Transformative Power of Gratitude in Challenging Times

Devotional

Day 1: Gratitude as a Path to Contentment

Gratitude is a powerful tool that can help us combat the desire for what others have, which often underlies feelings of anxiety and depression. By focusing on what we have, we can find contentment and joy in our own lives. This shift in perspective allows us to appreciate the abundance in our lives rather than dwelling on what we lack. When we cultivate gratitude, we are less likely to covet what others possess, and more likely to experience a sense of peace and fulfillment. [03:28]

"Keep your life free from love of money, and be content with what you have, for he has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you.'" (Hebrews 13:5, ESV)

Reflection: Identify one area in your life where you often feel discontent. How can you practice gratitude in this area today to shift your focus from what you lack to what you have?

Day 2: Embracing the Gap of Longing

The gap between our desires and reality is not inherently negative; it is an opportunity for growth and maturity. Gratitude allows us to manage this gap by appreciating what we have and recognizing the blessings in our lives. This perspective helps us to see the gap as a space for personal development rather than a source of frustration. By focusing on gratitude, we can transform our longing into a catalyst for positive change and deeper appreciation of our current circumstances. [11:09]

"Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content." (Philippians 4:11, ESV)

Reflection: Consider a desire or goal that feels out of reach. How can you use gratitude to transform this longing into an opportunity for growth and maturity today?

Day 3: Understanding Our Unique Role

Embracing our unique role and identity, as John the Baptist did, can lead to a deeper sense of joy and fulfillment. Gratitude helps us appreciate our place in the world and the gifts we have been given. By recognizing and valuing our unique contributions, we can find joy in our purpose and the success of others. This understanding fosters a sense of community and interconnectedness, allowing us to celebrate the diverse roles we all play in the world. [09:03]

"For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function." (Romans 12:4, ESV)

Reflection: Reflect on your unique gifts and role in your community. How can you express gratitude for these gifts and use them to serve others today?

Day 4: Cultivating Gratitude as a Skill

In a world that promotes discontentment, gratitude must be intentionally cultivated. By practicing gratitude, we can shift our focus from what we lack to the abundance in our lives. This intentional practice requires effort and dedication, but the rewards are profound. As we develop the skill of gratitude, we become more resilient in the face of challenges and more attuned to the blessings that surround us. [09:16]

"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, ESV)

Reflection: What is one small habit you can incorporate into your daily routine to intentionally cultivate gratitude? How can this habit help you focus on the abundance in your life?

Day 5: Finding Joy in Others' Success

Like the Apostle Paul, we can find joy in the growth and blessings of others. This perspective enriches our lives and deepens our gratitude for the community around us. By celebrating the successes of those around us, we foster a spirit of unity and encouragement. This outward focus not only strengthens our relationships but also enhances our own sense of joy and fulfillment. [13:16]

"Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep." (Romans 12:15, ESV)

Reflection: Think of someone in your life who has recently experienced success or blessing. How can you genuinely celebrate their joy and express gratitude for their achievements today?

Sermon Summary

Gratitude is a transformative practice that can significantly impact our lives, especially when we face challenges such as anxiety and depression. In our conversation today, we explored how gratitude can serve as an antidote to coveting and discontentment. Coveting, as defined in the Ten Commandments, is the desire for something that belongs to someone else, and it often underlies feelings of anxiety and depression. By cultivating gratitude, we can shift our focus from what we lack to what we have, leading to a more fulfilling and content life.

Dr. Rick shared insights from his experience as a clinician, noting that while people rarely come to therapy explicitly seeking to become more grateful, gratitude often emerges as a crucial component of their healing journey. The practice of gratitude helps individuals manage the "universal gap of longing" between what they desire and what they have. This gap is not inherently problematic; rather, it is an opportunity for growth and maturity. By focusing on gratitude, we can learn to appreciate our own gifts and the blessings in others' lives.

We also discussed the story of John the Baptist, who exemplified gratitude by recognizing his role and finding joy in the success of Jesus. This story highlights the importance of understanding our identity and embracing the unique role we play in the world. Gratitude is a learned skill that requires intentional practice, especially in a society that constantly encourages discontentment.

Finally, we reflected on the Apostle Paul's example of gratitude. Paul consistently thanked God for the growth and blessings in others' lives, rather than focusing solely on his own material benefits. This perspective can inspire us to find joy in the successes and blessings of those around us, further enriching our own lives.

Key Takeaways

1. Gratitude as an Antidote to Coveting: Cultivating gratitude helps us combat the desire for what others have, which often underlies anxiety and depression. By focusing on what we have, we can find contentment and joy in our own lives. [03:28]
2. The Universal Gap of Longing: The gap between our desires and reality is an opportunity for growth. Gratitude allows us to manage this gap by appreciating what we have and recognizing the blessings in our lives. [11:09]
3. Identity and Role Acceptance: Embracing our unique role and identity, as John the Baptist did, can lead to a deeper sense of joy and fulfillment. Gratitude helps us appreciate our place in the world and the gifts we have been given. [09:03]
4. Gratitude as a Learned Skill: In a world that promotes discontentment, gratitude must be intentionally cultivated. By practicing gratitude, we can shift our focus from what we lack to the abundance in our lives. [09:16]
5. Finding Joy in Others' Blessings: Like the Apostle Paul, we can find joy in the growth and blessings of others. This perspective enriches our lives and deepens our gratitude for the community around us. [13:16]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:34] - Introduction to Gratitude
[01:13] - Gratitude in Therapy
[02:08] - The Ten Commandments and Coveting
[03:28] - Gratitude as an Antidote
[04:34] - The Practice of Contentment
[05:17] - The Challenge of Gratitude
[06:08] - Envy and the Story of Salieri
[07:06] - Selfishness and Character Growth
[08:02] - John the Baptist's Example
[09:16] - Gratitude as a Learned Skill
[10:03] - Gap Management
[11:09] - The Universal Gap of Longing
[12:14] - Gratitude for Others' Blessings
[13:57] - Closing Thoughts and Invitation

Sermon Clips

The antidote to coveting to wanting more uh than you have been given more than the portion that you have from God was gratitude the very thing that you're talking about that cultivating practicing uh figuring out how to become a grateful thankful person was the best way to basically deal with materialism to deal with Desiring things that you don't have that sort of thing. [00:03:22]

I was thinking back to a sermon series uh our pal Rank and Wilborn who we talked to once in a while together he preached the sermon series many years ago he called it the ten words and it was about the Ten Commandments essentially says that the Ten Commandments weren't meant as a killjoy for human flourishing instead they were the recipe for a um you know life-giving experience in this world and the way to flourish and to thrive. [00:01:57]

John the Baptist's response was um uh I have told you from the beginning I am not the groom I'm not the the Messiah I am the friend of the groom and when the groom comes and that was kind of a a particular role in weddings in that time and he says a man can only receive what is given to him by heaven and that Joy is mine and my joy is complete. [00:08:36]

Gratitude is a learned skill and um probably we live in a world where we constantly receive messages because financially it's in people's interests to do this you shouldn't be satisfied you should not be content but if you you know Use Me by me watch me try me eat me drink me wear me then you can be and so it's uh it's just constantly uh we're constantly tempted to a life of discontent. [00:09:20]

I call it and I actually stole this line from you from a book you did many years ago Gap management and I think about uh I believe it was C.S Lewis in one of his books a Pilgrim's regress he talks about the Gap that is universal between what we want and what we have between the ideal and the real I think he calls it the universal gap of longing that all of us are just made that way that we long for more than we have. [00:10:00]

The other thing though is that it also is a test of maturity what do we do with that Gap how do we mine that Gap the gap between what we desire and the fact that it won't be ever completely filled yeah um whatever the desire that you have that the way that we're made or the way that we're made in this world and what do we do with that Gap and the same answer sort of to coveting strikes me. [00:10:54]

I think the main answer is also gratitude is well focusing once again on what I have and learning a learn Scott I really like the way you said that I feel like that's such a good answer it's not natural to be grateful to be content but if I focus on that with the very practices that you have us doing but and another way I was thinking about you the way to mine that Gap is to be grateful and thankful for what other people have. [00:11:43]

For Paul you know he's constantly giving thanks to God he's kind of breaking this cycle in the secular Greco-Roman world where you use debt to get somebody else to pay you stuff so he's recognizing God is The Giver of all gifts and so I want to be generous but usually he's thanking God not for material benefits in his own life not you know thank you that I got money my 401k and really nice sandals and a great great Chariot. [00:12:37]

He's mostly thanking God for what God is doing in the lives of other people um very consistently at the beginning of his letters I thank my God upon every remembrance of you and when other people grow in faith or when they grow in generosity that actually fills uh Paul with gratitude so that might be a good thing today as you think about some blessings. [00:13:07]

I think about three blessings today in life and if you're able to do it sincerely think about blessings that have come to somebody else maybe a friend or maybe a spouse or maybe a child or maybe a person at work and thank God um I thank you that you gave to my friend Rick this Keen mind and ability to heal people by his presence with him and it gives me great joy to think about that. [00:13:31]

I was remembering also a a sermon series that you did some years ago where you were encouraging people to just be content with what they had whatever house they had or car they had or clothes they had and I think you might have had people build a practice where for do you remember that where you would maybe ask them for 30 60 or even longer days to just focus on what you had and to think about the next thing. [00:04:10]

It's almost like we have to be conscious about the issue of gratitude for us to be able to yield to its benefits or to experience the benefits it just doesn't come naturally I'm not sure why maybe you can answer that question why doesn't actually as I'm just thinking about it John let me ask you that question why doesn't gratitude come more naturally to us. [00:07:30]

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