Sharing Meals: A Path to God's Love
Summary
The sermon delivered by the speaker focused on the profound impact of sharing meals with others, particularly as a means of expressing God's love and grace. The speaker began by highlighting the transformative power of Jesus' companionship, as seen in the stories of Zacchaeus and Matthew, both tax collectors who experienced life-changing encounters with Jesus through shared meals. The speaker emphasized that Jesus intentionally spent time with those who were marginalized and considered outcasts, demonstrating compassion and acceptance over judgment.
The speaker then transitioned to the practical application of this principle in the lives of believers today. They encouraged the congregation to be intentional in their interactions with others, especially those who do not yet know Jesus. By sharing meals and engaging in genuine relationships, believers can break down barriers, build trust, and create opportunities for spiritual conversations. The speaker addressed common excuses for not inviting others into our homes, such as concerns about cooking skills or house tidiness, and offered alternative solutions to foster connection.
Personal stories were shared to illustrate the importance of being intentional about who we eat with. The speaker recounted times when they reached out to non-Christians for coffee or lunch, helping them move one step closer to Jesus. They also discussed the concept of "intentional eating," which involves using meal times as opportunities to connect with someone who doesn't know Jesus, without the pressure of having to share one's own story or talk about Jesus immediately.
The speaker also tackled the issue of small talk anxiety, suggesting that instead of worrying about what to say, believers should focus on learning about the other person. By being present and showing genuine interest in others' lives, meaningful conversations can naturally occur. The speaker challenged the congregation to make the most of the numerous opportunities available throughout the week to connect with others over a meal.
In conclusion, the speaker urged the audience to recognize the power of eating together as a tool for evangelism and blessing others. They called for a change in the current trend of people not eating together and encouraged believers to invite their neighbors, friends, family, and colleagues to share meals, thereby demonstrating God's love through their actions.
Key Takeaways:
- Jesus' practice of sharing meals with tax collectors and sinners was not merely a social activity but a deliberate act of affirming their worth and dignity. By choosing to dine with the marginalized, Jesus modeled a radical inclusivity that challenged societal norms and religious elitism. This example serves as a powerful reminder that our own tables should be places of grace and acceptance, where all are welcome. [11:50]
- The act of sharing a meal is a universal expression of friendship and community. It has the power to break down walls and build bridges between individuals. When we invite others to our table, we are not just offering food but extending an invitation into our lives. This simple yet profound gesture can pave the way for deeper connections and spiritual conversations. [17:50]
- Intentionality in our eating habits can lead to significant spiritual opportunities. As followers of Christ, we are called to be strategic about whom we share our meals with, seeking to include those who may not yet know the love of Jesus. Every coffee, lunch, or dinner is a chance to demonstrate the love of Christ and to help someone take a step closer to Him. [23:25]
- Overcoming small talk anxiety is essential for building relationships. By focusing on learning about the other person and asking questions about their life, we can create a space for authentic dialogue. This approach allows us to be present in the moment and to engage with others in a way that reflects the love and interest that Jesus showed to those He met. [20:17]
- The current trend of individuals eating alone is a call to action for believers to foster community through shared meals. By intentionally inviting others to join us at the table, we can counteract the isolation of modern life and provide a tangible experience of God's love and fellowship. Eating together is not just about the food; it's about the relationships that are nurtured and the hearts that are touched in the process. [03:12]
Study Guide
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#### Bible Reading
1. Matthew 9:9-13 (NIV)
> "As Jesus went on from there, he saw a man named Matthew sitting at the tax collector’s booth. 'Follow me,' he told him, and Matthew got up and followed him. While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew’s house, many tax collectors and sinners came and ate with him and his disciples. When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, 'Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?' On hearing this, Jesus said, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’ For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.'"
2. Luke 19:1-10 (NIV)
> "Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through. A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was wealthy. He wanted to see who Jesus was, but because he was short he could not see over the crowd. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him, since Jesus was coming that way. When Jesus reached the spot, he looked up and said to him, 'Zacchaeus, come down immediately. I must stay at your house today.' So he came down at once and welcomed him gladly. All the people saw this and began to mutter, 'He has gone to be the guest of a sinner.' But Zacchaeus stood up and said to the Lord, 'Look, Lord! Here and now I give half of my possessions to the poor, and if I have cheated anybody out of anything, I will pay back four times the amount.' Jesus said to him, 'Today salvation has come to this house, because this man, too, is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.'"
3. John 21:9-14 (NIV)
> "When they landed, they saw a fire of burning coals there with fish on it, and some bread. Jesus said to them, 'Bring some of the fish you have just caught.' So Simon Peter climbed back into the boat and dragged the net ashore. It was full of large fish, 153, but even with so many the net was not torn. Jesus said to them, 'Come and have breakfast.' None of the disciples dared ask him, 'Who are you?' They knew it was the Lord. Jesus came, took the bread and gave it to them, and did the same with the fish. This was now the third time Jesus appeared to his disciples after he was raised from the dead."
#### Observation Questions
1. What was the reaction of the Pharisees when they saw Jesus eating with tax collectors and sinners? (Matthew 9:11)
2. How did Zacchaeus respond to Jesus' invitation to dine at his house? (Luke 19:6-8)
3. What did Jesus do when he met his disciples by the sea after his resurrection? (John 21:12-13)
4. According to the sermon, what are some benefits of sharing meals together? [02:35]
#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Jesus chose to eat with tax collectors and sinners, despite the criticism from the Pharisees? (Matthew 9:12-13) [09:22]
2. How does the act of sharing a meal with someone demonstrate compassion and acceptance over judgment? [13:38]
3. What does the story of Zacchaeus teach us about the transformative power of Jesus' companionship? (Luke 19:9-10) [16:37]
4. How can being intentional about who we eat with create opportunities for spiritual conversations? [05:44]
#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on your current eating habits. How often do you share meals with people who do not know Jesus? What steps can you take to be more intentional about this? [23:25]
2. Think of someone in your life who might feel marginalized or like an outcast. How can you extend an invitation to share a meal with them this week? [11:50]
3. What are some common excuses you have for not inviting others into your home? How can you overcome these barriers? [19:08]
4. How can you use meal times to learn more about others and build genuine relationships, rather than worrying about small talk? [20:17]
5. Identify a specific person you can invite for coffee or a meal this week. What is one question you can ask them to learn more about their life and build a deeper connection? [22:46]
6. How can you incorporate prayer into your meal times with others to create a space for spiritual conversations? [05:06]
7. Reflect on a time when you felt blessed by sharing a meal with someone. How can you replicate that experience for someone else in your community? [03:12]
Devotional
Day 1: Radical Inclusivity at Our Tables
Jesus' example of dining with the marginalized extends an invitation for us to practice radical inclusivity, affirming the worth and dignity of every individual we encounter. By opening our tables and our hearts, we create spaces of grace and acceptance, following in the footsteps of Christ who welcomed all, regardless of their social standing or past. This act of hospitality is a powerful expression of God's kingdom on earth, where love and fellowship reign over exclusion and judgment. [11:50]
Luke 14:12-14 - "Then Jesus said to his host, 'When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives, or your rich neighbors; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.'"
Reflection: Who in your community is often overlooked or marginalized, and how can you extend an invitation to share a meal with them this week?
Day 2: Building Bridges Through Meals
The simple act of sharing a meal can serve as a bridge, connecting us to others in a meaningful way. It's an opportunity to extend friendship and community, to open our lives to others, and to foster understanding across divides. As we break bread together, we lay the groundwork for deeper relationships and the sharing of our faith journey. [17:50]
Hebrews 13:2 - "Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it."
Reflection: Can you think of someone with whom you could share a meal this week as a means of building a bridge, whether they are a new acquaintance or someone from a different background?
Day 3: Intentional Eating for Spiritual Opportunities
Intentionality in dining can lead to significant spiritual encounters. As believers, we are encouraged to use meal times as strategic opportunities to connect with those who may not know Jesus. Each shared meal is a chance to live out the love of Christ and to guide someone closer to Him, even in the most ordinary of moments. [23:25]
1 Peter 4:8-9 - "Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling."
Reflection: How can you plan your meals this week to include someone who might benefit from experiencing Christ's love through your hospitality?
Day 4: Overcoming Small Talk Anxiety
Engaging in meaningful conversation requires overcoming the anxiety of small talk. By focusing on the other person, asking about their life, and showing genuine interest, we can create a space for authentic dialogue. This approach mirrors Jesus' own interactions, where He showed deep interest in the individuals He met, regardless of their social status. [20:17]
James 1:19 - "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry."
Reflection: What are some questions you can prepare to ask the next person you share a meal with that will help you learn more about them and their story?
Day 5: Countering Isolation with Communal Meals
The trend of solitary dining is a call for believers to actively seek community through shared meals. By inviting others to join us, we counteract the isolation of modern life and embody the fellowship and love of God. Our tables become a place of connection, where relationships are nurtured and hearts are touched by the simple act of eating together. [03:12]
Romans 12:13 - "Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality."
Reflection: Who in your circle of influence could benefit from an invitation to share a meal, and how can you make that happen in the coming days?
Quotes
"Instead of worrying about what you'll say, think about what you'll learn about the other person. Remember, if we're listening to them, the conversations will just flow." [20:17] (Download)
"When we engage in genuine, loving relationships with others around a meal, we break down walls, build up trust, and form true companionship. Maybe then, those people can see God in us as they are on the road to their own salvation." [17:50] (Download)
"Jesus befriends Outcasts and has compassion over judgment, showing us that nobody is too far or too far gone from knowing God. He accepts us as we are, inviting us to a relationship with Him." [13:38] (Download)
"In fact, eating was actually central to Jesus' mission for loving others and showing them God's love. Much of his ministry was centered around meals." [06:23] (Download)
"Who you ate with indicated a statement of friendship, it was an affirmation of that person's value and dignity and worth." [08:44] (Download)
"Jesus said today's salvation is salvation Day in this home here he is zakiah son of Abraham for the son of man has come to seek find and restore the lost." [16:37] (Download)
"Transformation through companionship and communion just like with Matthew, just like with zakus, the moment they met Jesus, their lives were never the same again." [17:14] (Download)
"Keep open house, be generous with your lives; by opening up to others, you'll prompt people to open up with God, this generous Father in Heaven." [27:56] (Download)
"Jesus didn't just teach or preach; He lived His message by spending time with those society rejected, demonstrating that true discipleship is about relationship and acceptance, not just knowledge or rituals." [12:24] (Download)
"The call is to prioritize compassion and understanding over any of our own self-righteousness we need to follow the example of Jesus." [14:42] (Download)
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