**Bible Study Discussion Guide: Thanksgiving or Complaintsgiving?**
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### Bible Reading
**Numbers 11:1-10 (ESV)**
> 1 And the people complained in the hearing of the Lord about their misfortunes, and when the Lord heard it, his anger was kindled, and the fire of the Lord burned among them and consumed some outlying parts of the camp.
> 2 Then the people cried out to Moses, and Moses prayed to the Lord, and the fire died down.
> 3 So the name of that place was called Taberah, because the fire of the Lord burned among them.
> 4 Now the rabble that was among them had a strong craving. And the people of Israel also wept again and said, “Oh that we had meat to eat!
> 5 We remember the fish we ate in Egypt that cost nothing, the cucumbers, the melons, the leeks, the onions, and the garlic.
> 6 But now our strength is dried up, and there is nothing at all but this manna to look at.”
> 7 Now the manna was like coriander seed, and its appearance like that of bdellium.
> 8 The people went about and gathered it and ground it in handmills or beat it in mortars and boiled it in pots and made cakes of it. And the taste of it was like the taste of cakes baked with oil.
> 9 When the dew fell upon the camp in the night, the manna fell with it.
> 10 Moses heard the people weeping throughout their clans, everyone at the door of his tent. And the anger of the Lord blazed hotly, and Moses was displeased.
**Philippians 2:14-15 (ESV)**
> 14 Do all things without grumbling or disputing,
> 15 that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world.
**Acts 16:25-34 (ESV)**
> 25 About midnight Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and the prisoners were listening to them,
> 26 and suddenly there was a great earthquake, so that the foundations of the prison were shaken. And immediately all the doors were opened, and everyone's bonds were unfastened.
> 27 When the jailer woke and saw that the prison doors were open, he drew his sword and was about to kill himself, supposing that the prisoners had escaped.
> 28 But Paul cried with a loud voice, “Do not harm yourself, for we are all here.”
> 29 And the jailer called for lights and rushed in, and trembling with fear he fell down before Paul and Silas.
> 30 Then he brought them out and said, “Sirs, what must I do to be saved?”
> 31 And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.”
> 32 And they spoke the word of the Lord to him and to all who were in his house.
> 33 And he took them the same hour of the night and washed their wounds; and he was baptized at once, he and all his family.
> 34 Then he brought them up into his house and set food before them. And he rejoiced along with his entire household that he had believed in God.
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### Observation Questions
- What specific things did the Israelites complain about in Numbers 11, and how did God respond to their complaints? ([04:04])
- In Numbers 13-14, what effect did the negative report of the ten spies have on the rest of the Israelite community? ([14:30])
- According to Philippians 2:14-15, what is the result of doing everything without grumbling or arguing?
- In Acts 16, what were Paul and Silas doing while in prison, and how did the other prisoners and the jailer respond? ([24:34])
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### Interpretation Questions
- Why does the sermon say that complaining is more than just a bad habit, but a spiritual issue that reveals a lack of trust in God? ([03:41])
- How does complaining, according to the sermon, affect not just the individual but the whole community? ([09:16])
- What does the example of Paul and Silas in prison teach us about the power of thankfulness in difficult circumstances? ([24:34])
- The Israelites longed for the food and comforts of Egypt even after being freed from slavery. What does this reveal about the human heart and our memory of the past? ([07:11])
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### Application Questions
- The sermon says that when we complain, we’re subtly telling God that His way isn’t good enough. Can you think of a recent situation where you found yourself complaining? What might it look like to trust God in that situation instead? ([10:42])
- Complaining is described as contagious and disruptive to community. Have you noticed how your own attitude—positive or negative—affects those around you, especially in your family or small group? What is one way you can help shift the atmosphere toward gratitude this week? ([09:16])
- The Israelites’ complaints blinded them to God’s blessings. Are there areas in your life where you might be missing God’s provision because you’re focused on what you lack? How can you intentionally look for God’s hand in your current circumstances? ([17:47])
- Paul and Silas chose to sing and praise God in prison, which led to others coming to faith. Is there a hard situation you’re facing right now where you could choose thankfulness instead of complaint? What would it look like to “sing hymns” in your own “prison”? ([24:34])
- The sermon mentions that thankfulness is a discipline that rewires our hearts. What is one practical step you can take this week to cultivate gratitude, even if your circumstances don’t change? ([28:14])
- The Israelites wanted to go back to Egypt when things got tough, forgetting God’s past faithfulness. Are there ways you tend to “look back” or idealize the past when you’re dissatisfied? How can you remind yourself of God’s faithfulness today? ([16:50])
- The pastor shared a personal story about a car accident and choosing gratitude. Is there a recent disappointment or frustration in your life where you could look for reasons to give thanks? What would it take to make that shift? ([19:40])
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