We often approach our desires, particularly our sexual desires, like a wolf drawn to the scent of blood. We indulge, thinking we are merely satisfying a natural appetite, but fail to see the hidden danger. This indulgence desensitizes us, and what begins as a seemingly harmless pursuit can lead to our own spiritual demise. The call is to recognize the destructive path we are on before it is too late. [02:21]
“But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.” James 1:14-15 (ESV)
Reflection: What is one area of your life where you have been “licking the blade,” convincing yourself it is harmless, while ignoring the potential for spiritual harm?
The standard of holiness goes far beyond our external actions. A lustful look is not a precursor to sin; it is the sin of adultery already committed in the heart. This desire for what is off-limits is a rejection of God’s good design and a declaration that we know better than He does. It is a serious matter that strikes at the core of our relationship with God. [13:35]
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” Matthew 5:27-28 (ESV)
Reflection: In what ways have you tried to justify certain thoughts or imaginations as harmless, and how does Jesus’ teaching challenge that justification?
The feeling that one person cannot fully satisfy us is actually a biblical concept. Our deepest longings are not ultimately problems to be solved by another human being, but are signposts pointing us to our need for God. He is the only one who can truly fulfill the desires He has placed within us. Our unmet needs are an invitation to find our ultimate satisfaction in Him. [11:31]
“Whom have I in heaven but you? And there is nothing on earth that I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Psalm 73:25-26 (ESV)
Reflection: When you feel a deep sense of lack or dissatisfaction in a relationship, how might God be inviting you to bring that ache to Him first?
Because the stakes are eternally high, a casual approach to sin is insufficient. Jesus uses extreme language to illustrate the drastic action required to fight temptation. This is not a call to literal self-mutilation, but to a ruthless commitment to remove from our lives anything that causes us to stumble. The temporary inconvenience of removing a temptation is nothing compared to the eternal consequence of persisting in sin. [23:33]
“If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell.” Matthew 5:29 (ESV)
Reflection: What is one practical, “drastic” step you know you need to take to remove a persistent source of temptation from your life?
We cannot willpower our way to purity. The good news is that our sinful desires are not just unfortunate habits; they are sin, and Christ’s blood was shed to forgive and cleanse us from all sin. We can ask God to fundamentally change our hearts and transform our desires. True freedom comes from being attached to His life, allowing His Spirit to empower us to live as He calls us to live. [39:17]
“And by that will we have been sanctified through the offering of the body of Jesus Christ once for all.” Hebrews 10:10 (ESV)
Reflection: Instead of just asking God for strength to resist temptation, how can you pray for Him to change your desires so you no longer want what is harmful?
Jesus confronts sexual sin with stark, urgent language: lust is not a mere precursor to adultery but its interior reality. Rooted in the Sermon on the Mount, the teaching revisits the seventh and tenth commandments, showing that coveting the forbidden is already a breach of God’s law of faithfulness. Sexual desire becomes sinful when it seeks what God has set as off-limits, when longing substitutes for covenantal trust, or when fantasy tells a different story about God’s sufficiency. The text insists that God gave sex as a good gift within a committed, exclusive covenant; misused, that gift burns and destroys like fire left unchecked.
The passage refuses soft solutions. Hyperbolic commands to remove an offending eye or hand dramatize the priority of radical removal of temptation: don’t flirt with sources of sin. Where self-mutilation proved ineffectual historically, practical avoidance—removing access to pornography, changing routines, trading devices, or altering social patterns—fits the spirit of the warning. The urgency in these imperatives traces to final judgment: hell remains a real, conscious consequence for those who persistently spurn God’s rule, and Jesus warns with compassionate severity.
Yet the same framework pairs rebuke with grace. The gospel insists that desires can be forgiven and transformed; Jesus’s atoning work opens prayer for changed appetites, not mere restraint by willpower. The community and the Spirit play indispensable roles: accountability, mutual aid, and the long work of sanctification reshape imaginings and affections over time. Withdrawal from temptation proves painful, but a redirected, God-centered desire emerges as healing replaces the fevered craving. The call lands clear: take ruthless action against lust—remove the snare, seek forgiveness, and allow God’s power to alter the heart so that the appetite itself fades and worship replaces craving.
So let's take a step back. Okay? If Jesus is laying out God's way for sexuality, that implies that there's a wrong or a broken or a sinful way to live out our sexuality. And as soon as we say that there's a wrong, broken, sinful way to live out our sexuality, that stirs up all sorts of emotions possibly, but one of them could be shame. Like, I'm embarrassed about the choices I've made in this area of my life. I maybe even struggle with self hatred because of my sexual history. So then the dread we feel is, Jesus, I know I've blown it already. Don't pile on.
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#FacingSexualShame
Today's passage is a go and sin no more passage. In other words, it's best read in light of the whole story told in the gospel, the whole story told in scripture that Jesus has entered into your shame with you. As a matter of fact, he has taken your shame on himself. Yet, because he still hates the sin that has caused you your shame in the first place, he is going to call you to be done with it. With that now canceled sin, leave that old life behind, go and sin no more.
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#LeaveShameGoSinNoMore
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