Seeking Wisdom: Abiding in Christ for Discernment

 

Summary

In today's message, we explored the profound journey of Solomon, the son of King David, who ascended to the throne with the weight of leadership upon his shoulders. Solomon's story is a powerful reminder of the necessity of godly discernment and the pursuit of wisdom. As we delve into the series "Abide: Cultivating Intimacy with Christ," we are reminded that abiding in Christ involves a deep, active fellowship with God through His Word, prayer, and faith-filled obedience. This journey is not about checking off a list of spiritual tasks but about cultivating a heart that seeks God wholeheartedly.

Solomon, despite being a grown man, approached God with the humility of a child, recognizing his need for divine wisdom to govern God's people. This humility is a model for us, as we too must acknowledge our limitations and seek God's guidance in every aspect of our lives. Solomon's request for wisdom was not for personal gain but to fulfill his God-given responsibilities faithfully. This aligns with the call in John 15 to be fruit-bearing Christians, living lives that reflect the character of Christ.

The message challenges us to move beyond spiritual infancy, where we are content with the basics of faith, and to grow into maturity, where we actively seek to understand and apply God's Word in our lives. This growth requires a transformation of our minds, as described in Romans 12, where we are called to be transformed by the renewal of our minds, discerning God's will in every situation.

Furthermore, the message emphasizes the importance of aligning our desires with God's will. Solomon's prayer for wisdom was rooted in a desire to serve God's people well, and this should be our motivation as well. We are encouraged to seek biblically rooted discernment, asking God for the wisdom to navigate the complexities of life with integrity and faithfulness.

Ultimately, the message calls us to a life of abiding in Christ, where our roots are deeply planted in His Word, and our lives bear the fruit of His Spirit. This journey is not about perfection but about a continual pursuit of God's glory, trusting in His grace and power to transform us into His likeness.

Key Takeaways:

1. Humility Before God: Solomon's approach to God with the humility of a child is a powerful example for us. Recognizing our limitations and seeking God's wisdom in every aspect of life is essential for spiritual growth and effective leadership. [13:38]

2. Pursuit of Godly Discernment: Growth in godliness requires a desire for godly discernment. This involves a transformation of our minds, as we seek to understand and apply God's Word in our daily lives, discerning His will in every situation. [31:09]

3. Aligning Desires with God's Will: Solomon's request for wisdom was rooted in a desire to serve God's people well. Our prayers and desires should align with God's will, seeking His guidance to navigate life's complexities with integrity and faithfulness. [38:12]

4. Abiding in Christ for Fruitfulness: Abiding in Christ involves a deep, active fellowship with God through His Word, prayer, and faith-filled obedience. This journey is about cultivating a heart that seeks God wholeheartedly, resulting in a life that bears the fruit of His Spirit. [24:55]

5. Confidence in God's Love and Grace: Our relationship with Christ is secure, not based on our feelings but on the finished work of Jesus on the cross. We can rest in His love, knowing that nothing can separate us from His grace and that He empowers us to live according to His will. [48:29]

Youtube Chapters:

- [00:00] - Welcome
- [08:27] - Solomon's Ascension to the Throne
- [12:05] - Abiding in Christ
- [13:38] - Solomon's Humility and Need for Wisdom
- [15:30] - Growing in Spiritual Maturity
- [17:02] - Obedience and Submission
- [18:12] - Parental Guidance and Personal Responsibility
- [19:34] - God's Invitation to Ask
- [21:06] - Solomon's Request for Wisdom
- [23:24] - Bearing Fruit in Christ
- [24:55] - Cultivating a Heart for God
- [27:51] - The Importance of God's Word
- [29:24] - Prayer and Fellowship with God
- [31:09] - Transforming Our Minds
- [32:46] - Understanding and Applying God's Word

Study Guide

Bible Study Discussion Guide

Bible Reading:
1 Kings 3:5-14
John 15:1-17
Romans 12:1-2

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Observation Questions:

1. What was Solomon's request to God when he became king, and how did God respond to it? ([19:34])
2. How does the sermon describe the concept of "abiding in Christ," and what are the key components involved in this process? ([12:05])
3. What analogy does the pastor use to describe spiritual growth and maturity, and how does it relate to Solomon's story? ([15:30])
4. According to the sermon, what is the significance of aligning our desires with God's will, as demonstrated by Solomon's prayer? ([38:12])

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Interpretation Questions:

1. How does Solomon's humility before God serve as a model for believers today in seeking wisdom and guidance? ([13:38])
2. In what ways does the sermon suggest that spiritual maturity involves moving beyond "spiritual infancy"? How can this be applied in a believer's life? ([15:30])
3. How does the concept of "abiding in Christ" relate to the idea of bearing fruit in one's life, as discussed in the sermon? ([24:55])
4. What does the sermon imply about the relationship between knowledge of God's Word and the application of that knowledge in daily life? ([32:46])

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Application Questions:

1. Reflect on a time when you approached God with the humility of a child, like Solomon. How did that experience shape your relationship with God? ([13:38])
2. What specific steps can you take to cultivate a deeper intimacy with Christ through His Word, prayer, and obedience this week? ([12:05])
3. Identify an area in your life where you feel spiritually immature. What practical actions can you take to grow in that area? ([15:30])
4. How can you ensure that your desires and prayers align with God's will, similar to Solomon's request for wisdom? ([38:12])
5. Consider a decision you are currently facing. How can you apply the principles of godly discernment discussed in the sermon to make a wise choice? ([31:09])
6. What are some ways you can actively abide in Christ to bear the fruit of His Spirit in your daily interactions with others? ([24:55])
7. How can you build confidence in God's love and grace, especially during times when you feel distant from Him? ([48:29])

Devotional

Day 1: Humility as the Foundation of Wisdom
Solomon's story begins with a profound act of humility. Despite being a king, he approached God with the heart of a child, fully aware of his limitations and the immense responsibility he carried. This humility is not just a posture but a recognition of our need for divine guidance in every aspect of life. Solomon's request for wisdom was not for personal gain but to serve God's people faithfully. This teaches us that true wisdom begins with acknowledging our dependence on God and seeking His guidance above all else. As we navigate our own lives, we are called to emulate Solomon's humility, recognizing that our strength and understanding are limited without God's wisdom. [13:38]

1 Kings 3:7-9 (ESV): "And now, O Lord my God, you have made your servant king in place of David my father, although I am but a little child. I do not know how to go out or come in. And your servant is in the midst of your people whom you have chosen, a great people, too many to be numbered or counted for multitude. Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, that I may discern between good and evil, for who is able to govern this your great people?"

Reflection: In what areas of your life do you need to approach God with childlike humility, acknowledging your limitations and seeking His wisdom?


Day 2: Transforming Our Minds for Godly Discernment
The pursuit of godly discernment requires a transformation of our minds. This transformation is not a passive process but an active engagement with God's Word, allowing it to shape our thoughts and actions. As we grow in our understanding of Scripture, we learn to discern God's will in every situation, moving beyond spiritual infancy to maturity. This growth is essential for living a life that reflects the character of Christ and bears fruit for His kingdom. By renewing our minds, we align our thoughts with God's truth, enabling us to navigate life's complexities with integrity and faithfulness. [31:09]

Romans 12:2 (ESV): "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect."

Reflection: What specific steps can you take today to actively engage with God's Word and allow it to transform your mind and discern His will?


Day 3: Aligning Desires with God's Will
Solomon's request for wisdom was deeply rooted in a desire to serve God's people well. This teaches us the importance of aligning our desires with God's will, seeking His guidance to navigate life's complexities with integrity and faithfulness. Our prayers and desires should not be self-centered but focused on fulfilling our God-given responsibilities and serving others. By aligning our desires with God's will, we open ourselves to His wisdom and direction, allowing Him to guide us in every decision and action. This alignment is crucial for living a life that honors God and reflects His love to the world. [38:12]

James 1:5 (ESV): "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him."

Reflection: Reflect on your current desires and ambitions. How can you align them more closely with God's will and seek His wisdom in pursuing them?


Day 4: Abiding in Christ for Spiritual Fruitfulness
Abiding in Christ is about cultivating a deep, active fellowship with God through His Word, prayer, and faith-filled obedience. This journey is not about perfection but about a continual pursuit of God's glory, trusting in His grace and power to transform us into His likeness. As we abide in Christ, our lives bear the fruit of His Spirit, reflecting His character to the world. This fruitfulness is the result of a heart that seeks God wholeheartedly, allowing His love and truth to flow through us. By abiding in Christ, we find the strength and guidance to live lives that honor Him and impact others for His kingdom. [24:55]

John 15:4-5 (ESV): "Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing."

Reflection: What practical steps can you take to deepen your fellowship with Christ and allow His Spirit to bear fruit in your life?


Day 5: Confidence in God's Love and Grace
Our relationship with Christ is secure, not based on our feelings but on the finished work of Jesus on the cross. We can rest in His love, knowing that nothing can separate us from His grace and that He empowers us to live according to His will. This confidence in God's love and grace gives us the assurance to face life's challenges with faith and courage. As we trust in His promises, we find the strength to overcome obstacles and live lives that reflect His glory. By resting in God's love, we are empowered to live out our faith with boldness and joy, knowing that He is with us every step of the way. [48:29]

Romans 8:38-39 (ESV): "For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Reflection: How can you remind yourself daily of God's unchanging love and grace, and how does this assurance impact the way you live your life?

Quotes



"We need to have our mind continually transformed, renewed, so that we're growing in maturity. We're moving off of milk into solid, yeah, yeah, soft solids, soft foods, I guess you'd say, and then solid foods, and then heartier solid foods to a good, can I just say, like a good godly steak? Is that okay to say that? Yeah? Well, I'm good with it, so we're going to say that. So Solomon knows that the task ahead of him is a large task. And we're not Solomon." [00:15:49] (34 seconds)


"And so you learn to obey your parents as children, as teenagers, by putting God first and saying, no, I want to submit to Jesus. I want to honor Jesus. I want to obey Jesus by obeying my mom and dad. Now, I know all the parents in the room is like, yeah, get them. Thank you. I'll give you your five bucks later after church. But now I'm coming to you, parents." [00:17:41] (28 seconds)


"Solomon affirms what we've been seeing in John 15. And that's essentially this, right? One of the reasons that God has saved us is that we might be fruit-bearing Christians, fruitful Christians. God didn't save us just to save us from the penalty of our own sins, which we all deserve. Pastor Matt deserved to be separated from God, eternally. Pastor Matt deserves to be in hell, receiving the eternal punishment for my willful, sinful decisions." [00:21:55] (34 seconds)


"We often focus first on the fruit or the behavior that is only produced by the fruit. And so we often focus first on the fruit or the behavior by being connected to a tree or a branch connected to the trunk, connected to a root system, which is sending out its, what are those things under the ground called, roots, toward life-giving water. You see, it's not just a piece of fruit that pops up on the tree one day. It's grown because it's receiving the right nourishment." [00:24:55] (35 seconds)


"And when what we really need to be doing is said, you know, I want to send my roots deep. I want to press into the Word of God. I want to pray the Word of God. I want to fellowship with my Lord through His Word. And I want to strive. I want to practice. I want to grow in, which means some success and some failure and growth and maturity. That all happens through striving and failing and striving again and making adjustments." [00:26:34] (25 seconds)


"Thankfully, in a New Testament sense, we're able to now look at written words that give us the guidance, the wisdom, the commands, the principles that we need. So loving Jesus, and then in turn, loving one another. I mean, these are the most wonderful and the most basic commands that we receive from the Lord. You might remember last week, I talked about desire paths of prayer." [00:29:49] (23 seconds)


"There's knowing more and more and how to apply it with all discernment. There is nothing haphazard about this request. There's nothing casual about this. There's nothing that says, oh, I ought to be able to, oh, I'll just go do that this week. No, no, what he's sending us on is a lifelong goal of knowing God more and more, abounding in knowledge and all discernment." [00:30:42] (28 seconds)


"Solomon said, Lord, you've shown great and steadfast love to your servant David, my father, because he once walked before you in faithfulness, in righteousness, and in uprightness of heart toward you. And you have kept for him this great and steadfast love and have given him a son to sit on his throne to this day or this day. And now, O Lord, my God, you have made your servant king in place of David, my father. Although, here it is, although I am but a little child." [00:34:09] (39 seconds)


"It is amazing to me that God uses any of us, any of us, none of us is worthy. None of us deserve it. None of us is skilled enough. None of us is wise enough. Some of us are good pretenders. We're good at marketing a good and godly looking Christian life. You know who really knows? Your family. And even beyond that, ultimately, the Lord." [00:41:27] (41 seconds)


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