The Healing Power of Tears and Empathy

Devotional

Day 1: Tears as a Divine Expression

Tears are a divine gift, allowing us to express emotions that words cannot. They are a reflection of being made in God's image, as God Himself grieves. Understanding this helps us embrace our tears as a healthy and normal part of life. Tears are not a sign of weakness but a testament to our humanity and our connection to God. The Bible is filled with instances of tears, from Genesis to Revelation, underscoring their importance in the human experience. Tears are a universal language, understood across cultures and times, and they serve as a bridge of empathy between us and others. [09:40]

Psalm 56:8 (ESV): "You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?"

Reflection: Think of a recent time when you cried. How did it feel to know that God values and collects your tears? Can you find comfort in expressing your emotions to Him today?

Day 2: Empathy as a Powerful Expression of Love

True friendship and support in times of grief require empathy, not just sympathy. Empathy involves sharing in the pain of others, showing that we hurt with them, which is a powerful expression of love. It is about being present and vulnerable, allowing ourselves to feel the pain of others and to walk alongside them in their suffering. This kind of empathy is a reflection of Christ's love for us, as He shares in our sorrows and joys. [23:14]

Romans 12:15 (ESV): "Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep."

Reflection: Consider someone in your life who is grieving. How can you show empathy towards them today, not just in words but in actions that demonstrate shared sorrow?

Day 3: The Ministry of Presence

When comforting those in grief, our presence is more valuable than words. Like Job's friends, we should show up and remain silent, allowing our presence and shared tears to provide comfort. Sometimes, the best support we can offer is simply being there, without words, allowing our shared tears to speak volumes. This is a lesson we can learn from Job's friends, who initially did the right thing by sitting in silence with him in his suffering. [42:41]

Job 2:13 (ESV): "And they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, and no one spoke a word to him, for they saw that his suffering was very great."

Reflection: Think of someone who is going through a difficult time. How can you offer them the ministry of presence this week, simply by being there for them without needing to say anything?

Day 4: God's Promise of Comfort

God promises to wipe away every tear and end all suffering. This assurance gives us hope and strength to endure our current grief, knowing that it is temporary and that God is with us in our pain. We are reminded that all tears are temporary, and God's promise is that one day, He will wipe away every tear, and there will be no more death, mourning, or pain. This hope sustains us and encourages us to be present for others in their grief. [46:01]

Revelation 21:4 (ESV): "He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away."

Reflection: Reflect on a current grief or pain you are experiencing. How does the promise of God's future comfort give you hope today? How can you share this hope with someone else?

Day 5: The Eternal Value of Tears

God sees and saves every tear we shed, indicating their eternal value. This understanding encourages us to express our emotions freely, knowing that God will compensate for our losses and pains in heaven. Our tears are seen, collected, and valued by God, and they hold eternal significance. This knowledge can bring comfort and peace, knowing that our sorrows are not in vain and that God is with us in our pain. [31:02]

Psalm 126:5-6 (ESV): "Those who sow in tears shall reap with shouts of joy! He who goes out weeping, bearing the seed for sowing, shall come home with shouts of joy, bringing his sheaves with him."

Reflection: Consider the tears you have shed in the past. How does knowing that God values and remembers each one change your perspective on your pain? How can you find joy in the promise of God's eternal comfort?

Sermon Summary

In the face of overwhelming grief and loss, we are reminded of the profound role that tears play in our lives. Recent tragedies, including shootings and the ongoing impact of COVID-19, have left many in deep sorrow. As Christians, we are called to comfort others in their pain, just as God comforts us. The Bible, particularly in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4, emphasizes that God comforts us so that we can comfort others. This is a crucial part of our faith journey, as we are all bound to experience loss and grief in this broken world.

Tears are a divine gift, a way to express the deep emotions that words often fail to convey. They are not a sign of weakness but a testament to our humanity and our connection to God, who also grieves. The Bible is filled with instances of tears, from Genesis to Revelation, underscoring their importance in the human experience. Tears are a universal language, understood across cultures and times, and they serve as a bridge of empathy between us and others.

In comforting those in grief, we must take the initiative to reach out, show our own vulnerability through tears, and offer the ministry of presence. Sometimes, the best support we can offer is simply being there, without words, allowing our shared tears to speak volumes. This is a lesson we can learn from Job's friends, who initially did the right thing by sitting in silence with him in his suffering.

Ultimately, we are reminded that all tears are temporary. God's promise is that one day, He will wipe away every tear, and there will be no more death, mourning, or pain. This hope sustains us and encourages us to be present for others in their grief, knowing that our tears are seen, collected, and valued by God.

Key Takeaways

1. The Divine Gift of Tears: Tears are a gift from God, allowing us to express emotions that words cannot. They are a reflection of being made in God's image, as God Himself grieves. Understanding this helps us embrace our tears as a healthy and normal part of life. [09:40]
2. Empathy Over Sympathy: True friendship and support in times of grief require empathy, not just sympathy. Empathy involves sharing in the pain of others, showing that we hurt with them, which is a powerful expression of love. [23:14]
3. The Ministry of Presence: When comforting those in grief, our presence is more valuable than words. Like Job's friends, we should show up and remain silent, allowing our presence and shared tears to provide comfort. [42:41]
4. God's Promise of Comfort: God promises to wipe away every tear and end all suffering. This assurance gives us hope and strength to endure our current grief, knowing that it is temporary and that God is with us in our pain. [46:01]
5. The Eternal Value of Tears: God sees and saves every tear we shed, indicating their eternal value. This understanding encourages us to express our emotions freely, knowing that God will compensate for our losses and pains in heaven. [31:02]
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Youtube Chapters

[00:00] - Welcome
[00:08] - Gratitude and Greetings
[00:34] - Recent Tragedies and Grief
[01:17] - Personal Loss and Empathy
[02:21] - The Call to Comfort Others
[03:25] - The Inevitability of Grief
[04:08] - Personal Grieving Experiences
[05:02] - The Tsunami of Grief
[05:46] - The Skill of Comforting Others
[06:13] - True Friendship in Adversity
[07:21] - Sharing Tears as a Mark of Friendship
[08:11] - The Value of Tears
[09:40] - Tears as God's Gift
[12:14] - The Holy Spirit's Empathy
[22:34] - The Power of Empathy
[31:02] - God Collects Our Tears
[42:41] - The Ministry of Presence
[46:01] - God's Promise of No More Tears

Sermon Clips

Tears are a divine gift, a way to express the deep emotions that words often fail to convey. They are not a sign of weakness but a testament to our humanity and our connection to God, who also grieves. The Bible is filled with instances of tears, from Genesis to Revelation, underscoring their importance in the human experience. [00:09:40]

Tears are God's gift for expressing emotion. The only reason you're able to shed tears in expressing emotion is because you're made in God's image. God is an emotional God. Did you know that the only reason you have any emotions at all is because God has emotions? God has feelings, and God made you in His image. [00:09:40]

Tears are what make us human. Now, I did a lot of study on this, and I discovered that there are three kinds of tears that we have. There are basal tears, which just coat your eyes and keep the junk and dust out of your eyes. There are reactive tears, which if your eye gets poked, you're going to tear up. [00:13:14]

Tears are a normal and healthy part of life. Ecclesiastes 3:4 says this: there's a time for tears, and there's a time for laughter. There's a time for mourning—that's grief—and there's a time for dancing. Life is composed of opposites. There's a time for laughter, and there's a time for tears. [00:16:36]

Tears are a universal language. They're far more powerful than words by far. That's why you learn to cry before you learn to talk, because every single culture understands them. It's a universal language. They may not understand your words, but if you cry, they're going to understand your tears. [00:22:34]

Empathy is the ability to share the feelings of others. Empathy is different than sympathy. Sympathy says, "I'm sorry you hurt," but empathy shows, "I'm hurting with you." Sympathy says, "I'm sorry you hurt." Empathy shows, "I'm hurting with you." Tears are a sign of love, not weakness. [00:23:14]

God saves every tear that falls. God saves every tear that falls from your eyes. He not only sees every tear you cry, He saves every tear you cry. Did you know that? You probably didn't know that. Let me show you some verses that show that God sees your tears and then God saves your tears. [00:31:02]

Every single tear you've cried in your lifetime, God noticed. In all those times when you felt broken-hearted or depressed or lonely or fearful or sad, and you were weeping by yourself alone, your loving Heavenly Father was paying attention. The Bible says He took note of every single tear that fell from your eyes. [00:31:02]

God promises to wipe away every tear and end all suffering. This assurance gives us hope and strength to endure our current grief, knowing that it is temporary and that God is with us in our pain. [00:46:01]

When you have a friend in pain, don't wait. Take the initiative to connect. Don't hold back. Let them see your tears. Don't speak. It's not—there's nothing you can say that's going to make you feel any better. Show up and shut up. [00:42:41]

The ministry of presence is powerful. When comforting those in grief, our presence is more valuable than words. Like Job's friends, we should show up and remain silent, allowing our presence and shared tears to provide comfort. [00:42:41]

Remember, all tears are temporary. No matter how bad the pain or grief is in that moment, it will not and it cannot last forever, because one day, God's gonna settle the score. God's gonna right the wrongs. God's gonna soothe all of our hurts. [00:46:01]

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