To truly follow Christ is more than simply knowing about Him; it is a conscious, daily commitment to know Him intimately and allow that relationship to shape every aspect of life. This means moving beyond surface-level faith or church attendance and instead seeking a deep, personal connection with Jesus that transforms how you think, speak, and act. When you know Christ, your life reflects His presence, and your spiritual walk grows stronger each day, not weaker. The difference between knowing of Christ and truly knowing Him is seen in the way you live and the choices you make, as your relationship with Him becomes the foundation of your identity and purpose. [53:14]
Ephesians 4:20-21 (ESV)
"But that is not the way you learned Christ!—assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus,"
Reflection: In what specific way can you move from simply knowing about Jesus to intentionally deepening your personal relationship with Him today?
Just as a freed prisoner should not continue wearing prison clothes, believers are called to put off their old ways of living—the habits, attitudes, and behaviors that once defined them before Christ. Holding onto the "old clothes" may feel comfortable or familiar, but it keeps you from fully embracing the freedom and new identity found in Jesus. True spiritual reset means leaving behind what is worn out and useless, refusing to return to the patterns that once held you captive, and instead choosing to walk in the newness of life that God has given you. [01:04:01]
Ephesians 4:22 (ESV)
"to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires,"
Reflection: What is one old habit or attitude you keep returning to for comfort, and how can you intentionally "cast it off" this week?
Renewal begins on the inside, as the Holy Spirit works to renovate your heart and mind, transforming you from the inside out. This is not just a psychological shift but a spiritual reformation—a hard reset that restores you to the purity and passion you had when you first encountered Christ. Allowing God to renew your mind means surrendering your thoughts, desires, and perspectives to Him, letting go of the clutter and junk that has accumulated, and inviting Him to make all things new within you. [01:14:36]
Ephesians 4:23-24 (ESV)
"and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness."
Reflection: Where do you sense your mind or heart has become cluttered or stagnant, and how can you invite the Holy Spirit to renew you today?
Being a new creation in Christ means living out your faith in a way that is fresh, authentic, and distinct from the world. You are called to put on the "new man," embracing righteousness and true holiness, and letting your life be a testimony to the transforming power of God. This new identity is not just for show; it is meant to be lived out in your daily interactions, choices, and relationships, so that others can see the difference Christ has made in you. [01:13:58]
2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV)
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come."
Reflection: How can you intentionally demonstrate your new identity in Christ in a specific relationship or situation today?
A key part of spiritual reset is how you relate to others in the church—choosing unity, honesty, and love over division and personal grievances. The health of the body of Christ depends on each member putting aside falsehood and speaking truth to one another, recognizing that you are all connected and called to build each other up. When you let go of old hurts and commit to authentic relationships, you help create a church that is welcoming, healing, and a true reflection of Christ’s love. [01:19:05]
Ephesians 4:25 (ESV)
"Therefore, having put away falsehood, let each one of you speak the truth with his neighbor, for we are members one of another."
Reflection: Is there someone in your church family you need to speak truthfully with or seek reconciliation? What step can you take toward unity today?
As we enter a new year, it’s natural to think about resolutions and fresh starts. But more than just changing habits or routines, there are moments in life when a true reset is needed—especially in our spiritual walk. Just like a phone that needs a reset when it’s not working right, sometimes our hearts and minds need a hard reset, not just a soft one. This means going back to the basics, to the place where our relationship with Christ was new, vibrant, and transformative.
Paul’s letter to the Ephesians reminds us that the greatest obstacles we face are often not doctrinal, but relational—how we treat and interact with one another in the body of Christ. He urges us to put off the old self, with its worn-out ways and corrupt desires, and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. This isn’t just about external change, but about a conscious commitment to know Christ deeply—not just to know about Him, but to truly know Him in a way that changes how we live, think, and respond.
It’s easy to slip back into old patterns, to reach for the “old clothes” of our former life because they feel comfortable and familiar. But freedom in Christ means leaving those behind, just as a freed prisoner doesn’t keep wearing prison clothes. The call is to remember the joy and purity of our first love for Christ, to let the Holy Spirit renovate us from the inside out, and to allow God to reset our hearts and minds.
Renewal starts in the spirit of our minds. It’s not just a psychological shift, but a spiritual renovation—a hard reset that brings us back to the foundation of who we are in Christ. When we surrender to the Holy Spirit, He reveals what needs to change, helps us let go of what’s holding us back, and empowers us to walk in newness of life. This reset is not just for our own sake, but so that we can be a true reflection of Christ to others, living in unity, truth, and love.
Ephesians 4:20-24 (ESV) — > But that is not the way you learned Christ!—assuming that you have heard about him and were taught in him, as the truth is in Jesus, to put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
There are times in life when we need a reset in our spiritual walk with the Lord. There are times when we need to reset in our devotion and our dedication to God, when we're not acting right, when our spiritual life freezes up on us, when we're moving slower than normal. Can I suggest to some of us today that I need a reset? Can I tell you before I can look at anybody else, I need to realize that I where I am and what I need to do in my own life. Then I'm telling you I need reset. Y' all can act all holy if you want to, but we all stand in the need of being reset. [00:50:15]
Can I suggest to us this morning that the many strongholds that have hindered us on this past year was not due to doctrinal issues, but more due to personal issues amongst each other. Y' all gonna have to help me preach this. It's not doctrinal issues that's keeping us away from the church church, but it's our relationship with other believers that is causing us to walk away from what God would have for us. [00:51:50]
There's a difference between a knowledge of Christ and knowing Christ. I can know of him, but it's different than an intimate knowledge of. Can know he exists, but when I truly know who he is, it makes a difference in how I walk, talk, and live. There are many folk who who know of him, but there are a few who know him. [00:53:41]
Paul says that when you've been converted, you ought not think like those who have not been converted. There ought to be a difference in how you approach situations from a believer standpoint and an unbeliever standpoint. [00:55:25]
To learn Christ means to have a personal relationship to Christ so that you get to know him better every day. I know Donnie McClurkin said we fall down, but we get up. But if you falling down every other day, something wrong. Every day you get stronger in the. Your muscles that you not falling down as much. If you see somebody walking in every four step they fall, you gonna say something wrong with him. [00:58:03]
If we know Christ, then every day we ought to be building up our spiritual bank account that we're not on the verge of being bankrupt, but we're. Warren Wiersby says that the unsaved man is spiritually ignorant, while the Christian is intelligent in the things of the Word. And the unsaved man does not know Christ while the believer grows in his personal knowledge of Christ. Day by day we have believed the truth, we have received the life, therefore we will walk in the way and not walk after the example of the unsaved world. [00:58:50]
Peter says, we have been chosen to be a peculiar people. We've been set apart. We ought not look like the world look. We ought not talk like the world talks. Respond in the way that the world act and respond. Been taught the truth. The truth is that we need a savior that will change our perception. It's a sad indictment when the church looks like the world. [00:59:52]
Folk come to the church in order to have a different experience than what they get in the world. And if we are treating them like the world treats them, then what's the point in coming to the kingdom? But when you got God in you, there's a conscious commitment that when I accepted Christ into my heart, I made a conscious commitment that God, I want you to be Lord and savior over our lives. [01:00:38]
If God is king and lord over your life, that means you don't control your own situation. Folk don't like to hear that we want to be in control. But when you let God order your steps, he may take you to places you don't want to go. He may introduce you to things you're not comfortable with. He may tell you to do stuff that don't make no sense. But it's about him and his will. [01:01:28]
Think of it like a prisoner who is released from prison but still walk around in his prison clothes and acts like a prisoner and not a free man. You know, when they let you go from jail, they typically give you the clothes that you came in with. But you don't walk around in your prison orange as though you're not free anymore. Now you might be in a time warp depending on how long you've been in there. Your clothes may not be fashionable no more, but you're not walking around in the clothes that you wore when you was locked up. The first thing to tell that a person is free is that they should put on some new clothes. [01:02:57]
When you came to Christ, you took off your old clothes and you put on some new clothes. He's not speaking to unbelievers. Watch this. But he's speaking to those who have learned and have committed to Christ. So Paul is saying that we need to reset and go back and act like we did when we got saved. [01:04:21]
Can I tell you, sometime the devil will wreak so much havoc in your life that it causes us to put down the new man and pick up the. But it needs to be the other way around. When you know what God has done, then you have to stay connected and committed to the word and the way of Christ. [01:05:12]
I tell folks all the time, stop saying they almost made me put my religion down. If you could put it down mean you ain't have a good hold of it it in the first place. If folk calls you to act the way you did before you got saved, Paul said, you need to keep your new clothes on and not go back to the way that you were when you were unsaved. [01:05:40]
Can I tell you the problem is that many of us keep going back, getting clothes out of the clothes. Are old, that are worn, that are useless, and it's because it makes us feel comfortable and secure. Anybody like me, I got an old T shirt that's about to fall off, holes everywhere, and a little tug is just gonna come loose. But that's my favorite shirt. Now, I done had it for about 15 years, but when I want to feel safe and secure, I go put. New shirts that I could be wearing. Of us, the new man is uncomfortable, but the old man makes us feel secure. [01:06:12]
The putting off of clothes is symbolic. What used to define us and leaving them where we used to be and not taking them to where we're going. When blind Bartimaeus was on the side of the road and you know, he cried out, lord, have mercy on me. You know the story. And Christ said, bid them to come here. And you know, to keep them quiet. Committee they are. The disciples said, no, hold your peace. But the scripture said, when he got up from where he was, he took off his own clothes. He left them where he was and. [01:07:58]
Paul said that this conversation of the old man is corrupt and he desires lustful activity. There is nothing righteous in this old creature. There is none righteous. No, not a one. The old creature was jacked up. That old creature was corrupt. That old creature didn't want to know what. Thus said the law. Doing it their way and nobody else's. But when God came into your life. [01:11:02]
The reason we need to reset is because we have a tendency to fall back into the worldly ways of life. We need to get back to the pureness of the love of Christ when we accepted him. Think back to when you accepted Christ. Think back to when he came into your life. Think back to when you said, I surrender all, all to him. Oh, sin had left the crimson stone, but Lord, you washed it white as snow. Think back to when you connected with God. The devil don't want you to feel like that. He'll try to throw stuff in your life to take that feeling that you once had. [01:12:19]
Paul says that when you reset, you need to be renewed. And it starts in the spirit of your might. It's not by a psychological change, but it's a spiritual change. Paul says that we need to be renewed. And renewed means to be renovated by an inward reformation. Renovated. You know what renovation means, don't you? Anybody ever renovated your house? And the stuff that you're changing, the house and the foundation are the same, but you want to make some stuff look new, he said. Paul says renewed. He said you need to renovate the inward reformation of your life. [01:14:30]
When we are renewed, we are being reset by the Holy Spirit. When I surrender to the Holy Spirit, the Holy Spirit Causes me to acknowledge where I am and what is messed up with me and how to do a hard reset and to go back. Me with the blood of Christ. [01:16:09]
When you do a hard reset, y' all remember what I told you in the introduction? When you do a hard reset, it takes your phone back to the state it was when you first bought it and took it out the box. Can I tell you remember those causes? I told you why a phone needs to be reset? It ain't acting right. It freezes up, moves slower than normal. Watch this. A lot of that is because of user error. Y' all missed that. It's not that the phone is defective. Much junk on it and it ain't. [01:16:41]
What good would it be to take a shower and to put the same dirty, stinky clothes. You coming in funky and mustard. The same dirty clothes. So when folks approach and experience you, they'll never know you took a shower because they're still smelling the same old stint. Change the way you think about yourself. [01:18:12]
Verse 25 said, Therefore, putting aside the lie, speak truth, each one of you with his neighbor. Because we are members of one another. [01:20:52]
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