The Healing Power of Confession in Faith

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So if you grew up Catholic, actually it's a whole very, very important topic, and actually it's called a sacrament of confession, which actually it's a process where we confess our sins to priests and also to God, right? So with other words, we are confessing our sins to God and to one another. And this is something that we are going to share about today. Today, I'm going to cover the topic of confessing to God, and Kelly is going to join us soon, and she's going to talk about how and why to confess to one another. Actually, it's one of the Bible requirements, and Apostle Paul is encouraging us to do that. [00:00:59] (46 seconds) Edit Clip


And actually, that diffused the whole situation. Because at that moment, I was a little like, okay, why raise your tone? Or why do you answer like that? All I want to know is if I can go work on the computer or not, right? But for him to just say that, for him to confess that, like, hey, I don't know. I guess I'm frustrated at nothing. Diffused everything. Because now I realize, actually, he's frustrated. I don't know at what. He doesn't know at what. But at least we know he's a little frustrated. So I said, well, then I'll just go work on the computer. And if you want, let me know, and we can just take turns on the computer. [00:03:01] (42 seconds) Edit Clip


But that made me think about when we confess how we feel or how, you know, frustration that we have, without realizing when we bring things into the light, it's diffusing everything. It's just kind of making us back on the same page instead of assuming things and getting mad at each other. And that's what I think about confession sometimes. So what is confession? [00:03:49] (27 seconds) Edit Clip


In fact, confession, if we look at the statement by the dictionary, it's saying it's a formal statement admitting that one is guilty of a crime. So pretty much it's acknowledgement or admission. Now, Alec committed no crime, right? He was just a little frustrated. But looking at this definition of confession, actually, it's really important, right? When someone has to admit that he's guilty of a crime, that sounds pretty harsh, pretty hard, right? [00:04:16] (36 seconds) Edit Clip


Confession is not just saying, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Many people think that is confession. Well, technically, that is apologizing. It's not confessing. And Kelly reminded me about a story in a book she was reading that when an officer or a detective is entering the interrogation room, and right there, it's somebody that has to confess something. Well, most of the times the detective is giving him a notepad and is saying, write down your confession, right? Write down your confession. And when he said that, when this officer said that, he didn't mean write down you are sorry. No, what the officer was looking for is confession. It's write down what you did wrong. And then let's talk about it. [00:05:48] (51 seconds) Edit Clip


So, something else I want to just set the stage, and we'll come back later to this. Confession is not necessarily just dropping a bomb. Like sometimes people confess to people, and without realizing, they are just dropping a bomb and live. So, confession, the purpose for confession is to reconcile, is to bring unity, is to bring peace. So, when we don't confess, in my opinion, we choose to keep secrets, right? And when we keep secrets, we choose to punish ourselves in silence. Think about it. When you did something wrong, and you know what's wrong, and you don't confess, do you feel good about it? I hope not. But we don't, right? We know it's something wrong, and without realizing, it's kind of making us feel uncomfortable, feeling us guilty, feeling maybe ashamed, or just not feeling good about it. And without realizing, we carry that, sometimes for days, sometimes for weeks, sometimes for years, and it's not getting any better. In my opinion, actually, it's getting worse. [00:06:39] (83 seconds) Edit Clip


Confessing, also, it's about, let me just take you somewhere else. How many of, I'm not going to ask you to raise your hand, but if you've ever been to a counselor, for whatever reason, you'll discover that actually the counselor is trying to get to the truth. It's trying to get to the bottom of the issue or the problem. And for the counselor to be successful at what they've been trained and gifted to do, they need honesty. They need the person that is there for counseling to talk about it and say the truth, right? It's not just saying the truth, but sometimes the counselor is helping us to get even deeper to discover the truth that actually we didn't even know that was there, that truth. It's just going deeper, and this is something that God wants to help us. By the way, do you know that one of the names of the Holy Spirit, which is part of God, which is God, it's part of the Trinity, one of the names of the Holy Spirit, it's Mighty Counselor. Think about it. He is a counselor that wants to help us to get to the truth and to confess the truth. So, I want to share with you a few things before we go any further. Confession to God requires honesty and transparency. See? It's acknowledging our condition before God. [00:08:15] (107 seconds) Edit Clip


Honesty means telling the truth. But transparency, in my opinion, it's taking the honesty to another level. Because transparency is about being open without needing to be asked. [00:10:01] (21 seconds) Edit Clip


If you are a parent, probably you'll realize that sometimes you know something about your kids, something that they do or something that they did. And sometimes you, as a parent, you don't want to bring it up. You are waiting for that kid to bring it up, right? Man, I so want to talk about that, but he has to initiate it or she has to initiate that. Well, it's the same with God. But God, by the way, knows exactly what we've been doing. It's no secret for him. But he's waiting for us to go to him and confess, to talk about it. [00:10:26] (37 seconds) Edit Clip


Confession also involves agreeing with God's view of sin. And seeking healing on his terms. Apostle Paul, in Romans chapter 6, he's saying that the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ. God hates sin. And I want us to understand, God doesn't hate sin just because it's sin. [00:11:14] (32 seconds) Edit Clip


God hates sin also because of what he's doing to us. And because God loved us so much, he doesn't want us to, he doesn't want to see us suffering because of the sin. That's another reason why God hates so much the sin. [00:11:40] (20 seconds) Edit Clip


Something else confession is, it's an act of humility and acknowledging our need for God. Our need for grace and mercy. See? How many of you like going around admitting that you've been wrong? None of you. I'm not one of them. Like, I hate. And even when I'm wrong, I think I'm wrong because I was thinking that I was wrong. [00:12:59] (30 seconds) Edit Clip


Confession is an essential step also in seeking forgiveness and restoration in our relationship with God. If you look through the Bible, you will find out that confession is followed by repentance. And, those two go hand in hand together. But, first, we have to confess to God our sins. We have to confess to God our wrong way of doing things. And, then, ask for forgiveness. And, then, show repentance. [00:13:56] (37 seconds) Edit Clip


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