The Healing Power of Confession in Faith
Summary
Confession is a vital aspect of our spiritual journey, and today, we delve into its significance and practice. Confession is not merely about saying "I'm sorry" but involves a deeper acknowledgment of our wrongdoings before God and others. It is a process that brings healing, reconciliation, and peace. In the Catholic tradition, confession is a sacrament, a sacred act of admitting our sins to God and to one another. This practice is not just a ritual but a biblical requirement, as Apostle Paul encourages us to confess to one another.
Confession is about bringing our hidden struggles into the light, which can diffuse tension and misunderstanding, as illustrated by a personal story with my son, Alec. When we confess, we admit our guilt, not in a legalistic sense, but as a step towards healing and unity. Holding onto secrets only punishes us in silence, creating a burden that grows heavier over time. By confessing, we release this burden and invite God's grace into our lives.
Confession requires honesty and transparency. It is about being open with God, acknowledging our sins, and agreeing with His view of sin. God hates sin not just because it is against His nature, but because of the harm it causes us. He desires for us to live free from the bondage of sin, experiencing the abundant life He offers.
Moreover, confession is an act of humility, recognizing our need for God's grace and mercy. It is the first step in seeking forgiveness and restoration in our relationship with Him. Confession leads to repentance, a turning away from sin and towards God. As we approach Easter, we are reminded of Jesus' sacrifice on the cross, which provides the opportunity for us to confess without fear of punishment.
As we prepare to take communion, let us enter a time of reflection and confession. Allow the Holy Spirit, our Mighty Counselor, to guide us in acknowledging our sins and seeking God's forgiveness. Through confession, we embrace the freedom and abundant life that Jesus offers.
Key Takeaways:
- Confession is more than an apology; it is a profound acknowledgment of our sins before God and others, leading to healing and reconciliation. It is about bringing our hidden struggles into the light, which can diffuse tension and misunderstanding. [05:43]
- Holding onto secrets burdens us with guilt and shame, but confession releases this burden and invites God's grace into our lives. It is a step towards healing and unity, freeing us from the bondage of sin. [12:51]
- Confession requires honesty and transparency, acknowledging our sins and agreeing with God's view of sin. It is about being open with God and recognizing the harm sin causes us, as well as His desire for us to live free from its bondage. [16:48]
- Confession is an act of humility, recognizing our need for God's grace and mercy. It is the first step in seeking forgiveness and restoration in our relationship with Him, leading to repentance and a turning away from sin. [22:50]
- As we approach communion, let us reflect and confess our sins, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide us. Through confession, we embrace the freedom and abundant life that Jesus offers, remembering His sacrifice on the cross. [22:50]
Youtube Chapters:
[00:00] - Welcome
[00:30] - Introduction to Confession
[02:15] - Personal Story with Alec
[05:43] - Definition and Importance of Confession
[08:00] - Confession vs. Apology
[10:30] - The Role of Honesty and Transparency
[12:51] - Confession as a Path to Freedom
[14:45] - The Counselor's Role in Confession
[16:48] - Humility in Confession
[18:30] - Confession and Repentance
[20:00] - Preparing for Communion
[22:50] - Communion and Reflection
[25:00] - Closing Prayer and Blessing
Study Guide
Bible Study Discussion Guide: The Significance and Practice of Confession
Bible Reading:
1. 1 John 1:9 - "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness."
2. Romans 6:23 - "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Observation Questions:
1. According to 1 John 1:9, what is the condition for receiving forgiveness and purification from God?
2. How does the sermon describe the difference between confession and simply saying "I'm sorry"? [05:43]
3. What role does honesty and transparency play in the act of confession, as discussed in the sermon? [16:48]
4. How did the personal story with Alec illustrate the power of confession in diffusing tension? [05:43]
Interpretation Questions:
1. In what ways does confession lead to healing and reconciliation, both with God and with others? [05:43]
2. How does the sermon explain the relationship between confession and humility? Why is humility important in the process of confession? [12:51]
3. What does it mean to agree with God's view of sin, and how does this understanding impact the practice of confession? [16:48]
4. How does the concept of confession as a path to freedom challenge or affirm your previous understanding of confession? [12:51]
Application Questions:
1. Reflect on a time when you held onto a secret or unconfessed sin. How did it affect your relationship with God and others? What steps can you take to bring it into the light? [12:51]
2. Consider the role of honesty and transparency in your own life. How can you cultivate these qualities in your relationship with God and others? [16:48]
3. How can you practice humility in your daily life, especially when it comes to admitting wrongdoings or seeking forgiveness? [12:51]
4. As we approach communion, what specific sins or struggles do you need to confess to God? How can you create a regular practice of reflection and confession in your spiritual journey? [22:50]
5. Think about a relationship in your life that could benefit from confession and reconciliation. What steps can you take to initiate this process?
6. How does the understanding of God's grace and mercy influence your willingness to confess and seek forgiveness? [16:48]
7. Identify one area in your life where you feel burdened by guilt or shame. How can confession help you experience the freedom and abundant life that Jesus offers? [12:51]
Devotional
Day 1: Confession as a Path to Healing and Reconciliation
Confession is more than just an apology; it is a profound acknowledgment of our sins before God and others, leading to healing and reconciliation. By bringing our hidden struggles into the light, we can diffuse tension and misunderstanding. This process involves admitting our guilt, not in a legalistic sense, but as a step towards healing and unity. Holding onto secrets only punishes us in silence, creating a burden that grows heavier over time. By confessing, we release this burden and invite God's grace into our lives. [05:43]
James 5:16 (ESV): "Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working."
Reflection: Think of a hidden struggle or sin you have been holding onto. How can you bring it into the light today, either by confessing to God or a trusted friend, to begin the process of healing and reconciliation?
Day 2: Releasing the Burden of Secrets
Holding onto secrets burdens us with guilt and shame, but confession releases this burden and invites God's grace into our lives. It is a step towards healing and unity, freeing us from the bondage of sin. When we confess, we admit our guilt and open ourselves to the transformative power of God's grace. This act of confession allows us to experience the freedom and peace that comes from living in truth and transparency. [12:51]
Psalm 32:3-5 (ESV): "For when I kept silent, my bones wasted away through my groaning all day long. For day and night your hand was heavy upon me; my strength was dried up as by the heat of summer. I acknowledged my sin to you, and I did not cover my iniquity; I said, 'I will confess my transgressions to the Lord,' and you forgave the iniquity of my sin."
Reflection: Is there a secret or burden you have been carrying that you need to confess? How can you take a step today to release it and invite God's grace into your life?
Day 3: Honesty and Transparency in Confession
Confession requires honesty and transparency, acknowledging our sins and agreeing with God's view of sin. It is about being open with God and recognizing the harm sin causes us, as well as His desire for us to live free from its bondage. God hates sin not just because it is against His nature, but because of the harm it causes us. He desires for us to live free from the bondage of sin, experiencing the abundant life He offers. [16:48]
1 John 1:8-9 (ESV): "If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Reflection: In what areas of your life do you struggle to be honest and transparent with God? How can you practice greater honesty in your relationship with Him today?
Day 4: Humility and the Need for God's Grace
Confession is an act of humility, recognizing our need for God's grace and mercy. It is the first step in seeking forgiveness and restoration in our relationship with Him, leading to repentance and a turning away from sin. By confessing, we acknowledge our dependence on God's grace and open ourselves to His transformative power. This humility allows us to experience the fullness of His forgiveness and the restoration of our relationship with Him. [22:50]
Micah 6:8 (ESV): "He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?"
Reflection: How can you cultivate a spirit of humility in your life today, recognizing your need for God's grace and mercy? What steps can you take to seek forgiveness and restoration in your relationship with Him?
Day 5: Embracing Freedom Through Confession
As we approach communion, let us reflect and confess our sins, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide us. Through confession, we embrace the freedom and abundant life that Jesus offers, remembering His sacrifice on the cross. This act of confession is not just a ritual but a transformative experience that allows us to live in the freedom and abundance that Jesus provides. By confessing, we align ourselves with His will and open ourselves to the fullness of His grace. [22:50]
Hebrews 10:22 (ESV): "Let us draw near with a true heart in full assurance of faith, with our hearts sprinkled clean from an evil conscience and our bodies washed with pure water."
Reflection: As you prepare for communion, what sins do you need to confess to embrace the freedom and abundant life Jesus offers? How can you allow the Holy Spirit to guide you in this process today?
Quotes
So if you grew up Catholic, actually it's a whole very, very important topic, and actually it's called a sacrament of confession, which actually it's a process where we confess our sins to priests and also to God, right? So with other words, we are confessing our sins to God and to one another. And this is something that we are going to share about today. Today, I'm going to cover the topic of confessing to God, and Kelly is going to join us soon, and she's going to talk about how and why to confess to one another. Actually, it's one of the Bible requirements, and Apostle Paul is encouraging us to do that. [00:00:59] (46 seconds)
And actually, that diffused the whole situation. Because at that moment, I was a little like, okay, why raise your tone? Or why do you answer like that? All I want to know is if I can go work on the computer or not, right? But for him to just say that, for him to confess that, like, hey, I don't know. I guess I'm frustrated at nothing. Diffused everything. Because now I realize, actually, he's frustrated. I don't know at what. He doesn't know at what. But at least we know he's a little frustrated. So I said, well, then I'll just go work on the computer. And if you want, let me know, and we can just take turns on the computer. [00:03:01] (42 seconds)
But that made me think about when we confess how we feel or how, you know, frustration that we have, without realizing when we bring things into the light, it's diffusing everything. It's just kind of making us back on the same page instead of assuming things and getting mad at each other. And that's what I think about confession sometimes. So what is confession? [00:03:49] (27 seconds)
In fact, confession, if we look at the statement by the dictionary, it's saying it's a formal statement admitting that one is guilty of a crime. So pretty much it's acknowledgement or admission. Now, Alec committed no crime, right? He was just a little frustrated. But looking at this definition of confession, actually, it's really important, right? When someone has to admit that he's guilty of a crime, that sounds pretty harsh, pretty hard, right? [00:04:16] (36 seconds)
Confession is not just saying, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Many people think that is confession. Well, technically, that is apologizing. It's not confessing. And Kelly reminded me about a story in a book she was reading that when an officer or a detective is entering the interrogation room, and right there, it's somebody that has to confess something. Well, most of the times the detective is giving him a notepad and is saying, write down your confession, right? Write down your confession. And when he said that, when this officer said that, he didn't mean write down you are sorry. No, what the officer was looking for is confession. It's write down what you did wrong. And then let's talk about it. [00:05:48] (51 seconds)
So, something else I want to just set the stage, and we'll come back later to this. Confession is not necessarily just dropping a bomb. Like sometimes people confess to people, and without realizing, they are just dropping a bomb and live. So, confession, the purpose for confession is to reconcile, is to bring unity, is to bring peace. So, when we don't confess, in my opinion, we choose to keep secrets, right? And when we keep secrets, we choose to punish ourselves in silence. Think about it. When you did something wrong, and you know what's wrong, and you don't confess, do you feel good about it? I hope not. But we don't, right? We know it's something wrong, and without realizing, it's kind of making us feel uncomfortable, feeling us guilty, feeling maybe ashamed, or just not feeling good about it. And without realizing, we carry that, sometimes for days, sometimes for weeks, sometimes for years, and it's not getting any better. In my opinion, actually, it's getting worse. [00:06:39] (83 seconds)
Confessing, also, it's about, let me just take you somewhere else. How many of, I'm not going to ask you to raise your hand, but if you've ever been to a counselor, for whatever reason, you'll discover that actually the counselor is trying to get to the truth. It's trying to get to the bottom of the issue or the problem. And for the counselor to be successful at what they've been trained and gifted to do, they need honesty. They need the person that is there for counseling to talk about it and say the truth, right? It's not just saying the truth, but sometimes the counselor is helping us to get even deeper to discover the truth that actually we didn't even know that was there, that truth. It's just going deeper, and this is something that God wants to help us. By the way, do you know that one of the names of the Holy Spirit, which is part of God, which is God, it's part of the Trinity, one of the names of the Holy Spirit, it's Mighty Counselor. Think about it. He is a counselor that wants to help us to get to the truth and to confess the truth. So, I want to share with you a few things before we go any further. Confession to God requires honesty and transparency. See? It's acknowledging our condition before God. [00:08:15] (107 seconds)
Honesty means telling the truth. But transparency, in my opinion, it's taking the honesty to another level. Because transparency is about being open without needing to be asked. [00:10:01] (21 seconds)
If you are a parent, probably you'll realize that sometimes you know something about your kids, something that they do or something that they did. And sometimes you, as a parent, you don't want to bring it up. You are waiting for that kid to bring it up, right? Man, I so want to talk about that, but he has to initiate it or she has to initiate that. Well, it's the same with God. But God, by the way, knows exactly what we've been doing. It's no secret for him. But he's waiting for us to go to him and confess, to talk about it. [00:10:26] (37 seconds)
Confession also involves agreeing with God's view of sin. And seeking healing on his terms. Apostle Paul, in Romans chapter 6, he's saying that the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ. God hates sin. And I want us to understand, God doesn't hate sin just because it's sin. [00:11:14] (32 seconds)
God hates sin also because of what he's doing to us. And because God loved us so much, he doesn't want us to, he doesn't want to see us suffering because of the sin. That's another reason why God hates so much the sin. [00:11:40] (20 seconds)
Something else confession is, it's an act of humility and acknowledging our need for God. Our need for grace and mercy. See? How many of you like going around admitting that you've been wrong? None of you. I'm not one of them. Like, I hate. And even when I'm wrong, I think I'm wrong because I was thinking that I was wrong. [00:12:59] (30 seconds)
Confession is an essential step also in seeking forgiveness and restoration in our relationship with God. If you look through the Bible, you will find out that confession is followed by repentance. And, those two go hand in hand together. But, first, we have to confess to God our sins. We have to confess to God our wrong way of doing things. And, then, ask for forgiveness. And, then, show repentance. [00:13:56] (37 seconds)