Submission is a recurring theme in 1 Peter, where believers are urged to honor civic authorities, endure unjust suffering, and practice humility in relationships, not out of weakness but as a Christlike attitude that prepares the heart for trials. Christians are called to be law-abiding, respectful, and prayerful for those in authority, even when obedience is difficult, always remembering that their ultimate allegiance is to God. This attitude of not fighting back, not retaliating, and not asserting one’s rights is foundational for handling suffering and for living out the gospel in a hostile world. The willingness to submit, even in challenging circumstances, is a mark of spiritual maturity and readiness for whatever pressures may come. [01:39]
1 Peter 2:13-17 (ESV)
Be subject for the Lord’s sake to every human institution, whether it be to the emperor as supreme, or to governors as sent by him to punish those who do evil and to praise those who do good. For this is the will of God, that by doing good you should put to silence the ignorance of foolish people. Live as people who are free, not using your freedom as a cover-up for evil, but living as servants of God. Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor.
Reflection: In what area of your life do you find it most difficult to submit to authority, and how might you practice a Christlike attitude of humility and respect in that situation today?
True beauty, as described in 1 Peter 3, is not about outward glamour but about the inner transformation that comes from loving Jesus deeply; this inner beauty grows with age and is visible to others, even in the most challenging relationships. The story of Miss Harris illustrates that as one grows in love for Christ, their countenance and character become more beautiful, radiating joy and peace regardless of external circumstances. Christian wives are encouraged to win over unbelieving husbands not by words or nagging, but by becoming more attractive to live with—demonstrating a gentle and quiet spirit, and trusting God to work through even unlikely means. This principle applies to all believers: the more we love Jesus, the more we reflect His beauty to the world. [06:11]
1 Peter 3:1-4 (ESV)
Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives, when they see your respectful and pure conduct. Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear—but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.
Reflection: How can you intentionally cultivate inner beauty and Christlike character today, especially in your closest relationships?
Peter warns that the greatest threat to the church is not persecution from outside, but corruption from within—false teaching that leads to a sentimental view of grace, moral compromise, and a breakdown in character and community. When beliefs are distorted, conduct soon follows, resulting in immorality, weak character, and a spirit of grumbling and rebellion that undermines the church’s witness and unity. The answer to this internal danger is not just doctrinal vigilance, but spiritual maturity—growing in faith, virtue, knowledge, self-control, and love, so that the church is strong enough to withstand both external and internal pressures. Only by climbing the “staircase” of spiritual growth can believers make their calling and election sure and avoid falling away. [29:21]
2 Peter 1:5-8 (ESV)
For this very reason, make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love. For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they keep you from being ineffective or unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Reflection: Which step in Peter’s “staircase” of spiritual growth do you most need to focus on this week, and what is one practical way you can pursue it?
Peter reminds believers that their hope is not in this world, but in the promise of a new heavens and a new earth where righteousness dwells—a hope that shapes how they live now, even in the face of scoffing and doubt. The certainty of Christ’s return and the coming renewal of all things motivates Christians to live holy and godly lives, keeping themselves unspotted from the world and ready for the day when all things will be made new. This hope is not escapism, but a call to steadfastness and purity, knowing that the present world is passing away and a glorious future awaits those who remain faithful. [37:50]
2 Peter 3:11-13 (ESV)
Since all these things are thus to be dissolved, what sort of people ought you to be in lives of holiness and godliness, waiting for and hastening the coming of the day of God, because of which the heavens will be set on fire and dissolved, and the heavenly bodies will melt as they burn! But according to his promise we are waiting for new heavens and a new earth in which righteousness dwells.
Reflection: What is one way you can let your hope in God’s coming kingdom shape your choices and attitudes today?
Spiritual readiness for suffering and testing is not achieved overnight, but is built through daily faithfulness in small challenges; as believers are faithful in the “little battles,” God gives them grace for the greater trials that may come. The wisdom of older saints reminds us that courage and endurance are developed over time, and that the attitude of submission, humility, and trust in God’s sovereignty is what enables us to stand firm when the “big crunch” comes. Rather than fearing future suffering, Christians are called to cultivate faithfulness now, trusting that God will provide the strength needed for whatever lies ahead. [11:00]
Luke 16:10 (ESV)
“One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much, and one who is dishonest in a very little is also dishonest in much.”
Reflection: What “little battle” or small act of faithfulness can you commit to today, trusting that God is using it to prepare you for greater things?
The story of God seeking a bride for His Son is woven through every book of the Bible, each unique yet united in this grand purpose. In the first letter of Peter, three main themes emerge: salvation as our sure foundation, suffering as a reality to be faced, and—perhaps most surprisingly—submission as a vital Christian posture. Submission is not just about enduring suffering, but about learning to yield in various relationships: to civic authorities, to masters, within marriage, and between generations. Christians are called to be law-abiding, honoring those in authority, but with the clear boundary that obedience to God always comes first. Even in unjust situations, such as slaves with harsh masters or wives with unbelieving husbands, the call is to win others not through words or aggression, but through transformed character and quiet beauty that comes from loving Christ.
Submission is not blind or passive, but an attitude of not retaliating, not asserting one’s rights, and trusting God’s justice. This attitude prepares believers to endure greater trials, building spiritual resilience for whatever may come. Peter’s advice to wives, for example, is deeply practical: become more attractive to look at and to live with, letting the beauty of Christ shine through, rather than trying to win husbands by preaching at them. The principle extends to all relationships—learning to give way, to respect elders, and to cultivate humility.
A challenging passage in 1 Peter about Jesus preaching to the spirits in prison after His death is addressed with humility and a commitment to take Scripture at face value, while recognizing its limits. The key point is that Jesus was active and conscious after death, and that God’s justice is meticulous—no one will be able to accuse Him of unfairness.
Turning to 2 Peter, the focus shifts from external pressures to the more dangerous internal threats: heresy and moral corruption within the church. Peter warns that false teaching leads to a corrupt creed, which in turn produces corrupt conduct, character, and conversation. The antidote is spiritual maturity—climbing the staircase of faith, virtue, knowledge, self-control, patience, godliness, brotherly kindness, and love. Only by growing in these can believers withstand false teaching and be ready for Christ’s return.
Hope in the coming new heavens and new earth, where righteousness dwells, anchors believers in holy living. The certainty of this future motivates a life of faith, hope, and love, keeping us unspotted from the world and the apostate church, and ready for the glorious meeting with Christ.
We're working through the three main themes in the first letter of Peter, and in the last talk we looked at the salvation which we need to have as a sure foundation when the pressure comes. We looked at the suffering and how to handle that, but the surprise in the letter is the emphasis on submission, on learning to give in, learning to accept what happens. [00:00:27]
Now that does not mean that you do everything you're told. There is a limit to obedience to civic authorities. And it was Peter himself who once said, we must obey God rather than men. So there is a limit to submission and that limit comes when the authority tells us to do anything immoral or illegal against the law of God and so there are limits but a Christian must be a loyal subject and should not be arrested because they are rebellious, because they're aggressive towards the authorities. [00:01:47]
You know, some people believe in submission provided the person you're submitting to is a good person. But he said, no, even the harsh masters. Then thirdly, another great source of suffering was Christian wives of unconverted husbands and that is a very difficult situation and causes great heartache. Wives be subject to your husbands, even the unbelieving ones. And in fact, Peter gives great advice on how to win your unconverted life. converted husband for Christ. And it's totally contrary to what we tend to do. [00:03:30]
He says you've got to win him without a word. And so many Christian wives go home after church and say, you should have been in church tonight, that pastor might have been just going through your life, you know? And most Christian wives after about three months regret having preached to their husbands. You do it without a word. Well how do you do it? The answer is Peter says become more attractive to look at and more attractive to live with. That's a simple program for Christian wives. [00:04:26]
There's a beauty column in chapter 3 of 1 Peter, how to become beautiful. Not how to be glamorous, but how to be beautiful. Glamour belongs to the under 40s, beauty belongs to the over 40s. I'm serious. The most beautiful woman I ever knew was a Miss Harris. She was 84 when I met her. She had enough lines on her face to supply a British telecom with all their wires. But anyway, I said to her, do you mind my saying, Miss Harris, you've got the most beautiful face? And her response was surprising. She said, you're not the first man to have told me that. Then she said this, when I was young I was so plain, so ugly, I never got a date, I never got asked to dance at the school dance. But she said, when I was 27, I fell in love with Jesus. And she says, for the next week I was up in the clouds. In fact, she said, I was so happy that he loved me. I said to him, please Jesus, take the joy away or I'll trust the joy. the joy rather than you. I've had so many Christians pray that God would take the depression away. She was the only one I've ever known, take the joy away. But she said, you know, you get to be like the people you love. She said, that's how I got this face. I'll never forget that. [00:05:05]
You may leave your glamour behind, but what's glamour? Well now, he says, become more attractive to look at and more attractive to live with, and your husband will say, I got a better wife from Jesus. But you know what many husbands say? Jesus ran off with my wife. She doesn't belong to me anymore. And it's very important that wives learn to go with their husbands, husbands. But far too many women go to coffee mornings and Bible studies and they become spiritual racehorses while their husband is still at the starting post, and he feels less and less the head of the house. [00:06:31]
I said, all you need is a little bit of faith that God will speak to you through your husband. But how can he? He's an unbeliever. I said, listen, God once spoke to a man through his donkey. And if God can speak to a man through his donkey? Okay? God can speak to you through your husband. [00:07:45]
But 18 months later, I'm down in the same lower western valley and there she is again. She came up and she said, I've got another problem, Mr Pawson. But she says, it's my husband this time. I said, oh, what's your problem? She said, what do you do with a husband who's way ahead of you spiritually? I said, are you serious? She said, very serious, he's at the back of the meeting. I said, what happened? She said, for a whole month I was angry with you and then I went to my husband in desperation, told him the problem, he gave me the answer. He said, I don't know who was more surprised, him or me. But he began to get interested from that day. Now he's a believer. But he said, she's run so fast to catch, he's run so fast to catch me up, he's gone shooting right past me and he said, he's way up, she said, I don't like him, he's way up here now. [00:08:23]
I've told wives who've said to me, how can I get my husband saved? I've said, stop going to church. They say, no seriously, how can I get my husband converted? I said, I was serious. It's amazing how many husbands have started coming to church because their wives stopped. See? And Peter is very wise in this. He said, wives, you bring unnecessary suffering on yourself because you're getting further and further away from your husband. But when your husband says, I've got a much better wife from Jesus, she's much better looking now, she's much easier to live with now, he's much more likely to come. [00:09:21]
Peter's saying is in all these areas of life, develop the attitude of not fighting back, of not retaliating, of not being aggressive, of not asserting yourself or your rights, because that's a whole attitude which will mean that when the suffering comes you won't be able to handle it. So get ready now. [00:11:14]
David, if you are faithful in the little battles now, he will give you the grace when the big crunch comes. That was wise. I've never forgotten what he said because… … … … set. Peter, he's an elder and I looked to him and it was wise advice. So develop this attitude, have this foundation, develop this attitude and when this comes you'll be able to handle it. [00:11:50]
And in its simplest way. plainest sense it says that between his death and resurrection, Jesus was active, conscious and actually communicating with others who were also fully conscious and communicating with him. Now of course you never hear about this in church because all Holy Week services finish on Friday and start up again on Sunday, so you're never told what Jesus was doing on the Saturday, right? But you see we tend to think of Jesus doing nothing between his death and resurrection, being just unconscious, inactive in the tomb. But it says only his body was dead, but his spirit was very much alive and he went to the world of the dead and he was preaching. [00:14:02]
You will be fully conscious one minute after you're dead. You will know who you are, you will have your memory. It's only your body that dies, not your spirit. Death separates body and spirit. Later, spirit and body will be reunited in the resurrection, but much later for us. But Jesus went through all three phases in less than a week. [00:17:01]
But I believe it's better rather than to try and twist scripture to fit our system, to accept it in its simplest, plainest value, but limit it to what it says. And there is no ground here for a second chance for anyone else. What Alfred Lord Tennyson, whose centenary we celebrate this year, called the larger hope, the hope that we'll all get a chance after death. That's universalism and that's not taught in the scripture. [00:19:24]
There are two kinds of pressure we face, the pressures from outside the church and the pressures from inside. And it's the ones from the inside that are the more dangerous. [00:21:56]
I told you earlier that Satan has never destroyed the church from outside. The more he hits it from the outside, the bigger and stronger it gets and that's why during the first three centuries of Christianity, when Christians were being thrown to the lions regularly, the church never grew so fast. [00:22:06]
But Satan can destroy it from the inside and I'm afraid hostility is one thing, that's a simple pressure, but heresy is a subtle pressure and 2 Peter is about this bigger danger. [00:23:16]
A syncretistic view of the person of Christ. They were saying, he is not the only Lord, he's just one among others. Comparative religion. He is a way, but there are many other ways to God. He is not the only way. That's that word only which is the offence, you know. So they were corrupting the person of Christ and saying he's a way, not the way. [00:26:35]
And then they had a sentimental view of the love of God, the grace of God which says, God loves to forgive you so it doesn't matter if you sin. Now you can imagine what that would do. A corrupt creed means secondly, a corrupt conduct. What you believe affects your behaviour. And invariably, when you change Christian faith, you introduced immorality into the church. [00:26:57]
But when conduct has been corrupted, the next thing that is corrupted is character and there's a description of the effects of all this on the character of people and they become more animal than human, operate by base instincts. They become greedy and lustful and their character changes. They are no longer reliable, they're like clouds driven by the wind, waves of the sea. All these descriptions are there. It's vivid of weak character. [00:27:51]
Now all that's devastating and I'm sure as I go through it, you recognise that this is happening in many churches. And both 2 Peter and Jude fought this thing hard. They saw that it would finish off the church and it wouldn't need suffering from outside. The thing would have collapsed from within and a church like that under persecution will not stand. [00:29:09]
So now we have entered the household of God, the household based on faith, by taking these steps. But now there's a staircase inside and he says, to your faith add virtue, to your virtue knowledge, to your knowledge self -control, to your self -control patience, to your patience godliness, to your godliness brotherly kindness kindness, and to brotherly kindness, love. And in climbing that staircase, you are building up your hope. He's talking about a grand entrance into glory, about making your calling and election sure. If you want to make your calling and election sure, you can't do it at the bottom of the staircase. You do it by climbing up those stairs. That's how you make it sure, by reaching the upper room of love, which is where the church should be living. [00:30:39]
In other words, the answer to heresy is maturity. People down here are vulnerable to false teaching on the ground floor. The higher you go, the more you're living up here, then the less you are vulnerable to heresy and false teaching. But if you listen to false teaching, you'll find yourself going out a back door and slipping down a slippery slope and falling. [00:32:27]
It's better never to have known than to fall away. To fall from grace would be better if you'd never heard about grace. Better for someone who's never heard than someone who has and goes back to their own sick and their own mud. And that happens through false teaching, which erodes the foundation of faith. [00:33:38]
And our hope is this, that one day all this universe is to be dissolved in fire. There's to be another holocaust and it's not this time to be a flood of water, but a flood of fire. I just imagine, not that it would be a nuclear war, but that God would just release all the energy in every atom. He packed the energy into the atom, all he'd need to do would be to unlock it. The whole thing goes up in smoke. And then it says, but out of the fire like a phoenix rising from the flames, there's a new heaven and a new earth. [00:35:34]
We look for a new heavens and a new earth, but there is going to be something about the new heaven and the new earth which will be so different from this planet we have known and the difference will be this, it will be a new heaven and earth in which righteousness dwell. There will be no vice, no crime, no sin, nothing dirty, nothing filthy, nothing. [00:36:50]
If you really believe that, Peter says, you won't listen to all these scoffers, you know it's coming, but what manner of people, what manner of people ought we to be if we know all this, that all this world is going and a new world is coming in which no sin will ever be allowed? Well the answer's simple, you live holy and godly lives, you get ready, start packing. [00:37:15]
So live up here in faith, hope and love and get ready for glory. When you hear the sound of the trumpet, you'll have your first free flight to the Holy Land. Thank you. Thank you. What a meeting! That's the word on my grandfather's tombstone in Newcastle. Three words from an old Methodist hymn. There is his name, David Ledger Pawson, and underneath, what a meeting! If you don't like noisy worship, don't be around. The archangel will be shouting, the trumpets blowing, it'll be enough to raise the dead. That's exactly what it'll do. And those who've died will get front seats, so don't worry if you die first, you'll get a front seat then because you rise first and we shall all meet him in the end. Beyond that, a new heaven and a new earth. Peter says, keep your hope fixed on that and you will live the way that you will need to live to be part of that new world. [00:38:05]
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