The Transformative Power of Words in Our Lives

Devotional

Day 1: The Power of Words

Words have the power to create or destroy. Just as a small spark can set a forest on fire, our words can have far-reaching consequences. We must be intentional with our speech, recognizing that every word we say contributes to the creation of some form of reality. The book of James warns us about the destructive power of the tongue, comparing it to a small spark that can set a great forest on fire. This imagery reminds us that our words have the power to either build up or tear down. Reflect on the words you have spoken and received over the past week. Were they life-giving or destructive? We have the agency to choose our words wisely and create a community that reflects the love and grace of God. [26:02]

James 3:5-6 (ESV): "So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life, and set on fire by hell."

Reflection: Think of a recent conversation where your words may have caused harm. How can you seek reconciliation and speak words of healing today?

Day 2: Historical Context of James

The book of James was written in a time of significant social, economic, and political tension, much like our own. James warns us about the destructive power of the tongue, urging us to use our words to build up rather than tear down. This historical perspective helps us understand the timeless relevance of James' teachings. By examining the social, economic, and political tensions of James' time, we can see parallels to our current political climate. This understanding can guide us in using our words to promote grace and truth in our conversations. [32:02]

James 1:19-20 (ESV): "Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God."

Reflection: In what ways can you be "quick to hear" and "slow to speak" in your interactions today, especially in discussions about sensitive topics?

Day 3: Mean What You Make

We are invited to be intentional with our words, understanding that they create worlds around us. This means choosing words that dignify and build up rather than destroy. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that words can either kill or give life, and we have the agency to choose which it will be. By being mindful of the impact of our words, we can create a positive and life-giving environment. Reflect on the words you use daily and consider how they shape the world around you. [37:32]

Proverbs 18:21 (ESV): "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits."

Reflection: Think about a situation where you can intentionally use your words to encourage and uplift someone today. How can you make your words a source of life?

Day 4: Contain the Flame

While we may not be able to completely tame our tongues, we can contain the destructive potential of our words. By removing the ingredients that fuel harmful speech—such as emotional manipulation, public affirmation, and self-righteousness—we can speak words of life. This involves being aware of the motivations behind our words and striving to speak with integrity and love. Consider the factors that influence your speech and how you can remove those that lead to harmful words. [39:29]

Ephesians 4:29 (ESV): "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear."

Reflection: Identify one "ingredient" that fuels harmful speech in your life. How can you work on removing it to ensure your words are more life-giving?

Day 5: Practical Filters for Speech

Employing practical filters can help us speak more life-giving words. These include the "when no one's watching" filter, the "motives" filter, the "in-person" filter, and the "process" filter. These tools help us reflect on our intentions and the potential impact of our words before we speak. By using these filters, we can ensure that our speech aligns with our values and promotes positive interactions. Reflect on how you can incorporate these filters into your daily conversations to speak more intentionally and lovingly. [41:08]

Colossians 4:6 (ESV): "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person."

Reflection: Choose one of the practical filters mentioned and apply it to your conversations today. How does it change the way you communicate with others?

Sermon Summary

### Summary

Good morning, Menlo. Today, we explored the profound impact of words in our lives and politics. Reflecting on a personal story about a kitchen fire, I emphasized how even small, untended flames can lead to catastrophic destruction. This analogy set the stage for our discussion on the power of words, especially in the context of our current political climate. We examined data from the Pew Research Center, which highlighted the increasing lack of respect and truth in political debates. This trend underscores the need for grace and truth in our conversations.

We delved into the book of James, which offers practical guidance on how to live a Christian life. James warns us about the destructive power of the tongue, comparing it to a small spark that can set a great forest on fire. This imagery reminds us that our words have the power to either build up or tear down. We also looked at the historical context of James' writing, noting the social, economic, and political tensions of his time, which mirror our own.

The sermon offered two key invitations: to "mean what you make" and to "contain the flame." The first invitation encourages us to be intentional with our words, recognizing that they create worlds around us. The second invitation acknowledges that while we may not be able to tame our tongues completely, we can contain the destructive potential of our words by removing the ingredients that fuel harmful speech.

I introduced four filters to help us contain the flame of our words: the "when no one's watching" filter, the "motives" filter, the "in-person" filter, and the "process" filter. These filters serve as practical tools to help us speak life-giving words. I shared a personal story about my father's words of encouragement, which have had a lasting impact on my life. This story illustrated the power of words to outlive the speaker and continue to influence others positively.

In closing, I encouraged everyone to reflect on the words they have spoken and received over the past week. Were they life-giving or destructive? We have the agency to choose our words wisely and create a community that reflects the love and grace of God.

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Key Takeaways

1. reaching consequences. We must be intentional with our speech, recognizing that every word we say contributes to the creation of some form of reality. [26:02]
2. Historical Context of James: The book of James was written in a time of significant social, economic, and political tension, much like our own. James warns us about the destructive power of the tongue, urging us to use our words to build up rather than tear down. This historical perspective helps us understand the timeless relevance of James' teachings.

3. Mean What You Make: We are invited to be intentional with our words, understanding that they create worlds around us. This means choosing words that dignify and build up rather than destroy. Proverbs 18:21 reminds us that words can either kill or give life, and we have the agency to choose which it will be.

4. Contain the Flame: While we may not be able to completely tame our tongues, we can contain the destructive potential of our words. By removing the ingredients that fuel harmful speech—such as emotional manipulation, public affirmation, and self-righteousness—we can speak words of life.

5. Practical Filters for Speech: Employing practical filters can help us speak more life-giving words. These include the "when no one's watching" filter, the "motives" filter, the "in-person" filter, and the "process" filter. These tools help us reflect on our intentions and the potential impact of our words before we speak.

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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[25:04] - Introduction and Personal Story
[26:49] - The Impact of Words
[28:42] - Political Climate and Words
[30:29] - The Book of James and Historical Context
[33:52] - The Power of the Tongue
[35:38] - Mean What You Make
[39:29] - Contain the Flame
[41:08] - Practical Filters for Speech
[46:07] - Reclaiming Conversation
[49:12] - Personal Story and Words of Life
[50:25] - Reflection and Prayer

Bible Study Guide

Observation Questions

According to James 3:5-6, what comparisons does James use to describe the power of the tongue?
In Proverbs 18:21, what are the two potential outcomes of our words?
How does Luke 6:45 explain the relationship between the heart and the words we speak?
What were some of the historical tensions during the time James wrote his letter, and how do they mirror our current political climate? [32:02]

Interpretation Questions

Why does James use the imagery of a small spark setting a forest on fire to describe the tongue's power? How does this imagery help us understand the impact of our words?
Proverbs 18:21 states that words can either kill or give life. How can this understanding influence the way we choose our words in daily conversations?
Luke 6:45 mentions that the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. What does this imply about the importance of our inner life and its influence on our speech?
Reflecting on the historical context of James' writing, how can understanding the social, economic, and political tensions of his time help us navigate our own political conversations today? [32:02]

Application Questions

Reflect on the past week: Were your words more life-giving or destructive? What specific steps can you take to ensure your words build up rather than tear down? [51:47]
The sermon mentioned four filters to help us contain the flame of our words: the "when no one's watching" filter, the "motives" filter, the "in-person" filter, and the "process" filter. Which of these filters do you find most challenging to apply, and why? [41:08]
Think of a recent political conversation you had. How did your words reflect grace and truth? What changes can you make to better align your speech with these values in future discussions? [28:42]
The sermon highlighted the importance of being intentional with our words, as they create worlds around us. What specific words or phrases can you start using to create a more positive and encouraging environment in your home or workplace? [37:32]
Consider a time when someone’s words deeply impacted you, either positively or negatively. How can this experience guide you in choosing your words more carefully in your interactions with others? [49:12]
The sermon encouraged us to reflect on the words spoken to us and by us over the past week. How can you practice forgiveness and healing for any hurtful words received, and how can you seek reconciliation for any hurtful words spoken? [51:47]
How can you incorporate the practice of pausing and reflecting before speaking, especially in emotionally charged situations, to ensure your words are life-giving and aligned with God’s will? [42:40]

Sermon Clips

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "If that's you this morning let me start by saying those words might hurt but we know a God who has words that can heal. And my prayer for you this morning is that you allow those holy words, those words from the very whispers of God through the Holy Spirit to meet you where you are today." [27:30](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "Words create worlds. Every word that you and I say is lending itself to the creation of some sort of reality. The reality of an idea or a thought that can either dignify or destroy. It's one of the most fascinating ways to me that we as humanity have been created and designed in the very image and likeness of God." [37:32](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "Each word we speak creates either a grave meant for death or a garden meant for good. But here's the kicker. There's agency. You get to choose what gets created. We get to choose the kind of worlds that we create around us." [38:00](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "To defy destructive words is to create the kind of very good world that God envisioned for us in the first place. Author Marilyn McIntyre calls us back to the original goal of conversation when she writes this in her book, Caring for Words in a Culture of Lies. She writes, to converse was to foster community, to commune with, to dwell in a place with others. Conversation was understood to be a life-sustaining practice, a blessing, and a craft to be cultivated for the common good." [45:30](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "Jesus himself said in Luke 6, good people bring good things out of the good stored up in their heart. And evil people bring evil things out of the evil stored up in their heart. For out of the overflow of the heart. The mouth speaks." [50:25](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "Therefore words aren't in the same cultural arsenal as sticks and stones. They're not non-threatening to our egos simply because we declare so. Some of us know a thing or two about words that hurt and if that's you this morning let me start by saying those words might hurt but we know a God who has words that can heal." [27:00](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

2. "The way we pursue Christ's likeness in speaking words of life is to remove the ingredients that wicked words need to flourish. A few of those ingredients being the heat of emotional manipulation, the oxygen of public affirmation, and the fuel of self-righteousness." [39:29](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

3. "The second filter is the motives filter. This one is an invitation to examine why we want to respond the way we want to respond. To ask the question, am I simply wanting to respond to this post or to furiously type out a response on social media because I want to prove them wrong or I really want to prove myself as right?" [42:40](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

4. "The last filter is the process filter. Sometimes the way that words meet us or the ways that headlines meet us cause emotions that are too overwhelming or raw to really respond to in the moment. This one is an opportunity and an invitation to process not alone, but in the safety of community with trusted guides, friends, a therapist, someone you trust who can take that overwhelming emotion and help you get through it." [44:20](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

5. "To mean what you make and to contain the flame will require practice and cultivation. It also requires a heart that longs for the things of God. And I can tell you, I'm sure that these words will inspire you. Then people who are in the kingdom of God, grace and forgiveness, and transformation." [50:00](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip)

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