Sunday Morning Service | The Friend You've Been Missing #3 | Pastor Shawna Thomas

Jun 21, 2026

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69s
#SurrenderToSpirit
“And maybe the greatest obstacle isn't whether god wants to fill you. Maybe the greatest obstacle is whether you're willing to surrender. Because god never called you to do his work in your own strength. He has always intended for you to do it through his spirit. The Holy Spirit is not looking for perfect people. He's looking for willing people. People who will say, Lord, here am I. Use me. Fill me. Lead me. Empower me. And when you say yes to that, he does what only he can do. He fills us, he empowers us, and he transforms us. He uses ordinary people to accomplish extraordinary things.”
56s
#GiftsForEverydayLife
“Can you imagine what Olive Branch, South Haven, Byhalia, Holly Springs, wherever you live, Collierville would look like If every believer began walking in these gifts every single day. What would it look like? Our neighborhoods would be different, our workplaces would be different, our schools would be different, our homes would be different. Maybe this is a good place for a lot of us to start. Let's just do this at home. Not just come to church on a Sunday morning. People who encounter the love, power, and presence of Jesus in tangible ways, lives would be changed. That's why the Holy Spirit empowers us. Not so that we can be an impressive church and have great services but so that we can be the hands and the feet of Jesus everywhere that we go.”
36s
#ClothedInHisPower
“just picture that image, clothed. Right? So, like, I had to put this jacket on this morning. Right? You to be clothed means that it covers you. It becomes visible. All of you can see that I have this jacket on, this blazer on this morning. It becomes a part of how I move and how I function. It's a part of, you know, what I'm doing and so Jesus was telling his disciples, don't try to accomplish this mission of spreading the word on your own and in your own strength but wait until you are clothed in my power.”
53s
#LifeEmpoweredBySpirit
“But while speaking in tongues is important and it is initial evidence of the baptism in the holy spirit, it was never meant to be the ultimate goal. The goal is a life empowered by the Holy Spirit. To be empowered, it's gonna look different and once again, the same disciples who hid behind locked doors became fearless witnesses. The same Peter who denied Jesus stood before the crowds and boldly proclaimed the gospel. When the holy spirit fills a person's life, something changes. The holy spirit doesn't just change the way the pro that we pray, he changes the way that we live which goes back to what we talked about last week about the fruit.”
54s
#GiftsForTheCommonGood
“In first Corinthians twelve seven, it says this, it says, to each is given the manifestation of the spirit for the common good and so, these gifts are given are not given to make us look spiritual. It's not about us. It's about him. They are given to help people and they are given to glorify Jesus. Remember, last week, we talked about how the fruit is who we are in Christ. The gifts are what we do through the Holy Spirit. And so, as we go into these gifts, these gifts aren't natural talents. They are not learned skills. They are supernatural manifestations of the Holy Spirit given for specific moments and specific needs as he chooses.”
44s
#PrayInTheSpirit
“And here's what it is. It is a beautiful gift from God. It helps us pray when we don't know what to say. Anybody ever been praying and you're just like, I have no words. Okay. Well, when we're baptized in the Holy Spirit and we have the evidence with speaking in tongues in our prayer language, we can pray in the spirit and where we don't have words in the natural, we're praying the perfect will of the father for the situation. can it get any better than that? It can't. It builds us up spiritually. Just as Jude writes, he says, building yourself up in your most holy faith and praying in this holy spirit. It deepens our worship. It strengthens our relationship with god.”
52s
#PracticeGiftsBiblically
“Because let's be honest, throughout church history, there have been times when the gift has been used in ways that created confusion rather than clarity. But a misuse of something does not mean that the gift is not genuine and it doesn't mean that it's not for today. It simply means that we need to understand and practice it biblically. And so, we're gonna look at that for a moment. Scripture describes both a personal prayer language and a public gift of tongues. And when used biblically and in order, both are beautiful gifts from god and so the goal is never the gift this itself. The goal is a deeper relationship with god”
54s
#LiveDifferentlyBySpirit
“And let's be honest, that's what most people need today. They don't just need people who talk differently, but they need people who live differently. Talk is cheap. Anybody can talk. But how many people can actually walk it out every day twenty four seven? And so the Holy Spirit gives us greater intimacy with God, boldness to share our faith, empowerment for ministry, and strength during hardships. And guys, I know from my own life that there have been seasons when I felt spiritually strong and then there have been seasons when I have been exhausted, stretched thin, and running on empty. Can anybody, anybody been there? Been there, done that?”
42s
#PlugIntoGodsPower
“you get it home, you put the bulb in, it's installed, everything's in its place, but it doesn't work until what? You plug it in. Right? So it looks great, but until you plug it in to the power source, it cannot fulfill its purpose. And so the baptism in the Holy Spirit, guys, it doesn't make you more valuable. It doesn't make God love you more, but it empowers you to function the way that God designed you to function. And it's true for every single believer in this room.”
40s
#FaithBeyondFeelings
“Now, some of you might be wondering, well, what if I ask and nothing happens? What if I don't feel anything? What if I don't do it right? And let me just say this, that sometimes this is something that people receive immediately, some people receive quietly, some feel overwhelming emotion, and some don't really feel much at all. But the evidence of God's faithfulness is not what you feel in the moment. The evidence is that your father keeps his promise, and it's a free gift that he wants to give to every single one of you.”
55s
#ListenAndObeySpirit
“Often, the supernatural looks much more practical than we expect it to. It starts with listening and then obeying. It starts with being willing when the Holy Spirit prompts us, not ignoring it. Oh, that's just me. Okay, Lord. I'm gonna do it as you. But I'm scared. Oh, but I just read that your holy spirit empowers me and gives me boldness. So I'm not doing it in my own strength. I'm doing it in you. These gifts are not for toys, for spiritual entertainment. They are tools for ministry. They are tools for the holy spirit gives us to bless people, to build up the church, and to draw more souls to the father.”
42s
#BoldnessTransforms
“I believe that's when everything changed for them. The fearful became bold. Peter then stood before thousands and proclaimed the gospel with confidence. He wasn't timid. He wasn't running. He wasn't making excuses and we know that that very day that about 3,000 people were added to the church. Three p thousand people called upon Jesus to be their lord and savior and so, you know, I don't believe that the difference was their education, their experience, or even their personality. The difference was the power of the Holy Spirit.”
47s
#PersonalPrayerLanguage
“It is one of the ways the holy spirit helps us pray beyond the limits of our natural understanding. Like I said a while ago, communicating exactly, communicating with the father in ways that our own words sometimes cannot express. It is a beautiful gift from a loving father who desires to empower us and to strengthen us. Now, before we go any further, it's important to understand that this is a personal prayer language is different than what Paul is talking about and describes as the public gift of tongues within the gathered church and so, when we're talking about a personal prayer language, we're talking about us communicating”
51s
#TonguesForEdification
“And so that's why Paul teaches in first Corinthians 14 that if a message in tongues is given publicly, so right here in front of all of you, it should be accompanied by an interpretation. God's not trying to create confusion. He is seeking to build up, to encourage, and to strengthen his people. So, other words, your personal prayer language is primarily directed towards god while the public gift of tongues when interpreted becomes a message that edifies the entire church, the entire body. So both gifts are of the holy spirit. They are both biblical and they both should be practiced with humility, with love, and with order.”
50s
#SpiritDiscernment
“So, what that might look like for you is, you know, maybe you're praying and someone unexpectedly comes to your mind and so you reach out to them and you actually find out that they were going through a hard time and needed you to reach out with that encouragement in that moment. The other one under there is the discerning of spirits. You know, the Holy Spirit helps you recognize the spiritual influence that can be work in a at work in a situation. You ever been with somebody and you're like, what is going on? I just don't get it. A lot of times it can be a demonic influence that's going on and so the lord can be like, you're not dealing with the person right now. You're dealing with a spirit and then what to do with that and so some of you kind of have this revelation and this understanding of there's more going on here.”
56s
#HumbleReception
“Without any pressure, hype, or emotional buildup, he found himself praying in tongues. He wasn't trying to make something happen. He wasn't trying to put on a show for anybody. He wasn't following a formula. He simply asked, trusted, and received. And so what speaks to me the most about the spirit this story is not just the experience itself, but it's the posture of his heart. Here was a man who had walked with God for decades, yet he was still willing to let scripture challenge his assumptions. And he was still willing to receive whatever God wanted to give him.”
30s
#AvailableToBeUsed
“As we surrender ourselves to the Holy Spirit and we remain available to him, he can use us in any of the gifts that he desires for the advancement of his kingdom. Amen. Why would be like, why would he be like, oh, nope. You can't minister to that person. I'm not gonna give you that gift. Joe Blow's gotta come around to make it happen. He wants to use each one of us in whatever way if it's gonna get them to become a believer and to follow him and to have a greater understanding of who he is.”
30s
#SupernaturalProvision
“Another example that comes to mind is some friends of ours that pastor a church. You know, they were needing a building and it was going into foreclosure and the one that they wanted and they're like, call this person at this time and they're now a church that has three services a weekend and is making an impact for the kingdom of god. Supernatural. It couldn't have been done in the natural. Nothing added up. Nothing made sense. It was truly a miracle that god intervened”
31s
#NotByOurStrength
“God has never called you to fulfill his purpose in your own strength and that's where we fall flat. It's because we a lot of times think we have to do it in our own strength. Guys, we can't do it in our own strength. We have to be empowered by the holy spirit and so we see this pattern in the New Testament in several different locations. We see that the disciples believed in Jesus, but then they were told to wait for the promised power of the holy spirit in acts chapter one and verse chapter two.”
55s
#GiftsForRealLife
“These gifts aren't reserved for just this church building inside four walls. They're designed for real life. They're designed for you in the workplace, in your neighborhood, at school, with your family. These are tools that the Holy Spirit uses to reveal Jesus to people. And the more surrendered that we are, the more available we become. You guys get that? We have to surrender, give up stuff to be available, to be used. And what I love is we don't have to like worry or try to figure out what's the one gift he wants to use me in. No. He's gonna use you in whatever way as you're yielded to him. Some might be more comfortable.”
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