Pride is a major barrier that keeps people from seeking God in prayer and developing a close relationship with Him. When individuals believe they can handle life on their own, they neglect to humble themselves before the holy and sovereign God who gives them every breath. This self-reliance leads to spiritual distance, as people choose relationships, achievements, or desires over honoring and depending on God. True intimacy with God begins with humility and the willingness to acknowledge our need for Him above all else. [00:35]
Proverbs 16:18 (ESV)
Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.
Reflection: In what area of your life are you relying on your own strength instead of humbling yourself before God in prayer today?
Rebellion and ongoing sin create a wall between us and God, making true intimacy impossible. Just as a relationship between a parent and child or a husband and wife cannot flourish in the presence of rebellion, so too our relationship with God suffers when we refuse to address sin in our lives. God is not the problem—when prayers seem unanswered or God feels distant, it is often our own unwillingness to surrender and repent that stands in the way. [01:23]
Psalm 66:18 (ESV)
If I had cherished iniquity in my heart, the Lord would not have listened.
Reflection: Is there a specific sin or area of rebellion you need to confess to God today to restore intimacy with Him?
A hurried life leaves little room for developing a meaningful relationship with God. Intimacy with Him requires time—time to read His Word, meditate, ask questions, listen, and reflect on what He is saying. The more you slow down and listen, the more you will hear from God, and the more you will desire to spend time with Him. Just as love for someone makes you want to listen to them, love for God grows as you make space to hear His voice. [02:36]
Psalm 46:10 (ESV)
“Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!”
Reflection: What is one practical way you can slow down today to spend unhurried time listening to God?
God, who did not spare His own Son but gave Him up for us, will not withhold any good thing from those who seek Him. Knowing this truth should encourage us to pursue deeper intimacy with God, trusting that He is willing to share wisdom, guidance, and blessings far beyond what we expect. Our relationship with Him is not based on our worthiness, but on His generous love and the sacrifice of Jesus. [03:17]
Romans 8:32 (ESV)
He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?
Reflection: What is one area where you need to trust God’s generosity and ask Him boldly for what you need today?
God’s will and purpose for each person is to experience a deep, personal, and intimate relationship with Him. This intimacy is not just for our own benefit, but so that His life within us can impact those around us. When we are dissatisfied with a shallow relationship and hunger to know God more, He draws us closer, sanctifies us, and uses us as vessels for His love and power in the world. [04:26]
John 15:5 (ESV)
“I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.”
Reflection: Who in your life might be impacted if you pursued a deeper, more intimate relationship with God this week?
Intimacy with God is not something that happens by accident or by simply going through the motions of faith. There are three main barriers that keep us from truly knowing God in a deep and personal way: pride, rebellion, and hurry. Pride tells us we can handle life on our own, that we don’t need to humble ourselves before God or seek His help. It’s a subtle but powerful force that keeps us from kneeling before the One who gives us every breath. When we choose our own way, our own relationships, or our own desires over God, we are letting pride rule our hearts.
Rebellion is the second barrier. As long as there is unconfessed sin in our lives, intimacy with God is impossible. Just as a relationship between a husband and wife cannot be close if one is living in rebellion, so too our relationship with God is hindered by sin. We may pray, but if we are holding onto sin, we will not experience the closeness we long for. God is not the problem—our unwillingness to surrender is.
The third barrier is being in a hurry. Intimacy with God takes time—time to read His Word, to meditate, to ask questions, to listen, and to reflect. If we rush through our spiritual lives, we miss the opportunity to hear from God and to grow in our love for Him. The more we listen, the more we hear; the more we hear, the more we want to listen. Just as in any loving relationship, the desire to listen grows as love deepens.
God has already given us His Son, and with Him, He will not withhold any good thing from us. The invitation is open: start now. Don’t wait until it’s too late. One day, we will all stand before God—will He be a stranger to us, or will we have known Him intimately in this life? Let us not settle for anything less than the deep, abiding relationship He desires for us. May God create in us a holy dissatisfaction with anything less than true intimacy with Him.
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