Transformative Love: Being For Our Community

Summary

In our new series, "For the Bay," we explore the profound impact of being for our community, reflecting the love and care Jesus showed to all people. This initiative is part of our decade-long goal to reach 3% of the Bay Area with the good news of Jesus through the "Hope for Everyone" initiative. We aim for 100% participation in praying, serving, and giving financially, emphasizing equal sacrifice over equal gifts. This journey challenges us to align our treasures with our hearts, as Jesus taught, and to embrace gratitude that transforms into generosity.

Our focus today is on the Apostle Paul's letter to the Philippians, written from prison. Paul, once a persecutor of Christians, became a devoted servant of Jesus, demonstrating that foes don't have to remain foes. His transformation shows that when we are for God, we naturally become for people. This change in heart is possible for us too, as we consider those we struggle to love and ask God to redirect our affections.

Paul's relationship with the Philippians illustrates how mission can move motives. Despite their past, they partnered with Paul in spreading the gospel, showing that shared purpose can overcome personal differences. This partnership was rooted in the gospel, reminding us that our ultimate mission is to integrate Jesus' teachings into every aspect of our lives.

Furthermore, helping others can transform us. Paul's prayers for the Philippians reflect his deep care and desire for their growth in love and discernment. We are encouraged to pray for those we find difficult to love, as this reflects the kingdom of heaven and aligns us with Jesus' teachings.

Finally, being for others has transformative power. Just as Jesus was for us, even while we were still sinners, we are called to be for our community. This love is not contingent on worthiness but is a reflection of God's unconditional love. As we engage with our community, we are reminded that our mission is to demonstrate this love, standing out in a world often characterized by division.

Key Takeaways:

- Transformation Through Love: The story of Paul reminds us that even the most unlikely individuals can experience profound transformation through the love of Jesus. When we are for God, we naturally become for people, breaking down barriers and fostering unity. This transformation is not about willpower but about aligning our hearts with God's love. [30:05]

- Mission Moves Motives: Shared purpose can shift our motives and help us overcome personal differences. The partnership between Paul and the Philippians demonstrates how a common mission can unite us, even when past grievances exist. This mission-centered approach encourages us to focus on the greater good rather than personal preferences. [36:48]

- Helping Others Transforms Us: Investing in others can lead to personal growth and transformation. As we help those we struggle to love, we become more empathetic and understanding. This process not only benefits others but also refines our character, aligning us more closely with Jesus' teachings. [41:56]

- Praying for Our Enemies: Praying for those we find difficult to love is a powerful practice that reflects the kingdom of heaven. It shifts our perspective and aligns us with Jesus' command to love our enemies. This prayer is not about changing others but about allowing God to change our hearts. [34:51]

- Being For Others Reflects God's Love: Just as Jesus was for us, we are called to be for our community. This love is unconditional and not based on worthiness. By being for others, we demonstrate God's love and stand out in a world often characterized by division and conflict. [38:53]

Youtube Chapters:

- [0:00] - Welcome
- [0:30] - Introduction to "For the Bay"
- [2:15] - Hope for Everyone Initiative
- [5:00] - The Challenge of Giving
- [7:45] - Gratitude and Generosity
- [10:30] - Resilience and Mission
- [12:00] - The Power of Joy
- [15:00] - Rivalries and Offense
- [18:00] - Paul's Transformation
- [20:30] - Letter to the Philippians
- [23:00] - Foes Don't Have to Be Final
- [25:30] - Mission Moves Motives
- [28:00] - Helping Others Transforms Us
- [30:30] - Praying for Our Enemies
- [33:00] - Being For Others Reflects God's Love

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide: "For the Bay"

Bible Reading:
- Philippians 1:1-11
- Matthew 5:44
- Romans 5:8

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Observation Questions:

1. How does Paul describe his relationship with the Philippians in the opening of his letter? What emotions and intentions does he express? [32:03]

2. What transformation did Paul undergo that changed his perspective towards the early church? How is this transformation significant in the context of the sermon? [30:05]

3. What does Paul mean when he says, "He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion"? How does this reflect his confidence in the Philippians' spiritual journey? [36:48]

4. How does the sermon illustrate the concept of "mission moves motives" through the relationship between Paul and the Philippians? [38:53]

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Interpretation Questions:

1. What does Paul's transformation from a persecutor to a servant of Jesus suggest about the power of God's love and grace? How can this be applied to personal relationships today? [30:05]

2. How does the idea of "praying for our enemies" challenge common perceptions of conflict and reconciliation? What might this practice look like in modern contexts? [34:51]

3. In what ways does the partnership between Paul and the Philippians demonstrate the power of a shared mission? How can this principle be applied to community and church life today? [36:48]

4. How does the sermon suggest that helping others can lead to personal growth and transformation? What are some practical examples of this in everyday life? [41:56]

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Application Questions:

1. Reflect on a time when you struggled to love someone. How might praying for that person change your perspective and relationship with them? [34:51]

2. Consider the idea that "transformation is not about willpower but about aligning our hearts with God's love." What steps can you take this week to align your heart more closely with God's love? [30:05]

3. Identify a community or group you find challenging to support. How can you actively participate in a shared mission with them to overcome personal differences? [36:48]

4. Think about a person or group you consider a "foe." What practical steps can you take to change your heart towards them, as Paul did with the Philippians? [32:03]

5. How can you incorporate the practice of gratitude transforming into generosity in your daily life? What specific actions can you take to express this transformation? [25:04]

6. Reflect on the statement, "Being for others reflects God's love." How can you demonstrate unconditional love to someone in your community this week? [38:53]

7. What is one way you can invest in someone you find difficult to love, and how might this investment transform both you and them? [41:56]

Devotional

I'm ready to provide the 5-day devotional based on the steps outlined. Here it is:

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Day 1: Transformation Through Divine Love
The story of the Apostle Paul is a powerful testament to the transformative power of divine love. Once a fierce persecutor of Christians, Paul experienced a profound change of heart through his encounter with Jesus. This transformation illustrates that no one is beyond the reach of God's love, and when we align our hearts with His, we naturally become more loving towards others. This change is not about our own willpower but about allowing God's love to work within us, breaking down barriers and fostering unity. As we open ourselves to this divine love, we can experience a similar transformation in our own lives. [30:05]

Ephesians 3:17-19 (ESV): "So that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God."

Reflection: Think of an area in your life where you feel resistant to change. How can you invite God's transformative love into this area today?

Day 2: Mission Moves Motives
The partnership between Paul and the Philippians demonstrates how a shared mission can shift our motives and help us overcome personal differences. Despite their past, the Philippians joined Paul in spreading the gospel, showing that a common purpose can unite us even when past grievances exist. This mission-centered approach encourages us to focus on the greater good rather than personal preferences, reminding us that our ultimate mission is to integrate Jesus' teachings into every aspect of our lives. By aligning our motives with God's mission, we can find unity and purpose in our relationships and communities. [36:48]

1 Corinthians 1:10 (ESV): "I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment."

Reflection: Identify a personal difference or grievance you have with someone. How can focusing on a shared mission help you move past this and work towards unity?

Day 3: Helping Others Transforms Us
Investing in others can lead to personal growth and transformation. As we help those we struggle to love, we become more empathetic and understanding. This process not only benefits others but also refines our character, aligning us more closely with Jesus' teachings. By choosing to serve and support others, we open ourselves to the transformative power of love and compassion, which can change our hearts and perspectives. This journey of helping others is a reflection of the kingdom of heaven and a testament to the power of selfless love. [41:56]

Galatians 6:2 (ESV): "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."

Reflection: Think of someone you find difficult to love. What is one practical way you can serve or support them this week?

Day 4: Praying for Our Enemies
Praying for those we find difficult to love is a powerful practice that reflects the kingdom of heaven. It shifts our perspective and aligns us with Jesus' command to love our enemies. This prayer is not about changing others but about allowing God to change our hearts. By praying for our enemies, we open ourselves to the possibility of reconciliation and healing, demonstrating the transformative power of prayer and love. This practice challenges us to see others through God's eyes and to extend grace and compassion even in difficult relationships. [34:51]

Matthew 5:44-45 (ESV): "But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust."

Reflection: Consider someone you view as an enemy or adversary. How can you begin to pray for them today, asking God to change your heart towards them?

Day 5: Being For Others Reflects God's Love
Just as Jesus was for us, we are called to be for our community. This love is unconditional and not based on worthiness. By being for others, we demonstrate God's love and stand out in a world often characterized by division and conflict. This call to love others is a reflection of God's unconditional love for us, reminding us that our mission is to embody this love in our interactions and relationships. As we engage with our community, we are challenged to love without conditions, showing the world the transformative power of God's love. [38:53]

1 John 4:11-12 (ESV): "Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us."

Reflection: Reflect on your community and identify one way you can demonstrate unconditional love to someone this week. How can this act of love reflect God's love to them?

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Quotes

1. "Recently, I heard it put this way, gratitude is not complete until it becomes generosity. And I think we can be grateful together in this season." [25:04] (12 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "There is like a pain point that I see and hear regularly in which we have settled for a way of life that I think too often robs us of joy. Whether you're a follower of Jesus or you are just dipping your toes in the water of faith for the sake of curiosity or peer pressure from someone that invited you, I'm so glad that you're here. And I think that God has something for you in this conversation." [27:25] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "When people in the broader community see us treat our own community this way, what do you think they assume you will do to them? If we love one another that way, how would we love them? But there is an antidote to this disease. And we have a preserved account of someone who took that antidote. They didn't let their past patterns of being against and finding offense trap them forever. As a matter of fact, they show us that when you're for God, you can't help but be for people." [30:05] (35 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "Paul didn't just stumble into loving them, and it wasn't willpower. He started loving Jesus' followers when he started following Jesus. If you have people you can't seem to love, maybe ask yourself the question, who or what has my attention that is directing my affection?" [35:36] (21 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "More than we realize, our own comfort and preferences can direct our feelings for others. And Paul and the Philippians had experienced this, but a forward mission to bring hope to everyone changed that. Their motives actually shifted." [36:48] (15 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

6. "See, our task is to love people and not just the golden rule where we love them like we would love ourselves, but the platinum rule that we love them like Christ loved us with his life." [38:53] (15 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

7. "Helping others get better makes us better. If mission can change our motives, we really can shift our hearts if we help the people that we need our hearts shifted toward." [41:56] (14 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

8. "See, Jesus fors all kinds of stuff out of us as a matter of fact if you're a follower of Jesus you simply wouldn't be a follower of Jesus if Jesus wasn't for you this famous verse removes any doubt right that God loves us he demonstrates his own love for us in that while we were still sinners Christ died for us his love for us was not that he waited until we had fixed ourselves found ourselves redeemable found ourselves worthy of the sacrifice but that while we were still sinners Christ died for us." [41:56] (44 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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