe sincere love in Romans 12:9, and what are some examples of insincere love mentioned in the sermon? [50:28]
3. According to Romans 12:10, what does it mean to be devoted to one another in love, and how does this devotion manifest in a church community? [58:18]
4. What is the significance of practicing hospitality as described in Romans 12:13, and how does it go beyond mere social gatherings? [01:19:12]

#### Interpretation Questions
1. How does understanding God's mercy change the way believers should live, according to the sermon? Reflect on the analogy of the speeding ticket. [46:46]
2. Why is it important to hate what is evil and cling to what is good, and how does this discernment affect our daily lives? [54:42]
3. What does it mean to be devoted to one another in the context of a church community, and why is this devotion crucial for the church's mission? [59:33]
4. How can practicing hospitality be a form of healing for others, and what are some practical ways to embody this in our interactions? [01:19:12]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you experienced God's mercy in your life. How did it change your behavior or perspective, and how can you remind yourself of this mercy daily? [46:46]
2. Think of a relationship where your love might be insincere. What steps can you take to make your love more genuine and aligned with biblical love? [50:28]
3. Identify an area in your life where you have tolerated something that God calls evil. What practical steps can you take to hate what is evil and cling to what is good? [54:42]
4. Consider someone in your church community who might be in need. How can you share with them and be devoted to their well-being this week? [01:13:25]
5. Reflect on your current spiritual fervor. Have you become apathetic or indifferent in any area of your faith? What specific actions can you take to rekindle your zeal for serving the Lord? [01:02:43]
6. Think about a time when you stopped praying for something because you felt God wasn't listening. How can you renew your commitment to faithful prayer for that issue? [01:11:15]
7. How can you practice hospitality in a way that brings healing to others? Identify one person you can reach out to this week to offer support and comfort. [01:19:12]

Devotional

Day 1: Embracing God's Transformative Mercy
Understanding God's mercy is foundational to Christian behavior. It involves recognizing the compassion and forgiveness God extends to us, which should radically alter our approach to life. This mercy is not about avoiding punishment; it's about transforming our hearts and minds to become more forgiving and less judgmental. When we truly grasp the depth of God's mercy, it changes how we interact with others, making our relationships more gracious and our communities more loving. This transformation is a daily journey, one that requires us to continually reflect on God's goodness and apply it in every aspect of our lives. [46:46]

Lamentations 3:22-23: "The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness."

Reflection: How can you show mercy in a practical way to someone who has wronged you this week?

Day 2: The Essence of Sincere Love
Genuine love is crucial in the Christian life. It's not enough to merely say we love each other; our actions must demonstrate this love consistently and without hypocrisy. This means actively removing all forms of pretense and embracing actions that reflect true biblical love. Such love often requires personal sacrifice and ongoing effort, especially in maintaining relationships that are challenging. This sincere love is not just an emotional response but a deliberate choice to value others' well-being, mirroring the love Jesus has shown us. [50:28]

1 John 3:18: "Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth."

Reflection: What specific action can you take this week to demonstrate sincere love to a family member or friend?

Day 3: Rejecting Evil to Uphold Good
In a culture that often promotes tolerance of all behaviors, it is counter-cultural to hate evil. However, hating what is evil is essential to truly loving what is good. This doesn't involve hating people but rather rejecting actions and systems that are contrary to God's ways. This discernment is crucial for living a life that pleases God and fosters a healthy, holy community. By focusing on what is good, we can resist the temptations that often lead us astray and instead, cultivate a life that reflects God's purity and righteousness. [54:42]

Amos 5:15: "Hate evil, and love good, and establish justice in the gate; it may be that the Lord, the God of hosts, will be gracious to the remnant of Joseph."

Reflection: Identify one area in your life where you can more clearly reject evil and pursue good this week.

Day 4: Hospitality as a Healing Ministry
Hospitality in the biblical sense involves much more than social pleasantries; it is about being a healing and transformative presence in the lives of others. This means actively seeking to be a source of comfort and support, reflecting how Jesus has healed us spiritually. Such hospitality can open doors to deeper relationships and provide opportunities to share the love of Christ in tangible ways. It's about making our homes and our hearts open to those in need, offering them a place of refuge and peace. [01:19:12]

Hebrews 13:1-2: "Let brotherly love continue. Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares."

Reflection: How can you extend hospitality to someone outside your normal social circle this week?

Day 5: Devotion to Community Through Love
Being devoted to one another in love is a command that requires commitment and loyalty, especially during times of disagreement or discomfort within the community. This devotion is a reflection of our commitment to Christ's teachings and His example of unconditional love. It tests our ability to maintain unity and peace, even when it's challenging. By staying committed to each other, we embody the love of Christ and strengthen the bonds within our community, making it a true reflection of the kingdom of God. [59:33]

Colossians 3:12-14: "Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony."

Reflection: What is one practical way you can show devotion to your church community this week, especially to someone you find challenging?

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "What we put in is what we're going to put out. You want more joy, what are you putting in to receive more joy? Input equals output. I read the scripture and I get more Jesus in me and guess what comes out of me? Joy!" [01:07:42]( | | )

2. "You see, when we think of people who are in need, we think of monetary things. But I'm going to give you some great wisdom today. You have a need. Every one of us in this room has a need. It doesn't have to be monetary. Some of you have emotional needs, some of you have spiritual needs, some of you have physical needs." [01:14:27]( | | )

3. "How many of you have ever given up on praying for something? You've just given up. You're like, God must not hear me. He must not care. He must not listen. So I'm done praying about this. But as soon as I stop communicating with God about it, guess what? I'm still thinking about it though." [01:12:19]( | | )

4. "You keep serving when you don't feel like serving. You give when you don't feel like giving. Why? Because God in the scripture says he rewards faithfulness. Let us not become weary of doing good for at the proper time you will reap a harvest if you don't give up." [01:04:30]( | | )

### Quotes for Members

1. "Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil. Love and hate are synonymous words. They have to go together. They're tied forever. Because you can't truly love something unless you hate that which opposes its love." [53:53]( | | )

2. "Be devoted to one another in love. It means you don't walk away when things get uncomfortable. It means you show up when things get hard. It means they're somebody you can count on. This is one of the saddest realities today that most people are more devoted to themselves than they are to somebody else." [59:33]( | | )

3. "Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor serving the Lord. Every one of us who's ever walked with Jesus will come into seasons of our lives where the spiritual fervor of your life, the enthusiasm to follow God, to serve God, to give to what he's asking us to give to, wanes." [01:02:10]( | | )

4. "Practice hospitality. You know what that word meant for a long time. I thought it meant donuts and coffee in our lobbies after church. But there's a word hidden in the word hospitality. What is it? Hospital. The word hospitality is actually translated be healing for somebody else." [01:19:12]( | | )

5. "If you sincerely love somebody then you always want them to be well, don't you? Do you practice hospitality? It's interesting he uses the word practice. Which means that it doesn't come by natural. Naturally we're not healing people. We have to practice this." [01:20:16]( | | )

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