Transformative Gratitude: Finding Faith Through Adversity

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Fifty-six years ago today was a Sunday. And that was the day that my dad came into the kitchen and said, your mom died last night, or died today, and walked out of the kitchen with no other support, no hugs, no nothing. I remember my younger siblings started crying. My older brother had run away and was gone from the home. So I was the oldest one there, and I had virtually no reaction because I thought it had happened the day before. That was the day. That day sent me on a journey to try and find out what happens when somebody dies. Where do they go? [00:01:58] (40 seconds)


For two and a half years, I went to seances and witchcraft stuff and Buddhist stuff and transcendental meditation. It was all big popular back then. Music concerts, all kinds of things to try and find the answer to what is it that really makes us alive that we don't have when we die? Because to me, that was incredibly important, having lost my own mom. Many of you, especially my age people, have lost your parents, moms and dads, grandparents, people close to you, some siblings. [00:03:52] (39 seconds)


One of the things that I've found over all the years I've been doing ministry is that when I try to give answers to make somebody's journey easier, it's like helping a kid climb up on something, you actually disable them by helping them too much. They have to discover. You have to dig through that, and it's really deep and hard place in your life. [00:04:35] (23 seconds)


So the most tragic day of my life, 56 years ago today, actually started a process that resulted in the best outcome in my life. That's really kind of the nature of thanksgiving. Now it's football and family and family and family. I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. and beer, and playing games, and eating turkey, and having tryptophan sleepiness, and we dress up like Indians, and pilgrims, and all that stuff. [00:09:06] (37 seconds)


The original Thanksgivings were times that came through incredible stress and pain, great loss, a heroic age in which people faced the worst that this world has to dump on people, and they came through it. They came through it by faith, by community, by hard work, by good luck, by making things happen, and then waiting for God to work, and they were thankful. [00:09:25] (37 seconds)


One of the things that I noticed is that for myself, and for others of the park residents, most of whom I've known for 30 years or more, is that being hit in the face with news like that, the reality of that kind of destruction, you can't go back and undo it. No amount of wishful thinking or praying or science is going to reverse time and take us backwards where it didn't happen. [00:14:01] (37 seconds)


But this disaster has created a community of giving, of sharing, of helping, of hoping, of hugging among these people that just ordinary winter weather just never did. It just never did that. So there is a gratitude that arises from within them. Certainly the circumstances don't warrant being thankful. Be thankful for disasters. That's not what Paul says. [00:26:33] (28 seconds)


The book of Thessalonians closes with grace and I think of every quality of god the epitome for me what i've discovered in 50 years of walking with jesus in my life the epitome of god's character is his grace is he a judge yes is he righteous is he holy absolutely is he creator yes he is is he destroyer i think so but the very top character of god is his grace that god gives gifts we don't deserve [00:29:20] (41 seconds)


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