Shaping Faith: The Parent's Role in Spiritual Growth
Devotional
Day 1: Faith Begins at Home
The foundation of a child's faith journey is laid at home, where parents are the primary influencers. From birth, children observe and mimic their parents, absorbing their spiritual practices and attitudes towards faith. This makes it crucial for parents to live out their faith authentically and visibly. By modeling a genuine relationship with God, parents can instill a strong spiritual foundation in their children. It's not enough to rely solely on church programs; the home should be the primary place where faith is taught and lived out. Parents are encouraged to actively engage in their children's spiritual development, ensuring that their actions align with their beliefs. [46:50]
Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (ESV): "And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise."
Reflection: How can you incorporate a visible and authentic expression of your faith into your daily routine at home, so your children can observe and learn from it?
Day 2: Encouraging Personal Faith
While parents play a vital role in guiding their children, it's essential for children to develop their own personal relationship with God. Parents should encourage their children to experience God personally and not become a barrier to their spiritual growth. This involves creating opportunities for children to encounter God and supporting them in their spiritual journey. By allowing children to explore their faith independently, parents can help them build a strong, personal connection with God that will sustain them throughout their lives. [58:26]
1 Samuel 3:8-10 (ESV): "And the Lord called Samuel again the third time. And he arose and went to Eli and said, 'Here I am, for you called me.' Then Eli perceived that the Lord was calling the boy. Therefore Eli said to Samuel, 'Go, lie down, and if he calls you, you shall say, "Speak, Lord, for your servant hears."' So Samuel went and lay down in his place."
Reflection: What specific steps can you take to encourage your child to seek and experience God personally, without imposing your own expectations on their spiritual journey?
Day 3: Influence Beyond the Home
A parent's role in their child's spiritual life does not end when the child leaves home. Parents should continue to pray for and encourage their children, regardless of their age or life stage, as their influence can have a lasting impact. Even when children become adults, the spiritual foundation laid by their parents can guide them through life's challenges. By maintaining a supportive and prayerful presence, parents can continue to be a positive spiritual influence in their children's lives, helping them navigate their faith journey with confidence. [01:03:48]
3 John 1:4 (ESV): "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth."
Reflection: How can you continue to support and encourage your child's spiritual growth, even if they are no longer living at home or are in a different stage of life?
Day 4: Modeling Faith Through Actions
Parents should actively engage in their children's spiritual development by modeling a genuine relationship with Jesus Christ. This includes praying, reading the Bible, and living out the teachings of Jesus in everyday life. By demonstrating a consistent and authentic faith, parents can inspire their children to follow in their footsteps and develop their own relationship with God. It's important for parents to be intentional about their spiritual practices, ensuring that their actions align with their beliefs and serve as a positive example for their children. [50:51]
James 1:22-24 (ESV): "But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like."
Reflection: In what ways can you demonstrate your faith through actions today, so that your children can see and learn from your example?
Day 5: Encouraging Spiritual Independence
While parents should guide and support their children, they must also encourage them to develop their own faith. This involves creating opportunities for children to encounter God and supporting them in their spiritual journey. By fostering an environment that encourages spiritual independence, parents can help their children build a strong, personal connection with God that will sustain them throughout their lives. It's important for parents to strike a balance between guidance and independence, allowing their children to explore their faith while providing support and encouragement. [54:28]
Philippians 2:12-13 (ESV): "Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure."
Reflection: How can you create opportunities for your child to explore their faith independently, while still providing the support and guidance they need?
Sermon Summary
In today's gathering, we explored the profound responsibility and influence parents have in shaping the faith journey of their children. The discussion centered on the critical role parents play in nurturing and guiding their children spiritually, emphasizing that a child's faith journey begins at home. From the moment a child is born, they observe and mimic their parents, which includes their spiritual practices and relationship with God. This underscores the importance of parents living out their faith authentically and visibly, as their actions and attitudes towards faith will significantly impact their children.
We delved into the alarming statistics that show a significant number of young people leaving the church during their college years. This reality highlights the need for a strong spiritual foundation laid by parents. It's not enough for parents to rely solely on church programs or youth groups to disciple their children. Instead, the home should be the primary place where faith is taught and lived out. Parents are encouraged to actively engage in their children's spiritual development by modeling a genuine relationship with Jesus Christ.
Moreover, we discussed the importance of allowing children to develop their own personal relationship with God. While parents are crucial in guiding and supporting their children, they must also encourage their children to experience God personally. This involves creating opportunities for children to encounter God and not standing in the way of their spiritual growth. Parents should walk alongside their children in their faith journey, providing support and encouragement without becoming a barrier between them and God.
Finally, the message emphasized that the role of a parent in a child's spiritual life does not end when the child leaves home. Parents should continue to pray for and encourage their children, regardless of their age or life stage. The influence of a parent's faith can have a lasting impact, and it's never too late to be a positive spiritual influence in a child's life.
Key Takeaways
1. The Foundation of Faith Begins at Home: A child's faith journey starts with the parents, who are the primary influencers in their spiritual development. From birth, children observe and mimic their parents, making it crucial for parents to live out their faith authentically and visibly. [46:50]
2. The Importance of Personal Faith: While parents play a vital role in guiding their children, it's essential for children to develop their own personal relationship with God. Parents should encourage their children to experience God personally and not become a barrier to their spiritual growth. [58:26]
3. Continued Influence Beyond the Home: A parent's role in their child's spiritual life does not end when the child leaves home. Parents should continue to pray for and encourage their children, regardless of their age or life stage, as their influence can have a lasting impact. [63:48]
4. Modeling Faith Through Actions: Parents should actively engage in their children's spiritual development by modeling a genuine relationship with Jesus Christ. This includes praying, reading the Bible, and living out the teachings of Jesus in everyday life. [50:51]
5. Encouraging Spiritual Independence: While parents should guide and support their children, they must also encourage them to develop their own faith. This involves creating opportunities for children to encounter God and supporting them in their spiritual journey. [54:28] ** [54:28]
[30:00] - Closing Remarks and Potluck Instructions
Bible Study Guide
**Bible Study Discussion Guide**
**Bible Reading:**
Proverbs 22:6 - "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it."
Deuteronomy 6:5-9 - "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates."
Matthew 19:13-15 - "Then people brought little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked them. Jesus said, 'Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.'"
**Observation Questions:**
According to Proverbs 22:6, what is the promise given to parents who guide their children in the right way?
In Deuteronomy 6:5-9, what specific actions are parents instructed to take to instill faith in their children?
How did Jesus respond to the disciples when they tried to prevent the children from coming to Him in Matthew 19:13-15?
What alarming statistics were shared in the sermon about youth leaving the church during their college years? [42:41]
**Interpretation Questions:**
What might be the long-term effects on a child's faith journey if parents do not actively model their faith at home? [46:50]
How can parents balance guiding their children in faith while also allowing them to develop their own personal relationship with God? [58:26]
What role does prayer play in a parent's continued influence on their child's spiritual life, even after they have left home? [01:03:48]
How can parents ensure they are not becoming a barrier between their children and God, as the disciples were in Matthew 19:13-15?
**Application Questions:**
Reflect on your own upbringing. How did your parents or guardians influence your faith journey? What practices can you adopt or avoid in your own parenting?
Identify one specific way you can model your faith more visibly to your children this week. Is it through prayer, Bible reading, or another spiritual practice? [50:51]
How can you create opportunities for your children to experience God personally? Consider activities or discussions that encourage their spiritual independence. [54:28]
If your child has left home, what are some practical ways you can continue to support their faith journey? Consider writing a letter, sending a text, or having a conversation about faith.
Think of a time when you might have unintentionally acted as a barrier between your child and God. How can you change your approach to encourage their direct relationship with Jesus?
How can you involve your children in your own acts of service or ministry, such as volunteering together or discussing what you learned at church? [58:26]
What specific prayer can you commit to praying for your children this week, regardless of their age or life stage? Consider how you can share this prayer with them to encourage their faith. [01:03:48]
Sermon Clips
"See, the first point I want to bring to you guys is that a child's faith journey starts with the parents. It starts with the parents. It doesn't start with the child. It starts with the parents. See, we like to think that a child begins their faith walk when they actually start to understand stuff. We start to think, oh, you know, like, they're not going to get it to like 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10 years old. I'm not really going to do too much about it. But this isn't true at all for anybody who's come to realize that." [00:46:50](30 seconds)
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"Everything you do, every action you take will rub off on your children to some degree, right? To some degree. So today, I really want to encourage us is that your example is so important. As I see these kids, because I got tons of kids of this youth, and about 40, 50 percent of them come from non-church families. So I see, I see that. I see how an example can shape a child." [00:50:02](25 seconds)
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"See, if we just send our kids away, but we don't actually go out and intentionally disciple our children at home, they will have absolutely no foundation or very minimal foundation leaving the home because they had no example to glean from, right? They saw, you know, Pastor Stephen or Pastor Ewan or Pastor Emery doing their thing, but they came home and they saw their mom and their dad not doing those same things." [00:51:42](25 seconds)
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"Instead of being a disciple, be a parent who does their faith journey alongside their child. Alongside their child. You notice how I didn't say push your child away and, you know, let them do it on their own? Don't let them do it on their own. Do it alongside them, right? Do it alongside your children. It is so important to do it with them." [01:00:37](23 seconds)
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"See, here's the big thing, and you guys may have realized that, see, not all youth will be open to these things, right? Every youth is a little bit different. Every child is a little bit different. You could be the best parent in the entire world. You could be the most extroverted parent that pushes your children to do all these amazing things, and you still struggle to get them involved and to get them going. And I'm just going to say right now that even though we can try our absolute best, God is still in control." [01:03:48](27 seconds)
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"But here's the thing, is that we need to show our youth and our children that their faith journey isn't just about watching mom and dad, but it's about doing it alongside them. It's about doing it alongside them. Let's not be disciples. Let's not push our children away. Say, hey, you're not ready for this yet. I mean, certain things like, don't get your kids to brew a pot of coffee at age two." [01:04:48](26 seconds)
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"So I encourage you guys, even though your child is out of the house, maybe they are, maybe they're not, but once they do, your faith journey with them does not stop when they leave the house. I encourage you guys, I so encourage you guys to pray for your children, even if they're 40 years old, but they're still your kid, right? Pray for your children. Encourage them. Send them messages if you're able to. Tell them that you're praying for them. When you do see them, talk about the Lord with them, right?" [01:05:43](34 seconds)
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"One of the biggest things that I see a lot of is that parents will be like, hey, I really want my child to get involved in church. I want my child to maybe be a leader at youth when they're old enough. I want my child to grow in these things. But the parent themselves has no foundation. The parent doesn't actively practice their faith. They don't read their Bible. They don't pray. At least, they don't pray in front of their kids, right?" [01:07:15](26 seconds)
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"How does that work out? If we're not involved, and if we're not doing things with our children, then how do we expect the kid to do it, right? How do we expect them to do it when they're 25 years old? Well, mom and dad never were involved in church. Mom and dad never went to prayer. Mom and dad never went to, they never helped out with events that we put on. Why should I? They never, it's obviously not important. It's obviously not important because mom and dad didn't do it." [01:08:50](26 seconds)
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