Transformative Love: A Daily Choice in Faith

 

Summary

### Summary

Today, we gathered to reflect on the worthiness of God and the transformative power of His love. We began by acknowledging the life-changing stories within our community, emphasizing that our faith is not just a ritual but a relationship with a living God who is actively working in our lives. We celebrated the launch of our permanent campus in Lawrence, Massachusetts, a testament to the dedication and faithfulness of our church community.

Our focus was on the concept of "maturing love," as outlined in 1 John 4. Love, we learned, is not static but dynamic, evolving through different seasons and rhythms of life. Using personal anecdotes, I illustrated how my relationship with my wife has matured over the years, from childhood friends to married life with children. This journey mirrors our spiritual walk with God, where love must be a daily choice, an action rather than a mere feeling.

We delved into the biblical foundation of love, emphasizing that love is a choice that requires action. 1 John 3:18-20 teaches us that our actions, not just our words, demonstrate our love for God and others. This love is rooted in God's divine power and promises, which equip us to live godly lives. We are called to love others as God loves us, a love that is sacrificial and unconditional, as demonstrated by Jesus' sacrifice on the cross (John 3:16, Romans 5:8).

Our love for God is proven in how we treat others, extending beyond our church community to our broader society. This love is not about accepting all behaviors but about meeting people where they are and loving them as God loves us. We are reminded that our actions should reflect our faith, proving to the world that we are disciples of Christ (John 13:34-35).

In conclusion, we are challenged to grow deeper in our love for God and others, committing to serve and love our communities, families, and friends. This is how we live out our faith, showing the world the transformative power of God's love.

### Key Takeaways

1. Love is a Daily Choice: Love is not merely a feeling but a daily choice that requires action. We must choose to love God and others every day, demonstrating our love through our actions rather than just words. This daily commitment reflects the maturing nature of love, which grows and evolves through different seasons of life. [48:50]

2. Actions Speak Louder Than Words: Our love for God is proven by our actions, not just our declarations. 1 John 3:18-20 emphasizes that our actions show the truth of our love for God and others. This means actively serving, giving, and loving in tangible ways, reflecting God's love in our daily lives. [51:49]

3. God's Love is Sacrificial and Unconditional: God's love for us is demonstrated through the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross. This sacrificial love calls us to love others in the same way, meeting them where they are and loving them unconditionally, even when it is difficult. This is the essence of maturing love. [01:03:09]

4. Loving Others Reflects Our Love for God: One of the best ways to show our love for God is by loving others. This includes not just those within our church but also our broader community. Our actions towards others, especially those who may not know God, are a powerful testimony of our faith and love for God. [01:00:27]

5. Commit to Serving and Loving: We are called to serve and love our communities, families, and friends. Serving others is a practical way to demonstrate our love for God and fulfill our calling as His disciples. This commitment to love and serve is how we grow deeper in our faith and impact the world around us. [01:13:44]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[0:45] - Opening Prayer
[1:30] - Celebrating Life Change
[2:45] - Summer Bash Recap
[4:00] - Lawrence Campus Launch
[5:30] - Importance of Community
[7:00] - Introduction to Maturing Love
[8:30] - Personal Story: Marriage and Love
[10:00] - Love is a Choice
[12:00] - Actions Speak Louder Than Words
[14:00] - Biblical Foundation of Love
[16:00] - Loving Others as God Loves Us
[18:00] - Practical Steps to Show Love
[20:00] - Invitation to Accept Jesus
[22:00] - Closing Prayer and Call to Action

Study Guide

### Bible Reading
1. 1 John 3:18-20
2. John 13:34-35
3. Romans 5:8

### Observation Questions
1. According to 1 John 3:18-20, what is the relationship between our actions and our love for God? [51:49]
2. In John 13:34-35, what command does Jesus give to His disciples, and what is the purpose of this command? [01:00:27]
3. How does Romans 5:8 describe God's love for us, and what action did He take to demonstrate this love? [01:03:09]

### Interpretation Questions
1. Why does the sermon emphasize that love is a daily choice and not just a feeling? How does this align with 1 John 3:18-20? [48:50]
2. How can the sacrificial nature of God's love, as described in Romans 5:8, serve as a model for our own love towards others? [01:03:09]
3. What does it mean to love others as Jesus loved us, according to John 13:34-35? How can this be practically applied in our daily lives? [01:00:27]

### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you had to choose to love someone despite not feeling like it. How did your actions reflect your commitment to love? [48:50]
2. In what ways can you demonstrate your love for God through your actions this week? Identify specific actions you can take. [51:49]
3. Think of someone in your life who may be difficult to love. How can you show them sacrificial and unconditional love, similar to how God loves us? [01:03:09]
4. How can you extend your love beyond your immediate church community to the broader society? What are some practical steps you can take to show love to those who may not know God? [01:00:27]
5. Serving others is a practical way to demonstrate our love for God. What are some specific ways you can serve your community, family, or friends this week? [01:13:44]
6. How can you ensure that your actions consistently reflect your faith and love for God, especially in challenging situations? [51:49]
7. Identify one person in your life who may need to experience God's love through you. What specific action can you take this week to show them love and support? [01:00:27]

Devotional

Day 1: Love is a Daily Commitment
Love is not merely a feeling but a daily choice that requires action. We must choose to love God and others every day, demonstrating our love through our actions rather than just words. This daily commitment reflects the maturing nature of love, which grows and evolves through different seasons of life. [48:50]

1 John 4:7-8 (ESV): "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love."

Reflection: Think of one specific way you can show love to someone in your life today. How can you make this a daily habit?


Day 2: Actions Demonstrate True Love
Our love for God is proven by our actions, not just our declarations. 1 John 3:18-20 emphasizes that our actions show the truth of our love for God and others. This means actively serving, giving, and loving in tangible ways, reflecting God's love in our daily lives. [51:49]

James 2:17-18 (ESV): "So also faith by itself, if it does not have works, is dead. But someone will say, 'You have faith and I have works.' Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works."

Reflection: Identify a specific action you can take today to serve someone in need. How can this action reflect your love for God?


Day 3: Emulating God's Sacrificial Love
God's love for us is demonstrated through the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross. This sacrificial love calls us to love others in the same way, meeting them where they are and loving them unconditionally, even when it is difficult. This is the essence of maturing love. [01:03:09]

1 John 4:10-11 (ESV): "In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another."

Reflection: Think of someone you find difficult to love. How can you show them sacrificial love today, following the example of Jesus?


Day 4: Loving Others as a Reflection of Our Love for God
One of the best ways to show our love for God is by loving others. This includes not just those within our church but also our broader community. Our actions towards others, especially those who may not know God, are a powerful testimony of our faith and love for God. [01:00:27]

Matthew 5:16 (ESV): "In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven."

Reflection: Consider someone outside your usual circle who may need to experience God's love. How can you reach out to them today in a way that reflects your faith?


Day 5: Commitment to Serve and Love
We are called to serve and love our communities, families, and friends. Serving others is a practical way to demonstrate our love for God and fulfill our calling as His disciples. This commitment to love and serve is how we grow deeper in our faith and impact the world around us. [01:13:44]

Galatians 5:13-14 (ESV): "For you were called to freedom, brothers. Only do not use your freedom as an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole law is fulfilled in one word: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'"

Reflection: Reflect on your community, family, or friends. What is one specific way you can serve them this week? How can this act of service deepen your faith and witness to others?

Quotes

1. "We cannot do church without you. Okay. In fact, I want you to turn to the person next to you and literally say, we can't do church without you. Ready? One, two, three. Some of you are like, what do you mean without me? I barely got here this morning. If I told you what my morning looked like, you could do church without me. I promise you. Here's the thing. We really can't because the church is about its people. It's not about the walls." [41:20] (27 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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2. "Love is a choice. It is a choice that you have to make every single day. You have to choose to love. It is an everyday action. Love is not a feeling. Let me say that again. Love is not a feeling. Yes, give you feelings. You will experience feelings because of love, but it's not based on your feelings. Does that make sense? Give me an uh-huh. If it's just based on our feelings, then I'll tell you what, you'll hit rock bottom more times than you won't because it can't just be based on feelings." [48:50] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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3. "It's been said before that you can give without loving. Like I can give without loving. I can give without loving. I can give somebody anything without loving. Honestly, sometimes I can give something to somebody just to get them out of my face, just to get them away from me, just to ignore them. So you can give without loving, but you can't love without giving. You have to give something. You have to take steps. You have to give emotion. You have to give actions. You have to make a decision. You have to give by showing love." [50:18] (31 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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4. "Our actions will show that we belong to the truth. So we will be confident. We'll be confident when this is that action set. When, when can we be confident in our love for God? When we stand before God and our actions show how much we love him. That's when we can be confident. And then verse 20 says, even if we feel guilty because we've all been there before in our lives where, man, I feel like I've messed up. I'm not in the, I'm not in the season or the space or the place that I want to be with my relationship with God. So even when we humanly speaking feel guilty, sometimes when it comes to our relationship with God, God is greater." [51:49] (44 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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5. "We are called to love our neighbors as ourselves and be an example in God's love. And here's the thing. Let me remind you of something, though. Just because we love others doesn't mean we have to accept everything they do. But you can still love people. We want to be an example of God. We want to be an example of God's love, again, in a broken world. And don't be shocked if people that don't have a relationship with Jesus act like people who don't have a relationship with Jesus. We're called to love them. We're called to meet them where they are." [01:00:27] (33 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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6. "We want to take some action steps after today. We don't want to just hear a message, kind of get ourselves spiritually full today and then do nothing with it. We want to walk out of these doors different than when we walked in. And today our action step is to show the love of Jesus to a hurting and broken world. And it's a commandment. It says, love each other just as I what? God's saying, love people the way that I have loved you. Think about it. He is worthy. We sang those words just a few minutes ago. He's worthy because of how much he's loved you when you were hurting, when you were broken, when you rejected him, when you were distant from him." [01:01:44] (45 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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7. "For this is how God loved the world. What did he do? He showed action. He did something. He didn't just say he loved you. He didn't just say he loved me. He gave his one and only son so that everyone who believes in him will not perish, but have eternal life. God said, I love you so much that I'm willing to give up my son so that there can be a bridge back to me. I know that this world is messed up. I know you can never be perfect, and I'm never going to ask you to be, but I do have to give you a bridge back to me. I'm going to give you something to show you my love for you." [01:03:09] (38 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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8. "The heart, somebody say the heart, cannot love what the mind does not know. And if you study God's word, which is kind of what we're doing here today, we're water skiing a little bit. But as you continue to unpack God's word, you're going to start learning that God's love is abundant. It's caring. It's matchless. It's dependable. It's earnest. I can keep going. It's fierce. It's generous. It's helpful. It's inspiring. It's just. It's kind. It's beautiful. It's natural. Hey, listen, for some of you, sometimes it's overwhelming. It's pure. It's quick. Some of you need quick love. It's relatable. It's reliable. It's sincere. It's trustworthy. It's unmatched. It's loyal. It's wholesome." [01:04:39] (47 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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9. "When you can love before being loved, that's what real love looks like. When you can love when it's difficult to love, that's what real love looks like. 1 John 4, 10. This is what? It's not my words. It's not Pastor Miles' words. It's God's word. This is real love. Not that we love God, but that he loved us and sent his son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. God didn't owe us anything. He still doesn't owe us anything. And yet, he gives us everything. He meets us where we are every single day. He chooses to love us no matter what." [01:06:12] (54 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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10. "Let's make sure that we prove that love. Somebody say prove that love. We've got to prove that love by how we serve people in our church. That's why we serve. That's why we talk about serving, not just to give you tasks, but because serving shows our love for people. Let's serve our communities. Let's serve people in our families. Because I'm going to tell you what, make no mistake about it. We might talk about our church a lot. We might talk about our communities a lot, but make no mistake about it. Some of you may need to start serving the people that live under the roof of your home and show them God's love." [01:13:44] (30 seconds) (Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)
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