Second Chances: The Power of Changed Hearts

 

Summary

### Summary

Last week, we concluded our series on the Hall of Faith, where we discussed the lives of prominent biblical figures like Noah, Abraham, Jacob, Moses, and King David. These individuals, through their faith in God, made significant impacts on their lives and the world. However, I realized that while these main characters are crucial, there are many lesser-known stories in the Bible that also hold valuable lessons for us today. These stories often involve "outsiders," individuals who didn't get the spotlight but whose lives can still inspire us. This new series will focus on these outsiders, starting with Joseph, a man who was an outsider even within his own family.

Joseph's story begins with his father, Jacob, who had twelve sons. Joseph was Jacob's favorite, which caused immense jealousy and hatred among his brothers. They eventually sold him into slavery, telling their father that he was dead. Joseph ended up in Egypt, where he went from being a slave to a prisoner, and finally to the second-in-command of Egypt. Despite his high position, Joseph's journey was filled with trials and tribulations, making him the ultimate outsider.

Years later, a famine struck the land, and Joseph's brothers came to Egypt to buy grain. They didn't recognize Joseph, but he recognized them immediately. Instead of revealing himself, Joseph decided to test his brothers. He accused them of being spies, imprisoned one of them, and demanded they bring their youngest brother, Benjamin, to prove their story. When they returned with Benjamin, Joseph continued to test them by placing a silver cup in Benjamin's bag and accusing him of theft.

Joseph's actions were not driven by bitterness but by a desire to see if his brothers had changed. He wanted to know if they would betray Benjamin as they had betrayed him. This leads us to an important lesson: God doesn't give us an undo button, but He does give us chances to redo. Joseph was giving his brothers a chance to redo their past mistakes and make different choices.

The story of Joseph and his brothers teaches us that second chances are not enough; we need a changed heart. Joseph's brothers had the opportunity to betray Benjamin but chose to protect him instead. This showed that their hearts had changed. Similarly, God is more interested in changing our hearts than our circumstances. If we only change our circumstances without changing our hearts, we will find ourselves in the same situations repeatedly.

The good news is that Jesus offers us both second chances and a changed heart. No matter how far we feel from God, nothing can separate us from His love. When we choose to follow Jesus, we are brought into His kingdom and given a place at His table. This transformation starts with a simple choice: to trust and follow Jesus. It might not change our circumstances immediately, but it will change us from the inside out.

In conclusion, the story of Joseph and his brothers is a powerful reminder that God is the God of second chances and changed hearts. He meets us in our brokenness and offers us a new beginning. The question is, will we choose to let Him change us?

### Key Takeaways

1. God's Plan for the Outsider: From the beginning, God has always had plans for the outsider. Even those who feel marginalized or overlooked can find purpose and belonging in God's story. This is evident in the lives of lesser-known biblical figures whose stories still inspire us today. [01:25]

2. Second Chances and Changed Hearts: God doesn't give us an undo button, but He does give us chances to redo our mistakes. However, second chances alone are not enough; we need a changed heart. True transformation comes from allowing God to change us from the inside out. [19:34]

3. The Power of Envy and Jealousy: Envy and jealousy can destroy relationships and lead to destructive actions. Joseph's brothers were consumed by envy, which led them to betray him. However, they were given a chance to redo their actions and chose differently, showing that their hearts had changed. [16:21]

4. God's Interest in Our Hearts: God is more interested in changing our hearts than our circumstances. If we only focus on changing our external situations, we will continue to face the same problems. True change comes from allowing God to transform our hearts. [21:32]

5. The Gospel's Promise: The gospel offers us both forgiveness and freedom from sin. Through Jesus' sacrifice, we are forgiven, and through the Holy Spirit, we are transformed into new creations. This transformation is a slow process, but God is faithful to complete the work He has started in us. [24:51]

### YouTube Chapters

[0:00] - Welcome
[01:25] - Introduction to the Series
[02:12] - God's Plan for the Outsider
[03:36] - Opening Prayer
[04:25] - Joseph's Background
[08:11] - The Famine and the Brothers' Journey
[10:51] - Joseph's Tests
[12:37] - Second Chances and Changed Hearts
[16:21] - The Power of Envy and Jealousy
[19:34] - More Than Second Chances
[21:32] - God's Interest in Our Hearts
[24:51] - The Gospel's Promise
[30:11] - The Choice to Follow Jesus
[33:05] - Closing Remarks

Study Guide

### Bible Study Discussion Guide

#### Bible Reading
1. Genesis 42:1-8
2. Genesis 43:29-34
3. Genesis 44:1-17

#### Observation Questions
1. What was the initial reason Joseph's brothers traveled to Egypt? (Genesis 42:1-2)
2. How did Joseph react when he first saw his brothers in Egypt? (Genesis 42:7-8)
3. What specific test did Joseph use to see if his brothers had changed? (Genesis 44:1-2)
4. How did Joseph's brothers respond when they were accused of stealing the silver cup? (Genesis 44:14-16)

#### Interpretation Questions
1. Why do you think Joseph chose to test his brothers instead of revealing his identity immediately? (Genesis 42:7-8) [10:01]
2. What does Joseph's emotional reaction upon seeing Benjamin reveal about his feelings towards his family? (Genesis 43:29-30) [13:34]
3. How does the story of Joseph and his brothers illustrate the concept that "God doesn't give us an undo button, but He does give us chances to redo"? (Genesis 44:1-17) [12:37]
4. In what ways did Joseph's brothers demonstrate a changed heart during their second encounter with him? (Genesis 44:14-17) [19:34]

#### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a time when you felt like an outsider. How did you see God's hand in your situation, and what did you learn from it? [02:12]
2. Joseph's brothers were given a second chance to make things right. Is there a situation in your life where you need to seek or offer a second chance? How can you take steps towards that this week? [12:37]
3. Envy and jealousy played a significant role in Joseph's story. Are there areas in your life where envy or jealousy is affecting your relationships? What practical steps can you take to address these feelings? [16:21]
4. The sermon emphasized that God is more interested in changing our hearts than our circumstances. What is one area of your heart that you feel needs transformation? How can you invite God into that process? [21:32]
5. The gospel promises both forgiveness and freedom from sin. How can you actively seek both in your daily life? What specific actions can you take to experience this transformation? [24:51]
6. Joseph's story shows the importance of a changed heart over merely changing circumstances. Think of a recurring issue in your life. How might a change in your heart address this issue more effectively than changing your circumstances? [20:19]
7. The sermon concluded with the idea that following Jesus might not change our circumstances immediately, but it will change us from the inside out. How can you focus on internal transformation this week, regardless of your external situation? [30:11]

Devotional

Day 1: God's Plan for the Outsider
God has always had a plan for those who feel marginalized or overlooked. Throughout the Bible, we see stories of individuals who were considered outsiders but played significant roles in God's story. These lesser-known figures, like Joseph, remind us that no one is too far from God's reach or purpose. Joseph, despite being betrayed by his own family and sold into slavery, rose to a position of great influence in Egypt. His journey from an outsider to a leader shows that God can use anyone, regardless of their circumstances, to fulfill His divine plan. This theme encourages us to see our own potential and purpose in God's grand narrative, even when we feel like outsiders.

Genesis 45:4-5 (ESV): "So Joseph said to his brothers, 'Come near to me, please.' And they came near. And he said, 'I am your brother, Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt. And now do not be distressed or angry with yourselves because you sold me here, for God sent me before you to preserve life.'"

Reflection: Think of a time when you felt like an outsider. How can you see God's hand at work in that situation, and how might He be using you for a greater purpose today? [01:25]


Day 2: Second Chances and Changed Hearts
God doesn't give us an undo button, but He does offer us chances to redo our mistakes. However, these second chances are only meaningful if they lead to a changed heart. Joseph's story illustrates this beautifully. When his brothers came to Egypt seeking food, Joseph tested them to see if they had changed. He wanted to know if they would betray Benjamin as they had betrayed him. Their decision to protect Benjamin showed that their hearts had indeed changed. This teaches us that true transformation comes from within, and God is more interested in changing our hearts than merely altering our circumstances.

Ezekiel 36:26 (ESV): "And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh."

Reflection: Reflect on a mistake you've made in the past. How has God given you a chance to redo it, and what steps can you take to ensure your heart is truly changed? [19:34]


Day 3: The Power of Envy and Jealousy
Envy and jealousy can be incredibly destructive, as seen in the story of Joseph and his brothers. Their jealousy led them to betray Joseph, causing immense pain and suffering. However, the story also shows that redemption is possible. When given a second chance, Joseph's brothers chose to protect Benjamin, demonstrating that their hearts had changed. This highlights the importance of addressing envy and jealousy in our own lives. By recognizing these feelings and seeking God's help to overcome them, we can prevent them from leading to destructive actions and instead foster healthier, more loving relationships.

James 3:16 (ESV): "For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice."

Reflection: Identify a relationship in your life where envy or jealousy has caused tension. How can you seek God's help to overcome these feelings and restore that relationship? [16:21]


Day 4: God's Interest in Our Hearts
God is more interested in changing our hearts than our circumstances. If we only focus on changing our external situations, we will continue to face the same problems. True change comes from allowing God to transform our hearts. Joseph's story shows that despite his high position in Egypt, his true transformation came from within. He forgave his brothers and sought reconciliation, demonstrating a heart changed by God. This teaches us that while changing our circumstances can be beneficial, it is the transformation of our hearts that leads to lasting change and fulfillment.

Psalm 51:10 (ESV): "Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me."

Reflection: Consider an area of your life where you have been focusing on changing your circumstances. How can you shift your focus to allow God to change your heart instead? [21:32]


Day 5: The Gospel's Promise
The gospel offers us both forgiveness and freedom from sin. Through Jesus' sacrifice, we are forgiven, and through the Holy Spirit, we are transformed into new creations. This transformation is a slow process, but God is faithful to complete the work He has started in us. Joseph's story is a powerful reminder of this promise. Despite his trials, Joseph remained faithful, and God used him to save many lives. Similarly, when we choose to follow Jesus, we are brought into His kingdom and given a place at His table. This transformation starts with a simple choice: to trust and follow Jesus.

2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV): "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come."

Reflection: Reflect on your journey with Jesus. What areas of your life still need transformation, and how can you trust God to continue His work in you? [24:51]

Quotes

### Quotes for Outreach

1. "God, give me a second chance and God, give me a new heart. Because we need both, church. We need new mercies and we need a new heart. We need second chances and we need a changed soul. And the good news, my friends, is that Jesus offers us both of those things. So if you're here today, and I don't know, maybe you feel like an outsider. Maybe you feel like, man, life has been nothing but unkind to you, that everything that you've done that you've tried to get through has gone wrong. Maybe you feel like a reject. Maybe you feel like an outcast. The good news is that there is nothing that can push you too far away from our God." [28:18](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "And all it takes, all it takes, church, is one decision. One decision. You don't even have to make the decision to change yourself. All you have to do is say, Jesus, I'm trusting you. Jesus, I am choosing to follow you. Jesus, I am choosing to lay it all down, to give up all of my preconceived notions, to give up, all of my biases, to give up all of my prejudices. And I choose to follow you. I choose to let you begin to change me. That's all it boils down to, church, is a choice. And the question is, what's your choice today? Are you choosing to remain an outsider or do you choose to let God bring you to the inside?" [29:39](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "You know, I believe God will give you chances to redo everything you may have done or have gotten wrong in this life. I do believe it. You can't undo it, but you can redo it. But it starts with one choice." [30:11](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "You might feel like your life has hit rock bottom, but I promise you, the moment you start following Jesus, it might not make all of your circumstances better. Your situations might never change at all. But what, what it does is it gives you access to Jesus, to the God of the universe. It says that the Holy Spirit makes his dwelling within you. That's the God of the universe has decided to live inside of you." [30:46](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "Because from here, even though you might be at a proverbial rock bottom, when you make Jesus your firm foundation, anything you build onto him, it will stand the test of time. He'll begin to build you up. He'll begin to turn you into the person he knows that you can be, the person he always envisioned, the person he designed from the start." [31:15](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

### Quotes for Members

1. "If we pray for second chances, what it boils down to is this. If we pray for second chances, but we never let God change us, then all we're gonna do is circle the same mountain over, and over, and over again. If our hearts are full of bitterness, or envy, or hatred, getting away from the people we may blame, or this group of people over here that we think is the source of all the world's problems, getting away from that's not gonna change anything. It's not gonna fix any of the problems, because we're just gonna carry that problem with us again to the next place that we go. And the key is simply letting God begin, to change us. Letting God begin to move in, and redecorate us from the inside out. And unfortunately, it's a slow process." [25:26](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

2. "We need more than a second chance. We need a changed heart. Let me ask, have you ever tried to get out of a situation that you didn't like only to find yourself in that same situation before too long, right? I don't know, maybe like you left your last job because your old boss drove you nuts only to find out that your new boss is like exactly the same. Or I don't know, maybe you consolidate your debt to get out from under a high interest rate only to add new debt to the consolidated debt and before long, you're in a worse place than you were before. Those are some adult words. Are you proud of me, church? Maybe. Maybe you moved to another town or another state or another country, who knows, to get some sort of fresh start. You slow down. You start to spend more time with your family. You make God a higher priority. You get life back on track. But before long, your life looks almost the same way it did before you left." [20:19](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

3. "We think that we're leaving the problems behind us, but the problem follows us because the problem, it's not in our circumstances. It's not in our situations, but the problem is us. And the reason I think when we find ourselves in these funks in this life is that God, he's more interested in changing our hearts than he is in changing our circumstances. Because if all we do, if the only changes that are happening in our life are our circumstances, we will never become the person that God wants us to be." [21:32](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

4. "Joseph might have given them a second chance, but it was God that gave them a new heart. Church, we need more than second chances today. But we need a new heart. We need a changed heart. We need more than new mercies. We need a new heart. And that's just what the gospel provides us. Our God is the God of second chances. He's the God of changed hearts, and he is the God of the outsider. He gives us new mercies every single day, and his spirit is working every day to make us new, to transform us into new creations on the inside, in our hearts. Through Jesus' blood, we're told that we are forgiven of our sins, and by his spirit, we are transformed into new creations." [24:12](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

5. "And the great thing is this, is the gospel is not limited to simply receiving forgiveness of sin, but it also includes freedom, freedom from sin as well. Because we could have a million second chances, and nothing would change if our hearts are the same. Age doesn't make us more like Jesus. Experience doesn't make us more like Christ, but the Holy Spirit working deep inside of us, in our hearts, is what turns us into looking like him." [24:51](Download raw clip | Download cropped clip | Download vertical captioned clip)

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