Just like a plant needs sunlight, water, and good soil to grow, your life was designed to thrive in a specific environment. You are invited into an abundant life that is upwardly connected to the Father, inwardly tied to community, and outwardly engaged with the world. This flourishing isn't about material wealth or success, but about living the way you were originally designed to function. When you place yourself in the presence of God, you begin to grow into the person He intended you to be. True life is found when you prioritize your connection to the source of all growth. [03:05]
The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. (John 10:10)
Reflection: When you consider the pace and pressure of your daily life, what spiritual practice could you adopt to create more space to recognize God's presence?
It is so easy to become like Martha, opening your heart to Jesus but then getting dragged down by the many things that need to be done. We often feel overburdened and disoriented by the endless preparations and the noise of a world that never stops moving. While serving and hospitality are good things, they can become barriers if they pull your attention away from the Lord Himself. Jesus gently reminds us that while we are worried about many things, only one thing is truly necessary. Choosing to sit at His feet is the better portion that provides the supplies you need for the journey. [17:14]
"Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her." (Luke 10:41-42)
Reflection: Is there a "good" activity or responsibility in your life that has recently become a distraction from simply being with Jesus?
Many of us carry a deep sense of performance anxiety, feeling that we must wear a mask or work harder to be worthy of God’s intimacy. This internal chaos and worry can keep us from connecting with the one who already knows our real face and loves us completely. Jesus has already taken care of your sin and shame on the cross, so you do not have to earn your way into His presence. He isn't asking for a perfect theological thought or a polished version of yourself; He simply wants you. You can step out of the cycle of performance and into a relationship built on His grace. [22:26]
When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness, which stood against us and condemned us; he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross. (Colossians 2:13-14)
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you feel you must "perform" for God, and how might He be inviting you to show Him your "real face" instead?
We often believe the lie that we must do more for God in order to be filled by Him, but life actually works the opposite way. You can only pour out to others what has first been poured into you by the Holy Spirit. Just as a branch cannot produce fruit unless it remains connected to the vine, you cannot sustain a life of service without first being with Jesus. Your primary job is not to manufacture fruit, but to remain in the environment where the Spirit can grow it within you. Prioritizing "being" before "doing" ensures that your actions flow from a place of abundance rather than burnout. [23:34]
Remain in me, as I also remain in you. No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. (John 15:4-5)
Reflection: Looking at your schedule for the coming week, where can you intentionally place "being with Jesus" before your "doing for Jesus"?
Connecting with Jesus is not a box to check or a duty to fulfill, but a life-giving necessity like breathing air or drinking water. You can practice His presence in the middle of your ordinary, messy life, just as others have done throughout history. Whether you are working in a kitchen or driving down the road, you can maintain a continual conversation with the God who delights in you. He is not embarrassed by your humanity or your wandering thoughts; He simply wants to be with you. Start today by offering a simple prayer of "Jesus, here I am," and watch how He meets you there. [37:27]
She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. (Luke 10:39)
Reflection: What is a simple, 60-second habit you could start this week to help you practice the presence of God during your busiest hours?
Jesus’ heart is to see people flourish. Using a gardening image, the talk argues that people—like plants—thrived in the environment for which they were made. Flourishing is not a prosperity formula; it is life rooted in relationship with Jesus, nourished by the Father, sustained in community, and expressed outwardly in love for neighbors. The narrative of Mary and Martha in Luke 10 reframes common assumptions about spiritual life: Martha’s busyness springs from love and good intentions, not from malice, yet her distraction, anxiety, and tendency to do before being with reveal why many never taste the life Jesus intends.
Scripture and pastoral reflection insist that sin is not the primary barrier to intimacy with Jesus—grace has already dealt with that—rather, modern life’s distractions, performance-driven fear, and the habit of serving to earn value prevent true connection. Mary’s posture at Jesus’ feet models the “only-one” that Jesus names as essential: being with him. Practical invitations follow: reframe the mind to believe Jesus wants to spend time with each person and treat communion not as duty but as necessity; practice simple habits like brief silence, a short repeated prayer, or using guided apps to train attention. The story of Brother Lawrence illustrates how ordinary people, even those awkward or broken, can cultivate continual conversation with God so that God’s presence becomes the fuel for life and service.
Ultimately the claim is unambiguous and hopeful: the most important daily priority is to be with Jesus. When the root is alive and attended, fruit grows without frantic striving—the Holy Spirit produces what human effort cannot. The talk closes with a prayer calling people away from distraction into devotion, inviting a steady, lived practice of being present with the One who delights in them.
So Jesus, to create this flourishing life, the same way a plant needs sunlight plus water plus the right kind of soil to flourish, a Jesus shaped life of flourishing is one that looks like Jesus, where there is a upward life connected to God, an inward life connected with a faith community, and an outward life connected with the community around you.
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#RootedWholeLife
And so what we're gonna talk about today is how in the world do we begin living the first part of that life, the upward dimension of the life, a life connected to Jesus. One of the ways Jesus says it in John chapter 15 is that it's like he's the vine and we're the branches. And if we want to survive, we need to be connected to the root.
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#ConnectedToTheVine
That's kinda where the rubber meets the road, isn't it? I'd love to know Jesus more. He's for me. He loves me. He's crazy about me. That's great. How do I actually get connected to that? Do you know what my schedule looks like? Do you know the kids that I live with? Do you know how chaotic my house is? Do you know how shameful I feel even trying to come and talk to Jesus?
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#JesusWelcomesTheMess
But I think that this story teaches us something really important about connecting with Jesus. And it's not necessarily that bad things are the main things keeping us from Jesus. According to what it says in scripture, Jesus is taking care of all of our sin on the cross. The book of Colossians says he took care of once and for all our wrongdoings on the cross. Last I checked the Greek, once and for all means once and for all.
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#SinTakenCareOf
``You don't need to be a scholar to figure that out. On the cross, Jesus is taking care of our sin, our shame, and every wrong thing we've ever done, and every wrong thing that has ever been done to us. What does that mean? That means for those of us who accept the gift of eternal life that Jesus has offered us, sin is not something that is keeping you from connecting with Jesus. Jesus shows up and hangs out with sinful people before they've even repented. Jesus has taken care of it and his grace is more powerful than your sin and shame.
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#GraceOverShame
Life just doesn't work that way. The whole point of what Jesus says in in what he's saying here and what he says in John chapter 15 is that if you're not connected to me, you can't do anything. And can I just say your job is not to grow the fruit? That is the Holy Spirit's work. Our job is to make sure that the environment is right where that fruit can grow.
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#StayRootedGrowFruit
It's kinda what Mary is doing here with Jesus. And when Martha starts to spin out, Jesus really kinda tells us something important. He says, Martha, Martha, you're worried and you're upset about many things, but few things are needed or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better and it will not be taken away from her. I think this language is super important. He's not saying what Martha has done is bad. He's just saying that what Mary has chosen is better.
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#SitAtHisFeet
To spend time with Jesus is like getting the sleep you need. It's like drinking water. It's like breathing air. It's not a good idea. It's not a life hack. It's what you were made for. And when we spend the time connecting with Jesus, we find out that he actually delights in us. He doesn't just love you, he likes you. And it gives us the strength we need to carry on.
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#SoulNeedsJesus
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