Seasons of Life: Embracing Joy, Grace, and Community
Summary
### Summary
Today, we explored the concept of "decorating season" as a metaphor for the various seasons of our lives and how God works through each one. Just as we decorate our homes to reflect different times of the year, God decorates our lives with His grace, joy, and transformative power. We delved into the importance of understanding that God is always at work in us, as highlighted in Romans 12:6 and John 5:17. We also discussed the story of Epaphroditus and how God used him to deliver the letter to the Philippians, emphasizing that God can use anyone for His purposes.
We then transitioned to discussing the three key ideas from Philippians 3:1-11. First, Christians are called to be joyful. Joy is not the same as happiness; it is a deep-seated confidence in God's sovereignty, regardless of our circumstances. Second, Christians must understand grace. Paul warns against legalism, emphasizing that our relationship with God is not based on our performance but on His grace. Finally, Christians should focus on knowing Jesus. This involves spending time with Him, learning from Him, and allowing His presence to transform us.
We concluded by encouraging everyone to join small groups to foster a deeper relationship with Jesus and to experience the joy and grace that come from knowing Him. Communion was highlighted as a time to reflect on what God has done for us through Jesus Christ, and we were invited to pray together as a family.
### Key Takeaways
1. Joy vs. Happiness: Joy is a profound confidence in God's sovereignty, independent of our circumstances. Unlike happiness, which is fleeting and dependent on external factors, joy endures through trials because it is rooted in our relationship with Jesus Christ. This joy is a fruit of the Spirit and a testament to our faith. [18:17]
2. Understanding Grace: Grace is the unmerited favor of God, freeing us from the need to earn His love through our actions. Paul warns against legalism, which places undue emphasis on following rules to gain God's favor. True freedom and transformation come from understanding that God's love is unconditional and not based on our performance. [25:13]
3. God's Sovereignty in Our Lives: God is always at work in us, orchestrating events and using people to fulfill His purposes. Whether through a chance encounter or a lifelong relationship, God uses various means to draw us closer to Him and to accomplish His will. This understanding should fill us with awe and gratitude. [07:46]
4. The Importance of Community: Spiritual growth is often facilitated through community. Joining small groups or engaging with fellow believers can provide the support and encouragement needed to deepen our relationship with Jesus. Community helps us to be more joyful, understand grace better, and focus on knowing Jesus. [34:28]
5. Focusing on Knowing Jesus: Knowing Jesus goes beyond intellectual knowledge; it involves a personal, transformative relationship. This requires spending time with Him, learning from Him, and allowing His presence to change us. By focusing on Jesus, we move away from self-centeredness and legalism, finding true joy and grace. [32:17]
### YouTube Chapters
[0:00] - Welcome
[01:54] - Introduction to Decorating Season
[03:33] - Fall and Halloween Decorations
[05:12] - Christmas Decorations and Themes
[06:36] - Meet the Staff Sunday Announcement
[07:46] - God's Sovereignty in Our Lives
[08:52] - The Story of Epaphroditus
[10:52] - The Impact of Mordecai Ham and Billy Graham
[12:05] - Personal Testimony
[14:03] - Introduction to Philippians 3:1-11
[16:39] - Christians Are Joyful
[20:14] - Christians Understand Grace
[25:13] - The Danger of Legalism
[30:25] - How to Stop Being a Legalist
[31:32] - Christians Focus on Knowing Jesus
[34:28] - The Importance of Community
[36:02] - Communion and Closing Prayer
Study Guide
### Bible Reading
- Philippians 3:1-11
- Romans 12:6
- John 5:17
### Observation Questions
1. What does Paul mean when he says, "Rejoice in the Lord" in Philippians 3:1? How does he differentiate between joy and happiness? [16:39]
2. According to the sermon, what are the three warnings Paul gives in Philippians 3:2? [20:14]
3. How does the story of Epaphroditus illustrate God's sovereignty and His ability to use anyone for His purposes? [08:52]
### Interpretation Questions
1. How does Paul’s emphasis on joy in Philippians 3:1-11 challenge the common understanding of happiness? What does this say about the nature of Christian joy? [18:17]
2. In what ways does understanding grace, as explained in the sermon, free Christians from the burden of legalism? [25:13]
3. How does focusing on knowing Jesus, as Paul describes in Philippians 3:8-11, transform a believer's life and priorities? [31:32]
### Application Questions
1. Reflect on a recent difficult situation. How did you experience joy in the midst of it, or how could you have experienced joy by relying on God’s sovereignty? [18:17]
2. Have you ever struggled with legalism in your faith journey? What steps can you take to better understand and embrace God’s grace? [25:13]
3. Think about your current relationship with Jesus. What practical steps can you take this week to deepen your knowledge and relationship with Him? [32:17]
4. How can you incorporate the concept of "decorating season" into your spiritual life to reflect different seasons of growth and transformation? [01:54]
5. In what ways can you engage more deeply with your church community to foster spiritual growth and support others in their faith journey? [34:28]
6. During communion, we are reminded of Jesus' sacrifice. How can you use this time to reflect on and strengthen your relationship with Him? [36:02]
7. Identify one person in your life who might benefit from understanding the difference between joy and happiness. How can you share this message with them this week? [19:12]
Devotional
Day 1: Joy as Confidence in God's Sovereignty
Joy is a profound confidence in God's sovereignty, independent of our circumstances. Unlike happiness, which is fleeting and dependent on external factors, joy endures through trials because it is rooted in our relationship with Jesus Christ. This joy is a fruit of the Spirit and a testament to our faith.
Joy is not merely an emotional response to favorable conditions but a deep-seated assurance that God is in control, no matter what we face. This kind of joy can sustain us through life's most challenging seasons, providing a sense of peace and stability. It is a reflection of our trust in God's plan and His unwavering love for us.
[18:17]
"Though the fig tree should not blossom, nor fruit be on the vines, the produce of the olive fail and the fields yield no food, the flock be cut off from the fold and there be no herd in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the Lord; I will take joy in the God of my salvation." (Habakkuk 3:17-18, ESV)
Reflection: Think of a recent difficult situation you faced. How did you respond? Can you identify moments where you experienced joy despite the circumstances? How can you cultivate this kind of joy in your daily life?
Day 2: Embracing God's Grace
Grace is the unmerited favor of God, freeing us from the need to earn His love through our actions. Paul warns against legalism, which places undue emphasis on following rules to gain God's favor. True freedom and transformation come from understanding that God's love is unconditional and not based on our performance.
Understanding grace means recognizing that our relationship with God is not transactional. We do not earn His love by adhering to a set of rules or performing certain actions. Instead, we are invited into a relationship with Him based on His love and mercy. This realization can transform our lives, freeing us from the burden of trying to earn God's favor and allowing us to live in the freedom of His grace.
[25:13]
"For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast." (Ephesians 2:8-9, ESV)
Reflection: Reflect on a time when you felt you had to earn God's love. How did that affect your relationship with Him? How can you embrace the truth of God's grace in your life today?
Day 3: Recognizing God's Sovereignty in Our Lives
God is always at work in us, orchestrating events and using people to fulfill His purposes. Whether through a chance encounter or a lifelong relationship, God uses various means to draw us closer to Him and to accomplish His will. This understanding should fill us with awe and gratitude.
Recognizing God's sovereignty means acknowledging that He is in control of every aspect of our lives. It means trusting that He is working all things together for our good, even when we cannot see the bigger picture. This trust can bring us peace and confidence, knowing that we are part of His divine plan.
[07:46]
"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose." (Romans 8:28, ESV)
Reflection: Think about a recent event in your life that seemed insignificant at the time. How might God have been at work in that situation? How can you develop a greater awareness of God's sovereignty in your daily life?
Day 4: The Importance of Community
Spiritual growth is often facilitated through community. Joining small groups or engaging with fellow believers can provide the support and encouragement needed to deepen our relationship with Jesus. Community helps us to be more joyful, understand grace better, and focus on knowing Jesus.
Being part of a community of believers allows us to share our struggles and victories, receive encouragement, and grow together in our faith. It provides a space where we can be vulnerable and authentic, knowing that we are supported and loved. This kind of community can be a powerful catalyst for spiritual growth and transformation.
[34:28]
"And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." (Hebrews 10:24-25, ESV)
Reflection: Are you currently part of a small group or community of believers? If not, what steps can you take to join one? If you are, how can you contribute to the growth and encouragement of others in your group?
Day 5: Focusing on Knowing Jesus
Knowing Jesus goes beyond intellectual knowledge; it involves a personal, transformative relationship. This requires spending time with Him, learning from Him, and allowing His presence to change us. By focusing on Jesus, we move away from self-centeredness and legalism, finding true joy and grace.
Developing a relationship with Jesus means prioritizing time with Him through prayer, reading Scripture, and worship. It means seeking to understand His heart and allowing His love to transform us from the inside out. This kind of relationship leads to a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment, as we align our lives with His will.
[32:17]
"That I may know him and the power of his resurrection, and may share his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, that by any means possible I may attain the resurrection from the dead." (Philippians 3:10-11, ESV)
Reflection: How much time do you currently spend with Jesus each day? What changes can you make to prioritize your relationship with Him? How can you seek to know Him more deeply in your daily life?
Quotes
1. "And I don't believe in coincidences, but in God's sovereignty. And so everyone here in this room, in this building, is here for a reason. Because God is working in all of us. All of us. And if you call yourself a Christian, a Jesus follower, God is working in you. In you. Romans 12.6 says, God works in and through his people. In John 5.17, Jesus says, my father is always at work to this very day. And we studied in Philippians chapter 2, where Paul says, for it is God who is at work in you. You, we, are part of a family where God is working." [07:46] (43 seconds)
2. "And isn't that a major theme of the Bible? That God is working and is using his people to accomplish his will? Take Philippians. We know that he's using Paul, right? And last week, not that one, Heather Kemp taught us about Epaphroditus. She did awesome. If you weren't here last week, you've got to go watch it. Go online to our website or YouTube. She gets real fired up. And it's infectious. And her and her husband, Ben, have been such an incredible blessing to me and to the whole staff. They're such good examples in walking out God's plan for them in love and in humility." [08:52] (44 seconds)
3. "And I understand that he knows and wants what is best for me. And I understand that no matter what situation I am in, he is there. And I can rely on him no matter what. And I am so thankful that for Michael and the other folks that God used to change me forever. And I'm thankful for Epaphroditus. Because now I have Philippians to read and to study. And I've learned a lot in Philippians. In the short letter that Paul wrote. And it's going to bring us to where we are today." [13:04] (35 seconds)
4. "Rejoice in the Lord. Paul is saying Christians are joyful. Christians are joyful. This is a rebuke. This is a reoccurring theme in Philippians, right? The joy book. And it's a reoccurring theme in the Bible. Psalm 100 says, Make a joyful noise unto the Lord, all the earth. Romans 14, 17 says, For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit. Joy is mentioned in the Bible 430 times. And joy is a fruit of the Spirit. Galatians 5 tells us that. Joy is important to God." [16:39] (41 seconds)
5. "If happiness is dependent on our circumstances, the Christian understands that joy is dependent on our great confidence of God who reigns in heaven. Who is with us during the hurricane. Who is with us when our job stinks, or our marriage is on the rocks. A God who sent his son to die on the cross for us, and saved us from the power of sin in our lives. That is joy. Can Christians be happy at the same time? Yes. Can Christians be sad sometimes? Of course. Can Christians go through some really hard times? Oh man, yeah. You know, you can easily tell a happy person versus a joyful person during hard times, right? Happiness flees in the hard times, but joy endures." [19:12] (56 seconds)
6. "Christians understand grace. Let's talk through this. So Paul gives three warnings. He starts with beware. Beware of the dogs. Beware of the evil workers. Beware of the false circumcision. And those are pretty severe words. Dogs, evil, false, you know? Okay. So what Paul is referring to, or who Paul is referring to, are the Jewish people who live by the law. And the law that they live by is above anything else. And we've heard of the term Pharisees before, which are the Jewish leaders who rejected Jesus as the Messiah, mainly because Jesus didn't look like the Messiah they thought he would be." [21:11] (41 seconds)
7. "Nothing, if you call yourself a Christian and have asked Jesus into your life so he can be your Lord, will ever make him accept you more. Nothing. Nothing can make him love you more than he already loves you now. Nothing. That's why Christians understand grace. And isn't grace freeing? It's freedom. The moment I realized God's grace in my life, my life began to transform. And the more and more I discover and learn about grace now, transformation continues. Jesus loves us no matter what." [25:13] (38 seconds)
8. "Paul is saying Christians focus on Jesus. It's a simple plea. Paul's plea is simple. That he and we will know Jesus. And legalists have a hard time with that, knowing Jesus. I did. You know why? Because the legalist only has to know himself. He has to know all about what he can or cannot do. What he can accomplish. What he can overcome. What he can achieve. Am I obedient enough? Is God happy with me today? Paul gave up on that. He focuses on knowing him. Christians focus on knowing Jesus. We focus on knowing Jesus." [31:32] (54 seconds)
9. "You want to stop being a legalistic? A rule follower? You want to stop striving to be good enough? Striving to be good enough for God? A good enough Christian? Stop thinking about yourself. Stop thinking about your success or failures. Stop thinking about what you do or don't have. Stop thinking about how other people seem to have it more together. Focus on knowing Jesus. If you do that, I guarantee that you'll be more joyful. That you will have more understanding of God's grace. And that you will fall in love with him. You will know him." [33:06] (38 seconds)
10. "May we be Christians of faith. May we be Christians of joy. May we be Christians who understand grace. And may we be Christians who know him. This is the time to think about that when we take communion. We're also going to have a prayer team down here under the screens. If you need prayer for anything, man, these amazing folks have already been praying for you, and they want to pray with you in person. If you want to pray about joyfulness or legalism or knowing Jesus more, come down here. A family prays together." [36:02] (34 seconds)