Total Trust: Leaning on God's Wisdom and Grace
Summary
In our journey through Proverbs chapter 3, we have been reminded of the profound truth that a life lived for the Lord, a life surrendered to Him in its entirety, is a life of contentment, peace, and joy. Today, we delve into the wisdom of not leaning on our own understanding but trusting in the Lord with all our heart.
As we stand before God, akin to standing at the altar with our spouse, we make vows of commitment. These vows are not just to our earthly partner but to our Heavenly Father. We vow to trust the Lord with all our heart, to lean not on our own understanding, and to acknowledge Him in all our ways. This is the path to a life guided by grace and the Lord Jesus.
The world teaches us to trust in ourselves, to rely on our own wisdom and understanding. However, Solomon, the author of wisdom, admonishes us to do the opposite. He implores us to lean not on our own understanding, to forsake the wisdom of this world, and to trust exclusively in the Lord. This is contrary to the self-help books that flood our shelves, which often encourage self-reliance and confidence in one's own abilities.
Our own understanding and wisdom can lead to defeat and disaster. The Bible tells us that our hearts are deceitful and desperately wicked, and that trusting in our own hearts is foolish. Our conscience, since the fall of mankind, has been warped by sin. We cannot let our conscience or our feelings be our guide. Instead, we must lean on the Lord for wisdom in every decision, whether big or small.
True wisdom comes from God. It is the ability to apply knowledge rightly, to discern and judge what is most just and proper. We gain wisdom through experience, but we must be careful not to rely solely on this wisdom. We must seek God's face, lean on Him, and trust in His guidance.
As we navigate life's decisions and trials, we must remember that every fork in the road is an opportunity to depend on Him. When we are self-dependent, we stifle faith. Faith is acting upon trust, and when we do not depend on Him, we cannot have the faith we need. We must trust in Him with all our heart and lean not on our own understanding.
Key Takeaways:
- Trusting in the Lord with all our heart requires a total commitment to Him, much like the vows we make in marriage. We must love, honor, and protect our relationship with God, forsaking all others and leaning only on Him for guidance and wisdom. This commitment leads to a life of contentment, peace, and joy. [49:33]
- Wisdom is not merely the accumulation of knowledge but the right application of it. True wisdom comes from God, and we must seek His wisdom above all else. The world may push us towards self-reliance, but God's wisdom leads us to a life of purpose and fulfillment. [51:07]
- Our own understanding is flawed by sin and cannot be trusted as a reliable guide. We must renounce self-will and self-wisdom, leaning on the Lord for every decision. This dependence on God is not a sign of weakness but of strength and faith. [55:44]
- In every trial and decision, big or small, we must lean on the Lord. He is our ultimate counselor and guide. By seeking His face and trusting in His wisdom, we can navigate life's challenges with confidence and grace. [57:30]
- Self-dependence stifles faith, while leaning on the Lord fosters it. We must not lean on our own understanding but seek God's guidance in prayer and trust in His provision. This act of faith will lead us to make decisions that honor Him and align with His will. [59:08]
Study Guide
Bible Reading:
1. Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."
2. Jeremiah 17:9 (ESV)
"The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?"
3. James 1:5 (ESV)
"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him."
4. Philippians 3:3 (ESV)
"For we are the circumcision, who worship by the Spirit of God and glory in Christ Jesus and put no confidence in the flesh."
Observation Questions:
1. In Proverbs 3:5-6, what does it mean to trust in the Lord with all your heart?
2. How does Proverbs 3:5-6 contrast trusting in the Lord with leaning on your own understanding?
3. According to Jeremiah 17:9, what is the condition of the human heart, and how might this affect our decision-making?
4. Reflecting on James 1:5, what is the promise given to those who lack wisdom and seek it from God?
Interpretation Questions:
1. Considering the command to trust in the Lord with all your heart, what might be some indicators that a person is relying on their own understanding instead?
2. How can acknowledging God in all our ways lead to Him making our paths straight, as mentioned in Proverbs 3:5-6?
3. In light of Jeremiah 17:9, how can we discern when our feelings or insights are being influenced by our deceitful hearts?
4. What does it look like practically to ask God for wisdom in our daily decisions, as encouraged in James 1:5?
Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a recent decision you made. Did you trust in your own understanding or seek God's wisdom? How can you approach future decisions differently?
2. Identify a situation in your life where you need to trust God more fully. What specific step will you take this week to demonstrate that trust?
3. Think of a time when your heart led you astray. How can you ensure that God's Word guides your feelings and decisions moving forward?
4. Choose one decision you face this week, big or small. How will you actively seek God's wisdom before making that decision?
5. Consider an area of your life where you've placed confidence in the flesh. What is one action you can take to shift that confidence to God, as suggested in Philippians 3:3?
Devotional
Day 1: Complete Trust in Divine Sovereignty
Trusting in the Lord with all one's heart is an all-encompassing commitment that goes beyond mere acknowledgment of God's existence. It is an active, daily decision to submit to God's sovereignty, recognizing that human understanding is limited and often clouded by personal biases and emotions. This trust is not passive; it involves seeking God's guidance in every aspect of life, acknowledging that His wisdom and knowledge far surpass human wisdom. It is a trust that does not waver in the face of trials or uncertainty, but rather, it is strengthened, knowing that God's plans are always for the good of those who love Him. This unwavering dedication is the foundation upon which a believer's life is built, providing stability and direction in a world that is constantly changing. [49:33]
Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV)
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."
Reflection: In what situation do you find it most challenging to trust God rather than rely on your own understanding, and how can you actively choose to trust Him in this area today?
Day 2: The Clarity of Redemption
Sin distorts our perception and separates us from God, but the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ provide a clear path to forgiveness and eternal life. This key takeaway emphasizes the importance of recognizing sin's impact on our lives and the transformative power of Christ's sacrifice. By placing our trust in Jesus, we acknowledge our inability to save ourselves and accept the gift of grace that He offers. This trust is not a one-time event but a lifelong journey of turning away from sin and toward God. It is a daily commitment to live in the light of Christ's redemption, allowing His love and sacrifice to guide our thoughts, actions, and decisions. [44:32]
Colossians 1:13-14 (ESV)
"He has delivered us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins."
Reflection: How does the reality of Christ's sacrifice influence your daily decisions, and what is one step you can take today to live more fully in the light of His redemption?
Day 3: Surrender as Covenantal Vow
The commitment to God upon salvation is likened to the vows made in marriage, requiring total surrender and exclusive reliance on Him. This takeaway calls believers to forsake the wisdom of the world and to lean solely on God's understanding. It is a call to a covenantal relationship with God, where one pledges allegiance and trust, acknowledging that God's ways and thoughts are higher than our own. This surrender is not a loss of freedom but the discovery of true freedom in Christ. It is a commitment to follow God's lead, to trust in His provision, and to rest in His unchanging character. This vow is a secure anchor for the soul in the midst of life's storms. [50:55]
James 4:7-8a (ESV)
"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you."
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you find yourself holding back from surrendering to Jesus? What would surrendering this area to Him actually look like in terms of daily habits?
Day 4: Wisdom Beyond Knowledge
Wisdom is not merely the accumulation of knowledge but the right application of it, a discernment that comes from God. This takeaway highlights the distinction between human knowledge and divine wisdom. True wisdom involves understanding God's will and applying it to life's decisions. It is the ability to discern what is right, just, and in alignment with God's character. This wisdom is a gift from God, who provides insight and understanding through His Word and Spirit. Believers are encouraged to seek God's wisdom in all circumstances, recognizing that it is superior to the world's knowledge and often counterintuitive to human reasoning. [52:22]
Job 28:28 (ESV)
"And he said to man, 'Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom, and to turn away from evil is understanding.'"
Reflection: Can you identify a recent decision where you relied on your own knowledge rather than seeking God's wisdom? How can you approach future decisions differently to reflect a heart that seeks divine wisdom?
Day 5: Dependence in Decision-Making
Every decision, no matter how small, is an opportunity to demonstrate dependence on God. This takeaway encourages believers to lean on God's wisdom in every aspect of life, cultivating a faith that is responsive to His guidance. It is a reminder that our own understanding is flawed and that seeking God's face in prayer should be our first response, not our last resort. By prioritizing God's wisdom, believers can navigate life's choices with confidence, knowing that they are aligned with His will. This dependence leads to a life marked by peace, joy, and contentment, as it is rooted in the trust that God is in control and His plans are perfect. [57:30]
Isaiah 30:21 (ESV)
"And your ears shall hear a word behind you, saying, 'This is the way, walk in it,' when you turn to the right or when you turn to the left."
Reflection: What is one decision you are currently facing, and how can you intentionally seek God's guidance in it today?
Quotes
- "A life lived for the Lord, a life lived entirely for him is a life of contentment, a life of peace, and a life of joy." [34:16] (Download | )
- "If you will apply these verses to your life, your life will be a life of purpose and fulfillment. It will be your best life." [34:16] (Download | )
- "When we get saved, we ought to vow to be totally committed to the Lord, to surrender and yield our lives to him." [49:21] (Download | )
- "When we obey the not and lean not, we are guaranteed the presence and provision of God. He will be our guide." [50:55] (Download | )
- "Wisdom is the ability to apply knowledge. It's discernment. It's judging what is most just or what is most proper." [52:22] (Download | )
- "We need to lean on him when it doesn't make sense. We need to lean on him in the good times and the bad times." [01:00:45] (Download | )
- "When we are self-dependent, we stifle faith. Remember, faith is acting upon that trust, and when we don't depend upon him, we're not able to have the faith that we need to act upon that dependence and trust." [57:30] (Download | )
- "To lean on your own wisdom and your own ability spells defeat and disaster. Have no confidence in the flesh." [55:44] (Download | )
- "Every decision, every fork in the road, we ought to be dependent upon him. Trust in him when it comes to those decisions. Seek his wisdom." [55:44] (Download | )
- "True wisdom comes from God. Wisdom comes from God. We all make decisions daily. Trials come daily." [57:30] (Download | )